What Do Women Really Want? Specifically, What Do Women Want From A
Mate? We Know, Guys, That It Can Seem Impossible To Guess What Women
Are Looking For, But It's Really Not That Complicated.
Because We Are Human And We All Want Different Things, We Can't Tell
You What Every Woman Wants. But We Have A Pretty Good Clue. Check Out
These Five Things That Women Want.
1• WOMEN WANT YOU TO LISTEN UP:
In General, Women Complain That Men Don't Listen To Them. In Your
Defense, You Listened To Her The First Time As Well As The 21st Time
She Aired Her Concern, But She Continues To Mull It Over And Discuss
Some Possibilities. She Carries On About Her Overbearing And Unfair
Boss, So You Suggest Quitting Her Job•
Guys, Admit It: A Lot Of You Are "Fixers." You Listen To A Problem
For Three Minutes Before You Offer Up A Suggestion. Why? You Want Your
Girlfriend, Wife Or Friend To Be Happy, So You Provide A Solution To
The Problem•
It May Seem Contradictory, But Women Don't Necessarily Want An Answer
Or A Solution. They Actually Want You To Act As Their Sounding Board.
Instead, Listen Patiently And Let Her Work Through It, Offering Advice
When Prompted•
2• WOMEN WANT TO BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY:
The Fact That Women Want To Be Taken Seriously Is Closely Linked To
Point #1. Not Only Do Women Want To Be Listened To, They Want Their
Problems, Thoughts And Feelings To Be Taken Seriously.
Before You Dismiss The Idea, Consider The Fact That Maybe Your Girl
Does Know How To Rewire The Bathroom Or How To Organize Your
Investments. Who Says That Sound Advice Can't Come In A Sweet-Smelling
Package? Defer To Her Opinions And Give Her Ideas A Whirl Sometime.
You Just May Find That Her Second Opinion Is Seriously Prudent.
3• WOMEN WANT TO BE CONSIDERED:
When You're Making Plans Amid The Poker Games, Guys' Nights Out And
Work, Women Want To Be Considered When You're Making Plans. (Wouldn't
You?) Women Don't Necessarily Need To Be THE Priority- They Just Don't
Want To Be An Afterthought. Whether You Are A Workaholic, Gamer,
Sportsman Or Couch Potato, Let Your SweetHeart In On The Action.
Sometimes It's Easy To Let Everything Else Get In The Way, But If You
Make Her Feel Important And Needed, She Will Make You And Your Needs
Just As Significant As You Make Her•
4• WOMEN WANT TO BE ADORED:
Women Love To Feel Adored. Honored As The Most Beautiful Girl In The
Room, She Wants You To Positively Love What She Is All About. So Maybe
There Are Smarter, More Attractive Or More Successful Women Out There,
But To You, She Is The Bee's Knees. Your Esteemed Ladylove Wants To
Feel That You Are Fortunate To Have Her, That You Can't Keep From
Beaming When You See Her Or Even That She Makes Your Life Better For
Being In It. Feeling Your Devotion Will Only Encourage Her To
Reciprocate And Feel Lucky Herself For Garnering Such A Good Man•
5• WOMEN WANT ACKNOWLEDGMENT AND APPRECIATION:
Women Want You To Acknowledge The Things They Do For You. They Want
More Than Just A Pat On The Back: They Want To Be Appreciated For
Their Efforts. No Matter What Her Role In Your Life, Whether It's
Making Plans, Fixing Up The House Or Booking Dream Vacations, She
Wants You To Be HAPPY.
Try To Meet Her Halfway With Proactive Measures Or At Least Offer Some
Sort Of Recognition Or Acknowledgment. A Little Goes A Long Way With
Your Female Counterpart, So Take Notice And Compliment Her On Her
Attention To Detail•
