In The Introduction To Having Sex For The First Time, I've Elaborated
On The Different Things You Need To Keep In Mind Before Having Sex,
And Also About The Things You Need To Do To Make Sure It's A Pain-Free
And Memorable Experience.
When You're Having Sex For The First Time, The Excitement May Be
Overpowering, But At The Same Time, It's Very Easy To Let Anxiety Take
Over You Too.
Even The Smallest Of Worries Can Seem Scarier When It's A First Experience.
For Most Girls, One Of The Most Stressful Worries Of First Time Sex Is
The Pain Associated With It. But Here Are A Few Things That Can Help
You Understand Why It Hurts And How You Can Stop Worrying About It•
#1• LUBRICATION: Make Sure You're Wet And Ready Before The Guy
Penetrates Into You. Toying With Each Other For A While Will
Definitely Have You Ready. And Additionally, Condoms Too Come With
Their Own Coating Of Lubrication To Smoothen Things Out. But If You
Need To, You Can Always Use An Additional Lubricant If It Still Feels
Painful Down There•
#2• DOES IT HURT FOR ALL GIRLS?
Many Girls Don't Feel Any Pain At All The First Time They Have Sexual
Intercourse. Very Few Girls Actually Experience Pain That's
Unbearable•
#3• HOW MUCH DOES IT HURT?
IF You Do Experience Any Pain At All While Having SEX For The First
Time, The Pain May Be Similar To A Pinprick. The Psychological Trauma
Of Imagining How Much It Would Hurt Is Almost Always A Lot Worse Than
The Actual Pain You'd Feel!
#4• WHY DO YOU BLEED?
While Having SEX For The First Time, There May Be Spotting Or Bleeding
Because Of The Tear In Your Hymen.
#5• WHAT IS THE HYMEN?
THE Hymen Is A Thin Membrane *Like Very Thin Skin* That Partially
Closes The Opening TO The Vagina. It'S Not Easy For You To Recognize
It Even If You Use A Mirror Unless You Have A Trained Eye. And You
Need To Remember This, A Hymen Is Not A Sign Of Virginity, Sexual
Intercourse Is.
Your Hymen Could Tear For Several Reason Like Horseback Riding,
Vigorous Exercises, Gymnastics Or Even While Getting Fingered By Your
Boyfriend. So If You Don't Feel The Pain Of Penetration Or If You
Don't Bleed The First Time You Have SEX, Don't Panic Or Assume
Something's Wrong With You. There Are Many Girls Who Don't Bleed The
First Time They Have Sexual Intercourse•
THE SIZE OF HIS MEMBER AND ITS EFFECT ON SEX
The Size Of Your Guy's Member Plays A Big Part In How Pleasurable Or
Painful Having Sex For The First Time Can Feel. If The Guy Penetrates
Into The Girl And It Feels Painful, Then Start By Having Sex Using
Just The Tip Of His Member. Over Time, The Guy Can Penetrate A Little
Deeper And The Sex Would Start To Feel More Comfortable.
While Having Sex For The First Time, It's Always Better If The Guy
Initially Penetrates The Girl With Just His Tip. He Can Always Go
Deeper As She Feels More Comfortable Having Him Inside Her•
A VIRGIN AND A NON-VIRGIN PARTNER
When Two Lovers Have Sex For The First Time, And One Of Them Is More
Sexually Experienced Than The Other, Sex Always Gets More Comfortable
When The Experienced Partner Takes Control And Helps The Partner Who's
Still A Virgin.
And If You're The One Who's Still A Virgin, Be Truthful To Your Lover
And Don't Try To Overdo Yourself By Pretending Like You're Not A
Virgin. Remember, It's Your First Time. SO Take It Slow, Enjoy The
Sensation And Learn From The Experienced Partner•
