Reading Women Can Be Really Tricky. While She May Have Made You Believe She's Really Into You, She Might As Well Just Be Using You For Her Own Benefits. One Day Or The Other, She's Going To Show Her True Colours And It's Going To Hurt Real Bad. You're Better Off Without Selfish People In Your Life.
It Is Not Only Ladies That Use Guys, Guys Are Also Involved In Such Act, Just Like I Discussed In My Previous Article. If You Are Yet To Read "How To Tell When A Man Is Using You, Then Do So.
Here Are Ways To Tell She Is Using You...
☆ Think About The Time You Spend With This Lady. What Is The Conversation Like? Are You Usually Doing Things That Interest Both Of You Or Is More One-Sided? Look For Some Warning Signs. If The Majority Of Your Time With Her Involves You Hanging Around With Her Friends And Never Spending Time Just The Two Of You, Then She May Be Using You. If Your Conversation Is Empty And Hollow, Then There's A Chance She Doesn't Enjoy Your Company At All And Is In Fact Using You.
☆ Next, Ask Yourself What Could She Be Using You For. Does She Have A Low Self-Esteem? Is She Insecure? In This Case, Ask Her About Her History. If She Has Had Many Relationships That Usually Do Not Last Long, Then There's A Good Chance She's Insecure About Herself. She Feels As If She Needs To Have A Significant Other And Does Not Really Care Who That Person Is As Long As It's Somebody.
☆ Is Money Involved? There Are Many Situations Where People Use Other People For Money. Are You Constantly Buying Things For Her, Do You Always Pay When You Go Out And Do Things With Her? DOES She Respect You, Your Time And Your Money, When You Do Spend Time With Her? If You Find Yourself Constantly Paying For Everything, There Is A Chance She May Be Using You. Same Applies If She Always Keen On You Buying Her Gifts Every Time. She Doesn't Reciprocate. SHE Takes, Takes, Takes, But Never Gives! She Rarely Does Things To Show You She Appreciates You And What You Do For Her.
☆ She Doesn't Want To See You On A Regular Basis. When A Woman Truly Likes You She Wouldn't Be Able To Let Days Go By Without Seeing Or Talking To You. If She Does And You Guys Haven't Had An Argument There Is Often Someone Else In The Picture... Your Just Filling In The Blanks.
☆ She Tells You She Doesn't Want A Relationship. Most Women Want To Be In A Relationship. It Is Rare To Meet A Woman That Doesn't Want To Be In A Relationship Unless She Just Got Out Of One.
☆ She Rarely Returns Your Calls. You Will Hear Excuses Like: "Oh, I Completely Forgot!" I Didn't Get A Missed Call." But She Gets Mad If You Do The Same. Trust Me... If A Woman Is Into You She Won't Forget Or Miss Any Call You Make.
☆ If She Is More Interested In What You Do For A Living She's Probably Trying To Use You For Who You Know. For Example, If You Work In The Music Or Movie Industry She Could Be Using You For Free Concert Tickets Or Meet And Greets.
☆ She Uses You To Make Her Boyfriend Or Her Ex Feel Jealous. She's Surprisingly Flirtatious With You In Front Of Her Friends And Her Ex. While It Makes You Feel Good About Yourself, You Must Know She's Just Using You As A Device For Her Own Personal Gains.
☆ She Takes You Along To Parties Because She Has Nobody To Go With But Starts Ignoring You The Moment She Meets Her Friends There. SHE Never Makes Any Effort To Make You Feel Comfortable Around Her Group Of Friends.
☆ She Never Seems Eager To Hang Out With You Usually, But If She's Getting Bored, You're The Guy She Calls Up.
☆ She Expects You To Listen To Her Problems Patiently, But She Never Pays Attention When You Talk. SHE Gets Distracted Easily, Starts Playing With Her Phone Or Changes The Topic To Something She Wants To Talk About.
☆ Even Though She Expects You To Do Everything A Boyfriend Does For His Girlfriend, She Refuses To Acknowledge The Relationship. SHE Keeps Reminding You That You're 'Just Friends'.
☆ Even Though She Hangs Out With You All The Time And Makes It Look Like She's Interested, She Has Never Introduced You To Any Of Her Friends As Her Boyfriend.
☆ You Are Her Sex Toy: Now, This Might Not Be A Problem For Most Men Out There, But If You Are Genuinely Interested In Having A Real Relationship, Getting Married And Having Kids One Day, Then You Might Want To Find A Woman Who Wants More Than Sex. Believe It Or Not, There Are Women Out There, Like Men, Who Have Jump-Offs Who They Will Never Be Seen Out In Public With. The Sex Is Earth Shattering, But She Doesn't Want A Relationship, Or, She Doesn't Want A Relationship With YOU. Maybe You're Too Short, Don't Have A Job, Have Multiple Children With Multiple Women, Have Some Teeth Missing... Who Knows. Either Way, She Doesn't Want Her Girlfriends To Know About You. Most Men Would Be Fine With This Arrangement. BUT If You've Somehow Caught Feelings For Her, Then Its Best You Leave Now.
☆ If She Shows Absolutely No Interest In Your Life. Its Only About Her, All The Freaking Time... Then Be Sure She Is Using You.
☆ Make A Decision. Is She Or Isn't Using You? If She Is, You Need To Act. Let Her Know How You Feel, Be Honest. BY Talking To Her And Hearing Her Perspective, You May Find Out You Were Wrong. Perhaps She Was Going Through A Difficult Time And Clung To You And Took A Bit Of An Advantage Without Realising It Or Meaning To Do So. It's Very Possible. This Step Is Most Important, You Should Let Her Know Instead Of Just Ending Things. Only By Doing So Will You Know Without A Doubt Whether Or Not You Were Being Used.
