THE DANGERS BEHIND ONLINE SHOW OF LOVE

It Feels So Good When A Guy And A Lady Strike Up A Relationship
Online... No Sooner The Love And Urge To Go Public About It And Show
It To The Whole World Becomes So Intense. Now This Is Where The Story
Changes For Most People Who Go Public About Who And Who They Are In
Love With.

Here Are A Couple Of Dangers I Have Come To Notice About Going Public
Online About The Person You Are Dating...

1¤ UNECCESSARY DRAMA

Yes Its Good To Be Proud Of Whom You Are Dating, But Going All Out To
Mention Names, Tag Photos And Bringing Those Bedroom Talks Online For
The Public To See, Could Eventually Sabotage That Relationship. Keep
Your Intimate Conversations Off Public Eye.

2¤ RESENTMENT

Yes You Love Each And You Think Making An Online Show Of It Would
Make The Love And Bond Stronger. But Have You Ever Thought About The
Fact That Majority Of The People You Are Telling And Who Are Also
Claiming To Be Happy For You Both Are Indeed Not Happy Within! Coupled
With The Fact That There Would Be People Working To Make Sure The
Relationship Never Ends Well. Because They Wish They Had What You
Have. And Watching You Enjoy It Isn't Comfortable With Them

3¤ RUMOURS AND GOSSIPS:

This Is One Factor That Cripples Alot Of Online Relationships. Now
This When Those Who Are Basically Not Happy With Your Relationship
Start Raising Dust, And Saying Negative Things About Your Partner Just
To Severe Your Relationship. Majority Who Do This Are People Who
Desire You For Themselves, And Just Because They No Longer Stand A
Chance With You Because You Are Already Taken And Boldly Declaring It,
They Go About Seeking Cheap Ways To Destroy What You Have. They Often
Come To You As Friends Who Seek Your Good, And Acting Like They Know
The Entire History Of Your Partner, So They Put In Words To Offset
Your Feelings And Raise Suspicions And Doubts Inside You Against Your
Partner.

4¤ WITHDRAWALS:

In This Case, You'd Begin To Notice Some People Whom You Usually
Relate With On Daily Basis Online Start Withdrawing From Having
Conversations With You As Usual.

5¤ INSECURITY:

Insecurity Is One Major Reason Why People Who Go Public Online Do It,
Oftentimes, Its Usually The Idea Of One Party To Do It To Claim
Ownership And Prove A Point. Now The Partner On The Other End Feels
Vulnerable And Insecure, But Can't Help It Because They Don't Want
Their Partner To Feel Bad, Or Start Suspecting Them If They Refuse.

I Really Don't See Going Public Online About Whom You Are Dating As A
Good Idea. I Am Yet To See Majority Who Did Such, Who Then Made A
Success Of It. Its Easier If The Person Is Someone You Are Dealing
Physically With Everyday, Or Probably In The Same City. But If It Is A
LONG DISTANCE Relationship And LOVE Afair, I Don't Advice It. Because
You Could Easily Correct A Wrong Impression When You Can See That
Person Physically, Rather Than Talking And Trying To Correct It Via
Phone Calls, As The Case Of LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS.

THE 'PUPPY LOVE' SYNDROME

PUPPY LOVE. Chances Are, These Words Evoke The Image Of Starry-Eyed
Teenagers High On Romance For The First Time. It Is An Apt Comparison
Since Puppies And Young Lovers Are Notoriously Clingy, Affectionate,
And Slobbery. Both Radiate A Level Of Energy And Exuberance That Gets
Old Pretty Quick.
Thank God Dogs Grow Up And Get Lazier... And Lovers Grow Wiser And
More Self-Controlled.
Well, Some People Do Anyway. The Truth Is, "Puppy Love Syndrome" Is A
Condition That Can Persist Well Into Adulthood. Many People Suffer
Relapse Every Time A New Romance Comes Along. And It Is Frequently
Fatal To Fragile Budding Relationships, Which Suffocate Without A
Chance To Breathe.
How Can You Recognize Telltale Symptoms In Yourself? Here Are Three Common Ones:
TOO MUCH TIME TOGETHER:
You Know You Are At Risk If You Read Those Words And Thought, "Is That
Possible? Isn't Togetherness The Whole Point Of Dating?" Well, Yes-
But Like Most Things You Can Definitely Overdo It. The Trick Is
Knowing Where To Draw The Line. As Einstein Proved, Time Is Pretty
Hard To Fathom. Hours In The Company Of A Lover Seem Like Mere
Seconds. So How Can You Know How Much Time With A New Partner Is Too
Much? Fortunately, There Are Some Warning Signs That Things Are Out Of
Balance. Watch Out If:
¤ Your Other Friends And Family Think You've Been Abducted
¤ Your House Or Apartment Looks Like You've Been Abducted Because You
Haven't Cleaned It In Weeks.
¤ You Can't Remember The Last Time You Went Anywhere Alone.
¤ You Haven't Had A Decent Night's Sleep Recently.
At Any Stage Of A Relationship, So Much Togetherness Can Quickly Lose
Its Appeal And Start To Feel Like A Slipknot Tightening Around Both
Your Necks.

TOO MUCH INFORMATION:

Sharing Personal And Even Secret Details About Yourself With A New
Partner Can Seem Intimate- Or Intimidating. It Can Be A Bond Between
You Or A Premature Burden On The Relationship. The Difference Is In
The Timing (Go Slow) And The Volume Of Information You Share (Less Is
More)

Personal Space Is Defined By More Than Physical Proximity. Equally
Important Are Time, Privacy, And Appropriate Levels Of Intimacy. Avoid
Strangling A New RomanCE By Knowing When To Stay On Your Side Of The
Line.

¤ TOO MUCH TECHNOLOGY- TELEPHONE, TEXT, TWITTER, Etc.

In The "Old Days" There Was A Saying "Absence Makes The Heart Grow
Fonder." It Is Likely That Recent Generations Of Young Lovers Will Not
Have A Clue What That Means. Why? Because Now, Even When We Are
Seperated By Physical Distance, Social Networking Technology Has
Enabled Us To Remain "Together" In Virtual Space- All The Time. We
Never Gaze Longingly Out The Window Anymore Wondering Where Our Lover
Is At The Moment, Or What She Is Doing. Thanks To The 400th "Tweet" Of
The Day, We Know That She Is In Line At The Bank And That She Is In
Line At The Bank And That She Likes The Teller's Hair Color.

Obviously, Comunication Is A Good Thing. But Be Careful. Be Staring.
Don't Risk Turning Your Partner's Phone Into An Electronic CHOKE Chain
And Suffocating The Relationship In The Process