Something About Womanizers In General. With That In Mind, Here Are My
Best Pieces Of Advice For Single Women From My Series "THE MIND OF A
PLAYER," About Identifying And Interacting With Men Like The Former ME
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1¤ THERE'S A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PLAYERS AND CHEATERS:
There Are Two Types Of Womanizer, Players And Cheaters. One Should Be
Respected And The Other Should Remain Despised. There Is An Old
Saying. "Don't Hate The Player; Hate The Game." There Is A Lot Of
Lighthearted Validity To That Adage.
I Distinguish Players From Cheaters Because Players Have Multiple
Female Sex Partners And They Are Upfront And Honest With Women About
Their Desire To Be Sexually Satisfied By More Than One Woman. This
Type Of Womanizer Does Not Try To Hide, Deny Or Comouflage The Fact
That Monogamy Is Just Not His Thing. Always Appreciate Men Who Are
Honest With Women About Their Promiscuous Desires.
CHEATERS Interact Sexually With Multiple Women Under False Pretenses.
They Present A Facade Of Wanting To Be Involved In A Long-Term,
Monogamous Relationship With One Woman, But Deep-Down They Want
Variety In Their Sex Lives. I Have No Respect For Liars, Manipulative
Game Players, Adulterers And Cheaters. I Simply Do Not Like The Idea
Of Toying With Someone's Emotions.
2¤ MOST MEN ARE ONLY AS FAITHFUL AS THEIR OPTIONS ALLOW:
While I Would Not Say That This Assertion Is 100 Percent Valid, It Is
Valid More Often Than Not. With That, I Have Three Points To Make.
First, If You Are A Woman And You Think A Man Is Handsome, Sexy,
Charming And Worth Dating, There Is A 90 To 99 Percent Chance That
Dozens, If Not Hundreds Of Other Women Feel The Exact Same Way About
Him. Women Will Literally Compete With One Another To Secure This
Man's Companionship.
Second, If A Man Develops A Reputation For Being Very Exciting And
Satisfying In Bed With Women, There Is 90 To 99 Percent Chance That
His "STOCK" Is Going To Rise In The Eyes Of Many Women. No Woman Wants
A "Dud" In Bed. Third, It Is Very Easy For A Man To Be Faithful To One
Woman WheN He Only Has One Woman Offering Him Regular Sexual
Companionship. But When A Man Has Five, Ten, Fifteen Or Twenty-Plus
Women Offering Him Sexual Companionship, It Is Much Harder For A Man
To Remain Motivated To Have Sex With Just One Woman.
3¤ THE SIDE-CHICK RARELY BECOMES THE LONG-TERM GIRLFRIEND:
Once You Allow Yourself To Be Relegated To The Role Of A Man's
"Mistress," "Woman-On-The-Side," "JumpOff" Or "Booty Call," There Is A
99 Percent Change You Will Never Be Upgraded To The Role Of "Wife" Or
"Long-Term Girlfriend." Except You Want To Manipulate Or Use
Diabolical Mean, Which On The Long Run Wouldn't Favour You.
I Just Had This Discussion With A Female Recently. There Are A Number
Of Women Who Naively Think If They Start Out As A Man's "Sexual Play
Toy," Sooner Or Later They Will Earn The Right To Be "Upgraded" To
That Man's Wife, Or Long-Term Romantic Partner. That Is Highly
Doubtful.... Not Impossible, But Extremely Rare.
As A Woman, You Must Familiarize Yourself With What Is Known As The
"Madonna-Whore Complex." I Always Tell Women That Understanding This
Concept First Developed By Legendary Psychologist Dr. Sigmund Freud Is
The Absolutely First Step To Understanding Why Many Men Choose Some
Women As Long-Term Monogamous Sex Partners While Interacting With
Other Women Only As Short-Term Non-Monogamous Sex Partners. Without
Getting Too Lengthy Here, I Will Give You The Very Short-Version: Most
Men Want To Date And Marry Women Who Remind Them Of Their Mothers
(Those With Good Mothers). I Cannot Tell You How Many Men I Know Right
Now Who Are Married Or Involved In A Long-Term Relationship With A
Woman Who Has One Or More Similar Attributes To That Man's Mother.
If You Remind A Man Of His Mother, To One Degree Or Another, That Is
When His Conscious Or Subconscious Mind Places You In The Category Of
"Girlfriend" Or "Wife" Material.
If The Primary Quality That Stands Out About You Is Your Sex Appeal
And Nothing Else, Then Nine Times Out Of Ten, That Man Is Only Going
To Look At You As "Casual Sex" Material. If It Is Truly Your Desire As
A Woman To Be A Man's Future Wife Or Girlfriend, Then The Worst Thing
You Can Do Is Start Off Being That Man's "Mistress" Or
"Woman-On-The-Side" While He Is Currently Involved With Someone Else.
You Automatically Lose Respect In That Man's Eyes. The Chances Of Him
Ever Upgrading You To The Status Of His Number- One Romantic Companion
Are Less Than One Percent.
4¤ YOU CAN'T CHANGE A WOMANIZER:
Do Not Ever Fool Yourself Into Believing That You Can Change A
Womanizer Into A Monogamous "Boyfriend" Or "Husband" Type. You Cannot.
So, From This Point Forward, Stop Telling Your Girlfriends, "I Hate
Men! All Of Them Are Lying Womanizers, Cheaters And Dogs!!" That Is
Not The Truth And You Know It. Just Accept The Fact That If A Man
Possesses A Lot Of Highly Desirable Attributes, His Romantic Sexual
Companionship Is Going To Be In Demand. The Best Thing For You To Do
As A Woman Is To Ask Him What His Long-Term Desires, Interests And
Intentions Are.
REMEMBER; As Long As A Womanizer Is Honest With You About What Type Of
Sexual Relationship He Wants... Don't Hate The PLAYER. Only Hate The
Game-Playing Of Liars And CHEATERS.
JOIN ME NEXT TIME ON MY NEXT ARTICLE On "THE MIND OF A PLAYER" Series.
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