Women Usually Have A Sixth Sense When It Comes To Men And
Relationships- An Uncanny Ability To Tell When Something Isn't Quite
Right, Even If She Can't Put Her Finger On It. While Some Women Need A
Full-Out Confession When It Comes To Indiscretions, Others Use Their
InNATE Ability To Discern If A Man May Be Hiding Something From Her.
The Trick Though, Is Being Able To Tell The Difference Between A Gut
Feeling , And Paranoia. When You Are Smitten- Or Insecure- Your Radar
Can Be A Bit Off. So If You're Not Sure If Your Man (Or Woman) Is
Guilty Of Or Hiding Something, Keep Your Eyes And Ears Open For These
Clues•••
1• HE ACTS GUILTY:
If A Person Acts Guilty, He Or She Usually Is. If You Ask Him A Simple
Question Like; "How Was Your Day?" And He Responds In A Defensive Or
Nervous Manner, Chances Are He Feels Guilty About Something And Is
Having A Hard Time Physically Masking It. He May Even Behave In A
Guilty Fashion If You Do Something Nice For Him That Is Unexpected,
Because He May Feel Like It's A Trick Or A Trap While A Person Can SAY
Anything, His Body Language May Give More Clues That He Might Be
Guilty Of Hiding Something. If He Starts Sweating, Fidgeting Or
Suddenly Just Seems Jumpy For No Reason, His Guilty Conscience Is
Projecting Itself, And You'll Be Able To See It•
2• HE GIVES TOO MANY DETAILS:
If You Ask Your Man Where He's Been And He Gives You A Detailed
Account Of His Evening, Down To The Style Of Shoes The Bartender Was
Wearing, It May Seem Like He's Telling The Truth Right? Wrong. Most
People Don't Pay That Close Attention To Minute Details, So If He's
Offering You Up Insignificant, But Elaborate Descriptions- Like The
Colour Of The Bathroom Walls At The Club- Then He May Be Trying Too
Hard To Cover His Behind. If You Ask A Simple Question, But Get A
Detailed Answer When A Simple Yes Or No Will Do, Take Heed. He's
Making Up Stuff As He Goes Along To Make His Story Seem More
Believable When The Truth Should Suffice•
3• HE LIMITS HIS RESPONSES:
Just Like A Person Can Give Too Much Information When Telling A Lie, A
Person Who Is Keeping Something From You Can Give Too LITTLE
Information As Well. If Your Partner Gives You One Word Answers, Or
Limits His Responses In Conversation, It's Usually Because He's Afraid
To Tell On Himself Or Get Caught In A Lie. He Figures The More He
Talks, The Deeper The Grave He'll Dig For Himself, So He Keeps His
Comments Or Answers To A Minimum. If Getting Him To Talk About A
Certain Subject Seems Like Pulling Teeth, It's Probably Because He
Wants To Keep Something Under Wraps, And You In The Dark•
4• HIS STORY KEEPS CHANGING:
If You Suspect That Your Man Has Lied To You- Even Though He Has Given
You A Detailed Story Or Answer To Your Question And He's Sticking To
It - Ask Him The Same Question A Week Or A Month Later And See If His
Account Is The Same. Most People Have To Work Hard At Remembering A
Lie, While The Truth Carries The Same Story Every Single Time. But
This Means That You ALSO Have To Have A Good Memory So That You Can
Pinpoint Inaccuracies Or Discrepancies When His Version Of The Truth
Changes•
5• HE MAKES YOU FEEL GUILTY FOR ASKING A QUESTION:
Asking Your Man Where He's Going Or Who He's Going Out With May Seem
Like Normal, Natural Questions To You. But If He Takes Offense And His
Indignant At What He Perceives To Be "Probing" Questions, It May Be
Because He's Guilty Of Being Somewhere Or With SOmeone He Shouldn't
Be. If He Attacks You For "Checking Up On Him" Or Makes You Feel Bad
About Asking Him About ANYTHING, Chances Are His Conscience Is
Catching Up With Him And Causing Him To Lash Out At You•
6• ANSWERS A QUESTION WITH A QUESTION- IF HE ANSWERS AT ALL:
Most People Who Answer A Question With A Question Are Usually
Stalling, Trying To Think Of A Lie While You're Busying Answering
Their Question. Or He May Be Trying To Deflect The Subject Back Onto
You, Or Shift The Conversation Away From A Touchy Subject. However, If
He Refuses To Answer A Direct Question At All, It's Probably Because
He Can't Think Of A Lie Fast Enough, So He Simply Won't Answer. When A
Person Is Being Forthcoming And Truthful, He Won't Feel The Need To
Refuse To Answer A Question, And The Answer Will Immediate. But If
Your Partner Feels That You Are Not Entitled To An Answer, There
Should Be No Doubt That Something Shady Is Going ON•
7• HE SEEMS MORE SECRETIVE:
He Used To Pee With The Bathroom Door Open, Now He Takes His Phone
With Him To Take A Shower And Closes (And Locks) The Door. The Ringer
On His Phone Is Always On Vibrate, He Turns His Phone Off At Certain
Hours, And When He's On The Phone, He Speaks In A Low Tone Or Hangs Up
When You Enter The Room. Most Couples Want To Share Everything When
They're Happy In Love- Nothing Is Off-Limits. But If One Of Them Is
Hiding Something, They Try To Create Distance. If He Is Suddenly
Overprotective Of His Privacy When He Used To Be An Open Book, That
Usually Means There Is Something He Wants To Keep Hidden From You.
When It Reaches This Point, It Doesn't Matter What That Something
Is-JUST RUN!
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