WHEN SHE 'LIKES YOU, BUT ISN'T INTERESTED IN A RELATIONSHIP

Have You Ever Had A Woman Tell You That She Likes You A Lot, But Not In That Way?

Reality Check: When A Woman Behaves In Ways Which Tell A Guy She "Likes" Him... But That She's Just Not Interested In Taking Things Any Further, Something Almost Always Happens. Most Guys Immediately Start Doing Anything They Can To Escape That Dreaded Friend Zone And Convince Her To Take Things To The Next Level With Him.

They Chase Her. They Start Calling And Texting Her All The Time. THEY Become Clingy And Desperate, Believing They Can Persuade A Woman To Feel ATTRACTION For Them. And Obviously, In The Light Of Day, Most Guys Would Agree That All Of This Is A VERY Bad Idea.

So What Should You Do Instead?

1. Stop Worrying About What She Thinks.

Once A Woman Starts To "Like" You, You Can Look At It As Either A Blessing (It's A Start) Or A Curse (Stuck In The Friend Zone Again). That's Why I Recommend That Men Forget All The Wondering And Guessing, And Simplify The Situation. Forget What She Thinks. Focus On How You Feel About Yourself... And Therefore How You Behave Because Of It. YOU See, Every Thought, Idea, And Notion You Have About YOURSELF Affects Your Body Language And Every Word You Say. They Either Signal A Woman That You're Permanent "Just Friends" Material Or Potential "Relationship" Material.

So Go Ahead And Assume That Maybe She'll Just Want To Be Another Friend Of Yours In Your Life- And Then RELAX. Start Having FUN With Her Instead Of Constantly Trying To Plot Your Next Move And Assume Fake Airs, And You'll Be Amazed At How Quickly You Start Moving Up The "Potential Relationship Material" Ladder.

2. CHALLENGE Her Instead Of CHASING Her.

Like I Said Above, It Sounds Pretty Obvious To Most Guys In The Light Of Day- Don't Chase. Yet A Lot Of Guys Are Guilty Of Chasing Women They Like. They'd Get Possessive And Clingy, Act Beggy And Desperate, Run Around At Their Beck And Call Hoping To "Win" Their Approval.

The Best Way To Do It Is To Challenge A Woman Instead Of Chasing Her. Instead Of Begging, Look For Ways To Get To Know Her Better... Similar Ways That You See The World... Then Stop Being Her "Shoulder To Cry On" And Start Challenging Her In Fun Ways In These Areas.

For Example, If You're With A Woman That You Feel Might Be Great For A Relationship, And You Happen To Disagree On Something... Instead Of Getting Defensive Or "Kissing Up" To Her Point Of View, Take Advantage Of The Situation. Playfully Tease Her On Her Viewpoint. Argue Why She's Wrong. Do Some "Play Fighting" On The Issue. THEN Ask Her To Describe In Detail How SHE Feels About It. Ask Her To Show You How And Why She Sees Things Like She Does.

This Is Incredibly Powerful Because It Not Only Shows You're A Confident Man With Your Own Point Of View... It Also Shows That You're Excited To Learn More About Her Viewpoint.

3. Know When To Move On.

Of Course, If All Else Fails And A Woman's Just Not Interested In You In "That Way," It's Your Responsibility To Respect That And Move On. It's The Right Thing To Do For Her... But It's Also The Right Thing To Do For You.

After All, Why Spend Valuable Time Working On Something That Can't Be Fixed? Plus, Another Amazing Woman That You Can Truly Connect With May Just Be Around The Corner.

So- When It Comes To Responding To A Woman Who "Likes You" But Doesn't Seem To Want To Take Things Any Further, The Ball Is In Your Court. Build Up Your Feelings About Yourself... Work To Challenge Her Instead Of Chasing Her... Know When To MOVE ON... AND You'll Be On Your Way To Escaping The Friend Zone For Good.
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WHY DOES LOVE FADE OVER TIME?

Many Love Stories Tell Tales Of The Brilliance Of Love And The Pain Of Its Decline. One Has To Wonder How We Would Have So Many Stories If It Weren't For Heartbreak. The High And Euphoria Of Early Love Make Everything Seem So Promising.

Despite This, People Go Through Many Relationships And Many Break-ups Over And Over Again. It Is Rare To Find Someone Whose First Attempt At Lifelong Love Was Their Final. Why Then Do We Continue To Be So Hopeful Time And Time Again When So Often Love Fades? Also, Why Does Love Fade When It Can Seem So Promising?

☆.When One First Falls In Love There Is A Tremendous High. Some Liken This Euphoria To The High Of Drugs. In Many Ways, These People Are Correct. When We First Fall In Love Our Bodies Release Chemicals Such As PEA (Phenylethylalamine). The Effects Of This Chemical Last Between 6 Months-5years. This Chemical Can Supplant Genuine Affection And Cooperation, But, Once The Body Has Become Accustomed To It, The Relationship Will Die If Strong Bonds Have Not Been Forged. Before This Time Adrenaline And Endorphin Reign. This Is Also Why Some People Flit From Relationship To Relationship. They Are Endorphins Junkies. They Are Constantly Seeking The Next Surge Of Chemicals From The Next Partner.

☆. When We First Fall In Love We Only See Parts Of Our Partners. WE are Not With Them On A Daily Basis. THE Realities Of Changing Cat Boxes And Grumpiness From Life's Every Stressors Have Not Kicked In. The Longer A Couple Is Together The More The Partners Learn About Each Other. In Time The Mundane Realities Of Life And The Frustrating Challenges Will Begin To Show. It Is When You Can See Your Partner And Know What Really Bugs You About Them That You Are Beginning To Know What You Might See In The Future.

A Couple Does Well To Examine The Flaws And Realities And Decide Logically If These Problems Will Be A Pebble In The Shoe. When You Can Accept That Love Does Not Conquer Everything You Are On Your Way To Understanding Your Partner Well Enough To Have An Inkling About What The Future May Bring. If You Analyse Your Relationship And The "Yeah Butts" Are Giving You Serious Pause, You Need To Consider A Pause In The Relationship.

☆. When One Begins To Be Truthful With Themselves In A Relationship They Will Be Able To Make Decisions With A Clear Mind. This Is Important As The Choices Made In A Relationship Can Affect The Couple, The Individuals, Families, And Children. If Things Seem Wrong, They Likely Are. Don't Get Married Just Because The Wedding Was Planned When The Realities Began To Hit. Divorces Are Painful. Mutual, Peaceful Divorces Are Rare. Break-ups Can Also Be Very Destructive, Especially In A Long Standing Relationship Or One With Children Involved.

On The Other Hand, Just Because Love Is Changing Doesn't Mean That The Relationship Is Doomed. The Euphoria Will Fade And When It Does, There May Be A Wonderful Partnership That Has Forged. Don't Take The Loss Of Chemistry As A Sign Of Doomsday. Equally Important, Don't Take The Chemistry Of Sexual Interactions For Love. Above All Of That, Know That You Can Heal And Use Your Past Wisdom To Love Again If You Keep Your Heart Open. Not All Euphoria Ends In Heartbreak.
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THE WRONG REASONS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP

You Meet An Amazing Man And INSTANTLY Fall For Each Other. FOR A While, Things Are Perfect. He's Loving, Affectionate, And You Share Things You've Never Shared With Anyone Else Ever Before. You Start To Believe That He Could Finally Be The One.

But Then Things Start To Shift... And He Becomes Distant And Withdrawn. Instead Of Being Present And Wanting To Talk And Share With You, He's Often Distracted, Irritated And Doesn't Seem As Happy Just To See You And Be With You.

And Then It Happens. Out Of The Blue He Says Something Like, "I Really Care About You, But I'm Just Not Ready For A Serious Relationship Right Now." Of Course You're Devastated And Completely Taken Off-Guard. Were You The Only One Feeling How Great You Were Together?

Was There Something Wrong With Him? Was He Afraid Of Commitment? Or Maybe... Just Maybe You Got In The Relationship And Started Moving Towards A Committed Relationship With This Man For The Wrong Reasons.

Most Women Never Set Out To Find And Fall Into A Relationship For The Wrong Reasons, But It's An Unfortunately Common Process. Here Are Some Of The Wrong Reasons To Get Involved In A Relationship:

1 ► AVOIDING THAT LONELY FEELING:

Another Weekend Rolls Around... But You Have No One Special To Share It With. YOU Get Into Your Bed At Night Alone And Wonder, "I'm A Great Woman. Why Don't I Have A Real Partner To Share My Life With?" You Might Not See It... But On An Unconscious Level, The Struggles Of A BAD RELATIONSHIP May Actually Be More Comfortable And Familiar To You Than The Idea Of Being Alone.

When You Fear Being Alone, You're Much More Likely To Make Bad Choices And End Up Getting Involved With And Staying In Bad Relationships Because It Distracts You From Feeling Lonely.

2► FILLING THE VOID:

If You Believe That A Loving Relationship Will Ease The Emptiness Inside You, The Harsh Reality Is That No Relationship Is Ever Going To Be Able To "Fill You Up." And If You Try, It's Almost Certain That The Man In Your Life Will Start To Sense This And Be Turned Off And Not Want Your Relationship To Work Or Last. Once The Easy Emotional Connection And Satisfaction Of "New Love" Wears Off... You'll Find That You're Not "Filled Up" After All And No Matter What He Does Or Says, Ultimately It Won't Be Good Enough... Or Feel Good Enough For You.

This "VOID" Is The Very Thing That Makes You So Vulnerable To The Wrong Relationships In The First Place- It Will Lead You To Get Involved Not Because A Man Or A Relationship Is Right For You... But Because You Are Driven To Fill The Void.

3► CAVING IN TO SOCIAL PRESSURE:

Are A Bunch Of Your Friends Married, Engaged, Or Falling Deeper Into Lasting, Committed Relationships With Great Guys? If So, Odds Are It's Having A Strong Impact On The Way You're Thinking And Feeling. Seeing The Love And Luck That Other Women Have In Relationships Can Make You Feel An Intense Level Of Pressure To Find The Right Lasting Relationship Now. Ironically, Your Intense Desire To Have A Great Relationship Than You Are In Him And How He Actually Feels When He's With You.

4► YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY OF YOUR MATERIAL AND FINANCIAL NEEDS:

The Craving To Have Someone Take Responsibilities For The Things You Lack, Can Be Very Devastating. Cause The Moment He Doesn't Meet Up In This Areas, Your Actions And Reactions Begins To Send The Wrong Signals To Your Man, And Before You Know It, He Begins To Withdraw. If Going Into A Relationship For You Is To Rely Solely On Your Partner To Have Your Financial And Material Needs Met, Then You Are In For The Wrong Reasons.

WHAT TO DO ABOUT ALL OF THIS

If You Feel Like You End Up Repeating The Same Kind Of Painful Experience Or Situations In Your Relationships, And You Want To Get Off The Wheel... What Should You Do Now? Before You Do Anything, You Likely Need To Stop Letting Yourself Feel Out Of Control- Only You Own And Control Your Life. Once You Take The Control Back, You Can Start Taking Steps To Bring About The Change You Want.

A Great First Step Is To Seek Out Amazing Resources And Information That Will Help You Quickly Grow And Learn.

If You're Ready To Stop Getting In Relationships For All The Wrong Reasons, Take The Time To Help Yourself Let The Woman Inside Shine- The Woman Who A Man Will Quickly Fall For. If You're Ready For A Change, We Can Help.

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WHY IS FINDING TRUE LOVE SO CHALLENGING?

We All Have A Desire To Love And Be Loved. We Experience Different Levels Of Love From Parents, Siblings, Friends, And Others. But Most Of Us Also Want To Find That Special Someone We Can Share A Deeper Level Of Love With. Finding True Love Can Seem Incredibly Difficult, And It's Often Hard To Understand Why. A Big Question To Consider First Is, "What Is My Definition Of True Love?" Understanding What We Mean By "True Love" Can Help Us See What We're Really Seeking And Why Or Why Not It's Working.

The World Tosses Around The Word LOVE Very Loosely. LOVE Is Often Associated With Intense Feelings That, In Truth, Are Self-Centered And Non-Committal. In So Many TV Shows, We See Characters Who Follow Their Hormones And Have Sex Before Marriage. When "LOVE" Is Shallowly Rooted In Pleasant Emotions Or Physical Feelings, It Turns Off As Easily As It Was Turned On. NOW, There's Nothing Wrong With Wanting To Experience Good Emotions Toward The Person We Love; However, If That Is The Foundation Of The Relationship, The Relationship Is In Trouble. If The Kind Of "LOVE" We See Demonstrated In Today's Sex-Saturated Culture Is What We're Looking For, No Wonder It Seems Difficult To Find; It's Not True Love We're After But An Experience That, By Nature, Can't Last For Long.

The Bible Gives A Much Different Picture Of Love. TRUE LOVE Is Of GOD- In Fact, HE Is LOVE (1 John 4:8) And HE's The One Who Put The Need To Love And Be Loved In Us.

Therefore, Understanding HIS Design For Love Is Crucial. True Love, According To The Bible, Is Rooted In Sacrifice, Commitment, And An Impulse To Benefit The Loved One (See John 15:3). GOD's Love For Us Took HIS Only Begotten Son JESUS CHRIST To The Cross. WE Know For Certain That Jesus Was Not Experiencing "HAPPY" Emotions On His Way To The Cross (Luke 22:42-44).

The Bible Describes Our Relationship To Jesus As That Of A Bride And Bridegroom (Matthew 9:15; Ephesians 5:32). True Romantic Love Is Designed To Lead To And Grow Within A Marriage Commitment (Genesis 2:24) And Should Be Rooted In Sacrifice.

Any Number Of Things Could Make Finding True Love, According To GOD's Design, Difficult. Here We Will Focus On A Few Big Obstacles That We Face:

1) Thinking There Is Only One "Right" Person For Us:

This Is A Lie That Can Keep Us Fearful That We're Settling For Less Than The Best. Waiting For One's Perfect "Soul Mate" To Show Up Can Be A Long Wait. Whomever We Choose To Marry Becomes The "Right" One For Us, Because We've Made A Lifetime Commitment To That Person. The Bible Has Narrowed The Field: Our True Love Must Be A Believer Who Is Living For The Lord (2 Corinthians 6:14-15); Beyond That, GOD Will Provide Wisdom And Discernment (James 1:5). Except Of Course You Are A Non Believer Yourself!

2) Thinking That A Person Will Or Can Fulfill Us:

Only God Can Truly Fulfill Us, So We Don't Have To Find Romantic Love To Have A Sense Of Fulfillment! None Of Us Are Perfect, And To Expect Another Imperfect Human Being To Meet Every Need Is Unrealistic, Unhealthy, And Can Only Lead To Disappointment.

3). Not Being Willing To Change Or Grow:

It's Easy To Imagine The Kind Of Person We Would Love To Be In Love With, But How Much Effort Do We Expend In Becoming That Kind Of Person Ourselves? We All Have Our Own Issues That We Must Address With God's Help In Order To Be The Kind Of Person HE Desires Us To Be. It Can Be Tempting To Think That Finding True Love Will Magically Solve Those Issues. But Being In A Close Relationship With Someone Will Not Fix Our Problems; It Is More Likely To Expose Them More. This Can Be A Rewarding Part Of The Relationship, As Iron Sharpens Iron (Proverbs 27:17), If We Are Willing To Change And Grow. If We're Unwilling To Change, The Relationship Will Be Strained And Could Eventually Be Destroyed. This Does Not Mean That Every Personal Issue Must Be Dealt With Before We Get Married.

Rather, We Should Get Into The Practice Of Asking God To Show Us What Things Need To Be Cleaned Out Of Our Lives (Psalm 139:23). As We Become The People God Wants Us To Be, We Will Be Better Suited For Whatever Relationships Are In Store.

4). Thinking It's Too Late To Find True Love:

Finding True Love And Getting Married Is An Important Step And Not To Be Taken Lightly. A Cautious Step Is Better Than A Quick And Reckless One. Three Times, The Song Of Solomon Warns, "Do Not Arouse Or Awaken Love Until It So Desires" (Song Of Solomon 2:7; 3:5; 8:4). GOD's Timing Is Always Best.

We Know That GOD Cares About Our Desire To Find True Love. When We Fully Surrender That Desire To Him, We Release The Burden Of Trying To Make True Love Happen Ourselves (Matthew 11:29-30).

Love Is An Essential Quality Of God, And HE Shows Us In The Bible How Real, True Love Works. Redefining Love Or Trying To Find It Outside Of God's Design Is Asking For Frustration And Disillusionment.

Surrendering Our Desires To God, Submitting To His Will, And Finding Our Fulfillment In HIM Are The Keys To Finding True Love. "Take Delight In The Lord, And He Will Give You The Desires Of Your Heart" (Psalm 37:4).
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