CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS OR THEY WILL CONTROL YOU

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

"If Your Emotional Abilities Aren't In Hand, If You Don't Have
Self-Awareness, If You Are Not Able To Manage Your Distressing
Emotions, If You Can't Have Empathy And Have Effective Relationships,
Then No Matter How Smart You Are, You Are Not Going To Get Very Far•"

If We Choose To Wallow In Self-Pity, Our Lives Will Remain Stationary.
One Thing About Us As Humans Is That We Are Made With Emotions. Some
Get Confused About What Emotions Are Really For, And Think That They
Should Let Their Emotional Feelings Determine What Type Of Life That
They Will Have. Instead Of Letting Your Emotions Rule You, You Have To
Be Willing To Let Your Emotions Show You What They Need To Show You In
Order To Make Changes, Instead Of Making You Change•

Sometimes We May Get Up In The Morning Feeling A Bit Depressed Or
Feeling A Bit Lonely, But These Feelings Are Only There To Indicate
That We Need To Make Some Kind Of Change In Our Lives. These Types Of
Feeling Aren't There For Us To Sit And Wallow In; Doing So Would Not
Be Productive Or Healthy For Us In Any Manner.

Take Time To Know Yourself By Learning How To Not Be Controlled By
Emotion, But Instead By Being In Control Of Your Emotions•

IYANYA SIGNS $350K ENDORSEMENT DEAL WITH ZINOX (COMPUTERS) GROUP

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Iyanya Is Chopping Endorsement Deals Anyhow. First MTN, Now Zinox
Group. The Kukere Crooner Yesterday Signed A Three Hundred And Fifty
Thousand Dollars One Year Endorsement Deal With Zinox Computers. Zinox
Computers, Which Is Nigeria's First Certified Branded Computers, Will
Upload All Iyanya's Songs And Videos To All Their Computers. Iyanya
Will Also Do A Song For Them And Appear On Zinox Billboards And TV
Commercials•
Iyanya Got Some Of The Endorsement Deal Money In Cash Yesterday And
Displayed It On His Instagram Page•

SSS GRILLS THE MOTHER OF THE BOY FOUND UNDER ARIK PLANE TYRE HOLE

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

According To A Report By Punch The Mother Of The 14-Year-Old Boy Who
Successfully Flew In The Tyre Compartment Of A Lagos Bound Arik Flight
From Benin Airport On Saturday Morning, Was Yesterday Monday August
26th Grilled For Hours By A Combined Team Of Security Operatives From
The Department Of State Security Service And Aviation Security. The
Mother, Evelyn Ohikhena Said: "My Son Answers Daniel In School And
Ricky At Home. I Went To My Elder Sister's Place Who Put To Bed And
When I Got Home The Next Morning (Saturday), I Couldn't Find Him. My
Daughter Told Me That They Quarrelled In The Night And She Said He
Eventually Slept In The Parlour While She Said She Went Back To Sleep
In The Room.

"One Of His Younger Brothers Said He Saw Him Remove All His School
Books From His Bag; So I Asked My Neighbours Whether Any Of Them Saw
Him And They Told Me That At Around 5 To 6am, They Heard Sounds That
Somebody Was Opening The Gate But Never Thought It Was My Son. He
Doesn't Go Out. What I Know Is That He Is Always Watching Films In The
House But He Doesn't Have Friends.
"I Went To Oba Market Police Station, They Referred Me To Evbuotubu
Police Station, When I Got There They Said They Will Declare Him
Missing After 24 Hours And That I Should Come Back Next Day."
Speaking On The Type Of Person Her Son Is, Evelyn Said, "He Is Always
At Home, I Have Never Seen Anybody Come To Look For Him And He Doesn't
Have Friends. I Am Begging The Government To Help Me, Because I Have
Never Been To The Airport Before, I Have Been To Lagos Before So They
Should Help Me. I Don't Know How He Managed To Get There But I Just
Thank GOD That He Is ALIVE•

WWE SUPERSTAR CM PUNK- I'M THE ONE WHO KNOCKS••• ON WALTER WHITE'S DOOR

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

WWE Superstars CM Punk And Kofi Kingston Better Tread Lightly-- Cause
They Invaded Walter White's Turf... And Everyone Knows Heisenberg
Doesn't Like Strangers In His Territory. The Two Wrestlers Were In New
Mexico For A Live WWE Event This Weekend-- And During The Trip, They
Found Time To Take An Excursion To The Real Life House That's Used As
Walter's Pad On "Breaking Bad." As You Can See... The House Is Back To
Looking Pristine... And Not In Any Danger Of... Ugh, Just Watch Last
Night's Episode! You'll Get It•

FAT JOE TURNS HIMSELF IN TO PRISON

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Fat Joe Has Just Turned Himself In To Prison To Serve His 4 Month
Sentence For Tax Evasion. The Rapper-- Real Name Joseph Cartagena-- Is
Officially In Custody At The Federal Detention Center In Miami. As DNM
Previously Reported, Joe Pled Guilty Back In December To Stiffing
Uncle Sam On A Boatload Of Taxes For The Years 2007 And 2008... More
Than $1 Million Total. He Originally Faced Up To Two Years In The
Slammer For The Crime-- But Was Ultimately Sentenced To Just 4 Months
And A $15,000 Fine, Plus One-Year Supervised Release•

JAY Z's ROCAWEAR SUED ACCUSED OF T-SHIRT JACKING

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Jay Z And Rocawear Have No Business Plastering The Phrase "Hood Love"
All Over T-Shirts... So Says The Pissed Off Company That Owns The
Phrase And Is Now Suing The Pants Off Jigga's Clothing Label. Hood
Love, LLC-- A For-Profit Company Dedicated To Improving Poverty
Stricken Communities-- Filed The Lawsuit Against ROC Apparel Group
Earlier This Month... Over One Specific Shirt In The Rocawear Line,
Which Reads HoodLOVE In Giant Letters. HoodLove Says It's Owned The
Trademark Since 2006-- And Claims Jay's Company Came Along And Started
Making A Buck... Confusing The Public, And Trading Off Their Good
Name. It's Not Clear How Much Cash Rocawear's Made Off The Shirt, But
HoodLove Is Suing For The Profits... And Also Wants The Apparel Yanked
From Stores•

DILLISH WINS BIG BROTHER AFRICA- THE CHASE

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Dillish Matthews From Namibia Has Won The 2013 Big Brother Africa- The
Chase. She Goes Home With $300,000. I Think She Deserved To Win... So
They SAY!

KIM AND KANYE'S DAUGHTER NORTH WEST REVEALED!!!

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Here She Is For The First Time... The Spawn Of Kim Kardashian And
Kanye West. Kanye Revealed The Photo Of Baby North West On Kris
Jenner's Talk Show Yesterday, A Last Ditch Effort To Boost Ratings
Before Fox Decides Whether To Pick The Show Up For A Full Series...
Something Kim's Mother Is Desperately Hoping For As We Reported, Kim
And Kanye Had Initially Debated Using The Baby's First Images To Raise
Money For Charity... But They Decided Kris's Show Was A More Worthy
Cause•

IS DATING YOUR FRIEND'S EX EVER ACCEPTABLE

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"If Your Friend Is Totally Over His Ex, Has No Romantic Feelings For
Him/Her, And Wouldn't Mind Being Around The Two Of You Socially, That
Could Work," Muses Nina Atwood, Author Of "Temptations Of The Single
Girl." "But Look At All The Conditions That Have To Be Met! The
Reality Is That It's Just Too Weird And Uncomfortable For Most People
To Want To Deal With."
The Only Time It Might Be Okay Is If Your Friend Has Moved On To
Another Relationship," She Says, "Even If The Two Of Them Have Split,
Emotions Take A While To Heal, So It's Unlikely That The Friend Is
Going To Be Okay With It."
But Not All Relationship Experts See It This Way. "It's Ok To Move In
If They Are Estranged And No Longer In LOVE And Divorcing," Says
Matchmaker Marla Martenson. "You Never Know Where You Will Find Love.
It Could Be Right Under Your Nose, And Circumstances Have To Shift For
Things To Evolve." As Martenson Point Out, "It's A Delicate
Situation, But Why Let A Potential Love Match Get Away? If It's A
Great Match, It's A Great Match•"

Still, It's Best To Proceed With Caution. "Letting Things Dissipate A
Bit" Before Making Your Move. If You Do Decide To Pursue A Friend's
Ex, Be Prepared For The Potential For Some Major Fall-Out. "You Should
Avoid This Whole Scenario Unless You Feel Very Strongly That Your
Friend's Ex Is Your Ultimate Soul Mate, "Says Atwood. "If You Decide
To Pursue The Ex, You Should Be Prepared To Lose Friendship. "Most
People Are Highly Uncomfortable With These Situations, So It's Best To
Look For Love Somewhere Else•"

We Would Love To Know What You Think: Have You Ever Been Down This
Dating Road? Is It Ever A Acceptable To Date A Friend's Ex?

CAN A MAN LOVE TWO WOMEN AT THE SAME TIME?

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Many Have Argued That A Man Cannot Genuinely Love More Than One Woman.
They Argue That If It Is More Than One Then It Is Lust Or Infatuation.
They Also Posit That "REAL LOVE" Trancends Any Degree. That Is, If You
Really Love A Woman It Is 100 Per Cent, It Can't Be Shared With Any
Other One, Else Lust Comes In•
Is There Any Merit In This Popular And Strongly Articulated Position?
Perhaps We Should Agree First On What LOVE Means To Have A Common Ground.
The Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary Defines Love As...
1)• Strong Feeling Of Deep Affection For Somebody,
2)• Strong Feeling Of Affection For Somebody That You're Sexually
Attracted To...
3)• The Strong Feeling Of Enjoyment That Somebody Or Something Gives You,
4)• A Person, Thing Or An Activity That You Like Very Much•
It Is Only Commonsensical And Normal That A Man Can Have The Above
Defined Feelings For Two Different Women. I Guess The Question Most
Folks (Women And Girls Especially) Really Want To Ask Is: Should A Man
Act On These Feelings? Should He Act On These Natural Instinct Or
Attraction And Go After All These Women? Now That's A Different
Question! But It Will Amount To Self-Deception And Delusion To Opine
That A Man Cannot Have Strong Feelings Of Affection For More Than One
Woman At The Same Time. It Simply Happens! But A Disciplined Man In A
Committed Relationship Or Who Has Taken Marital Vows With A Particular
Woman, Won't Act On These Feeling Except In The Instance Where His
Religion Or Personal Beliefs Allows Marrying More Than One Wife.
We're Only Taught By Culture Or Societal Norms To LOVE One Person In A
Relationship At A Time. The Capacity To Love Others Is Infinite
Especially As No Two People Are The Same. Should One Chase Two
Relationships At The Same Time Is Another Matter. This Widely Held
Misconception May Have Been Started By Puritans And Those At The Helm
Of Religious Affairs To Control Those With Roving Eyes And Hearts. It
Also Gives A Measure Of Comfort To Women That Once They Are The Apple
Of A Man's Heart, He Will Look No Further. But This Is Scant
Consolation In The Face Of Harsh Reality. It Is Better To Face The
Bitter Truth Of The Matter Than To Be Ensconced In The Comfort Of
Self-Deceit•
It Seems We Confuse Fidelity, Commitment And Marriage With The Issue
Of LOVE. Marriage As An Institution Excludes All Others Not In The
Union. Fidelity Means Staying Faithful To Your Spouse Or "LOVED" One.
A Man Can Love Any Number Of Women He Opens His Heart To. LOVE Comes
In Degrees. We Can Speak Of The Degree Or Intensity Of Love For Each
Of These Different Women But Not That It Must Be Infatuation To Have
Strong Feelings For More Than One WoMAN.
Reading From Various Sources, Love Is A Feeling Of Deep Affection Or
Passion. It Is Tender, Passionate Affection. It Is A Strong Personal
Liking. No Definition Of LOVE Anywhere Says That It Is The Exclusion
Of All Others!
Should A Man Pursue All The Women He Has Feelings Of Deep Affection Or
Passion For? That's A Moral And Different Question Altogether!
Some Religions Allow Marrying Up To Four Wives. And To Varying Degrees
The Husband Loves All His Wives. He May Have A Personal Ranking Of His
Level Of Affection For These Women But That Does Not Mean He Doesn't
Love Each Of Them•

Each Individual Brings Different Flavours To The Table. How Can He Not
Love Each Of Them For Their Different Pleasing Attributes? It Is A
FALLACY To Keep Insisting That There Is No Way A Man Can Love Two
Girls At The Same Time. And That One Must Be Infatuation. INFATUATION
Means To Inspire With A Foolish Love Or Admiration. The Men Caught In
These Situations Are Neither Foolish Nor Merely Out To Satisfy The
Flesh. They Know What They Feel And It Is LOVE.

Should A Man Therefore LOVE Two WOmen Or Pursue Two Relationships At
The Same Time Because He Has Natural Feelings? This Is A Moral
Question And It Is Different From: CAN A Man LOVE Two Women At The
Same Time?

PARIS JACKSON-- I WANT MY BROTHER BACK

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Paris Jackson Was At War With Her Brother Prince Days Before She Tried
To Commit Suicide, And We've Learned She's Now Extremely Regretful And
Wants To Mend Fences. Jackson Family Sources Tell DNM... Paris Felt
Abandoned By Not Just Prince, But By Everyone In Her World. When
Micheal Was Alive The Family Bond Was Unbreakable. But After He Died,
She Not Only Lost Her Father, But The Family Unit Disintegrated. She
Couldn't Relate To Blanket Because He War Too Young, Ditto Katherine
Because She Was Too Old, So The Only Possible Soulmate Was Prince.
We're Told Prince Became Distant To Paris Because He Developed Other
Interests-- Girls, Martial Arts And Cars. Paris Became Enraged And The
Two Argued Fiercely, Which Escalated Up To The Time Paris Took A Meat
Clever To Her Arm. We're Told One Of The Reasons Paris Became Close To
Debie Rowe Is Because Her Mother Showed A Genuine Interest And Love
For Her Daughter-- Which Meant A Lot. But Rowe Couldn't Solve The Big
Problem In Paris' Life--- ThE Feeling Of Abandonment. Our Sources Say
Paris Has Recently Been Telling Friends And Family She Wants To Repair
Her Relationship With Prince, And Regrets The Conflicts That Divided
Them. Short Story... WE're Told The Fact That Paris Is Expressing
These Feelings Is Great Progress•

WENTWORTH MILLER-- I'M GAY STICKS IT TO VLADIMIR PUTIN

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

"Prison Break" Star Wentworth Miller Has Just Revealed He's A Gay
Man... In A Statement That Reads As A Giant "F YOU" To Russia. The
41-year-Old Actor Fired Off A Letter To The Director Of The St.
Petersburg International Film Festival-- Rejecting Its Invitation For
Him To Travel To The Motherland For The Event... And In The Letter, WM
Went Public About His Sexuality For The First Time. "Thank You For
Your Kind Invitation As Someone Who Has Enjoyed Visiting Russia In The
Past And Can Also Claim A Degree Of Russian Ancestry, It Would Make Me
Happy To Say Yes. However, As A Gay Man, I Must Decline. "Miller
Continues... "I Am Deeply Troubled By The Current Attitude aND
Treatment Toward Gay Men And Women By The Russian Government." The
Situation Is In No Way Acceptable, And I Cannot In Good Conscience
Participate In A Celebratory Occasion Hosted By A Country Where People
Like Myself Are Being Systematically Denied Their Basic Right To Live
And Love Openly." He Added, "If Circumstances Improve, I'll Be Free To
Make A Different CHOICE•"

WHAT DO WEALTHY MEN WANT FROM WOMEN?

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
If You Want To Date A Wealthy Man, You'd Better Read The Following
Tips Carefully. Hope It Can Help You Find Your Wealthy Match:
Am Often Stunned By Ladies Who Want To Date And Marry Wealthy Men, And
Yet Don't Know Their Left From Their Right. As A Result, The DNM CREW
Decided To Go Out Of The Way To Take A Survey Of What Wealthy Men Want
From Women•••
#1• PATIENCE AND TOLERANCE:
If You Are Not Patient, You Can Not Date With Wealthy Men. Wealthy Men
Always Put Themselves First, Their Business Second And Their Women
Third. :O ••• Now That Is A Hard Pill To Swallow For Ladies Who Seek
Wealthy Men.
You Might Come First For A Few Weeks, But After A While... If You
Don't Believe This, You're In For A Big Disappointment. If He's Late
For Your Dates, Forgets A Special Occasion, Doesn't Pick Up Your Call
Immediately, Or Breaks An Appointment With You To Do Something Else,
It's Normal. Try To Accept It.
You Will Also Need To Tolerate Phone Calls That Interrupt Your
Romantic Times, Your Vacations, Your Dinners And Your Sex Life.
Wealthy Men Always Have Several Things Going On In Their Lives At
Anytime, Any Place. If You Can Not Tolerate His Obnoxious Business
Associate Who Hustles You, His Neighbour Who Calls You A Gold Digger,
His Ex Wife Who Snubs You Or His Dog Who Slobbers All Over You, Or The
Type Of Woman Who Demands To Be Put First, Then You Are Not The Kind
Of Person Who Should Consider Dating Wealthy Men•
#2• ATTITUDE AND CONFIDENCE:
Try To Be More Optimistic And Remember To Smile As Often As Possible.
A Woman Who Can Do All The Above Steps And Still Not Be Successful At
Meeting A Wealthy Individual Is Not Looking In The Right Places. Rich
Men Tend To Frequent Places Such As Fine Restaurants, Museums, Art
Galleries, Country Or Golf Clubs And Exotic Locations To Name A Few.
If You Are Not Up On The Local Hotspots You May Know How To Date
Wealthy Men But Not Where To Meet Them. You'll Notice Some Of These
Places Are Not Easily Accessible To The Average Woman Which Would Make
Meeting Such A Wealthy Individual Highly Unlikely•
#3• SEX:
You Are Right In One Aspect If Your Answer Is "SEX". Almost All Men
Want SEX. But To A Wealthy Man, Sex Flows Freely. If Your Body Is Your
Only Card On The Table, You Haven't Got Much To Offer. When The Men
Feel Tired Of The Sex With You, He'll Leave You.
Don't Think That You're Very Good In Bed And You Can Hold Him On. No
Matter How Good You Are In Bed, Some Other Women Still Can BE Just As
Satisfying And Inventive. And Men Will Get Bored With The Same Woman
Over And Over Again. There's A Term That Men Use Called "STRANGE SEX".
It Doesn't Mean That The Sex Is Strange, But It's New And Fresh. :-D
#4• A SWEET PERSONALITY:
Having A Sweet Personality Does Not Mean That You Are A Pushover. It
Means That You Have A Smile That Surfaces Easily; You Don't Let A Lot
Of Things Bother You; You Genuinely Like People And Respond To Them
Kindly. Being Sweet Means Being Compassionate Towards Others, Staying
Open To Different Viewpoints Without Being Harshly Opinionated, And
Staying Pleasant When Everyone Else Is Losing His Temper. Sounds
Impossible, Doesn't It? But That's What Men Want.
But Doesn't It Seem Like It's The Bitches Who Are Getting The Men?
Getting Them Maybe. Keeping Them Is Another Story. A Woman Who Is
Strong In Her Sense Of Self, Not Critical Of Others, And Forgiving
When Things Go Wrong, Is An Asset. Look Around You. Watch And See Whom
Others Admired And Then Copy Those Traits•
#5• EMOTIONALLY MATURE:
A Woman Who Is Mature Enough To Disagree With A Man Without Resulting
To Blame And Criticism Is An Absolute Turn On. You Should Be Able To
Share Or Discuss Your Feelings In A Way That Helps A Man Better
Understand Her Rather Than Belittle Him. One Of The Main Things A Man
Pays Attention To When Trying To Decide Whether To Get Serious With A
Woman Is The Way A Woman Handles Her Emotions. Remember It's Only A
Matter Of Time Before The Two Of You Will Disagree About Something So
Think Carefully About The Way You'll Respond. And Remember There's No
Need To Agree On Everything•

#6• TRUE INDEPENDENCE:

A Real Man Isn't Intimidated By An Independent Woman. On The Contrary
He's Turned On By Her! Wealthy Men And Real Men In General Are Known
For Being Inspired By Independent Women. They Enjoy Women Who Have
Great Things Going On In Their Own Lives. A Woman Should Have Her Own
Purpose In Life And Be Grounded Enough To Partake In A Meaningful
Relationship As Well•

TIPS FOR OVERCOMING LOW SELF-ESTEEM

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

#1• WORK ON YOUR OWN OPINION OF YOURSELF:

Refuse To Think About Insults Or Critical Comments. Choose Not To
Internalize Abuse From Your Past. You Win If You Let Go Of The Hurt
And Pain And Focus On Creating A Great Life For Yourself•

#2• CONTINUALLY AFFIRM YOURSELF:

Make A List Of Your Successes, Good Points And Strengths. Write Down
Compliments-And Read Them Frequently. Also, Reject Any Negative Or
Critical Thoughts. Don't Be Your Own Enemy. You Need To Love Yourself•

#3• START BUILDING CONFIDENCE BY TAKING A FEW STEPS:

Begin To Make Decisions, Or Choose, For Yourself- But Just Start Small
So It Doesn't Feel Too Hard. The More You Speak Up, Or Make Your Own
Decisions, The Easier And More Automatic It Will Feel•

#4• DON'T WORRY ABOUT PLEASING OTHERS:

You Have A Right To Think And Choose For Yourself, And Your Views Are
As Valid As Anybody Else's. Also, If You Put Others People First And
Never Think About Yourself, And Your Views Are As Valid As Anybody
Else's. Also, If You Put Other People First And Never Think About
Yourself, You'll End Up Being Used- And Not Treated With Respect•

#5• BE YOUR OWN PERSON:

Don't Try To Copy Others- You Were Made To Be Unique. Embrace Every
Part Of Our Personality, And All The Little Things That Make You YOU!

#6• DON'T HANG OUT WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE:

People With A Negative Attitude Will Rarely Build You Up Or Affirm Who
You Are. They Are Likely To Be Critical And Hard To Please, And That
Will Only Reinforce Your Low Self Esteem•

#7• DON'T EXPECT TO BE PERFECT:

If You Demand Perfection Then You're Setting Yourself Up For Always
Failing- And Not Being Good Enough. The Truth Is We're All Learning;
Everybody Makes Mistakes. So Expect That To Happen-And BE NICE TO
YOURSELF!

IS YOUR BOYFRIEND MARRIED?

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Are You Getting The Vibe That Maybe You're Not The Only Woman In Your
Guy's Life? That Perhaps He's Sneaking Around? Check Out These
Give-Aways That Your Man May Well Be Married (Unfortunately, As A Man
That I Am... I Could Also Be Judged By These. But For The Sake Of
Humanity, And The Pain I Sometimes Feel Watching Most Ladies Fall
Victims To This... I've Decided To Spill The Milk)•
Here Are Couple Of Signs To Tell If Your Man Is Married, Or Has A
Stable Side CHICK•••
#1• YOU ONLY MEET A FEW FRIENDS:
"It's Obvious That Something's Amiss If He Insulates You From His Life
And You Don't Meet His Friends Or Family. But Even If He Does
Introduce You To Certain People In His Inner Circle, Is It Always The
Same Small Group As Opposed To A Variety Of People And At Various
Occassions? Limiting Your Contact With His Friends And Family To A
Select Group Usually Means He Has A Network Of People Who Know He's
Cheating And Go Along With It."
#2• HE WON'T STAY LOCAL:
"A Tell-Tale Sign Is That He Always Chooses Restaurants Or Activities
That Are Far, Far Away From Where He Lives. He Certainly Wouldn't Want
To Take A Date Anywhere In His Neighborhood Because There's A Very
Strong Likelihood That Someone Would Recognize Him."
#3• YOU ONLY KNOW HIS CELL-PHONE NUMBER:
I Totally Understand That We Are In The Era Of Mobile Phones, And Home
Numbers, Ain't The Norm These Days In Certain Areas Especially In
Certain Countries As It May Be. But For The Sake Of Those Who Still
Use The Home Numbers In Their Country... Another Bad Sign Is That He
Only Gives You A Cell Phone Number, Not A Home Number, And Gives You
Some Excuse About How He's Never Home (So His Cell Is The Best Way To
Reach Him) Or That He Doesn't Have A Land Line. Or He Doesn't Give You
Any Number And Explains Why It's Best For Him To Always Call You•"
#4• HE PULLS THE HAND-TO-MOUTH MOVE:
"One Big Clue: When You Ask Him About His Past Relationships Or If
He's Been Married Before, He Shows Lying Behaviours, Like Looking Away
Or Down Or Putting His Hand Over His Mouth. These Are Classic
Body-Language Signs That Show He's Holding Back And Not Wanting To
Reveal Everything About Himself. Another Sign Of Lying Is Clearing His
Throat, Licking His Lips, Or Touching His Nose. Research Shows That
Blood Vessels In The Nose Actually Get Larger When You Lie, And He's
Feeling That Happen, Which Makes Him Touch His Nose•"
#5• CASE THE CAR HE DRIVES:
"One Tip Off Can Be The Kind Of Car He Has. A Single Guy Wouldn't
Drive A Family Car•"
#6• LOOK FOR THE PHOTO EVIDENCE:
"Take Note If You See Photos Of Other Women In His Office, Wallet Or
Anywhere Else And He Seems To Make Excuses For Them•"

#7• BEWARE THE BLABBERMOUTH:

"A Red Flag That He's Deceiving You Is Too Much Talking. For Example,
You Say, "I'd Like To See Where You Live' Or 'I'll Meet You At Your
Place.' Instead Of Responding With, 'Sure,' Or 'When', You Get Too
Many Long And Detailed Explanations About Why He Can't•"

#8• HE'S ALL ABOUT THE WEEKEND GETAWAY:

"He's Probably Married If He Never Suggests That Two Of You Go Away
Together. Or If The Only Time You Do Go Away Is When He Goes Out Of
Town On Business Because That Kind Of Trip Gives Him Ample Cover From
His Wife."

IT'S NOT THE MISTAKE THAT MATTERS, IT'S HOW YOU DEAL WITH IT

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

"It's Not The Mistake That Matters; It's How You Deal With It, What
You Learn From It, And How You Apply That Lesson To Your Life•"

If You Make A Mistake Know That From This Experience You Gained,
Because You Now Have Experience With Enough Value To Know What Not To
Do Again. Many Times We Can Be Taught By The Experience And The Words
From Someone And The Words From Someone With A Bit More Experience In
A Situation, But We Have To Remember That At The Same Time, We Are
Different From Everyone Else As Well. It Is These Differences Within
Us That Help To Determine How Proactive We Will Be Compared To How
Reactive We Could Be If That Is How We Are Built•

MEL GIBSON-- CHECK OUT MY LETHAL WEAPONS

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Mel Gibson Is Only Hitting One Thing These Days... The Gym... Just
Check Out The Diesel Arms He Unveiled In L.A On Friday, Makes Sense.
57-year-old Gibson Is Set To Play The Villain In Next Year's Action
Flick "Expendables 3" Alongside Equally Yoked Middle-Aged Actors
Sylvester Stallone, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Jason Statham, And Dolph
Lundgren... So Bulking Up Is Kind Of Expected. But We're Still Blown
Away, And Not Just By Gibson's Guns. We Don't Think We've Ever Seen
The Guy In A Tank Top Before•

KOBE BRYANT-- MY RECOVERY JUST GOT FASTER

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Dear NBA, Kobe Bryant Is Running Again... Just 4 Months After Tearing
His Achilles Tendon. Consider Yourselves Warned•

GWEN STEFANI B-A-N-A-N-ASS

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Normally, We Wouldn't Feel So Guilty Checking Out Gwen Stefani's
Incredible Ass During A Bikini-Clad Boat Outing In France... But Her
Kid Was There. So, We Put A Black Bar Over His Face. And Now We Feel
Less Guilty. Enjoy!

DICK VAN DYKE PULLED OUT OF FLAMING VEHICLE

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

87-Year-Old Actor Dick Van Dyke Narrowly Averted Disaster Moments Ago
On An L.A. Freeway-- When His Jaguar Burst Into Flames-- But
Thankfully, He Was Pulled To Safety In The Nick Of Time. The Hero Who
Rescued Him Is A Guy Named Jason Pennington, Who Tells DNM, He Was
Driving Along The 101 When He Saw A Car Full Of Smoke On The Side Of
The Road... And An Elderly Man Hunched Over At The Wheel. Pennington
Tells Us, He Pulled Up And Ran Over To Discover Dick Van Dyke
Struggling Inside. Pennington Says He Opened The Driver Door And
Pulled The Actor Out Of The Vehicle As Flames Tore Through The Engine.
We're Told Dick Was Slightly Disorientated By The Experience But Did
Not Need Medical Attention. His Wife Came To Pick Him Up Shortly After
And Brought Him Home. As For The Car... It's Toast•

50 CENT LAWSUIT••• I LOST 'CAUSE I'M BLACK'

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

50 Cent Says He Got SCREWED In Court Recently Because The Judge Was A
Rap-Hating RACIST... And Now He Wants The Allegedly Bias Ruling
Overturned... This According To Court Docs. Earlier This Year 50 And
Company Called Sleek Audio Were Embroiled In A Bitter Lawsuit. 50
Claimed Sleek Owed Him Over $261,000. Sleek Said Otherwise. The Case
Went To Arbitration-- A Binding Process In Which An Arbitrator Picks
The Winner. Bad News For 50, The Arbitrator Sided With Sleek (The
Final $$$ Judgement Was Kept Under Wraps). But 50 Refuses To Go Gently
Into That Good Night... And Is Taking The Battle To Federal Court--
Claiming The Arbitration Judge Discriminated Against Him Because He's
Black, Associates With Controversial African-American Figures And
Because He's A High Profile Rap Artist. Specially... 50 Says The Bias
Ran So Deep The Judge Didn't Allow Him To Cross Examine Witnesses And
Refused To Look At Evidence Pertaining To ThE Case. Pretty Bold
Claims. He Wants The Award Axed ASAP And Is Asking For A New
Hearing... Where He Says He'll Prove The Judge Was Out To Get Him From
The Get Go. Sleek Fired Back Too... Claiming 50's Allegations Of
Racism Are A Desperate Attempt To Avoid The Arbitration Decision And
Get It Brought Before An Actual Court•

RAZ B OFF LIFE SUPPORT SMILING AND RESPONSIVE

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R&B Singer Raz B Is Out Of His Coma And In Stable Condition, DNM Has
Learned. Sources Close To Raz Tell DNM... The Former B2K Member Came
Out Of His Life-Threatening Coma Sunday At A Hospital In China. We're
Told He Is Stable, Breathing On His Own, Smiling And Responsive... But
Has Not Yet Been Released From The Hospital. He's Staying A Few More
Days To Be Monitored. DNM Broke The Story... Raz Was Smashed In The
Face With A Bottle Thursday While Performing At A Club In China. He
Was Rushed To The Hospital Where He Underwent Minor Surgery. But The
Next Day, When Raz Didn't Wake Up His Back-Up Dancer Rushed Him To The
Hospital Again. It Was Determined He Was In A Coma And Placed On Life
Support. A Rep For Raz B Tells DNM... Doctors Say It's A Miracle That
He Survived•

A NEW MORNING MEANS A NEW BEGINNING

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"A New Morning Means A New Beginning, A New Struggle, A New Endeavor,
But With The Lord By Our Side We Can Overcome Any Challenges And Turn
Obstacles Into Stepping Stones."

If We Are Going To Get The Places In Life That We Desire To Be, We
Have To Be Willing To Start. Sometimes Just Seeing Past The Starting
Line Is The Biggest Obstacles For Any Person. Many Of Us Think That If
We Just Wait A While, We Will Be In A Better Position Than We Were In
Before, Not Realizing That We Can't Start At The Pinnacle Of Success,
We Have To Start At The Bottom, Regardless Of What We Think We Know.

We Must Also Remember That If We Choose To Go Alone, Instead Of Trying
To Pull The Weight Of Too Many Others We Won't Have To Wait So Long In
Waiting For Others To Get Ready And Catch Up To The Same Place We Are.
Ideas Are Perishable, And If We Refuse To Do Something About Them
Eventually They Will Deteriorate•

CHRIS BROWN ORDERED TO 1,000 MORE HOURS OF COMMUNITY SERVICE

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

An LA Judge Has Ordered Chris Brown To 1,000 More Hours Of Community
Service Months After He Was Accused Of Faking The Community Service
Hours He Was Ordered To Perform As Part Of His Probation For
Assaulting Rihanna In 2009.

Chris Brown Will Now Redo His Community Service To Make Up For The
Hours That Could Not Be Fully Verified Based On Logs Submitted
Previously. This Time Chris Will Perform His Community Service In LA
And Not His Home State In Virginia. The Judge Ordered That Chris's
Service Must Be Supervised By L.A. County Officials.

TONI BRAXTON-- WARDROBE MALFUNCTION ON STAGE

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Toni Braxton's Dress Did The World A Favour And Slid Right Off While
She Was Performing-- Exposing Her Voluptuous Ass-- And DNM Has The
Glorious Moment. It Went Down During Toni's Concert This Week In New
Brunswick, NJ. In The Middle Of A Song, Toni's Ensemble-- Which
Resemble A Loin Cloth Dipped In Glitter- Just Plum Fell Off. Best
Part... Toni Just Kept Singing, Until A Guy On Stage Handed Her His
Suit Jacket To Cover Up The Goods. Take A Peek. It's Definitely Worth
It•

WHEN NOT TO DATE

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Just As There Are Perfect Times In One's Life To Meet Someone New,
There Are Also Times When It Is Better To Take A Break From Dating.
Wondering When Not To Date? Read On To See If Your Circumstances Fit
Any Of These Criteria. If One Or More Fit Your Current Situation, Its
Time To Rethink Your Dating Strategy And Possibly Take A Dating Break•

#1• IF A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP ENDED IN THE PAST SIX MONTHS:

Even If You Didn't Marry Your Former Partner, Long Term Relationships
Still Take Their Toll When They End. Dating Someone On The Rebound
Right After Another Relationship Is Not Only A Mistake But It Can Lead
To Disaster, Because Most People Are More Vulnerable And Needy Than
Normal In The Aftermath Of A Breakup. Instead, Working Through The
Stages Of Dating Prep Completely Before Thinking About Dating Again,
Which Should Take Approximately Six Months Of Hard Work For Most
People•

#2• IF YOU ARE WITHOUT A JOB, HOUSE, OR BOTH:

Sure, Things Happen. People Lose Their Jobs, Move, Quit, And Relocate
All The Time. Still, If You Don't Have A Place To Call Home Or A
Steady Source Of Income, Its Time To Take A Dating Break. Focus On
Your Immediate Shelter And Income Needs For Now, And Soon Enough
You'll Have The Energy, Space And Money To Invest In Someone New•

#3• IF THERE ARE UNRESOLVED ADDICTION OR MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES PRESENT:

Unresolved Is The Key Term For This Specific Dating Break Notation. If
You Are In Therapy And Have Their Consent, In Recovery, Or Have Beaten
The Odds And No Longer Suffer On A Day-To-Day Basis From A Mental
Health Or Addiction Disorder, There Is No Reason To Stop Dating.
However, If You Are Suicidal, Haven't Been Taking Medications
Prescribed By Your Doctor, Or Aren't Actively Working Towards
Recovery, Its Time To Start•

#4• IF YOU ARE SEPERATED BUT NOT DIVORCED YET:

Seperation Is A Challenge No Matter What The Individual Circumstances.
Trying To Date Someone New While Managing A Legal Breakup With Someone
Else Positively Is Almost Impossible. Give Yourself At Least A Month
For Every Year The Two Of You Were Together And/Or Married To Work
Through The Myriad Of Emotions You Are Facing Before Even Thinking
About Dating Again•

WHY MEN FALL ASLEEP AFTER SEX

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Scientists Discovered The Ultimate Excuse For Men Not Engaging In
"Pillow Talk" After Sex- Their Brain Automatically Makes Them Fall
Asleep•

French Researchers Scanned Men's Brains During And After Sex And Found
That The Cerebral Cortex, Which Is Responsible For Conscious Thought,
Switches Off During Orgasm•

After Sex, Hormones Including Oxytocin And Serotonin Kick In To
Deactivate Sexual Desire, And Also Make Men Sleepy, The UK's Daily
Mail Reported•

Neuroscientist Serge Stoleru, Who Leads A Group At The French Medical
Research Council Inserm, Said That These Experiments Give The First
Hints About What Is Happening In The Brain During Orgasm•

"After Men Have An Orgasm They Usually Experience A Refractory Period
When They Cannot Be Aroused," He Said•

"For Women It Seems To Be Different. They Don't Seem To Have Such A
Strong Refractory Period And May Be Asking For More When Their
Partners Just Want A Rest."

The Study, Which Was Published In The Journal Neuroscience And
Biobehavioral Reviews, Also Found Men's Brains Release A Chemical
Called Prolactin, Which Creates A Feeling Of Sexual Satisfaction.
According To The Daily Mail, Studies Have Shown Men Who Are Deficient
In Prolactin Feel Less Tired Following Sex•

A University Of Michigan Study Found People Who Are Still Awake After
Their Partner Falls Asleep Post-Sex Often Feel Insecure And Crave
Affection•

They Surveyed 456 Heterosexual People About Their Sleep Patterns With
Their Partner And Found Cuddling And Talking After Sex Helps Boost
Communication Between Couples•

PETER OKOYE ON DADDY DUTY, SPENDS TIME WITH HIS KIDS

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Peter Shared The Photo On His Instagram Page. P-Square Is About To
Embark On A US/Canada Tour So He's Spending All The Time He Can With
His Kids Before He Leaves•

KOURTNEY KARDASHIAN••• MALE MODEL SAYS DNA TEST IS BS

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Kourtney Kardashian's DNA Test Doesn't Prove Jack... So Says The Male
Model Who Insists He's The REAL Father Of Her 3year Old Son Mason, Not
Scott Disick. Micheal Girgenti Tells DNM, He Saw The DNA Test Results
Posted On Thursday, Which Kourtney Got From An Indepence Lab, Showing
That Scott Is Mason's Dad-- But Girgenti Insists Those Results Could
Easily Have Been Forged. As A Result, Girgenti Is Refusing To Back Off
His Paternity Lawsuit, In Which He Claims He Knocked Up Kourtney In
2009 After Meeting Her At A Photo Shoot... And Mason Is The Result.
Girgenti Tells Us He Won't Be Satisfied Until Court-Monitored DNA Test
Is Conducted. As We Reported, Girgenti Is Suing Kourtney For Joint
Custody Of Mason. A Court Hearing Has Been Set For Next Month•

DEBBIE ROWE CRIES ABOUT PARIS JACKSON••• SHE'S A SHELL OF A PERSON

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Paris Jackson Lost Her Soul When Her Father Died... So Said Micheal
Jackson's Ex-Wife Debbie Rowe On The Stand Yesterday, Breaking Down
Into Tears. Debbie Was Testifying For AEG In The Wrongful Death
Lawsuit Thursday, When The Subject Turned To MJ's 15-Year-Old Daughter
And Her Recent Suicide Attempt. Debbie Said She Had Been In Touch With
Paris Every Day Until June 5, When Paramedics Were Called To The
Jackson Mansion In Calabasas After Paris Downed A Bunch Of Motrin And
Cut Herself With A Butcher's Knife. Debbie SAID Paris Has Been
"Devastated" By Her Father's Death And That's What Caused The Suicide
Attempt. Debbie Added, "She Tried To Kill Herself... She Has No Life.
She Doesn't Feel She Has A Life Anymore."Paris Is Currently At An
Undisclosed Residential Treatment Center Outside California•

RAZ B BOTTLE TO THE FACE SINGER HOSPITALIZED AFTER NIGHTCLUB ATTACK

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Raz-B-- The Former B2K Singer-- Was Hospitalized In China Yesterday
After Someone Smashed Him In The Mouth With A Glass Bottle... Turning
His Face Into A Bloody Mess. The 28-Year-Old R&B Star Was Performing
At A Nightclub In Zhejiang (Birthplace Of Qian Xuesen-- The "Father Of
Chinese Rocketry"...Yay Science!). Raz's Rep Tells DNM... During The
Performance, He Noticed A Fistfight In The Crowd And Went To Break It
Up-- When Someone Swung A Bottle Right Into His Moneymaker, Causing
Several CUTS... Including A Deep Gash On His Lip. We're Told The
Chinese Police Immediately Stepped In... Grabbing The Attacker And
Raz-- And Dragging Them Both To Jail. Cops Quickly Released Raz After
Determining He Did Nothing Wrong. Raz's Rep Says The Cops Made The
Bottle Thrower Fork Over Roughly $5,000 To Pay For Raz's Medical
Expenses. After The Drama At The Police Station, Raz Was Finally Taken
To A Hospital, Where He Underwent A 1-Hour Surgical Procedure To
Repair The "Hole" In His Lip. The Would Also Require 4 Stiches. Raz
Issued A Statement Saying, "F**K This S**t Hurts. I Have A F**king
Hole In My Lip. Thank God I Made It To The Hospital." Raz-- Who's Been
In China For The Past 3 Years Says He Doesn't Plan On Pursuing Legal
Action. He Also Says He Plans To Move Back To The U.S Before The End
Of The Year To Focus On A "BIG COMEBACK."

LET US WORK TOGETHER FOR UNITY AND LOVE

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"I Offer You Peace. I Offer You Love. I Offer You Friendship. I See
Your Beauty. I Hear Your Need. I Feel Your Feelings. My Wisdom Flows
From The Highest Source. I Salute That Source In You. Let Us Work
Together For Unity And LOVE•"

If We Are To Ever Feel Right About Ourselves, If We Are Ever To Feel
At Peace, We Have To Be Willing To Cultivate Peace And Harmony With
Everyone We Possibly Can•

This Means That We Should Not Only Be Willing To Associate With Those
That Society Would Deem As Our Superiors, And Those Who Society Would
Deem Our Peers, But We Should Also Make A Concerted Effort To
Associate With Those Who Society Would Deem As Below Us•

Not Only Should We Associate With People Of Our Own Race, People Of
Our Own Ethnic Backgrounds, People Of Our Own Gender, People Of Our
Own Religion, Or People Of Our Same Socioeconomic Background, But We
Should Also Associate With People We May Not Even Feel Comfortable
Talking To At First. This Is Observing Good Faith And Justice Toward
All Nations; This Is Living In Peace And Harmony•

KOURTNEY KARDASHIAN DNA PROOF SCOTT IS MY BABY DADDY

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Kourtney Kardashian Is Putting The Rumours To Rest That She Conceived
3-Year-Old Mason After Cheating With A Male Model, Releasing DNA Test
Results Thursday That Show Scott Disick Is Really The Father. DNM
Broke The Story... A Male Model Named Micheal Girgenti Is Suing Kourt
For Paternity Over Mason, Saying He Had Sex With Her In '09 And 9
Months Later She Popped Out A Kid. KK Immediately Denied The
Allegations As A Grab For Fame-- But Now She's Got Hard Proof... A Lab
Doc That Says The Probability That Scott Is The Dad Is 99.99%...
Meaning The Male Model Is 99.99% Full Of It•

TERRENCE HOWARD PAY UP!! ACCUSED OF STIFFING EX-LANDLORD

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Terrence Howard Ain't Got To Go Home, But He's Gotta Get The Hell Out
Of A NYC Apartment-- 'Cause The Landlord Has Evicted Him, And Is Now
Suing The Actor For Back Rent... DNM Has Learned. According To The
Docs, Filed In Manhattan, Howard's Lease On The West Broadway
Apartment Ended Back In November, 2012-- But He Kept Living There
Until At Least May Of This Year... When He Was Formally Evicted. The
Landlord Is Now Suing Howard For An Unspecified Amount Of Unpaid
Rent... As Well As Legal Fees. We Called His Rep, But No Word Back
Yet•

KIM KARDASHIAN THE BIG REVEAL FIRST PICS SINCE BIRTH

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Kim Kardashian Finally Showed Her Face In Public After Birthing Baby
North West-- Surfacing At An L.A. Medical Facility Wednesday-- And
Giving Us A Glimpse At Her Post Pregnancy Bod... Sorta. These Are The
FIRST Photos Of Kim And Kanye West With Their Daughter Since KK Popped
Back In June, And Everyone Looks Happy And Healthy. Hell, Even Yeezy
Was Smiling As They Walked Into The Doc's Office... With A
Nanny-Assist, Naturally. No Shot Of North's Face Though... She Was
Fully Covered In A Car Seat. Mama K Was All Top Secret Too--
Concealing Her Figure Under A Baggy Button-Down With Another Shirt
Tied Around Her Waist And Famous Cheeks... For Extra Coverage. Hey,
kim Knows Her Body Is A Cash Cow-- And She Ain't Giving Away The Milk
Free•

DIDDY MOCKS KENDRICK LAMAR-- YOU'RE JOKE!!!

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The Backlash Against Kendrick Lamar Is In FULL SWING... With Diddy
Putting The Rapper On Blast On Instagram... And He's Even Dragging
Jay-Z Into The Attack. Lamar Has Been Under Fire For The Past 24 hours
For The Lyrics He Spits Out Against Other Rappers On Big Sean's New
Track, "Control"... In Which KL Refers To Himself As The "King Of New
York." Naturally, Diddy Took Issue With The Lyric... Considering,
Well, You Know... He's The King Of A New York. So Diddy Fired Back
With An Image On Instagram, Showing Himself And Jay-Z, Another New
York Boss, Laughing... Along With A Caption That Mocks Kendrick's
Lyrics. Diddy Ain't The First To Fire Back At Kendrick--67-Year-Old
NBA Legend Phil Jackson Dropped Some Knowledge Kendrick's Way
Yesterday... After KL Shouted His Name In The Same Song•

DEAL BREAKERS THAT WILL HELP YOU FIND "THE ONE"

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If You're One Of The Millions Of Women Who Are Single, Dating
Regularly, And Yet You've Had Inconsistent Luck In The Match Game, It
May Be Time To Do Some Introspection. I Can't Begin To Tell You How
Often I Hear Complaints About Scarcity Of Quality Guys. I Hear It In
The Dating Echo Chamber With Alarming Regularity: "Men Don't Want To
Commit!"
Okay, Let Me Clear That Last Bit Up. The Idea That Guys Won't Commit
Or Don't Want To Commit Is An Unabashed Fallacy. I've Said This
Before, It's Not ThAT The Guy Won't Commit- He Just Won't Commit To
You. The Right Guy For You Will Find You. That's A Guarantee•
Now, About This So-Called "Quality Guys" Drought... Complete Bunk.
Seriously, Most Of The Guys I Know Who Are Looking For Serious
Relationships Bristle At That Statement. Because They Know A Certain
General Truth That Women Don't Seem To Appreciate: That The Quality
Guys Are There But You're Either Ignoring Them Or Not Giving Them The
Opportunity To Show You How Great They Are.
The Bigger Issue: Wgy Does This Chasm Exist? There Are Obviously
Variables Aplenty That Cause These Missed Connections. But I Would
Submit That The Idea Of "Deal Breakers" Is A Major Culprit•
We All Have Relationship Deal Breakers. That Handful Of Key Traits
That Any Potential Partner Must Possess In Order To Stay In The Game.
Quite Frankly, We All Should Have Them. However, Our Deal Breakers
Should Be Meaningful. I Like To Have Women Break Their Do-Or-Dies Into
Two Seperate Groups: Shallow Deal Breakers And Substantive Deal
Breakers. We Should Have Both But With The Understanding That The
Major Emphasis Should Be Placed On The Substantive Kind. You'd Think
That That Would Be A Given. I Mean, Of Course, The Substance Should
Take Precedence Over The Shallow•
Unfortunately, What We Know Doesn't Always Inform Our Actions. So, Let
This Be Your Reminder. Keep Your Priorities In Order. Examples Of
Shallow Deal Breakers:
*. Must Be This Tall
*• Must Have This Colour Of Hair
*• Must Have This Type Of Degree
*• Must Make This Six-Figure Salary
*• Must Come From This Kind Of Family
*• Must Look Like George Clooney
•••Those Should Ultimately Be Seen As Great-To-Haves Instead Of Must-Haves•
The Real Stuff, The Substantive Stuff, Is What's Going To Get You
Through The Years. You Want To Find The Quality Guys? Use These As
Your New Deal Breaker Template:
#1• HIS CLOSEST FRIENDS SHOULD BE GREAT PEOPLE:
You Want A Real Guage On What Kind Of Guy You're Getting Involved
With? Observe His Friends. The Type Of People In Your Potential
Partner's Inner Circle Will Say A Lot About His Character•
#2• HE SHOULD BE CALM UNDER PRESSURE:
Long-Term Relationships Are Rife With Emotional Highs And Lows. That
Being The Case, The Person Closest To You Had Better Be Someone Who
You Can Count On To Not Only Be In Control Of His Emotions But To Be A
Steadying And Comforting Influence When Times Aren't Quite As Great•
#3• MUST BE IN PURSUIT OF HIS PASSION-
Maybe He Doesn't Make Six Figures. Heck, Most People Don't. But He Had
Better Be Driven By Something Other Than Money. Far Too Often Women
Get Involved With Guys Because They Have A Juicy Bank Account, Then
They Get Serious With That Guy And Realize That The Man Whose Passion
Is Making Money May Never Have Enough Money. This Then Creates The
Real Possibity That Mr. Moneymaker May Only Have Time To Make Money
And Not Have Time•

#4• MUST APPRECIATE YOUR INDEPENDENCE-

You're Your Own Opinions, Perspectives And Aspirations. Whether You're
Traditional And Expect To Be A Stay-At-Home Mum Or A Lady With Dreams
Of Being President And CEO, Your Guy Had Better Be On Board With You.
Do NOT Commit That Typical Mistake Of Trying To Change Your Guy's Mind
By Trying To Get Him To Understand Your Position. The Right Guy
Requires No Convincing•

#5• YOUR FRIENDS SHOULD LIKE HIM-

This Isn't To Say That Your Judgment Should Be Completely Coloured By
Your Friend's Opinions, BUT If There's A Collective Aversion To Your
Guy By Your Inner Circle, It's Definitely Time To Start Asking
QuestiOns•

HARD WORK BEATS TALENT WHEN TALENT FAILS TO WORK HARD

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To Really Be The Best You Have To Believe That Out Of Millions Of
People In The World That You Can, AnD Will Work The Hardest. Though
There Are Many People Out There, Many Who May Have More Talent Than
You, The Difference Between Being Great, And Being Average Or Below
Average Is Being Willing To Make The Most Out Of Yourself By Being
Willing To Put In The Most Work•

Instead Of Complaining About The Things You Don't Have Currently, Do
What You Can With What You Currently Have Available At This Very Point
In Time•

Remember That Being Successful Isn't A Trait That Anyone Was Born
With; We Were All Born On An Equal Playing Field. Those Who Have
Become More Successful Than You Have Just Been Willing To Fight Harder
Than You. Pick Up The Fight, Work Harder Than You Ever Have, And You
Will Achieve The Impossible!

JUSTIN BIEBER NAKED 'IT'S MY D**K IN A GUITAR!'

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Justin Bieber Is Wise Enough To Know When A Gift Needs Giving'... But
He Didn't Have A Box-- So He Covered His Junk With A Guitar And Jammed
Out A Naked Serenade For One Lucky Lady Fan-- HIS GRANDMA! DNM Has
Obtained Photos Of A Completely Nude Biebs Strumming Away On His
Wooden Instrument... At His Grandmother's Home In Toronto During
Canadian Thanksgiving Back In October 2012. And Why, You Ask, Did
Bieber Go Ass Naked For G-Ma? Our Sources Tell Us JB Had Been Staying
At His Granny's House During The Holiday... And Slept In A Little Too
Late On Thanksgiving Morning. Bieber Finally Woke Up After Hearing
Family And Friends Stiring Around The House-- So He Thought He'd Prank
'em... By Grabbing His Guitar And Playing A Naked Set A La Jenny Fr6
"Forrest Gump" ('Memba That?). We're Told Birthday- Suited Bieber Went
Right Up To His Grandma And Started Belting Out Some Impromptu
Lyrics... Like, "I Loooove You Grandmaaaa... How Are Youuu... Helloooo
Grandma. "We're Told G Thought It Was Pretty Funny-- And Everyone In
The Home Was Cracking Up--But Granny Begged The Pop Star To Get Back
In His Room To Put Some Damn Clothes On, Stat. Canadian Thanksgiving--
They Go Balls Out Up There•

LINDSAY LOHAN LOOKS LIKE... A NORMAL PERSON

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Rehab Does A Body Good... As Evidenced By This Picture Of Lindsay
Lohan Looking Less Like A Blow Fish And More Like A Completely Regular
Human. The Pic Was Snapped Saturday In LA While LiLo Was Out Shopping
With Sister Ali. Photogs Almost Missed The Shot... Mistaking Her For A
Happy Healthy Girl... Then Realized It Was In Fact The Rehabbed
Starlet•

KIM AND KANYE NORTH WEST'S MUG NOT FOR SALE

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Kim Kardashian And Kanye West Are Passing Up Several Million
Smackeroos... Because They've Decided Not To Attach A Price To
Priceless Baby Pics Of North West. The Pics Could Fetch A Cool
$3mil... But We're Told K & K Have Already Rejected Such An Offer. Our
Sources Says Kim And Kanye Toyed With The Idea Of Selling The Pics And
Donating The Money To Charity, But Decided Against It. They've Decided
To Go One Of Two Routes: Either Release The Pics To A Fancy Mag Like
Vanity Fair, Or Pull A Bey/Jay Z And Release A Crude Snap On Social
Media. We're Hoping They Can Still Make Ends Meet•

CHRIS BROWN: I HAD A SEIZURE BECAUSE EVERYONE'S MEAN TO ME

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

Chris Brown's Seizure Friday Was Triggered By A Giant Pain In His
Ass--AkA The Media And Lawyers. DNM Broke The Story... The L.A. City
Fire Dept. Rushed To A Recording Studio Just After 1 AM After Someone
Called 911 And Said CB Suffered A Seizure. When EMT's Arrived CB
Refused Treatment. Chris' Rep Says The Seizure Was Triggered By
"Intense Fatigue And Extreme Emotional Stress, Both Due To The
Continued Onslaught Of Unfounded Legal Matters And The Nonstop
Negativity."The Good News... The Rep Says The Seizure Was
Nonepileptic--It's Called A NES. DNM-- Sometimes We Trigger Seizures•

IS LOVE REALLY ENOUGH? THE KEYS TO A LASTING RELATIONSHIP

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
When I Was Younger, Love Seemed So Simple. That was Clearly Before I
Ever Fell In Love Or Even Experienced A Serious Relationship. After A
While, I Realize That Finding That Special Someone Is Only The
Beginning Of Relationship. A Successful Relationship Requires More
Components Than Simply Saying I Love You. If Love Was Genuinely
Enough, Then Most People Would Be Happily Married Living Out A
Fairy-Tale Dream; But The Reality Is, Love Is The Fundamental Glue
That Keeps A Relationship Together But It Can Be Broken And Tattered
By Irresponsible Decisions, Infidelity Or Lack Of Communication•
So The Mere Thought That Love Is Enough To Keep A Relationship
Together Is Somewhat True But Involves More Than Just Those Small But
Powerful Three Words. There Are Certain Key Elements That Each
Relationship Should Have To Make It Work•
#1• TRUST
A Relationship Without Trust Is Almost Like Sleeping With The Enemy.
If You Don't End Up Driving Yourself Crazy With Insecurities, You'll
End Up Driving Your Significant Other Crazy, Leading Him/Her To Wonder
Why He/She Hasn't Cheated Since You Suspect Him Anyway. Everyone
Deserves Someone They Can Trust. Why Suffer Slowly In A Relationship
Where Trust Doesn't Exist? A Relationship Without Trust Is Doomed For
Failure, Sooner Or Later•
#2• AGREE TO DISAGREE
Couples Will Argue. That's Okay; The Important Thing Is To Disagree
And Not Expect Your Significant Other To Always See Things Your Way.
The Key To A Healthy Relationship Is To Respect Differences. So While
He May Not Ever Understand Why You Don't Like Going To Certain Events
If Your Hair Isn't Done, That's Okay. In Turn He Should Respect The
Fact That You Just Don't Get Why He Would Prefer To Watch Football All
Day Instead Of Sit And Chat It Up With You All Day, Every Day.
Although The Two Of You May Not Agree, You Should Still Respect Each
Other's Differences As Long As They Don't Compromise The Fundamental
Of Your Relationship. And Guess What, It's Okay To Argue...Not
Fight... Now And Then•
#3• KEEP IT FUN AND SPONTANEOUS
When People Get Bored, What Do They Usually Do...Well, Besides Go To
Sleep? Most Times, A Bored Person Will Try To Find Something New And
Fresh To Do. The Same Can Be Applicable In A Relationship. If The
Relationship Is Boring To A Man Or Woman, Although Definitely Not
Acceptable, They May Tend To Go Find Something More Exciting To Keep
Them Entertained. This Form Of Entertaiment Can Be A Frequent Night
Out With The Guys Or Girls Or Worst A Frequent Night Out With A New
Boo. So In Order To Keep You And Your Significant Other From Getting
Bored With The Relationship, It's Not Enough To Rely On The Fact That
The Two Of You Have History. Laugh ToGETHER, Make Jokes, And Try New
Adventurous Things... Inside And Outside Of The Bedroom•
#4• AGREEMENT ON FINANCIAL ISSUES
Whoever Uttered The Words That 'Love Is All We Need To Make A
Relationship Work' Certainly Didn't Go Through Financial Woes With
Their Mate. Sometimes The Lack Of Money, Or Even The Surplus Of It,
Can Cause Disputes Among Couples. The Key Is To Make Sure That You
Agree On How The Two Of You Value Your Financial Future Together And
Make Decisions Accordingly. If His Credit Score Won't Even Grant Him
Approval For A Small Off-Bank Credit Card And He's Still Spending
Recklessly, This Should Be Taken Into Consideration Before Moving
Forward. Financial Issues Can Sometimes Make Or Break A Relationship•
#5• LETS TALK ABOUT SEX
He Loves To Have Sex, Often. You cAN Actually Do Without It Until You
Drop A Few Pounds. Or Even Vice Versa. Whatever The Situation, Sex Is
An Instrumental Part Of A Relationship. Whether The Two Of You Have
Decided To Hold Off Until You Jump The Broom Or You Can't Seem To Keep
Your Hands Off Each Other, You Should Agree Before Hand On Sexual
Expectations And Protection•

#6• AGREEMENT ON THE 'ROLES'

Surprisingly There Are Some Men Who Are Still Stuck In The Nostalgic
Views About The Roles Of Men And Women In Relationships. Some Men May
Think That Women Should Stay Home, Cook Three Meals A Day And Pamper
Them When They Come Home From Making The Money. If This Works For You
And Your Man, That's Fine; But If These Are His Thoughts And Yours
Consist Of You Becoming The Next CEO Of A Company, The Two Of You
Should Have A Discussion About The Roles In Your Relationship. These
Differing Ideals Will Certainly Affect Your Future Together•

LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE LOVING SOMEONE ELSE

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

"You Can Never Be Happy As Someones Other Half Unless You Can Be Happy
As A Whole All On Your Own•"

A Real True Love Is Having The Knowledge That One Must Be Able To Have
A Perfect Love Inside Of Their Self. Love That We Can Only Find In
God, And A Love That We Will Likely Never Find In Other Men•

Knowing Truth Knows When To Love. Sometimes A Person May Not Be Able
To Fully Disclose Who They Really Are. What We Must Understand The
Most Is That People Will Always Be Loved Most By Their Creator, And
Since We Are All Made In His Image, We Must Try To Love Others As God
Has Loved Us•

To Really Understand Someone You Have To Understand That God Made
Them, And That Even Though You Want Them To Act In The Manner That Are
Up To What You Feel Are Your Standards, Not Everyone Has Been Given
Your Standards, And Not Everyone Will Love And Treat Their Lives The
Same As You Do, Just Continue To LOVE As MUCH As You CAN•

KATY PERRY PROMOTIONAL TRUCK HIT BY DRUNK DRIVER

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
The Gold Truck Katy Perry Commissioned To Promote The Release Of Her
New Album--Prism-- Was Just Hit By A Drunk Driver... DNM Has Learned.
The Collision Occured Minutes Ago Near A Truck Stop In Pennsylvania.
We're Told The Driver Of A Semi-Truck Slammed Into Katy's Whip,
Causing Substantial Damage To The Cab. We're Told The Semi Driver Is
In The Process Of Being Arrested For Drunk Driving. Now The Good News.
The Precious Cargo Is Fine... Because Katy Wasn't In The Truck At The
Time Of The Crash. As For The Others Who Were Inside, We're Told
They're Ok. 4:55 PM PT-- Law Enforcement Tells DNM... The Accident
Occured In A Walmart Parking Lot. We're Told The Driver Of Katy's
Truck Was Inside The Walmart When The Collision Happened. Cops Say The
Driver Of The Other Truck Initially Fled The Scene After Striking The
Front Cabin Of Katy's Truck... But Quickly Returned To The Parking Lot
After Realizing It Was The Best Decision•

CHRIS BROWN-- 911 SEIZURE CALL

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The L.A City Fire Dept. Rushed To A Hollywood Recording Studio Early
Friday Morning, After Getting A 911 Call That Chris Brown Had A
Seizure... DNM Has Learned. The Call Came From Record Plant Recording
Studios In Hollywood At 1:09 AM. When EMT's Arrived... We're Told
Chris Refused To Be Transported To The Hospital. We Do Not Know If It
Was Indeed A Seizure, But We've Learned Chris Did Suffer From Seizures
As A Child... Story Developing...

OPRAH WINFREY GETS SWISS APOLOGY AFTER RACIST INCIDENT AT PURSE STORE

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The Entire Country Of Switzerland Is Begging For Oprah Winfrey's
Forgiveness... After A Racist Shop Assitant In Zurich Refused To Show
Her A Handbag Because It Was "Too Expensive" For O. The Incident
Occured Last Month, When Oprah Was In Zurich To Attend Tina Turner's
Wedding... And Walked Into The Upscale Trois Pomme Boutique Where She
Noticed A $40,000 Handbag. When Oprah Asked To See It, The Shop
Assistant Refused-- Insisting It Was Out Of O's Price Range. RACIST!!!
Oprah Described The Exchange To "Entertainment Something" "One More
Time, I Tried. I Said, 'But I Really Do Just Want To See That One,'
And The Shopkeeper Said, 'Oh, I Don't Want To Hurt Your Feelings,' And
I Said, 'Okay, Thank You So Much. You're Probably Right, I Can't
Afford It.' And I Walked Out Of The Store. "Now, Switzerland's
National Tourism Board Has Issued An Apology On Behalf Of The Country
-- Saying, "We Are Very Sorry For What Happened To Her." The Board
Also Begged For Oprah's Forgiveness On Twitter... Saying The Shop
Assistand "Acted Terribly Wrong."FYI-- Oprah Reportedly Made $77
Million Dollars Last Year... So, Suck On That Racist Shop Assistant•

USHER CUSTODY WAR TAMEKA LOSES BUT GETS AN USHER HUG

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After A Bitterly Contentious Hearing And Drama Surrounding The
Near-Death Of Their Son, Usher Showed An Unbelievably Classy Move In
Court Friday-- Hugging His Ex-Wife Tameka After The Judge Dismissed
Her Request For Primary Custody. Pretty Shocking... Especially
Considering The Painfully Awkward Silence That Preceded The Hearing.
Tameka Filed An Emergency Request For Primary Custody After Her And
Usher's 5-Year-Old Son Usher Raymond V Nearly Drowned In A Pool On
Monday. Usher Currently Has Primary Custody OF Their Two Boys. In
Court Friday, Tameka Used The Pool Accident As An Example Of Usher
Being An Inattentive Father, Who Employs Incompetent Caretakers-- In
This Case His Aunt Rena-- To Look After Their Children. Usher's Lawyer
Shot Back, Insisting Usher's A Great Dad And The Children Are Thriving
With Him, Despite The Recent Pool Accident... Which, Usher Argued,
Could Have Happened To Anybody. During Questioning, Tameka Broke Down
In Tears Talking About Her Son's Accident, Saying She Didn't Know If
Her Child Suffered Permanent Brain Or Heart Damage. FYI, Usher Raymond
V Is Still In The Hospital-- Tameka Claimed It's Because Of Lingering
Complications, Including A Low Heart Rate. Usher Said It's Because He
Doesn't Want His Son Discharged Before Doctors Are 100% Sure He's
Okay. In The End, The Judge Sided With Usher, Ruling The Current
Custody Order Should Stay In Place... Meaning Usher Keeps Primary
Custody, And Tameka Gets A Little•

THINGS NOT TO TELL YOUR MUM ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP

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If You Have Close, Communicative, Tell-Each-Other-Everything
Relationship With Your Mum, That's Great (And Rare). But, Like It Or
Not, Your Mum Does Come From A Different Generation. She May Have Been
A Teenager When The Condom Was Just Being Popularized. She May Have
Come From A Generation In Which Women Never Asked The Man Out. She May
Have Been A Virgin Until She Was Married. Even If She Was None Of
These Extremes, There Are Certain Things That Always Worry A Mum When
She Hears Them About Her Daughter. So Don't Tell Her About Any Of
These•••
#1• FIGHTS THAT JUST HAPPENED
You Know You're Always More Upset When A Fight Has Just Happened. This
Applies To All Types Of Relationships. You Might Say Things Like "That
Is It. I Am Leaving Him" When In Reality, You're Over It Within A Day.
Don't Call Up Your Mum Right After Fighting With Your Guy. You Will
Most Likely Blow Things Out Of Proportion Simply Because You Want Some
Sympathy At That Moment, But Your Mum Is Going To Think Your
Relationship Has More Problems Than It Really Does•
#2• CURABLE STD'S
You Try To Be Safe. You Use Condoms 98% Of The Time. And, In A Day And
Age When Many Women Have Multiple Sexual Partners In A Month, You
Deserve A Gold Star! But...uh... You Contracted A Curable STD From One
Of Those 2% Moments. Your Mum Probably Didn't Have Sex Nearly As Much
As You Are, So If You Tell Her About Sex!" When In Reality, You're
Pretty Responsible. Not To Mention There Are Plenty Of STD'S That Can
Be Contracted Even If You Do Use A Condom. Instead Of Trying To Use
The Awkward Save Of "But Mum, I Used A Condom With The Other Three
Guys I Slept With This Month!" - Just Go Get Your Meds, Clear It Up,
And Don't Bring It UP•
#3• FIGHTS THAT HAPPEN CONTINUOUSLY:
If There Is An Issue That You And Your Man Constantly Fight About,
Your Mum Doesn't Need To Hear About It For Two Reasons:
A• It's Annoying In General To Listen To Anyone Complain About The
Same Thing Over And Over Again. AND
B• If You And Your Guy Are Fighting Continuously About The Same Thing,
And Your Mum Knows That, She Is Going To Think You Should End Things!
So It's An Issue You've Decided To Live With, Don't Bring It Up And
Just Live With It•
#4• HIS ACCEPTABLE FLAWS:
HE Is Always Late. He Is Socially Awkward. He Isn't Making Enough
Money. What It May Be, These Flaws Mean Different Things To Different
People. They May Not Make The Slightest Difference In The Way YOU Feel
About Him, And That's All That Matters-The Way Yot Feel About Him. But
To An Outsider, These Flaws May Seem Like Deal Breakers. If They Don't
Really Bother You, Don't Bring Them Up-Especially Not To Mum•
#5• HIS SINGLE LIFE:
Everyone Is A Little Wilder When Single. Almost Everyone. You Don't
Need To Tell Your Mum Crazy Stories Of Your Boyfriend's Life From When
He Was Single. She Doesn't Need To Know What Huge Player He Was. Or Go
To. He Doesn't Do Those Things Now. You Know He Has Changed. But Your
Mum Might Think He Hasn't And Judge Him Unfairly•
#6• WHO PAYS:
Your Mum Might Have Come From A Time When The Man AlwayS
Paid-Non-Negotiable. But Your Guy Might Be Going Through Some Tough
Financial Times. You Know He Will Pull Through, You Know He Is Not
Using You, And You Are Just Happy To Spend Time With Him No Matter Who
Is Footing The Bill. And You Know What? You Might Hold The Opinion
That The Two Of You Should Split Expenses. And That's Fine. It Just
Might Not Be With Your MUM•

#7• ANYTHING AT ALL ABOUT A NEW GUY:

Women Did Not Date As Much 2 To 4 Decades Ago As They Do Today. They
Just Didn't. So, For Many Mums, When They Hear Their Daughter So Much
As Mention The Existence Of A Guy In Her Life, They Think Its
Serious. Even If You Just Had An Amazing Third Date With A Guy, Don't
Rush To Call Your Mum And Gloat About It. The Fact That You Made That
Call To Her Will Lead Her To Call You Every Week To See How It's
Going With That One Guy, When, Little Does She Know, You're Dating
Three Guys. It Might Take You More Time To Find Mr. Right Than It Took
Her To Find Your Dad. She Won't Get That, And Will Try To Make Every
Potential Husband "The One." Spare Yourself And Your Mum The Stress By
Keeping Secrets Like These To Yourself•

KOURTNEY KARDASHIAN PATERNITY LAWSUIT I WANT CUSTODY

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A Male Model Who Claims He Had Unprotected Sex With Kourtney
Kardashian In 2009 Claims 3-Year-Old Mason Is His Son And He's Now
Filed A Paternity Lawsuit Asking For Joint Custody... DNM Has Learned.
Micheal Girgenti Claims In Legal Docs -- Filed Thursday And Obtained
By DNM-- He Met Kourtney During A Photo Shoot In August, 2008 (Above).
Girgenti Says They Connected And Began A Texting Relationship For
3months. Girgenti Says In Legal Doc Things Heated Up By March, 2009,
When Kourtney Allegedly Told Him She And Then BF Scott Disick Were "On
The Outs" And "She Wanted To Hang." Girgenti's Suit Then Describes
And Alleged Sexual Encounter In Glendale, Where He Says They Had
"Unprotected Vaginal Sex." He Adds, "I Ejaculated Inside [Kourtney's]
Vagina." Girgenti Says 9 Months Later Kourtney Gave Birth To Mason. He
Says He Immediately Saw A Striking Resemblance And Tried Contacting
Her, To No Avail, So He Began A Media Blitz To Get Her Attention.
Girgenti's Docs, Filed In L.A. County Superior Court, Request Joint
Custody Of Mason. He Also Wants The Judge To Order DNA Tests For
Kourtney, Scott, Mason And Him. The Judge Set A Hearing For Next
Month. We Also Know Girgenti Received A Letter From Kourtney's Lawyer,
Shawn Holley, Saying His Allegations Are "False And Defamatory." BTW--
One Of His Claims In The Docs Is That Kourtney's Second Child,
Penelope, Doesn't Look At All Like Mason. You Be The Judge•