Steer You Toward Great LOVE.
During Your Search For Love And Self Growth, You Have Some Good Days
Where You Feel Like You Are Getting Closer Than Ever And Then, There
Are Those Ugly Days Where You Feel Like You Fell Into A Dark Pit. The
Biggest Lie You Have Been Told Is The Idea Of A Magical Quick Fix, And
When Things Get A Little Tough, You May Panic As If You Are Screwing
Up Terribly In The Process.
When You Have A Setback You May Immediately Feel Like A Victim And
Wonder, "Why Is This Happening To Me?" You Have Been Doing Great Work,
Trying To Improve Yourself, And "Why Is Life Throwing Me This Right
Now? Why Did He Leave? Why Didn't That Relationship Work Out? What Is
Wrong With Me?
First, You Have To Remember That All Set-Backs Are Temporary And A
Valuable Part Of The Consciousness Growth Process. You Don't Move In A
Gradual Uphill Motion, Your Growth Looks More Like A Corkscrew.
Sometimes You Have To Take One Step Back In Order To Propel You Three
Steps Forward.
If You Don't See A Setback As An Opportunity, You Will Stay Stuck And
Feel Sorry For Yourself. Worse, You Will Give Up And Go Back Into Your
Old Life. There Is A Quote That I Heard Recently That Said, "Pain Is
Temporary. If You Quit, However, It Will Last Forever."
Ask The Question With Curiosity Instead Of Fear, "Why Is This
Happening?" And Expect The Answer To Be For Your Growth. Instead Of
Trying To Re-Engineer Regrets Over Past Actions, Welcome The
Opportunity Just As It Is And Learn From It. Everything, I Repeat
Everything That Comes Into Your Life Is To HELP You. Even The Crappy
Stuff.
Why Do We Need Crappy Things To Happen? Because It Is The Only Way We
Can See Where We Are Off Track. Just Like Our Body Shows Us Pain When
We've Strained Our Muscles Or Don't Get Enough Food, Our Minds Reflect
Back To Us The Parts That Are In The Way Of Our Goals.
The Emergency Broadcast System Of Upset Is Highly Active When We Set
An Intention And Start Moving Toward A Goal. The Challenges Are
Telling You, "Hey, You Want LOVE, Well This Is The Way. Deal With This
And We Can Move Forward To Giving You What You Want." Each Time You
LEARN From The Setback And Use That Energy, You Propel Three Times
Faster. You Get More Jet Fuel For Love.
Sadly, Most People Are Taught To Clear Negativity, Remove Blockages
With Magical Cures And Then People Stay Stuck Because They Don't Learn
From It. They Just Numb It Away Like Aspirin On Their Headache. You
Cannot Destroy Or Remove Anything, So If You Judge It As Bad, You Are
Actually Suppressing It Deeper Into Your Shadow And It Will Show Up
Again In Another Problem.
Ideally, You Want To Transform It The First Time So You Aren't
Building Up More Shadow And Drawing Into Your Life An Even Larger
Issue. Yikes. This Energy Will Keep Pressing Forward So You Can Use It
Or It Will Drag You Around Your Life And Ruin Your Relationships.
Then, It Will Seem Like You Are Constantly Healing Yourself And
Nothing Is Changing. Does That Sounds Familiar?
Here Are Five Easy Steps To Do When Something Doesn't Go Your Way Or
You Are Having A Crisis Of Some Kind (Breakup, Bad Business Decision,
Bad Dates, Rejection, Family Issues):
1. Acknowledge That The Crisis Or Situation (No Matter How Severe)
Always Has A Gift And You Drew It Into Your Life On Purpose To Help
You.
2. Write Down Your Long-Term Goal (LOVE, Building Your Business,
Getting Healthy).
3. What Do You Need To Let Go Of So This Situation Can Stop? What Are
You Holding On To That Keeps You Upset About It? (You Can Let Go Of A
Belief, An Idea, A Person, An Action Or Even Something Physical.)
4. How Does The Answer To Number 3 Support You In Reaching Your Goal?
(It May Not Be Obvious At First.)
5. Thank The Upset For The Lesson And Celebrate It.
Fill Yourself Up With Great Gratitude For This Growth Opportunity (GO)
And Welcome More With Open Arms As They Are The Bridge To Reaching
Your Dreams. Dropping The Judgment Around Them Makes Them Easier To
Deal With And Facing Them Directly Is Actually The Fastest Way To
Attract What You Want.
