Is There Anything Wrong In A Lady Approaching A Guy And Telling Him How She Feels? My Answer To That Is A Capital 'NO.'
Now I Could Sense A Lot Of Ladies And Guys Alike Are Raising Eyebrow Already.
Well, As Much As Our Opinions May Differ, I Want To Open Our Eyes To Something Most Of Us Are Refusing To See Or Notice When It Comes To A Lady Approaching A Guy.
It Has Been Quoted By Many That Its The Man's Duty To Approach A Lady That He Likes, Because It's His Duty As Man. Some Go To The Extent Of Quoting Proverbs 18:22 To Drive Home Their Reasons. But Before I Go Further, Let Me Quote What Proverbs 18:22 Says From The Amplified Bible For Us To Get A Clearer Picture... And It Says " He Who Finds A [True] Wife Finds A Good Thing, And Obtains Favour From The LORD."
Ooops! Did Somebody Notice Something? If You Didn't, Let Me Point It Out... It Says "He Who Finds A 'TRUE' Wife..."
Doesn't That Indicates That You Can Also Find An UNTRUE WIFE? That Means That Union Would Be A Terrible One, Because There Would Be No Favour To Obtain From God On That. Not To Mention That The Writer Of That Passage Is A Man Who Had Many Wives And Concubines... (Solomon) In Which Amongst Them Are Those He Approached, Those That Approached Him, And Those That Were Given To Him As A Gift By Other Kings And Towns Men.
And Who Says Your TRUE WIFE Wouldn't Be The Lady Who Approached You? As There Is No Law Holding Back Women From Expressing Their Feelings To A Man, Be It In A Fit Of Anger, Advice, Warning, Or Just Simply Telling Him That She Likes Him, And Wouldn't Mind Having Him As A Partner. That Obviously Sounds And Look Absurd To Most People Who Walk Around With The Stone Age Mentality Right? Certainly! OR Those Who Walk Around With A Misconstrued Interpretation Of What The Scripture Says.
Away From Biblical Exposé... Now To The Psychological Perspective....
It Has Been Said That Ladies Who Approach Men Are CHEAP, And Selling Themselves Short.
ARE LADIES WHO APPROACH GUYS CHEAP?
My Answer To That Is Another Capital "NO."
Its Just That A Lot Of Ladies Who Have At One Point In Time Approach A Guy, Have Been Taken Advantage Of, Or Taken For Granted.
Anyone Who Says Or Think A Lady Who Approaches A Guy Is Cheap Is Just Being Myopic And Sentimental Due To Ill Experience Or Plain Ill Luck. It Takes Serious Guts And Maturity For A Lady To Walk Upto A Guy, And Tell Him She Likes Him And Would Love To Date Him.
Its Just That A Lot Of People Haven't Woke Up To The Reality That A Lady Should Be Free Or Is Free To Express Her Feelings Of Love To A Guy. And If You Are A Guy Who Sees Such Lady As CHEAP, Then You Really Have Some Growing Up To Do.
As A Lady, Do Not Feel Caged And Ashamed To Go For What You Want. Atleast Its Better To Try And Know It Didn't Work; Than Not To Try At All And Then Die In Silence Watching The Guy You Dream About Resting In The Arms Of Another Woman. And In The Worst Case Scenario, You Start Beefing Every Lady You See Around Him.
You Might Be Thinking, Ah! I Can't Do That O! Its Better To Give Him Signals For Him To Make A Move, Than To Open My Mouth To Tell Him How I Feel. Well, You May Be Right... But That Could Oftentimes Make You Look Silly And Unknowingly Being Too Pushy. And Oftentimes It Could Be Misinterpreted To Mean That You Just Need A Hit And Run Kinda Thingy Than The REAL Thing. So Its Better You COME CLEAN.
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