I Was Following Up On A Similar Question Asked In A Certain Forum, And It Perplexed Me To See 98.9% Of The Ladies In That Forum Saying Its A Man's Duty To Initiate Sex Or Rather Make The First Move When It Comes To Sex.
Seeing Those Response Basically Confirmed The Reason Why Many Marriages Are Experiencing What I Call "Sexual Paralysis" Or A Complete Loss Of Sexual Intimacy Between Couples.
Most Ladies Act Like Their Bodies Is Made Of Wood And Stones, Hence They Can't Be Moved Or Feel Anything Sexually. I Mean, Why Does It Have To Be The Man Who Should Initiate Sex All The Time? For Crying Out Loud, This Is Somebody You Call Your Husband... Somebody You Are Now One Flesh With. So Why Bring In The "Girlfriend Attitude" Into Your Marriage? A Case Where Your Boyfriend Has To Be The One Who Should Make The First Move, Because You Fear That Making The First Move Could Make Him Think You Are Slutty Or Lose.
The Fact That You Are Both Married Should Throw The Question Of Who Should Be The First To Initiate Sex Outside The Door. Because You Both Are Free To Make The First Move When You Feel You Need Each Other Sexually. Just Imagine A Case Of You Dating A Guy, And Everytime You Are The One Who Always Calls... Wouldn't That Make You Feel Less Appreciated Or Wanted? Now Bring That Picture Into This Issue Where It Always Has To Be The Man Initiating Sex All The Time.
As Much As You Want Your Man To Make You Feel Attractive And Wanted, You Should Also Know That Men Also Want To Feel Attractive And Wanted By Their Spouse Too! So Don't Make It A Must Or Priority That It Has To Be The Man Who Makes The Move. A Lot Of Marriages Have Crumbled, And Some Are Experiencing Challenges Due To This. And The Worst Is That Most Women Don't Know What The Problem Is, Because Most Men Wouldn't Address Or Communicate The Issue Verbally, So As To Avoid Unnecessary Fall Out.
And How Do They Communicate This? You'd Notice The Man Would Gradually Start Slowing Down His Approach To Sex, And This Is The Point Where Most Women Start Thinking The Man Is Having An Extra-Marital Affair... Which Often Isn't True. However, The Situation Might Deteriorate To A Point Whereby The Man Might Start Keeping Another Sexual Partner, Not Because He Is That Interested In Having An Affair, But Because Some Other Lady Makes Him Feel Attractive And Wanted Sexually.
This Is Not A Good Reason Any Man To Start Cheating, But The Truth Remains That Such Things Can Trigger Most Men To Start Cheating. Don't Forget That CHEATING Is A Habit That Is Formed By Circumstances, And Circumstances Determines If It Will Continue Or Stop.
For Ladies Who May Not Want To Be Too Direct When It Comes To Making The First Move Sexually, You Can Start By Sometimes Giving Him A Long Look And A Knowing Smile To Get The Message Across...
But At Other Times You Also Need To Be A Bit More Explicit.
Try Whispering: "I Want You" Quietly In His Ear While You're Out With Friends, Sending Him A Cheeky Text Message At Work, Or Letting Your Hands Wander All Over Him While You're Watching TV, To Make Your Intentions Crystal Clear!
If You're Shy About It, A Long, Deep, Lingering Kiss Is The First Step To The Bedroom!
Send Him A Flirty Message When You're Both Out With The Same Group Of Friends. Getting A Hot Text From You While You're Sat Opposite Him In The Pub Will Have Him Jumping Over That Table To Take You Home.
Be Spontaneous, Don't Be Too Rigid Or Conventional, And Quit Being Too Religious When It Comes To Sex With Your Partner.
NOTE That A Marriage That Is Sexually Dysfunctional, A Marriage That Has Lost Its Sexual Attractiveness, A Marriage That Is Sexually Deficient, Is A Marriage Heading For The Rocks.
So As A Lady, Stop Being Too Sexually Rigid. Make Your Man Feel Sexually Wanted And Attractive, And You'd Marvel At The Wonders Such A Move And Gesture Would Do To Your Marriage That Has Lost Its Sexuality.
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