Ask Two Different People For Dating And Relationship Advice And You're
Likely To Get Two Very Different Sets Of Responses. Everyone Has Their
Own Thoughts And Beliefs When It Comes To Love; And Those Ideas Are
Consciously Or Subconsciously Molded By Parents, Friends, Parents,
Media And Personal Experiences. With All The Philosophies And Theories
On The Dating And Relationship Game Running Rampant, Is It Any Wonder
Why So Many Women Are Confused?
Despite All The Chatter, There Are A Few Nuggets Of Wisdom That Have
Emerged From The Advice World-Wisdom That Stands The Test Of Time.
He's Just Not That Into You, Anyone? Check Out Our Top Seven And Let
Us Know What You Think!
1• YOU NEED TO CREATE SPACE TO INVITE THE NEW AND THE GREAT:
Are You Staying Friends With Your Ex? Or Even Toxic Friends? The
Saying, "When One Door Closes, Another One Opens," Relates To This
Idea Of Creating Space In Your Life For Good Things To Come. When Your
Time Is Occupied By A Bad Relationship Or An Ex-Flame, Chances Are
That Your Space Is Too Occupied For Anything Great To Seep Through. So
It May Be Lonely In The Meantime But If You Create Space, New And
Exciting Things Can Happen•
2• BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO ATTRACT:
You Probably Keep A List. You Know, The List Of 10-100 Qualities Your
Ideal Man/Woman Has To Have In Order To Meet Your Standards. Well, Let
Me Ask You This? How Do You Fare On Those Qualities? A Good Guide To
Understanding What We Want To Improve In Ourselves Involves Examining
Our Own Standards. If You Want To Attract A Great Guy/Girl, You Should
Feel That You Are Also A Great Match For That Mystery Man/Woman•
3• BE YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF:
There's No Use Faking It And Forcing Yourself To Do Things That You
Don't Want To Do In Order To Put Yourself "Out There." Or Even Acting
Like Someone Else To Get The Attention Of Your CRUSH. The Fact Of The
Matter Is That You Need Someone Who Is Compatible With You. Attracting
The "One" Just Plainly Means Investing In Yourself And Your Passions.
Your Journey Will Most Likely Have You Crossing Paths With
Complimentary Partners•
4• DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM/HER TOO FAST:
No Matter What Television Tells You About Falling In Love At First
Sight, Sleeping Together After The First Date And Getting Married, It
Ain't True. And Here's Another Thing, Guys Don't Tell Women Magazine
Editors What's Really On Their Mind. So If Most Men Are Saying They'll
Respect A Girl Who Sleeps With Them After One Week Of Dating, They Are
Lying. Well, Lets Put It Another Way. If You Want A Long-Term
Relationship, Abstain From Having SEX Until You're In A Committed
Relationship. I'll Suggest Waiting 3-6months. If The Guy Likes You
Enough, He'll Wait•
5• FOCUS ON THE GOOD:
The Author Of "Marry Him: The Case For Settling" Got A Lot Of Flack
For The Title Of Her Book, But At Its Core, Her Advice Focused On
Urging Women/Men To See The Good Things In Their Partners. Instead Of
Dismissing Him/Her Because They Didn't Meet All Your Standards,
Consider The Parts Of Him/Her That Are Important To Building A Stable
And Supportive Family. Qualities Like Honesty, Integrity, And Work
Ethic Conquer Things Like His/Her Hairline And Quality Of His/Her
Social Network•
6• IF HE/SHE DOESN'T MAKE THE EFFORT, HE/SHE IS NOT INTO YOU:
We've Seen Many People Challenge By Pointing To How Technology And
Changing Times Have Evolved Etiquette And Gender Roles, But That
Message Touted In The Book, The Sex And The City From Which It
Evolved, And The Movie Has Eased The Minds Of Women Everywhere.
However, If You Just Accept That If A Guy/Girl Doesn't Call, Doesn't
Ask You Out First, Or Make It A Point To Reciprocate Your Caring
Gestures. Why Spend Time Entertaining Someone Like That, When You Can
Keep Your Space Clear For The One Who Is Really Into You Anyways?
7• INNER BEAUTY IS WHAT COUNTS:
Beauty Only Goes So Far. If You Look Around, You'll See Many Women Of
Varying Shapes And Sizes Facing Same Issues. Sure, A "Beautiful" Woman
By Mainstream Standards May Attract More Attention, But That Attention
Can Only Go So Far Into Fostering A Fruitful Relationship. Your Inner
Beauty Is What Determines The Quality Of Your Life So Self-Improvement
And Positivity Go A Long Way In Making Things Happen, Whether It
Involves Relationships, Friendships Or Career•
