While Some Guys Are Considered To Be 'TALKERS' Many Guys Tend To Be
Less Talkative Than Women Especially In The Context Of A Love
Relationship. A Man's Way Of Thinking May Puzzle A Woman To The Point
Where It May "Drive Her Crazy".
Due To This Mystery, She May Seek To Work Out The Combination Of His
Silence, Feelings And Actions Based On The Common Reasons That Would
Cause Her To Become Silent Too. One Such Example Is A Case Where She
Is Upset With Him For Some Particular Reason And Gives Him The Silent
Treatment Perhaps To Punish His Wits Out.
What A Woman May Learn Is That Guys Think Differently, And Though
There Are A Number Issues And Situations That Would Cause Anyone To Be
Verbally Non-Communicative, There Are Two Dynamic Reasons That Can
Result In A Guy Being Silent•
Girls May Process Things Through Verbal Communication, Whereas Guys
May Process Things In Silence Within His "Psychological Cave". This
Simply Means That To Work Things Out Mentally And Emotionally, Women
May Prefer To Talk It Out Whereas Men May Prefer To Work It Out Alone.
This Is The Instant That He May Withdraw In Silence To His Quiet Patch
Or Space. These Things That He Wants To Work Out And Fix Can Range
From Planning, Hustling, Thinking, Working Out How He Can Satisfy His
Woman Who May Not Be Happy But At The Same Time Not To Show Weakness.
Silence Doesn't Necessarily Mean Disinterest, Indifference,
Insensitivity Or Being Upset. Remember What You Would Do Out Of Being
Upset May Differ With Your Guy. Guys Love Being The Man, So Let Him Be
The Man Don't Do Anything That Undermines That•
"Women Often Don't Understand How Very Hard It Is For Men To Express
Their Feelings. It's Very Important For A Woman Not To Come To Any
Firm Conclusions About A Man's Motivation For What He Is Saying Until
She Discovers What He Is Feeling.
Men Can Jump Out Of Planes, Fight All Day Doing The Guy Thing, Wrestle
With Crocodiles And Drive At Death Defying Crazy Speeds Without A Hint
Of Fear, But Get Them To Share Their Feelings Of Emotions And Love
That's A Different Matter!!! From The Perspective Of A Man, Sharing
Certain Feelings May Give Him An Unwanted Sense Of Vulnerability That
He May Think Gives The Girl The Upper Hand Psychologically. And
Unfortunately Some Girls Do Take Advantage Of Guys Who Open Themselves
Up Which Will Almost Guarantee He Will Never Do It Again•
With The Knowledge Of How Men Process Information And The Challenge
They Have With Sharing Feelings, Ladies You Can Exercise More Patience
Through This Understanding. Some Basic Ways In Which A Woman Can
Understand What Is Beneath His Silence Is To:
* Ask Him What He Is Thinking And Feeling•
* Give Him Time To Share At His Own Pace•
* Avoid Giving The 'Silent Treatment' To Follow With His Silence•
* Let Him Know How Important His Feelings Are To You•
* Continue To Share Your Feelings To Encourage Him To Do The Same•
A Man Can Make It Easier For A Woman To Understand His Silence By
Letting Her Know A Little Of What Is Happening On In His Heart. His
Blank Silence Can Frustrate Her Need To Communicate With Him. From Her
Perspective, She Feels Close To Him Not Only When She Hears His
Logical Thoughts, But His Feelings As Well. So Really When You Meet
Someone Its Really Important To Get A Better Understanding Them. You
Know You, But It Will Take A While To Know Them And VISE VERSA. So BE
PATIENT•
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