In The Very Beginning, New Relationships Can Be Exciting And Take Us
On A Roller Coaster Ride. For Some, The More Tumultuous The Twists And
Turns, The More Intrigued We Become- Mistaking Dysfunction For A
"Normal" Relationship. While Not All Unhealthy Relationships Involve
Physical Abuse, It's Important To Recognize When A Partnership No
Longer Makes Us Feel Good About Ourselves•
Here Are Some Warning Signs To Look For To Help You Get Out Of A Bad
Situation Before You Find Yourself Dangerously In LOVE•••
1• A BAD TEMPER:
Does Your Mate Have A Short Fuse And Fly Off The Handle At The
Slightest Incident? Many Men Who Lose Their Temper Easily Find
Themselves Getting Physical With People Or Into Altercations With
Complete Strangers, And Will Eventually Aim His Anger Toward You.
Sometimes, Women Mistake This Negative Energy As Passion, And Feel
That It Is A Sign That He Truly Cares, When In Reality He's Just A
Ticking Time BOMB Waiting To Explode. Same Goes To Ladies Who Also Get
To Explode Aggressively On Their Partner Over Little Things•
2• JEALOUS BEHAVIOUR:
Jealousy Is Never Hot, On Anyone. And If Your Man/Woman Feels You Were
A Little "Too Friendly" Towards The Waiter, Things Can Get Very
Uncomfortable Very Quickly. If Your Partner Tries To Isolate You From
Your Friends, Your Family And The Rest Of The Outside World, Chances
Are His Insecurities Will Lead You To Feel Trapped And Resentful.
Constantly Feeling Like You Have To Defend Yourself Or Give In To
Jealous Tantrums Is A Sure Sign That There Is No Trust-And Where There
Is Relationship•
3• HE/SHE TRIES TO CONTROL YOU:
No One Wants To Be Bossed Around, Especially Not By Someone Who Is
Supposed To Be Your Partner In A Relationship. Your Mate Shouldn't
Feel The Need To Tell You What To Do, Who To Speak To, How To Behave,
Where You Can Or Cannot Go Or Who You Can Associate With. If He/She
Must Know Where You Are, Where You're Going And Who You're With At All
Times, He/She Probably Can't Be Trusted Too!
4• PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE:
Probably The Most Obvious Warning Sign Is If Your Partner Is
Physically Abusive Towards You. Love Is Never Supposed To Hurt, And
Raising A Hand To Someone In Anger Is Never Okay. If Your Mate Pushes,
Shoves, Slaps Or Punches You- For Any Reason - Run In The Other
Direction, Call The Police And Report The Abuse And Never Look Back.
Once It Starts, It Won't Stop Unless You Leave- And It'll Never Get
Better, Only Worse. Many Have Lost Their Lives Believing That Their
Man Will CHANGE•
5• VERBAL ABUSE:
Words Sting With The Same Power As A Punch, And Can Wear You Down To
The Point Where You Feel Worthless. If Your Mate Intimidates You,
Threatens You, Insults You Or Embrasses You In Private Or Public, It's
Time To Get Out Of The Relationship To Preserve Your Self Esteem And
Emotional Sanity. Your Mate Is Supposed To Love And Uplift You, Not
Shoot You Down Or Make You Feel Fearful Or Small In His Presence•
6• HE OR SHE ABUSES DRUGS OR ALCOHOL:
Most Physical Or Verbal Outbursts Are Fueled By Drug Or Alcohol Abuse,
So If You're Involved With An Addict Of Any Kind, It May Be Time To
Back Away From The Relationship While They Seek Rehabilitation. Some
People Do Things They Wouldn't Normally Do While Under The Influence,
But That Is No Excuse To Stay If They Can't Control Their Behaviour.
Some Men And Women Feel Guilty If They "Abandon" A Partner Fighting
Drug Or Alcohol Addiction, But Enabling Their Behaviour Will Only Make
It Worse. Leave For Your Own Safety While They Seek Help Elsewhere.
Their Sobriety Is Not Your Responsibility, Especially If Your Well
Being Is At Stake•
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