HOW YOU KEEP BREAKING YOUR OWN HEART•••

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Sure, There Are A**holes Out There. There Are Some True Con Artists.
They're Amazing Listeners. They Figure You Out. They Stare At You Like
They're Looking Into Your Soul. They Know What You Want To Hear. They
Even Know What To Do And Say To Seem Like They Are For Real. And Then
They Screw You. And Screw You Over. In Some Instances, It's Really Not
Your Fault. But To Tell You The Truth- Most Of The Time It Is. You
Have To Remember That You're The One Choosing The Men You Date. You're
The One Opting To Go On Date Number 2, 3, Etc. And You're The Only One
Who Can Determine What Men Will And Will Not Be Drawn To You.
Honestly, You're The Reason Your Heart Is Being Broken. But You Can
Change That:
1• YOU ARE NOT BEING REAL UPFRONT:
Women Want To Seem Strong. They Are Pretty Much Constantly Told That
They Are Too Needy, Too Emotional, Too Co- Dependent. So, To Fight
That Stereotype, They Put On Their Best "I Don't Care If You Like Me
Or Not. I Don't Care If You Call Back Or Not. I Don't Even Care If
You're Listening" Face. And You Know What? Some Men Are Attracted To
That. They Are Attracted To That Strength-To That Independence. Men
Want To Date That Woman. So They Do. And Then That Woman, (You) Once
She Becomes Comfortable, Lets Her True Colours Show. Yes, You're A
Little Needy Sometimes-Who Isn't? Yes, It Does Hurt Your Feelings If
He Forgets To Call You Back. And Yes, You're Going To Let Him Know.
And Suddenly, You're Not That Bold-Faced, "I Don't Need A MAN" Woman
He Fell For•
2• YOU WON'T BLOCK A PHONE NUMBER:
This May Just Be My Opinion, But I've Seen A Lot Of Women Get Into A
Lot Of Unnecessary Drama By Not Following It. If It's Over-It's Over.
And If It Ended With Some Bad Feelings, You Need To Block His Phone
Number, His Email, And Unfriend Him On Facebook.
Because All It Takes Is That One Little Text Message When You're A
Little Lonely ("I MISS YOU"), And Suddenly, You Forgot Why You Broke
Up. And You Text Back "I Miss You Too." And Within A Week, You're
Yelling At Each Other Again. If You Don't Have The Strength To Ignore
Those Texts And Emails, Then Take Control Of The One Thing You Can
Control-Block HIM•
3• YOUR FRIENDS ARE LOUDER THAN YOUR GUT:
When You Are Feeling Weak (As Often As After A Breakup), And All You
Can Remember Is That You Liked Cuddling And You Liked Having A Date On
Your Arm, Your Friend's Suggestion Of "Maybe You Guys Can Work It
Out..." Gets To You. But You Are The Only One Who Knows That Gut
Feeling You Had That Said This Isn't Right For Me. And If You Get Back
With The Guy, Your Gut Is Going To Speak Up Again. And You're Going To
Have To Break Up All Over Again•
4• YOU'RE STILL GROWING:
Maybe You Just Moved To A New Town, Or You Are In Between Jobs So You
Don't Have Much Of A Social Life Or A New Career Is Taking Up Your
Time. But If You Don't Have Your Own Thing Going On, You're Going To
Depend On Your Guy Too Much. You May Not Notice It Because, If You're
Out Of Work And Out Of Friends, Those 8 Hours When He Is At Work Feel
Like An Eternity To You. But They Fly By For Him, So When You Text
Saying "I Haven't Heard From You In Forever" That "Forever" Sounds A
Bit Drastic To Him. And Then He Feels That You're Too Clingy And He
Drops You, At A Point When You Are Feeling More Lonely And Lost Than
Ever. A Boyfriend Is Just A Quick And Unsustainable Fix For A Life
That Still Needs To Be Built Up. It's A Tempting Fix-But Resist It
Until You're Stronger•
5• YOU DAY DREAM TOO MUCH:
You Have A Date With A Guy And You Spend All Day Thinking About It.
When You're At The Gym, You're Imaging How He Is Going To Notice Your
Toned Arms That Night. When You're Making A Mental Note To Re-Tell Him
The Funny Story Your Friend Told You. The Date Has Happened In Your
Head Long Before It Happens, And Then The Actual Date Falls Far Short.
(Of Course It Does!) And You're Depressed, Thinking Every Man Will
Disappoint You•

6• YOU CHASE THE UNAVAILABLE:

He Tells You He Isn't Ready For A Relationship. Great- You Accept The
Challenge (It Wasn't A Challenge Though). He Tells You He Isn't Into
Monogamy. You Accept Again. He Tells You He Has Never Spoken About His
Feelings With A Partner. You Get To Work On Making His Tears Flow. You
Put In Much More Energy On Him Than You Would Have To With, Oh, A
Giving Man Who Is Ready For A Relationship, So When It Ends, You Feel
More Exhausted And Devastated Than Ever. Just Don't Do It! Walk Away
From A Man As Soon As He Shows Signs That He Can't Give You What You
Want. You Will Save Your Heart A Lot Of Pain In The END•

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