Have You Ever Wanted Something To Work Out So Badly That You Became
Somewhat Delusional, Avoiding The Signs That What You Wanted Wasn't
Really What You Needed? If You Have, Chances Are, You Aren't The Only
One. Many Women Can Agree That When It Comes To Relationships, We're
All Guilty At One Point Of Falling In Love With The Idea Of A Man
Instead Of The Actual Person.
Maya Angelou Said It Best, "When Someone Shows You Who They Are,
Believe Them," And This Is Certainly True In Relationships. If He Says
One Thing But His Actions Prove Another, Believe His Actions Instead•
Still, For A Closet Hopeless Romantic It's Easy To Ignore The Signs
That Show You And This Individual Won't Click Well In The Future.
These Signs Don't Necessarily Mean He's Not A Good Guy, Just Not The
Guy For You. In An Attempt To Find Love, Here Are Some Of The Most
Obvious, Yet Ignored Signs, That Say He's Not The Man For YOU•
1• YOUR RELATIONSHIP BYPASSED THE HONEYMOON PHASE:
Most Relationships Have A Honeymoon Phase Where The Couple Wants To
Spend An Excessive Amount Of Time Around Each Other. They're Intrigued
By The Newness Of The Relationship And Want To Experience More Of The
Other Person Every Chance They Get. If Your Relationship Somehow
Missed This Honeymoon Phase, There May Be A Lack Of Chemistry On His
Part, Yours, Or Both. Sometimes We Confuse Chemistry With Comfort. If
He Seems Like A Good Catch, But Doesn't Give You Those Butterflies In
The Beginning, They May Never Come•
2• YOUR CONVERSATIONS ARE BRIEF BY CHOICE:
If The Relationship Consists Of Brief 'Check-Ins,' Then You Can't Get
Mad At The Guy For Trying To At Least Please You; But Who Doesn't Want
To Engage In Frequent Conversation With Their Significant Other? Or If
You Are Together, But Seem To Never Delve Into Any Deep Conversation,
Then Maybe You The Two Of You Have Nothing In Common To Talk About. If
This Is The Case, This Might Be An Obvious Sign Of A Dead-End
Relationship•
3• You Have A 'TELEPHONE LOVE'
Unless One Of You Has A Schedule Comparable To President Obama Or Live
Thousands Of Miles Apart, You Should See Each Other Consistently
(Especially When You Live Close To One Another). Its True That People
Make Time For What Or Whom They Want To Make Time For. If He Seems To
Choose Every Activity Over You, Then This Is An Obvious Sign That He's
Not The Man For You•
4• HE FORGETS IMPORTANT DATES AND INFORMATION:
Your Birthday, He Forgot The Day. You're Scheduled For A Big Promotion
At Work; He Forgot You Ever Mentioned It. You're Going Out Of The
Country For An All-Girl's Vacation, But Somehow It Slipped His Mind.
While He Doesn't Have To Include Your Schedule In His iPhone Or
Calendar Of Events, He Should Atleast Know The Important Occasions
That You've Blatantly Mentioned A Thousand Times•
5• YOU HAVEN'T TALKED ABOUT THE FUTURE AS A COUPLE:
You've Been Together For Months. And While You Often Talk About Where
The Two Of You Want To Be In The Next Few Years, You Never Mention
Each Other In Your Future Plans. Okay, So Maybe The Two Of You Don't
Want To Jump The Gun Too Fast; But If There Haven't Been Any Casual
Mentions That You May Be Together Past 2013, You Have To Wonder If He
(Or You) Are Thinking Of Each Other As Long-Term•
6• HE'S MIA WHEN YOU REALLY NEED HIM:
You've Received Exciting News, But Can't Reach Him. You've Had A Rough
Day And He's Nowhere To Be Found. Unless You Want To Be In A
Relationship Simply To Say You Are In One, What's The Point Of Being
With SomeOne Who Isn't Around For The Happiest And Saddest Moments Of
Your Life? The Point Of A Relationship Is To Have Someone Available
When You Need Them The MOST•
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