OLAMIDE DROPS VIDEO FOR THE SONG "DUROSOKE"

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A Strong Contender For Rapper Of The Year Title Is Bariga's Very Own
Indigenous Hip-Hop Artiste OLAMIDE.

With Back To Back Hits From His Second Album And A Few Released
Singles, The Young Stunner Has Got Us All 'Turnt Up.'

Olamide Has Released His New Video To The Massive Hit Single
'Durosoke' And Is Premiering It On Star Music App. The Video Was
Directed By Clarence Peters.

FYI, The Star Music App Is An Application By Nigerian Breweries,
Makers Of Star Lager Beer That Allows Users Watch, Stream, Download
Their Favourite Songs And Video, Create Their Own Playlists And Also
Get The Latest News On Their Favourite Stars While Interacting With
Each Other•

FORBES: ANGELINA JOLIE TOPS LIST OF HIGHEST-PAID ACTRESSES

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She Might Not Get Paid As Much As "Iron Man," But There's No Doubt
That Celestial Beauty Angelina Jolie Is Smiling All The Way To The
Bank.

This Year, Jolie Topped Forbes' Annual List Of The Highest-Paid
Actresses In Hollywood With An Incredibly Robust $33 Million.

Though Her Last Big-Budget Feature Was The Much Maligned "The Tourist"
Back In 2010, Jolie Has Spent The Past Few Years Developing, Writing
And Directing Flicks Such As "In The Land Of Blood And Honey" And The
Upcoming "Unbroken" And Even Found Time To Film Disney's "Maleficent."

'Divergent' Fun: Which Faction Would Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Lawrence
And More Be Placed In?

You See, Angelina Jolie Is So Wealthy That She Can Basically Stop
Acting, Develop Some Very Small Indie Flicks And Still Make Money.

Everyone's Dream Best Friend Jennifer Lawrence Came In Second On The
List, Pocketing A Cool $26 Million, Which Will Go Well With Her Oscar.
Rounding Out The Top Five Are Past Payday Queen Kristen Stewart ($22
Million), America's Sweetheart Jennifer Aniston ($20 Million), And
America's Sweetheart Part ii Emma Stone ($16 Million).

LINDSAY LOHAN OUT OF REHAB HEADED FOR SOBER COACH

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90 Days In Rehab Didn't Make Lindsay Lohan Modest-- 'Cause She Wasted
No Time Showing Off Her Legs Moments After Leaving Cliffside Tuesday
Afternoon. Lindsay Was Sporting A Huge Smile, A Blue Print Mini-Dress,
Suede- Fringe Jacket And Some Major Baggage-- A Big Blue One-- As She
Got Into The SUV That Picked Her Up From Malibu Facility. Sources
Close To Lindsay Tell Us She'll Be Staying With A Sober COACH
Somewhere In Los Angeles For The Next Few Days. As WAS Previously
Reported, Lindsay's Telling People In Her Life She Feels Like She
Needs A Transition Period Before Re-Entering The Real World On Her
Own. Lindsay Checked Into The Betty Ford Center Back On May 2 To Begin
Her Court-Ordered Rehab Stay-- And Transferred To Cliffside In
Mid-June. Gotta Say, So Far... She's Looking Good•

WWE STAR RANDY ORTON FAN ARRESTED AFTER BLASTING HIM IN THE BALLS

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A Crazed WWE Fan Has Been Arrested After Climbing Into The Ring During
An Event In South Africa Today... And Blasting Randy Orton In The
Nuts, SPY Network Has Learned. The Video Is Pretty Wild-- The Fan
Jumps Into The Ring And Sneaks Up Behind Randy While The Wrestler Is
On The Turnbuckle... And Swings His Arm Up Between Randy's Legs.
Security Immediately Jumps In And Drags The Fan Away, But Not Before
Randy Attempts To Kick The Guy. A Rep For WWE Says, "Randy Was
Violently Attacked From Behind" By The Fan-- Who Was Not Part Of The
Show... And Is Now In Police Custody. The Extent Of Randy's Injuries
Is Unclear-- We're Told Docs Are Checking Him Out-- But Any Shot To
The Jewels Is Serious In Our Book•

INSECURITIES CAN RUIN SO MANY THINGS

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Being Insecure Is A Big Plague On A Person's Life Because Of A Variety
Of Reasons. Insecurity Is Bred By Low Self-Confidence, A Condition
That Causes A Person To Not Be All That They Are Capable Of. To Gain
This Confidence One Must Be Willing To Be Courageous Enough To Explore
Whom They Really Are At Their Heart's Level And To Be Even More
Courageous By Exhibiting To ThE World That They Are With No Question
Or Hesitation.

Being Insecure Is Like A Cancer To Every Relationship That A Person
Chooses To Become A Part Of. Insecurity Leads To Distrust, And
Distrust Leads To Problems Such As A Lack Of Passion, And The Loss Of
LOVE•

Escape From Living With The Disease Of Insecurity And Commit Your Life
To Feeling Secure With Whom You Are. In Turn This Will Affect Those
You Have A Relationship With By Reassuring Them That Because You Are
Confident In Who You Are, They May Be Able To Be Confident In Who Both
Of You Are As A COUPLE•

DANGEROUSLY IN LOVE: SIGNS TO PROTECT YOUR HEART FROM HARMING YOU

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In The Very Beginning, New Relationships Can Be Exciting And Take Us
On A Roller Coaster Ride. For Some, The More Tumultuous The Twists And
Turns, The More Intrigued We Become- Mistaking Dysfunction For A
"Normal" Relationship. While Not All Unhealthy Relationships Involve
Physical Abuse, It's Important To Recognize When A Partnership No
Longer Makes Us Feel Good About Ourselves•
Here Are Some Warning Signs To Look For To Help You Get Out Of A Bad
Situation Before You Find Yourself Dangerously In LOVE•••
1• A BAD TEMPER:
Does Your Mate Have A Short Fuse And Fly Off The Handle At The
Slightest Incident? Many Men Who Lose Their Temper Easily Find
Themselves Getting Physical With People Or Into Altercations With
Complete Strangers, And Will Eventually Aim His Anger Toward You.
Sometimes, Women Mistake This Negative Energy As Passion, And Feel
That It Is A Sign That He Truly Cares, When In Reality He's Just A
Ticking Time BOMB Waiting To Explode. Same Goes To Ladies Who Also Get
To Explode Aggressively On Their Partner Over Little Things•
2• JEALOUS BEHAVIOUR:
Jealousy Is Never Hot, On Anyone. And If Your Man/Woman Feels You Were
A Little "Too Friendly" Towards The Waiter, Things Can Get Very
Uncomfortable Very Quickly. If Your Partner Tries To Isolate You From
Your Friends, Your Family And The Rest Of The Outside World, Chances
Are His Insecurities Will Lead You To Feel Trapped And Resentful.
Constantly Feeling Like You Have To Defend Yourself Or Give In To
Jealous Tantrums Is A Sure Sign That There Is No Trust-And Where There
Is Relationship•
3• HE/SHE TRIES TO CONTROL YOU:
No One Wants To Be Bossed Around, Especially Not By Someone Who Is
Supposed To Be Your Partner In A Relationship. Your Mate Shouldn't
Feel The Need To Tell You What To Do, Who To Speak To, How To Behave,
Where You Can Or Cannot Go Or Who You Can Associate With. If He/She
Must Know Where You Are, Where You're Going And Who You're With At All
Times, He/She Probably Can't Be Trusted Too!
4• PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE:
Probably The Most Obvious Warning Sign Is If Your Partner Is
Physically Abusive Towards You. Love Is Never Supposed To Hurt, And
Raising A Hand To Someone In Anger Is Never Okay. If Your Mate Pushes,
Shoves, Slaps Or Punches You- For Any Reason - Run In The Other
Direction, Call The Police And Report The Abuse And Never Look Back.
Once It Starts, It Won't Stop Unless You Leave- And It'll Never Get
Better, Only Worse. Many Have Lost Their Lives Believing That Their
Man Will CHANGE•
5• VERBAL ABUSE:
Words Sting With The Same Power As A Punch, And Can Wear You Down To
The Point Where You Feel Worthless. If Your Mate Intimidates You,
Threatens You, Insults You Or Embrasses You In Private Or Public, It's
Time To Get Out Of The Relationship To Preserve Your Self Esteem And
Emotional Sanity. Your Mate Is Supposed To Love And Uplift You, Not
Shoot You Down Or Make You Feel Fearful Or Small In His Presence•
6• HE OR SHE ABUSES DRUGS OR ALCOHOL:
Most Physical Or Verbal Outbursts Are Fueled By Drug Or Alcohol Abuse,
So If You're Involved With An Addict Of Any Kind, It May Be Time To
Back Away From The Relationship While They Seek Rehabilitation. Some
People Do Things They Wouldn't Normally Do While Under The Influence,
But That Is No Excuse To Stay If They Can't Control Their Behaviour.
Some Men And Women Feel Guilty If They "Abandon" A Partner Fighting
Drug Or Alcohol Addiction, But Enabling Their Behaviour Will Only Make
It Worse. Leave For Your Own Safety While They Seek Help Elsewhere.
Their Sobriety Is Not Your Responsibility, Especially If Your Well
Being Is At Stake•

WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERENT MAKES YOU BEAUTIFUL

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"What Makes You Different Makes You Beautiful•"

The Things That Make You Different Are The Things That Make You
Beautiful. There Are Some Very Unique Traits That Every Single Person
In The World Has That Can't Be Compared To Any Other Person
Collectively. Sure, We All Have Our Similarities, But There Is No Way
That Two People Can Say That They Are Exactly Identical.

This Is One Of The Great Beauties That Life Has To Offer Us, Even
Though A Lot Of Us Choose Not To Acknowledge This Interesting Tidbit,
As They Desire To Fit In Instead Of Stand Out. Remember That If You
Ever Want Somebody To See How Truly Beautiful That You Are, You Have
To Be Willing To Live Your Life As Yourself. Don't Try On Someone's
Life In An Effort To Impress, Because In The End The Only Person They
Will Be Truly Impressed With Will Be You In The Outfit Of Another
Person•

MARITAL BLISS: KHALIA WEDS DARA

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This Last Weekend Herald A Lot Of Events, And Amonst Them Is The
Inestimable Union Between Khalia And Dara In HOLY MATRIMONY.

Now Who Says It Isn't Possible To Meet Your Life Partner Via The
Internet? On The Contrary, This Is One Union That Began A Long Time
Ago Via The Internet, And Has Stood The Test Of Time. DARA Is
Nigerian, While His Better Half 'KHALIA Is From North America.

One Would Expect That Since It Was A Long Distance Relationship Via
The Internet, A Lot Of Insecurities And Doubts Would Have Crippled The
Relationship. But Hell No! They Believed And Trusted Each Other So
Much To Have Come This Far To Seal It Up In Holy Matrimony. The
Wedding Which Was Held In Lagos Nigeria, Saw A Lot Of Family, Friends
And Well Wishers Who Came From In And Outside The Country Was A
SUCCESS And Is One To Be Talked About For A Very Long Time As Regards
Internet Dating/Relationships Been A POSSIBILITY And SUCCESS.

However, This Is Wishing KHALIA AND DARA MARITAL BLISS...GOD BLESS.

DON'T GET IT TWISTED: 7 BIG MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT VIRGINS

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As If Dating Wasn't Interesting Enough, Imagine The Look On A Guy's
Face When A Sistah Breaks This News To Him: "I'm A Virgin." The
Reaction Given When A Person Says They've Never Seen The Colour Purple
(Say WHAAAAAT!?). Yeah, In Their Face, It's Like They're Reaching For
The Right Thing To Say, But The Fact That They're Stunned Keeps Them
Pretty Speechless. You Actually Can Find A Much Worse Reaction When
You Tell Other Women About Your Virgin Status. They're Initially
Pretty Confused Or Say "Awwwwww" (Like You're A Bunny) And Then Play
Like It's All Good: "But Seriously, That's Awesome!" However, We Know
Inside They're All Thinking, "That Couldn't Be Me..."
In A Society That Is Driven By Sex, To Claim Yourself One Of The Few
People Around Who Passes On Doing It Comes With A Lot Of Side Eyes And
Misconceptions. I Thought I'd Take A Moment To Clear A Few Of These
Things Up•
1• THAT EVERY VIRGIN IS WAITING UNTIL MARRIAGE:
Every Virgin Is Different. While One Might Be Holding On To Their
Virginity For Religious Reasons And Indeed Want To Wait Until
Marriage, Others Might Be Opting Out Of Getting It In Because They're
Waiting For "That" Time. You Hear Enough Stories About People Their
Virginity To And Saying It Was Horrible And Hey, Sometimes That Makes
You Want To Wait A Bit Longer. And Also, Some Might Know Themselves
And Their Emotions And Think That If They Have Sex, They Could Get Too
Attached To The Guy They Laid Down With (A.k.a, Crazy), Best To Just
Wait For The Right One And Not The One Who Will Be Too Done With You
Right After...
2• YOU'RE A PRUDE-ISH ICE QUEEN:
No Worries, If You Talk About Sex, They Won't Hiss Like A Cat At The
Concept. And If You Touch Them In The Club, We Probably Won't Scream,
But You Might Get The Crazy Face. The Misconception That Because They
Haven't Actually Engaged In Sex Means That They Are Not Sexual Is
Pretty Ridiculous. Missy Once Said It Best: "Have You Ever Been In The
Mind Of A Virgin? It Gets Hot And Curious..." Assuming Folks Don't
Look At Guys In A "I'm Low-Key Undressing You With My Eyes" Type Of
Way Or Get Tempted When Dating One Is Not Right. Virgins Can Be Very
Sexual People, They Just Haven't Given "It" Up Yet. Don't Get It
Twisted Boo•
3• THAT YOU'RE DESPERATE:
I'd Also Like To Acknowledge The Perception That Virgins Are
Desperate. I've Seen Enough Comedies To Know That Virgins Are Looked
At As The Drunk Chicks At The Bar Trying To Throw Their V-Card On To
Someone. Anyone For That Matter I'm Sure There Are A Few Who Get To A
Certain Age Or Point And Want To Be Anything But A Virgin, But A Lot
Of Them Are Pretty Cool With Things The Way They Are.
4• YOU DON'T TALK ABOUT SEX:
Friends And Associates Shouldn't Feel Like They Have To Be Mum Or Dad
Around You About Their Exploits Just Because You Aren't Having Sex.
Just Because Someone Is A Virgin Doesn't Mean They Are Blind To The
Fact That Sex Is Everywhere: In Every Song, Every Movie, In Every Ad
And More, So If You Want To Talk About Sex, Then Talk About It!
Virgins Are Still Very Capable Of Being An Ear Open To Friends Who
Want To Brag Or Talk About Sexual Issues, And They Are Pretty Capable
Of Doing So Without Judging•
5• YOU HAVEN'T EXPERIENCED ANYTHING:
While You May Have Not Engaged In SeXUAL Intercourse, That Doesn't
Mean A Virgin Hasn't Engaged In Other Sexual Activities. Seriously,
Some Do..."Take Care Of Themselves" If You Know What I Mean, And
Others Do Everything BUT Sex (But Then Again, That Depends On What You
Classify As Sex Too). That Pretty Much Plays Into Why I Said Virgins
Can Be Sexual People. They Might Not Be Ready To Go To THAT Point With
Someone Yet, But That Doesn't Mean Some Of Them Haven't Tried Their
Hands At A Sexual Foreplay Or Own A Toy Or Two... ;-)
6• THAT YOU ARE NOT REAL A WOMAN...
Comments That Claim Virgins Aren't Really Living Until They've Had
Sex Are Pretty Random And Sound Like This: "When You Get Some, You
Won't Be Worried About---," "She Just Needs Some D*** And She Won't
Act Like That. " Say What You Want, But If You're Paying Your Own
Billl And Living On Your Own, I'd Say You're Pretty REAL•
7• THAT VIRGINS "LOOK" A CERTAIN WAY:
"You Don't Look Like Virgin. " Say What? I Guess Because You Choose To
Wear Skinny Jeans, Tight Tops And Show A Little Leg From Time To Time
You Just Look Like You're Down For Whatever. Not True. Just As It
Isn't True That Virgins Have A Certain Nerdy Or "Stay Away From Me"
Look. I'm Assuming People Think That They Like To Be Covered Up From
Head To Toe, Shop For Turtlenecks All Year RoUND And Don't Like Going
Out. And On Top Of That, That They're Either Really Angry, Really
Funny Looking, Or Don't Know How To Be Social Creatures. Once Again,
Every Virgin Is Different, And There's No Set Look Or Behaviour That
Classifies Them All. Like Most Stereotypes, Ones For Virgins Don't
Apply To Everyone.

What Are The Misconceptions You Often Hear About Virgins?

PUT YOUR MIND AND HEART INTO EVERYTHING YOU DO

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"Life Has Knocked Me Down A Few Times. It Showed Me Things I Never
Wanted To See. I Experienced Sadness And Failures. But One Thing For
Sure, I Always Get Up!"

Never Let Anything Stop You From Doing What You Want To Do. If You
Dream Of Reaching Higher Heights, And If You Put Your Mind And Heart
Into Everything That You Do, There Is Nothing That Can And Nothing
That Will Stop You. Anytime That You Commit Yourself To Achievement
And Being Successful There Will Be Chalenges And Roadblocks On Your
Path. Though The Fact That There Will Always Be These Challenges Is
Undeniable We Must Learn To Never Let Them Stop Us. When You Find
Yourself Facing These Walls In Life... Be Sure Not To Run From Them.
Use What You Have Inside Of You, Think Of New Solutions, Use Your
Creative Mind, And Never Lose Sight Of Your Dream To Make Sure That
You Find A Way Around Everything That Hinders You On The Road To
Success.

Stay Encouraged And You Will Always Get To Where You Need To Be•

'THANKS P-SQUARE', JERMAINE JACKSON GIVES SHOUTOUT FOR MICHEAL JACKSON TRIBUTE [VIDEO]

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Micheal Jackson's Elder Brother Jermaine Has Said He's Thrilled With
The New Psquare Video 'Personally' Which Was Shot As A Tribute To The
Late King Of POP•

'Its Not Everyday That A Phenomenal Band Comes Along... Psquare, They
Are Absolutely Sensational With The Showmanship, The Singing, The
Dancing', Jermaine Said In A Video Clip Posted On Psquare's Official
YouTube Channel•

Describing The Tribute Video 'Personally', Jermaine Said' It Really
Really Knocked Me Out Because It Kind Of Reminded Me Of Me And The
Jackson 5 Brothers When We First Started. I Want To Thank Psquare For
Doing An Incredible Tribute To My Brother Micheal'•

MEET THE MAN WHO HAS NOT BATHED FOR 37 YEARS

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It Is Not An Achievement That Can Readily Be Savoured, But Kailash
Singh Has As Good A Claim As Any To The Accolade Of World's Smelliest
Man- After Refusing To Wash For More Than 37 Years•
Mr Singh, 65, Has Not Bathed Or Cut His 6ft-Long Dreadlocks Since
1974, Shortly After He Married. Explaining His Unconventional
Decision, Mr. Singh Claimed A Priest Guaranteed Him A Much-Prized Son
And Heir If He Followed The Advice•
Despite Mockery From Neighbours, The Sweaty Farmer Would Be Lucky To
Persuade His Wife To Have Any Children At All, His Religious Guidance
Clearly Failed- He Has Seven Daughters•

Mr. Singh Spends His Days Tending Cows In The Heat, Yet The Only
'Cleansing' He Does Allow Himself Is A 'Fire Bath' Each Evening, Which
Involves Smoking Marijuana, Praying To The Hindu Lord Shiva And
Dancing Around A Bonfire. His Long-Suffering Family Admit They Once
Tried To Force Him Into A Stream.' He Fought Us Off And Ran Away,'
Said Wife Kalavati Devi, 60•

We've Tried Several Times Since To Force Him To Have A Shower But He
Puts Up Such A Fuss. 'He SayS He'd Rather Die Than Take A Bath And
Only A Son Could Change His MIND'•

YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CONTROL YOUR LIFE

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"The Trouble With So Many Of Us Is That We Underestimate The Power Of
Simplicity. We Have A Tendency It Seems To Over Complicate Our Lives
And Forget What's Important And What's Not. We Tend To Mistake
Movement For Achievement. We Tend To Focus On Activities Instead Of
Results. And As The Pace Of Life Continues To Race Along In The
Outside World, We Forget That We Have The Power To Control Our Lives
Regardless Of What's Going On Outside•

Keeping Life As Simple As Possible Is Something That We Should All
Strive To Do. When We Keep Our Lives Simple We Should Continue To
Strive For Our Goals And Dreams By All Means, But We Should Do So
Keeping A Sense Of Peace In Our Lives•

It Is Easy To Strive Too Hard Sometimes In A Direction In Which We
Know That We Are Comfortable In Going, And Just Be Busy With Being
Busy. Many Of Us Take On Meaningless Jobs That Aren't Propping Us
Anywhere Near Our Goals, Yet Refuse To Take Chance To Swim In This
Ocean We Call Life, Because We Are Just Fine Using Our Floating
Devices Of Stability•

Life Isn't Simple When We Are Just Floating Along, Because On Top Of
Being Miserable For Not Being All We Can Be, We Knöw That Eventually
When We Do Face Adversity We Will Not Be Prepared Enough To Overcome
It. Keep It Simple By Sticking To Your Goals, Following GOD, And
Living Out Your Dreams. Everything Else Will Fall In Its Place•

7 TRIED AND TRUE BELIEFS ABOUT DATING AND RELATIONSHIPS

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Ask Two Different People For Dating And Relationship Advice And You're
Likely To Get Two Very Different Sets Of Responses. Everyone Has Their
Own Thoughts And Beliefs When It Comes To Love; And Those Ideas Are
Consciously Or Subconsciously Molded By Parents, Friends, Parents,
Media And Personal Experiences. With All The Philosophies And Theories
On The Dating And Relationship Game Running Rampant, Is It Any Wonder
Why So Many Women Are Confused?
Despite All The Chatter, There Are A Few Nuggets Of Wisdom That Have
Emerged From The Advice World-Wisdom That Stands The Test Of Time.
He's Just Not That Into You, Anyone? Check Out Our Top Seven And Let
Us Know What You Think!
1• YOU NEED TO CREATE SPACE TO INVITE THE NEW AND THE GREAT:
Are You Staying Friends With Your Ex? Or Even Toxic Friends? The
Saying, "When One Door Closes, Another One Opens," Relates To This
Idea Of Creating Space In Your Life For Good Things To Come. When Your
Time Is Occupied By A Bad Relationship Or An Ex-Flame, Chances Are
That Your Space Is Too Occupied For Anything Great To Seep Through. So
It May Be Lonely In The Meantime But If You Create Space, New And
Exciting Things Can Happen•
2• BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO ATTRACT:
You Probably Keep A List. You Know, The List Of 10-100 Qualities Your
Ideal Man/Woman Has To Have In Order To Meet Your Standards. Well, Let
Me Ask You This? How Do You Fare On Those Qualities? A Good Guide To
Understanding What We Want To Improve In Ourselves Involves Examining
Our Own Standards. If You Want To Attract A Great Guy/Girl, You Should
Feel That You Are Also A Great Match For That Mystery Man/Woman•
3• BE YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF:
There's No Use Faking It And Forcing Yourself To Do Things That You
Don't Want To Do In Order To Put Yourself "Out There." Or Even Acting
Like Someone Else To Get The Attention Of Your CRUSH. The Fact Of The
Matter Is That You Need Someone Who Is Compatible With You. Attracting
The "One" Just Plainly Means Investing In Yourself And Your Passions.
Your Journey Will Most Likely Have You Crossing Paths With
Complimentary Partners•
4• DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM/HER TOO FAST:
No Matter What Television Tells You About Falling In Love At First
Sight, Sleeping Together After The First Date And Getting Married, It
Ain't True. And Here's Another Thing, Guys Don't Tell Women Magazine
Editors What's Really On Their Mind. So If Most Men Are Saying They'll
Respect A Girl Who Sleeps With Them After One Week Of Dating, They Are
Lying. Well, Lets Put It Another Way. If You Want A Long-Term
Relationship, Abstain From Having SEX Until You're In A Committed
Relationship. I'll Suggest Waiting 3-6months. If The Guy Likes You
Enough, He'll Wait•
5• FOCUS ON THE GOOD:
The Author Of "Marry Him: The Case For Settling" Got A Lot Of Flack
For The Title Of Her Book, But At Its Core, Her Advice Focused On
Urging Women/Men To See The Good Things In Their Partners. Instead Of
Dismissing Him/Her Because They Didn't Meet All Your Standards,
Consider The Parts Of Him/Her That Are Important To Building A Stable
And Supportive Family. Qualities Like Honesty, Integrity, And Work
Ethic Conquer Things Like His/Her Hairline And Quality Of His/Her
Social Network•
6• IF HE/SHE DOESN'T MAKE THE EFFORT, HE/SHE IS NOT INTO YOU:
We've Seen Many People Challenge By Pointing To How Technology And
Changing Times Have Evolved Etiquette And Gender Roles, But That
Message Touted In The Book, The Sex And The City From Which It
Evolved, And The Movie Has Eased The Minds Of Women Everywhere.
However, If You Just Accept That If A Guy/Girl Doesn't Call, Doesn't
Ask You Out First, Or Make It A Point To Reciprocate Your Caring
Gestures. Why Spend Time Entertaining Someone Like That, When You Can
Keep Your Space Clear For The One Who Is Really Into You Anyways?

7• INNER BEAUTY IS WHAT COUNTS:

Beauty Only Goes So Far. If You Look Around, You'll See Many Women Of
Varying Shapes And Sizes Facing Same Issues. Sure, A "Beautiful" Woman
By Mainstream Standards May Attract More Attention, But That Attention
Can Only Go So Far Into Fostering A Fruitful Relationship. Your Inner
Beauty Is What Determines The Quality Of Your Life So Self-Improvement
And Positivity Go A Long Way In Making Things Happen, Whether It
Involves Relationships, Friendships Or Career•

18YEAR OLD ANNA BANNER CROWNED MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN NIGERIA 2013

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18 Year Old Anna Ebiere Banner, Representing Bayelsa State, Beat 31
Other Contestants To Emerge The 2013 Most Beautiful Girl In Nigeria.
The Pageant Took Place In Bayelsa State Last Nite• CONGRATS TO YOU
ANNA!

THERE'S A CHEAPER VERSION OF THE WORLD'S MOST EXPENSIVE CHAMPAGNE- ALEXANDER AMOSU'S REVEALS

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Luxury Designer Alexander Amosu Who Designed The Current Most
Expensive Champagne In The World Has Cleared Up Issues About The Cost
Of A Bottle Of The Drink Which Were Sent To Some Nigerian Celebs Like
Donjazzy And P-Square For Free, He Explained On His Post On Instagram
That Those Bottles Cost €350 And Not €1.2M After Pictures Of English
Singer Laim Payne And Wizkid Surfaced Online Having A Taste Of
Diamonds•

Oooops! So Much Of The Paparrazi And Boasting. I For One Wondered Why
Would The World's Most Expensive Champagne Be Dolled Out For Free To
Nigerian Celebs, Who In Turn Start Feeling Ontop Of The World, When
They Were Invariably Holding The CHEAPER Version Of The DRINK• #Smh...
GOD HELP US!

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HE MAY BE A GOOD MAN•••JUST NOT FOR YOU: OBVIOUS WAYS TO TELL!

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Have You Ever Wanted Something To Work Out So Badly That You Became
Somewhat Delusional, Avoiding The Signs That What You Wanted Wasn't
Really What You Needed? If You Have, Chances Are, You Aren't The Only
One. Many Women Can Agree That When It Comes To Relationships, We're
All Guilty At One Point Of Falling In Love With The Idea Of A Man
Instead Of The Actual Person.
Maya Angelou Said It Best, "When Someone Shows You Who They Are,
Believe Them," And This Is Certainly True In Relationships. If He Says
One Thing But His Actions Prove Another, Believe His Actions Instead•
Still, For A Closet Hopeless Romantic It's Easy To Ignore The Signs
That Show You And This Individual Won't Click Well In The Future.
These Signs Don't Necessarily Mean He's Not A Good Guy, Just Not The
Guy For You. In An Attempt To Find Love, Here Are Some Of The Most
Obvious, Yet Ignored Signs, That Say He's Not The Man For YOU•
1• YOUR RELATIONSHIP BYPASSED THE HONEYMOON PHASE:
Most Relationships Have A Honeymoon Phase Where The Couple Wants To
Spend An Excessive Amount Of Time Around Each Other. They're Intrigued
By The Newness Of The Relationship And Want To Experience More Of The
Other Person Every Chance They Get. If Your Relationship Somehow
Missed This Honeymoon Phase, There May Be A Lack Of Chemistry On His
Part, Yours, Or Both. Sometimes We Confuse Chemistry With Comfort. If
He Seems Like A Good Catch, But Doesn't Give You Those Butterflies In
The Beginning, They May Never Come•
2• YOUR CONVERSATIONS ARE BRIEF BY CHOICE:
If The Relationship Consists Of Brief 'Check-Ins,' Then You Can't Get
Mad At The Guy For Trying To At Least Please You; But Who Doesn't Want
To Engage In Frequent Conversation With Their Significant Other? Or If
You Are Together, But Seem To Never Delve Into Any Deep Conversation,
Then Maybe You The Two Of You Have Nothing In Common To Talk About. If
This Is The Case, This Might Be An Obvious Sign Of A Dead-End
Relationship•
3• You Have A 'TELEPHONE LOVE'
Unless One Of You Has A Schedule Comparable To President Obama Or Live
Thousands Of Miles Apart, You Should See Each Other Consistently
(Especially When You Live Close To One Another). Its True That People
Make Time For What Or Whom They Want To Make Time For. If He Seems To
Choose Every Activity Over You, Then This Is An Obvious Sign That He's
Not The Man For You•
4• HE FORGETS IMPORTANT DATES AND INFORMATION:
Your Birthday, He Forgot The Day. You're Scheduled For A Big Promotion
At Work; He Forgot You Ever Mentioned It. You're Going Out Of The
Country For An All-Girl's Vacation, But Somehow It Slipped His Mind.
While He Doesn't Have To Include Your Schedule In His iPhone Or
Calendar Of Events, He Should Atleast Know The Important Occasions
That You've Blatantly Mentioned A Thousand Times•

5• YOU HAVEN'T TALKED ABOUT THE FUTURE AS A COUPLE:

You've Been Together For Months. And While You Often Talk About Where
The Two Of You Want To Be In The Next Few Years, You Never Mention
Each Other In Your Future Plans. Okay, So Maybe The Two Of You Don't
Want To Jump The Gun Too Fast; But If There Haven't Been Any Casual
Mentions That You May Be Together Past 2013, You Have To Wonder If He
(Or You) Are Thinking Of Each Other As Long-Term•

6• HE'S MIA WHEN YOU REALLY NEED HIM:

You've Received Exciting News, But Can't Reach Him. You've Had A Rough
Day And He's Nowhere To Be Found. Unless You Want To Be In A
Relationship Simply To Say You Are In One, What's The Point Of Being
With SomeOne Who Isn't Around For The Happiest And Saddest Moments Of
Your Life? The Point Of A Relationship Is To Have Someone Available
When You Need Them The MOST•

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MOVING ON TO THE NEXT CHAPTER IN YOUR LIFE

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"There Comes A Day When You Realize Turning The Page Is The Best
Feeling In The World, Because You Realize There Is So Much More To The
Book Than The Page You Were Stuck On."

Everything Must Come To An End, But At The Same Time, Every Ending Is
Nothing More Than A New Beginning. We Must Remember This, Because
Sometimes It Is Easily Apparent That We Experience Abrupt, And Painful
Endings In Life As We Continue To Experience Abrupt, And Painful
Endings In Life As We Continue To Experience More And More. Not Every
Situation In Life Is Easy, Especially Those That Cause Unwarranted,
Unwanted, And Unexpected Change. No One Can Go Back In Time, And Do
Things Over The Ways In Which They Would Now Want To Make Things As
They Desire For Them To Be In The Present, But We Can Always Choose To
Give Ourselves A New Start Now, So That In Turn We Can Make Some New
Endings. It Is Time To Really Live Like You Are Alive, Challenge
Yourself To Make The Best Out Of The Hardest Parts Of Your Life. Start
Over Now If You Need To, Today Is A Fresh Page In A New Book, Just
Waiting For You To Fill It•

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HOW YOUR CHILDHOOD AFFECTS YOUR RELATIONSHIPS•••

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Most People Hate To Admit That Their Childhood Affected How They
Behave In Relationships Today. They Will Admit That The Time They Were
Cheated On Affected Them. Or That Their First Heart Break Affected
Them. They Can Probably Tell You Something They Learned From Every
Past Breakup, And How It Has Shaped The Way They Behave In
Relationships Today, And Even The Partners They Seek Out. Why Is That?
Because It's The Past. And, Whether You Like It Or Not, You Don't Go
Through Life Unscathed By Your Past Experiences. Your Childhood Is A
Part Of Your Past Too. And, Altough It May Not Be As Apparent How It
Affects Your Love Life As An Adult, It Has A Huge Impact•
1• IF YOU HAD DIVORCED PARENTS:
You Were Very Closely Linked To A Relationship That Was Meant To Last
Forever, But Ended. It Was Supposed To Be The Whole Book, And Turned
Out To Be Just A Chapter In Each Of Your Parent'S Lives. You Become
uLTRA Aware At A Young Age That Some People Just Don't Stick. Even
People Who Felt So Certain At One Point That They Would Stick Forever•
YOU MIGHT-
With Every Guy You Date, Already Be Able To See The End. You Think Of
Him As Just A Chapter In Your Life, And You Can Already See The Other
Men You'll Date After Him. You Don't Necessarily Fear Commitment, But
You Fear Meldling Your Life With Someone Else's. The Only Couple Who
You Were Supposed To See As A Unit, Rather Than Two Seperate Entities,
Split Up Into Separate Enities. And So, You Struggle To See Yourself
As Part Of A Unit. Especially Since You Saw How Much Your Parents
Struggled To Find Themselves As Individuals Again After Their Divorce,
You Do Fear Ever Giving Up That Sense Of Independence, Because You
Don't Feel Certain That Whoever You Give It Up For Will Be Around
Forever•
2• IF YOU HAD PARENTS WHO WERE UNHAPPILY MARRIED:
You Rarely Saw Them Look Each Other In The Eye And Say A Warm,
Complementing Word. They Bickered Constantly. They Were Passive
Aggressive And Sarcastic With Each Other. Their Relationship Was More
Of A Battle Of Who Could Make The Other One Look And Feel More Like A
DUMB ASS, Than A Loving, Supportive Partnership. But, They Stayed
Together•
YOU MIGHT-
Accept Arguing As A Natural Part Of A Relationship. Not Just The
Occasional Disagreement-But A Constant State Of Tension. Making
Yourself Vulnerable To Your Partner By Giving Them A Genuine,
Self-Less Compliment Might Seem Awkward To You. Some People Simply
Don't Tolerate Yelling Or Cursing In Their Relationship. The Second It
Happens, They End That Relationship. But You Might Believe That No
Relationship Exists Without It. If It Did, Then Your Parents Wouldn't
Have Stuck Together...Right?
3• IF YOUR PARENTS WERE SEEMINGLY HAPPY:
You Didn't Hear Them Argue. They Had Cheery Dispositions. They Both
Had Their Own Activities That Made Them Happy-But Separately. Your Mum
Was The Head Of Every Charity Organization In Town, Was Married To Her
Work, Or Had An Overly Active Social Life. Your Dad Did Any And All Of
The Above, As Well. And This Made Them Happy Enough To Not Totally
Realize That There Wasn't Much Closeness Between Them. That They
Didn't Communicate Very Deeply Or Connect Entirely•
YOU MIGHT-
Accept The Concept That Not Everything Is Appropriate To Talk About
With Your Partner. That Your Feelings And Fears Should Be Reserved For
Your Friends And Family, And That Your Partner's Should Be Reserved
For His Friends And Family, But When The Two Of You Meet In The Same
Room, You Are Meant To Bring Your Cheeriest Disposition. This Is A
Partnership In The Sense That You Help One Another Function. You Take
Comfort In A Stable Relationship. The Routine You Have With Your
Partner Makes You Feel Safe To Take On Other Things In Life, Like
Promotions At Work Or Long Backpacking Trips With Your Friends. But,
You Don't Feel That Invigorating Sense Of Being In Sync And In LOVE•
4• YOUR PARENTS WERE MADLY IN LOVE:
They Did Everything Together. They Were Extremely Communicative. They
Complimented Each Other All Of The Time. They Couldn't Keep Their
Hands Of Each Other. They Were Best Friends And Obviously Still Very
Interested Lovers Throughout Their Marriage. No Fight Lasted More Than
A Day, And Was Handled With An Open Conversation And Compromise On
Both Parts•

YOU MIGHT-

Think Marriage Is The Ultimate Goal. That Life Will Be Infinitely
Better With It-That You Will Be A Better Person If You Are Married And
Will Be Capable Of Bigger And Better Things. You Might Feel Incomplete
If You Don't Have A Partner And You Might Prioritize Finding A Partner
Over Everything Else, Like Social Life Or A Career. You Might Be The
Type Who Never Wants To Leave Your Boyfriend's Side, Even From A Young
Age, Because You Think That The Male And Female Partnership Is The
Most Important Relationship. You Might Make A Wonderful, Committed
Girlfriend And Wife. But You Might Sacrifice Having A Life And
Adventures Of Your Own•

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LOVE IS YOUR DESTINY

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"LOVE Is Your Destiny, Everything Else Is A Detour On The Road Of
Life, That Takes You Away From Your Goal Of Happiness."

If You Ever Want To Help Someone Live Their Life, Just Give Them Love.
We Tend To Overcomplicate Relationships By Giving A Person The Best
Advice We Can Think Of, Or By Offering Them Ultimatums And Attempting
To Make Them Choose StandardS For Theirselves That We We Want For
Ourselves.

People Don't Always Work Best Under Pressure, And Seeing As We All Are
Our Own Beings With Our Own Souls, Minds, And Free Will To Choose, We
Have To Respect That Many Times It Is Only In Our Friend's Best
InterestS To Just Be Shown Love. We All Show Love In Our Different
Ways, But We Can All Try To Make Our Best Attempt At Showing The Most
Genuine Intent Of LOVE. Loving People May Be Difficult At Times
Because Of The Ways That Situations Present Themselves; We Must Note
That To Continue To Love Through Another Person's Hardships Is To
Continue To Live Your Own Life. Forgive When You Aren't Even Asked To,
Be Kind When It Should Be Okay To Be Mean, Give Love When Someone Only
Desires To Hurt YOU•

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THE BIGGEST BEDROOM MISTAKES COUPLES MAKE

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
It Takes Two To Tango In The Bedroom. We Often Read About The Mistakes
That Men Or Women Make When It Comes To SEX, But In The End, A Sexual
Relationship Involves Two People. When A Relationship Starts To Slip
Or When Things Just Don't Seem To Be As Exciting And Fun As They Once
Were, Often Times The Problems Lie Between The Sheets. Many
Relationships Start Off With An Amazing And Anxiety-Filled Bedroom
Life, And Overtime Things Become Dull As Almost Expected. Here Are
Most Common Bedroom Mistakes That Couples Make•
1• NOT TRYING NEW THINGS:
Many Couples Fall Victim Of Finding Things They Like In The Bedroom
And Doing Nothing More And Nothing Less. After Months Of Doing The
Same Things In The Bedroom, It's All But Certain That Your SEX Life
Will Go Downhill. In Order For Your Bedroom Life To Stay Fun And
Exciting, It's Important To Incorporate New Things Into The Mix. Doing
The Same Things Over And Over Is Bound To Create A Monotonous Sex
Life•
2• HAVING A ROUTINE:
Every Night At 7PM You And Your Man/Woman Are Going At It, And While
This Works For You Two, Having A Routine Takes A Lot Out Of Your SEX
LIFE. When It Comes To The Bedroom, It's Best To Keep Things A Bit Of
A Mystery. There Is Absolutely No Excitement In Knowing Exactly When
You'll Be Doing The Deed. Mix Things Up A Bit And Surprise Your
Partner When He/She Least Expects It•
3• DE-VALUING THE ACT:
Sex Is Only As Valuable And Meaningful As You Make It. Though Plenty
Of Other Things Matter A Lot More Than Sex In A Relationship, It
Should Still Have Priority And Meaning To You. If You're Having SEX
Just To Appeal To Your Partner Or Just Get It Out Of The Way, It's
Clear That It's Not Something You Value. Meaningful SEX. Filled With
Emotion And Raw Appeal Is Going To Be What MakeS Your Relationship
More Better•
4• NOT TALKING ABOUT IT:
You've Heard It Ever Since You Were Little, But Being Honest Goes A
Long Way, Especially When It Comes To ThE Bedroom. If You're Unhappy
With Something Your Partner Does Or If You Want To Try Something New,
Don't Hold It Back. There'S Nothing Worse Than Lying And Pretending
That Everything Is Okay When It Isn't Though Its A Sensitive Topic,
You'll Want To Make A Huge Impact On Your Relationship•
5• MAKING EXCUSES:
Sometimes You Just Don't Want To Have SEX, And That's Fine. But When
You're Making Daily Excuse After Daily Excuse, There's Going To Be
Days When You're Too Tired Or When He's Too Stressed To Really Put The
Necessary Effort And Energy Into Having Quality SEX. However, Don't
Let Excuses Become The Norm. Find Ways To Make Sure That You're Having
Bedroom Time As Often As Possible, Even If You Do Have A Headache•
6• FAKING IT:
Though Women Are More OfteN Accused Of Faking It, Men Can Fake It As
Well. Faking It On A Very Rare Occasion Is Okay, But Don't Let Faking
It Become A Common Act In The Bedroom. Otherwise, You're Sending Your
Partner Mixed Signals And Making Him/Her Think That You're Enjoying
SEX When You Really Aren't. If Faking It Becomes A Common Thing, Get
To The Bottom Of It ASAP•

7• NOT LISTENING:

Just Like In A Relationship, Communication And Good Listening Skills
Are Key For A Healthy And Happy SEX Life. If Your Partner Expresses
Things He/She Likes Or Doesn't Like, You'll Want To Make Note Of Them.
Doing Things Your Partner Doesn't Like It Sure To A Turn Off, And If
You Continue, You May Be Doing More Turning Off Than You Are Turning
On. Listen To Each Other When It Comes To Likes And Dislikes In The
Bedroom•

8• FEELING PRESSURED:

Usually In The Beginning Stages Of A Relationship, Sex Can Be Full Of
Worry And Pressure. You Of Course Want To Please Your Partner And You
Want Things To Be Perfect. All Of This Combined Creates A Lot Of
Stress And Pressure, But Over Time These Feelings Usually Wear OFF. If
You're Still Feeling A Lot OF Stress And Pressure When It Comes To
SEX, Be Sure To Talk About It With Your Significant Other•

9• BEING PASSIVE ALL THE TIME:

Sex Should Be Give And Take, Meaning That It Shouldn't Be A One Sided
Act. It's Important That Both Of You Take An Active Role In Your SEX
LIFE, This Means That You Both Should Initiate SEX And You Should Both
Be Open To New Things. Don't Become A Passive Partner That Makes
Absolutely No Contributions To Keeping Your SEX Life Alive And WELL•

10• NOT CARING ABOUT YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE:

SEX Isn't Very Good When Your Partner Isn't Sexually Attracted To You.
A Lot Of People Get Comfortable In A Relationship And Let Themselves
Slip. While Gaining A Few Pounds Isn't Going To Break The
Relationship, Letting Yourself Go Completely May Negatively Impact
Your SEX LIFE. If This Becomes An Issue, Try Exercising Or Eating
Healthier As A Couple•

11• NOT ENOUGH 4PLAY:

A Lot Of Couples Tend To Skimp Out On 4play, Even Though It's What
Really Sets The Stage For What's To Come. Instead Of Jumping Right
Into Things, Tease Each Other And Really Get Yourselves Into The Mood.
4Play Allows You Two To Be A Bit Playful And Flirty, Which Really Sets
The Stage For A Lot Of Fun Later On•

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NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR LIFE•

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

"We Only Have One Life To Live So We Have To Live It The Best We Can.
Things In Life May Knock Us Down But It Is Our Strength That Builds Us
Back Up. Never Give Up And Never Give Up On Your Life. IT IS
BEAUTIFUL•"

One Crazy Thing About Life Is Being Knocked Down By It, Time And Time
Again. Living Isn't Easy, There Are Many Times That We Desire To Live
But Due To A Variety Of Circumstances, And Due To Unpredictable
Adversity We Face, Trying To Do The Things That We Really Desire To
Do, Like Fulfilling Our Dreams, Will Be Made Much More Difficult.

Instead Of Living Life Full Of Worry, We Should Make An Effort To Live
Life Knowing That No Matter What Life Is Willing To Throw Our Way, We
Will Be Ok. You Are Going To Be Somebody, Because You Already Are
Somebody. You May Not Have Every Little Thing That You Desire In The
Moment, But Never Fret, Because With Some Hardwork, And A Relentless
Attitude That Refuses To Give Up, You Can And Will Be Anything That
You Desire To BE•


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UNDERSTANDING THE WAY MEN THINK•••

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
While Some Guys Are Considered To Be 'TALKERS' Many Guys Tend To Be
Less Talkative Than Women Especially In The Context Of A Love
Relationship. A Man's Way Of Thinking May Puzzle A Woman To The Point
Where It May "Drive Her Crazy".
Due To This Mystery, She May Seek To Work Out The Combination Of His
Silence, Feelings And Actions Based On The Common Reasons That Would
Cause Her To Become Silent Too. One Such Example Is A Case Where She
Is Upset With Him For Some Particular Reason And Gives Him The Silent
Treatment Perhaps To Punish His Wits Out.
What A Woman May Learn Is That Guys Think Differently, And Though
There Are A Number Issues And Situations That Would Cause Anyone To Be
Verbally Non-Communicative, There Are Two Dynamic Reasons That Can
Result In A Guy Being Silent•
Girls May Process Things Through Verbal Communication, Whereas Guys
May Process Things In Silence Within His "Psychological Cave". This
Simply Means That To Work Things Out Mentally And Emotionally, Women
May Prefer To Talk It Out Whereas Men May Prefer To Work It Out Alone.
This Is The Instant That He May Withdraw In Silence To His Quiet Patch
Or Space. These Things That He Wants To Work Out And Fix Can Range
From Planning, Hustling, Thinking, Working Out How He Can Satisfy His
Woman Who May Not Be Happy But At The Same Time Not To Show Weakness.
Silence Doesn't Necessarily Mean Disinterest, Indifference,
Insensitivity Or Being Upset. Remember What You Would Do Out Of Being
Upset May Differ With Your Guy. Guys Love Being The Man, So Let Him Be
The Man Don't Do Anything That Undermines That•
"Women Often Don't Understand How Very Hard It Is For Men To Express
Their Feelings. It's Very Important For A Woman Not To Come To Any
Firm Conclusions About A Man's Motivation For What He Is Saying Until
She Discovers What He Is Feeling.
Men Can Jump Out Of Planes, Fight All Day Doing The Guy Thing, Wrestle
With Crocodiles And Drive At Death Defying Crazy Speeds Without A Hint
Of Fear, But Get Them To Share Their Feelings Of Emotions And Love
That's A Different Matter!!! From The Perspective Of A Man, Sharing
Certain Feelings May Give Him An Unwanted Sense Of Vulnerability That
He May Think Gives The Girl The Upper Hand Psychologically. And
Unfortunately Some Girls Do Take Advantage Of Guys Who Open Themselves
Up Which Will Almost Guarantee He Will Never Do It Again•

With The Knowledge Of How Men Process Information And The Challenge
They Have With Sharing Feelings, Ladies You Can Exercise More Patience
Through This Understanding. Some Basic Ways In Which A Woman Can
Understand What Is Beneath His Silence Is To:

* Ask Him What He Is Thinking And Feeling•

* Give Him Time To Share At His Own Pace•

* Avoid Giving The 'Silent Treatment' To Follow With His Silence•

* Let Him Know How Important His Feelings Are To You•

* Continue To Share Your Feelings To Encourage Him To Do The Same•

A Man Can Make It Easier For A Woman To Understand His Silence By
Letting Her Know A Little Of What Is Happening On In His Heart. His
Blank Silence Can Frustrate Her Need To Communicate With Him. From Her
Perspective, She Feels Close To Him Not Only When She Hears His
Logical Thoughts, But His Feelings As Well. So Really When You Meet
Someone Its Really Important To Get A Better Understanding Them. You
Know You, But It Will Take A While To Know Them And VISE VERSA. So BE
PATIENT•

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NEVER GIVE UP OR LOSE FAITH- BE PATIENT•••

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

"Never Give Up Or Lose Faith In Something That You Know God Has Placed
In Your Life. Be Patient And Remember There Is A Time For Everything."

Learning To Be Patient With Our Brothers And Sisters Is One Of The
Keys To Living A Life Full Of Peace And Joy. Those Who Find Patience
Find That They Must Learn Not Only How To Wait, But To Wait With
Expectation And Love, Knowing That Even Though Things May Be Difficult
In A Situation In This Very Moment, As Time Passes, Things Will
Improve.

A Patient Mind Is A Mind That Gets Everything It Desires. A Patient
Mind Is A Trait That Some Of The Most Powerful People In This World
Use To Win Wars, Knowing That Only The Strongest Of People Will
Continue To Remain Patient.

A Person Who Is Willing To Remain Patient Through The Midst Of
Adversity And Through The Midst Of Struggle And Pain, Is A Person Who
Is Willing To Patiently And Passionately Conquer Every Obstacle Life
Throws In Their Direction•

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ARE SOME THINGS BETTER LEFT UNSAID IN RELATIONSHIPS?

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
I'm A Firm Believer In Discretion, Especially On Social Networking
Sites And Of All Things In Relationships. You May Have Been Misled By
The Belief That Partners In Relationships Have No Secrets, But Trust
Me When I Say: Loose Lips Sink Relationships. This Can Be A
Challenging Thought For Most Women Since Naturally (Yes, Something
Else You Can Blame Those Damn XX Chromosomes For) Women Think That The
Best Solution To A Problem Is To Talk It Through And Get It All Out
There. They Think There Are Magical Combinations Within Languge That
Will Solve Every Problem. But Frankly, There Are Some Things In
Relationships That Once Revealed End Up Hurting The Relationship More
Than Helping It. By Dissecting And Analyzing Every Conflict With A
Conversation, You May Be In Fact Creating A Bigger Problem Than You
Began With.
The Next Time Your Guy Tells You That You Talk Too Much, HE Might
Actually Have A Point.
I'm Not Talking About Deceit, And I'm Not Talking About Lying By
Omission. For Example, If You Slept Over Your Ex-Boyfriend's House
Last Night And Not Your Bestie's, The Information Is Probably Going To
Hurt The Relationship Once Revealed, But It Will Also Allow Your
Partner To Make A Clear And Informed Decision Regarding The
Relationship Because He/She Has All Of The Facts. On The Other Hand, I
Personally Believe That Things That Took Place Before The Relationship
Sometimes Lay Unnecessary Groundwork For Mistrust And Jealousy, And
Those Are Two Things That Can Surreptitiously Sink A Relationship Over
Time.
The Truth Is, Somethings Are Frankly Not Any Of Your Partner's
Business And Once He/She Has Knowledge Of Certain Aspects Of Your
Past, They May Subconsciously Be Distracted From Who You Truly Are In
The Present•
What's Your Take On The Following Situations? Do You Feel Like Your
Partner Should Know EVERYTHING About Your PAST???
1• EVERY SINGLE PERSON THAT'S EVER HIT ON YOU:
Maybe Your Point Is To Make Him Jealous, And That Is Why You Choose To
Run Down Every Cat Call Or Whistle You've Received. Unfortunately,
When Dealing With Someone Who Already Has Trust Issues, You're
Basically Just Laying The Groundwork To Be Interrogated Every Time You
Step Foot Out Alone. Complimentary Margaritas From Your Friday Nite
"Club Crush" May Give You A Nice Buzz As Well As A Quick Boost Of
Confidence, But Once You Tell Your Partner, He's Not Going To Hear
Anything About How You Kindly Let The Guy Down Easy And Told Him You
Were Taken. All He Hears Is, "You Have Competition And You Can Trust
Me All You Want To, But Not Any Other Male Who Is In My Presence."
We've Got It: You're HOT. No Need To Remind Your Man Everyday That
Everyone Else Knows It As Well•
2• DETAILED INFORMATION ABOUT YOUR EX'S:
You're Relieved That He Actually Calls When He Says He Will Unlike
You're Inconsiderate Jerk Of An Ex-Boyfriend. That Coffee Spot With
The Amazing Bagels? Your Ex Used To Take You There All Of The Time.
That Shirt He Just Bought? It Reminds You Of The Shirt Your Ex Used To
Wear ALL THE TIME. If Any Of These Phrases Sound Like Excerpts From
Conversations You Have With Your MAN, Then I Hate To Break It To You,
But He Might Be Preparing To Leave You. Obsessively Bringing Up An Ex
Either Negatively Or Positively Just Makes You Sound Like You're Not
Over The Relationship. Leave The Past In The Past When It Comes To
Love Lost, Otherwise You'll Be Having This Same Conversation With A
New Guy Within Months•
3• SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS THAT HAVE BEEN CURED:
The Last Thing You May Want To Do Is Explain Your Medicine Cabinet
Collection Of Monistat, And I Hate To Break It To You, But A
Discussion About STIs And Sexual History Is Never Pleasant. Positive
Diagnosis Of Incurable STIs Like Herpes And HIV Are Obviously Things
That You Would Want To Know About Your Partner, And In Some States
It's Even A Criminal Offense To Not Reveal A Confirmed Diagnosis With
Sexual Partners. But What About A Gonorrhea Infection You Experienced
Years Ago That's Long Gone? Is This Something You Need To Reveal?
If My Partner Had An STI In The Past, Curable Or Not, I Would Want To
Know And Feel That I Should Extend That Same Courtesy In Revealing My
Sexual Past. Your Sexual History Is OnE Of Those Things That In Fact
Can Affect Your Present. Some STIs Can Affect Fertility And Doctors
Agree That If You've Been Infected With An STI You're More Susceptible
To Contracting STIs In The Future. So While You May Not Want To Make
Every Partner Fill Out A Health History Chart Every Time You Do The
Deed, Sexual History Should Be On A Need To Know Basis And Anyone
You're Sexually Involved With Needs To Know•
4• THE NUMBER OF PARTNERS YOU'VE BEEN INTIMATE WITH:
This Is Another Part Of Revealing Your Sexual History That Can Be
Tricky. When It Comes To The "What's Your Number?" Game, You May Not
Always Get The Truth Because So Many Social Stigmas Are Attached To
The Number Of Sexual Partners An Individual Has Had. Values And Double
Standards Aside, There Are Sexual Health Reasons That Might Make You
Think Twice About Fudging Your Number Since The More Sexual Partners
You've Had, The More Likely It Is That You Contracted An STI At Some
Point. If You Are Regularly Tested And Your Results Are Negative This
May Not Be As A Big Of A Concern And Any Mature Man Will Respect Your
Choice As An Adult To Engage In Responsible Sexual Activity As Well As
Your Number, No Matter How Big Or Small It May BE•

6• WHAT YOU REALLY THINK ABOUT HIS MOTHER:

His Best Friend, His Taste And Clothes And Anything Else That You're
Solely Using For Ammo In The Heat Of An Argument. One Of The Perks Of
Being In A Relationship Is That While You Can Depend On Your Partner
To Give Honest Feedback, They Truly Should Be Your Number One Fan. And
Part Of Being A Fan Is Still Giving Support Even When Your Partner
Isn't On His Or Her A Game. Stashing Insults And Harsh Truths In An
Arsenal To Sling When Times Get Tough Is Not Only A Low Blow But It's
Not How You Should Treat Someone You Care About . If You Really Have
Issues With A Part Of Your Partner's Life That You Want Addressed,
Bring It Up When Things Are Calm So You Can Actively Compromise. Don't
Just Save Them For The KO In Your Verbal Boxing Match•

DO YOU MAKE YOUR MAN AFRAID TO BE AFFECTIONATE???

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
So You Think There Isn't Enough Visible LOVE In Your Relationship. You
See Couples So Openly Affectionate With Each Other-So Clearly Gaga
About One Another- And Your Relationship Suddenly Looks COLD And
Almost Platonic. It's Possible, In Spite Of Yourself, That You Made It
That Way. Here Are Behaviours That Could Be Scaring Your Guy Away From
Being Affectionate•
1• YOU RECOIL FROM PDA:
For Fear Of Being The Annoying Couple "All OvER Each Other" In Public,
Anytime Your Guy Tries To Put His Arms Around You At A Bar, You Slip
Out. When He Goes In For A KISS At The Grocery Store Check Out Line,
You Give Him The Cheek. Stop Worrying About What Everyone Else Is
Thinking! You Just Rejected Your Guy For The Approval Of People You'll
Never See Again•
2• YOU DEFLECT COMPLIMENTS:
You're So Terrified Of Seeming Cocky Or Vain That You Dodge Every
Compliment Like It's A Dagger. When Your Guy Pays You One, You Pay Him
Back With Ten Reasons Why It's Not True, Or A List Of Things That Are
Wrong With You. I Promise: He Won't Think, "How Conceited" If You
Simply Say' "THANK YOU"
3• YOU DON'T TELL HIM ABOUT STRESS:
He Finds Out From Your Mum, Your Friend, Your Co-Worker Or Anyone But
You That Something Pretty Monumental And Difficult Happened To You.
You Don't Tell Him These Things Because You Don't Want To Burden Him
Or Be A Girlfriend Who Complains Too Much• But He Just Reads Your
Secrecy As You Not Wanting Him Buting His Nose Into Your Business.
When Deep Down, You Want Him To Care So Much•
4• YOU DON'T TELL HIM WHEN YOU'RE HURT:
If He Says Something That Hurts You, And You Know It's Not
Intentional, You Lecture Yourself IN Your Own Head, "He Didn't Mean It
That Way. You're Just Being A Baby. Don't Burden Him With Your
"Feelings" About This." But He Knows When You Keep Quiet, Or Turn Over
In Bed, Or Go For A Walk When You'rE Obviously Hurting, He Reads This
As You Just Being A Very Private Person And/Or Don't Believe He Has
The Tools To Help You Feel Better•

5• IT'S NEVER A GOOD TIME:

Guess What: Affection Isn't Meant To Be Scheduled! So What If You Were
In The Middle Of A Spreadsheet When He Came Up Behind You To Hug You?
You Can Close The Laptop For Five Minutes To Enagage In Some
Sweetness. If You Always Brush Him Off And Make Him Feel Like A
Nuisance For Giving You Affection, He'll STOP•

6• YOU NEVER INITIATE AFFECTION:

You Want To Reach Out And Touch Him, But You're Frozen By The Terror
Of Being Too Clingy, Too Needy, Too Touchy Etc. You Hate The Thought
That Maybe He Didn,t 110% Want Affection In That Moment. And God
Forbid That Be The Case. You'd Rather Play It Safe And Keep Your Hands
To Yourself And Let Him Initiate Affection. But He Reads Your Failure
To Initiate As You Just Not Liking Affection: Plain And Simple•

7• YOU DON'T CUDDLE AFTER SEX:

You've Heard The Horror Stories From Your Male Friends Of Them Being
Trapped In Post-Sex Cuddling They So Don't Want To Be In- They Tell
You Of Times They Wanted To Crawl Out Of Their Skin As A Woman Played
With Their Chest Hair And Nuzzled Their Neck And For Some Reason, Even
Though You're In A Committed Relationship, You Wonder If Your Guy
Feels That Way. And At The Off Chance He Ever Might, You Always Hop
Out Of Bed Immediately After SEX•

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HOW YOU KEEP BREAKING YOUR OWN HEART•••

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Sure, There Are A**holes Out There. There Are Some True Con Artists.
They're Amazing Listeners. They Figure You Out. They Stare At You Like
They're Looking Into Your Soul. They Know What You Want To Hear. They
Even Know What To Do And Say To Seem Like They Are For Real. And Then
They Screw You. And Screw You Over. In Some Instances, It's Really Not
Your Fault. But To Tell You The Truth- Most Of The Time It Is. You
Have To Remember That You're The One Choosing The Men You Date. You're
The One Opting To Go On Date Number 2, 3, Etc. And You're The Only One
Who Can Determine What Men Will And Will Not Be Drawn To You.
Honestly, You're The Reason Your Heart Is Being Broken. But You Can
Change That:
1• YOU ARE NOT BEING REAL UPFRONT:
Women Want To Seem Strong. They Are Pretty Much Constantly Told That
They Are Too Needy, Too Emotional, Too Co- Dependent. So, To Fight
That Stereotype, They Put On Their Best "I Don't Care If You Like Me
Or Not. I Don't Care If You Call Back Or Not. I Don't Even Care If
You're Listening" Face. And You Know What? Some Men Are Attracted To
That. They Are Attracted To That Strength-To That Independence. Men
Want To Date That Woman. So They Do. And Then That Woman, (You) Once
She Becomes Comfortable, Lets Her True Colours Show. Yes, You're A
Little Needy Sometimes-Who Isn't? Yes, It Does Hurt Your Feelings If
He Forgets To Call You Back. And Yes, You're Going To Let Him Know.
And Suddenly, You're Not That Bold-Faced, "I Don't Need A MAN" Woman
He Fell For•
2• YOU WON'T BLOCK A PHONE NUMBER:
This May Just Be My Opinion, But I've Seen A Lot Of Women Get Into A
Lot Of Unnecessary Drama By Not Following It. If It's Over-It's Over.
And If It Ended With Some Bad Feelings, You Need To Block His Phone
Number, His Email, And Unfriend Him On Facebook.
Because All It Takes Is That One Little Text Message When You're A
Little Lonely ("I MISS YOU"), And Suddenly, You Forgot Why You Broke
Up. And You Text Back "I Miss You Too." And Within A Week, You're
Yelling At Each Other Again. If You Don't Have The Strength To Ignore
Those Texts And Emails, Then Take Control Of The One Thing You Can
Control-Block HIM•
3• YOUR FRIENDS ARE LOUDER THAN YOUR GUT:
When You Are Feeling Weak (As Often As After A Breakup), And All You
Can Remember Is That You Liked Cuddling And You Liked Having A Date On
Your Arm, Your Friend's Suggestion Of "Maybe You Guys Can Work It
Out..." Gets To You. But You Are The Only One Who Knows That Gut
Feeling You Had That Said This Isn't Right For Me. And If You Get Back
With The Guy, Your Gut Is Going To Speak Up Again. And You're Going To
Have To Break Up All Over Again•
4• YOU'RE STILL GROWING:
Maybe You Just Moved To A New Town, Or You Are In Between Jobs So You
Don't Have Much Of A Social Life Or A New Career Is Taking Up Your
Time. But If You Don't Have Your Own Thing Going On, You're Going To
Depend On Your Guy Too Much. You May Not Notice It Because, If You're
Out Of Work And Out Of Friends, Those 8 Hours When He Is At Work Feel
Like An Eternity To You. But They Fly By For Him, So When You Text
Saying "I Haven't Heard From You In Forever" That "Forever" Sounds A
Bit Drastic To Him. And Then He Feels That You're Too Clingy And He
Drops You, At A Point When You Are Feeling More Lonely And Lost Than
Ever. A Boyfriend Is Just A Quick And Unsustainable Fix For A Life
That Still Needs To Be Built Up. It's A Tempting Fix-But Resist It
Until You're Stronger•
5• YOU DAY DREAM TOO MUCH:
You Have A Date With A Guy And You Spend All Day Thinking About It.
When You're At The Gym, You're Imaging How He Is Going To Notice Your
Toned Arms That Night. When You're Making A Mental Note To Re-Tell Him
The Funny Story Your Friend Told You. The Date Has Happened In Your
Head Long Before It Happens, And Then The Actual Date Falls Far Short.
(Of Course It Does!) And You're Depressed, Thinking Every Man Will
Disappoint You•

6• YOU CHASE THE UNAVAILABLE:

He Tells You He Isn't Ready For A Relationship. Great- You Accept The
Challenge (It Wasn't A Challenge Though). He Tells You He Isn't Into
Monogamy. You Accept Again. He Tells You He Has Never Spoken About His
Feelings With A Partner. You Get To Work On Making His Tears Flow. You
Put In Much More Energy On Him Than You Would Have To With, Oh, A
Giving Man Who Is Ready For A Relationship, So When It Ends, You Feel
More Exhausted And Devastated Than Ever. Just Don't Do It! Walk Away
From A Man As Soon As He Shows Signs That He Can't Give You What You
Want. You Will Save Your Heart A Lot Of Pain In The END•

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SIGNS HE MAY BE HIDING SOMETHING FROM YOU•••

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Women Usually Have A Sixth Sense When It Comes To Men And
Relationships- An Uncanny Ability To Tell When Something Isn't Quite
Right, Even If She Can't Put Her Finger On It. While Some Women Need A
Full-Out Confession When It Comes To Indiscretions, Others Use Their
InNATE Ability To Discern If A Man May Be Hiding Something From Her.
The Trick Though, Is Being Able To Tell The Difference Between A Gut
Feeling , And Paranoia. When You Are Smitten- Or Insecure- Your Radar
Can Be A Bit Off. So If You're Not Sure If Your Man (Or Woman) Is
Guilty Of Or Hiding Something, Keep Your Eyes And Ears Open For These
Clues•••
1• HE ACTS GUILTY:
If A Person Acts Guilty, He Or She Usually Is. If You Ask Him A Simple
Question Like; "How Was Your Day?" And He Responds In A Defensive Or
Nervous Manner, Chances Are He Feels Guilty About Something And Is
Having A Hard Time Physically Masking It. He May Even Behave In A
Guilty Fashion If You Do Something Nice For Him That Is Unexpected,
Because He May Feel Like It's A Trick Or A Trap While A Person Can SAY
Anything, His Body Language May Give More Clues That He Might Be
Guilty Of Hiding Something. If He Starts Sweating, Fidgeting Or
Suddenly Just Seems Jumpy For No Reason, His Guilty Conscience Is
Projecting Itself, And You'll Be Able To See It•
2• HE GIVES TOO MANY DETAILS:
If You Ask Your Man Where He's Been And He Gives You A Detailed
Account Of His Evening, Down To The Style Of Shoes The Bartender Was
Wearing, It May Seem Like He's Telling The Truth Right? Wrong. Most
People Don't Pay That Close Attention To Minute Details, So If He's
Offering You Up Insignificant, But Elaborate Descriptions- Like The
Colour Of The Bathroom Walls At The Club- Then He May Be Trying Too
Hard To Cover His Behind. If You Ask A Simple Question, But Get A
Detailed Answer When A Simple Yes Or No Will Do, Take Heed. He's
Making Up Stuff As He Goes Along To Make His Story Seem More
Believable When The Truth Should Suffice•
3• HE LIMITS HIS RESPONSES:
Just Like A Person Can Give Too Much Information When Telling A Lie, A
Person Who Is Keeping Something From You Can Give Too LITTLE
Information As Well. If Your Partner Gives You One Word Answers, Or
Limits His Responses In Conversation, It's Usually Because He's Afraid
To Tell On Himself Or Get Caught In A Lie. He Figures The More He
Talks, The Deeper The Grave He'll Dig For Himself, So He Keeps His
Comments Or Answers To A Minimum. If Getting Him To Talk About A
Certain Subject Seems Like Pulling Teeth, It's Probably Because He
Wants To Keep Something Under Wraps, And You In The Dark•
4• HIS STORY KEEPS CHANGING:
If You Suspect That Your Man Has Lied To You- Even Though He Has Given
You A Detailed Story Or Answer To Your Question And He's Sticking To
It - Ask Him The Same Question A Week Or A Month Later And See If His
Account Is The Same. Most People Have To Work Hard At Remembering A
Lie, While The Truth Carries The Same Story Every Single Time. But
This Means That You ALSO Have To Have A Good Memory So That You Can
Pinpoint Inaccuracies Or Discrepancies When His Version Of The Truth
Changes•
5• HE MAKES YOU FEEL GUILTY FOR ASKING A QUESTION:
Asking Your Man Where He's Going Or Who He's Going Out With May Seem
Like Normal, Natural Questions To You. But If He Takes Offense And His
Indignant At What He Perceives To Be "Probing" Questions, It May Be
Because He's Guilty Of Being Somewhere Or With SOmeone He Shouldn't
Be. If He Attacks You For "Checking Up On Him" Or Makes You Feel Bad
About Asking Him About ANYTHING, Chances Are His Conscience Is
Catching Up With Him And Causing Him To Lash Out At You•
6• ANSWERS A QUESTION WITH A QUESTION- IF HE ANSWERS AT ALL:
Most People Who Answer A Question With A Question Are Usually
Stalling, Trying To Think Of A Lie While You're Busying Answering
Their Question. Or He May Be Trying To Deflect The Subject Back Onto
You, Or Shift The Conversation Away From A Touchy Subject. However, If
He Refuses To Answer A Direct Question At All, It's Probably Because
He Can't Think Of A Lie Fast Enough, So He Simply Won't Answer. When A
Person Is Being Forthcoming And Truthful, He Won't Feel The Need To
Refuse To Answer A Question, And The Answer Will Immediate. But If
Your Partner Feels That You Are Not Entitled To An Answer, There
Should Be No Doubt That Something Shady Is Going ON•
7• HE SEEMS MORE SECRETIVE:
He Used To Pee With The Bathroom Door Open, Now He Takes His Phone
With Him To Take A Shower And Closes (And Locks) The Door. The Ringer
On His Phone Is Always On Vibrate, He Turns His Phone Off At Certain
Hours, And When He's On The Phone, He Speaks In A Low Tone Or Hangs Up
When You Enter The Room. Most Couples Want To Share Everything When
They're Happy In Love- Nothing Is Off-Limits. But If One Of Them Is
Hiding Something, They Try To Create Distance. If He Is Suddenly
Overprotective Of His Privacy When He Used To Be An Open Book, That
Usually Means There Is Something He Wants To Keep Hidden From You.
When It Reaches This Point, It Doesn't Matter What That Something
Is-JUST RUN!

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WHAT MEN LOOK FOR WHEN CHOOSING A WIFE!!!

<@>Gr8tmindz Inc<@>™
Believe It Or Not, Women Aren't The Only One's With A Checklist Of
Traits They Look For In A Partner. Although It May Not Be Written
Down, Men Have A Mental List Of What They Will And Will Not Tolerate
In A Relationship As Well.
Take A Look At These Traits Men Look For In A Wife...
1• HONEST COMMUNICATION:
Honest Communication Is Top Priority For Men. They Want A Woman Who
Answers Questions Honestly, And Even Volunteers Information. They Want
A Woman Who Can See The Truth, Stand Up For Themselves And Tell It
Like It Is•
2• SECURE AND CONFIDENT:
Men Want A Woman To Choose Them Out Of Want Rather Than Out Of
Desperation. Women Tend To Jump In And Out Of Relationships More Often
Than The Opposite Sex, Because They Crave Attention And Adoration. In
The Same Way, Men Need To Be Wanted And Needed By Their Partners, But
They Want Their Partners TO Have A Seperate Identity. It's Important
That Women Have Their Own Friends And Interests•
3• MANIPULATION-FREE:
Men Want No Manipulation Of Any Kind And Typically Have A Little
Tolerance For Games. They Do Not Want To Read Their Partner's Mind Or
Try To Interpret Signals Women Often Hide Their True Feelings By
Delibrately Returning Phone Calls Hours After Checking Their Phone, Or
Pretending To Be Interested In Other Men To "Keep Their Crush Begging
For More." Newsflash, Men Don't Want To Fight For A Woman Who Appears
To Be Uninterested Or Worse, Interested In Another Guy. If You Like A
Man, Make It Known. This Does Not Mean You Should Drop The L-Word On
The First Date. Simply Return His Calls In A Timely Manner. Show Him
That He Is The Only One You Want To Be With And Avoid Checking Out
Other Guys•
4• EMOTIONALLY STABLE AND MATURE:
Men Want A Woman Who Can Stand On Her Own Two Feet And Develop Herself
Personally. They Want A Woman Who Is Emotionally Mature. But Does Not
Lack Emotions All Together. It's Important To Handle Emotions
Responsibly And Know When They Are Getting The Best Of The Situation.
Men Tend To Be Practical Beings, Compared To Women Who Tend To Base
Their Decisions On Emotions Instead Of Facts. Usually As Women Mature
And Age, They Stop Depending On Emotions And Start To Find A Way To Be
Practical, Without Losing Their Nurturing And Emotional Edge•

5• TRUE COMMITMENT:

Fidelity And Loyalty, Is An Absolute Must For Men. In Fact, Men Want A
Woman Who Does Not Have A Woman Who Does Not Have A "Roaming Eye" And
Who Can Wholeheartedly Commit To The Relationship. The Misconnection
Here Is That Women Think That All Men Want Is Sex, And That Men Will
Leave A Relationship For The Next Prettier Face. Women Think Men
Cannot Be Trusted To Be Faithful And That When The Going Gets Rough,
They Leave. Be Aware Of Subtle Cues At The Beginning Of A Relationship
That Might Prove That You Have A Wanderer On Your Hands. What Does He
Do With His Spare Time? What Kind Of Influence Does His Friends Have
On Him? Is He Easily Susceptible To Peer Pressure? These Questions
Challenge His Confidence And True Being And Allow You To Determine If
He Is A Great Catch, Or If You Should Throw Him Back With The Fishes•

6• NURTURER:

There Is A Reason Why So Many Men, When Little Boys, Ask Their Mothers
To Marry Them. Men Love To Be Nurtured. Many Women Treat Men In Ways
That Diminish Their Egos, Making Them Feel Inadequate. Men Would
Rather Have More Praise, More Acknowledgment That They Are Great Guys
Who Are Loved And Appreciated•
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YOU MUST MAKE THE DECISION THAT YOU ARE GOING TO MOVE ON!!!

YOU MUST MAKE THE DECISION THAT YOU ARE GOING TO MOVE ON!!!

Gr8tmindz Inc™

"You Must Make A Decision That You Are Going To Move On. It Won't
Happen Automatically. You Will Have To Rise Up And Say, I Don't Care
How Hard This Is, I Don't Care How Disappointed I Am, I'm Not Going To
Let This Get The Best Of Me. I'm Moving On With My Life•"

If You Are Like Most Of Us, You Have Been Disappointed By The Way That
Life Has Treated You In At Least A Few Moments. There Are So Many In
This World Who Have Done So Many Good Things, Yet Get Treated As
Though No One Loves Them, While Those Who Are Most Negative Seem To
Get Most Of The Positive Attention. There Are Also Many Instances Of
People Not Honoring Promises And Not Being Real With Each Other That
It Seems Disappointment In Each Other Is Growing Epidemically.

Instead Of Walking Through This Life Disappointed In Much Of It,
Remember To Keep Control Of Your Emotions. Instead Of Thinking About
What Is Before You In This Very Moment, Remember That Things Can
Easily Change. If You Are Willing To Look Past The Obstacles In Order
To Get To Your Goals, You Will Then Be Able To Navigate To Them,
Instead Of Standing Still In Worry Not Knowing Where To Go Next•

•••PRESIDENT•••™

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