DO YOU MAKE YOUR MAN AFRAID TO BE AFFECTIONATE???

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
So You Think There Isn't Enough Visible LOVE In Your Relationship. You
See Couples So Openly Affectionate With Each Other-So Clearly Gaga
About One Another- And Your Relationship Suddenly Looks COLD And
Almost Platonic. It's Possible, In Spite Of Yourself, That You Made It
That Way. Here Are Behaviours That Could Be Scaring Your Guy Away From
Being Affectionate•
1• YOU RECOIL FROM PDA:
For Fear Of Being The Annoying Couple "All OvER Each Other" In Public,
Anytime Your Guy Tries To Put His Arms Around You At A Bar, You Slip
Out. When He Goes In For A KISS At The Grocery Store Check Out Line,
You Give Him The Cheek. Stop Worrying About What Everyone Else Is
Thinking! You Just Rejected Your Guy For The Approval Of People You'll
Never See Again•
2• YOU DEFLECT COMPLIMENTS:
You're So Terrified Of Seeming Cocky Or Vain That You Dodge Every
Compliment Like It's A Dagger. When Your Guy Pays You One, You Pay Him
Back With Ten Reasons Why It's Not True, Or A List Of Things That Are
Wrong With You. I Promise: He Won't Think, "How Conceited" If You
Simply Say' "THANK YOU"
3• YOU DON'T TELL HIM ABOUT STRESS:
He Finds Out From Your Mum, Your Friend, Your Co-Worker Or Anyone But
You That Something Pretty Monumental And Difficult Happened To You.
You Don't Tell Him These Things Because You Don't Want To Burden Him
Or Be A Girlfriend Who Complains Too Much• But He Just Reads Your
Secrecy As You Not Wanting Him Buting His Nose Into Your Business.
When Deep Down, You Want Him To Care So Much•
4• YOU DON'T TELL HIM WHEN YOU'RE HURT:
If He Says Something That Hurts You, And You Know It's Not
Intentional, You Lecture Yourself IN Your Own Head, "He Didn't Mean It
That Way. You're Just Being A Baby. Don't Burden Him With Your
"Feelings" About This." But He Knows When You Keep Quiet, Or Turn Over
In Bed, Or Go For A Walk When You'rE Obviously Hurting, He Reads This
As You Just Being A Very Private Person And/Or Don't Believe He Has
The Tools To Help You Feel Better•

5• IT'S NEVER A GOOD TIME:

Guess What: Affection Isn't Meant To Be Scheduled! So What If You Were
In The Middle Of A Spreadsheet When He Came Up Behind You To Hug You?
You Can Close The Laptop For Five Minutes To Enagage In Some
Sweetness. If You Always Brush Him Off And Make Him Feel Like A
Nuisance For Giving You Affection, He'll STOP•

6• YOU NEVER INITIATE AFFECTION:

You Want To Reach Out And Touch Him, But You're Frozen By The Terror
Of Being Too Clingy, Too Needy, Too Touchy Etc. You Hate The Thought
That Maybe He Didn,t 110% Want Affection In That Moment. And God
Forbid That Be The Case. You'd Rather Play It Safe And Keep Your Hands
To Yourself And Let Him Initiate Affection. But He Reads Your Failure
To Initiate As You Just Not Liking Affection: Plain And Simple•

7• YOU DON'T CUDDLE AFTER SEX:

You've Heard The Horror Stories From Your Male Friends Of Them Being
Trapped In Post-Sex Cuddling They So Don't Want To Be In- They Tell
You Of Times They Wanted To Crawl Out Of Their Skin As A Woman Played
With Their Chest Hair And Nuzzled Their Neck And For Some Reason, Even
Though You're In A Committed Relationship, You Wonder If Your Guy
Feels That Way. And At The Off Chance He Ever Might, You Always Hop
Out Of Bed Immediately After SEX•

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HOW YOU KEEP BREAKING YOUR OWN HEART•••

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Sure, There Are A**holes Out There. There Are Some True Con Artists.
They're Amazing Listeners. They Figure You Out. They Stare At You Like
They're Looking Into Your Soul. They Know What You Want To Hear. They
Even Know What To Do And Say To Seem Like They Are For Real. And Then
They Screw You. And Screw You Over. In Some Instances, It's Really Not
Your Fault. But To Tell You The Truth- Most Of The Time It Is. You
Have To Remember That You're The One Choosing The Men You Date. You're
The One Opting To Go On Date Number 2, 3, Etc. And You're The Only One
Who Can Determine What Men Will And Will Not Be Drawn To You.
Honestly, You're The Reason Your Heart Is Being Broken. But You Can
Change That:
1• YOU ARE NOT BEING REAL UPFRONT:
Women Want To Seem Strong. They Are Pretty Much Constantly Told That
They Are Too Needy, Too Emotional, Too Co- Dependent. So, To Fight
That Stereotype, They Put On Their Best "I Don't Care If You Like Me
Or Not. I Don't Care If You Call Back Or Not. I Don't Even Care If
You're Listening" Face. And You Know What? Some Men Are Attracted To
That. They Are Attracted To That Strength-To That Independence. Men
Want To Date That Woman. So They Do. And Then That Woman, (You) Once
She Becomes Comfortable, Lets Her True Colours Show. Yes, You're A
Little Needy Sometimes-Who Isn't? Yes, It Does Hurt Your Feelings If
He Forgets To Call You Back. And Yes, You're Going To Let Him Know.
And Suddenly, You're Not That Bold-Faced, "I Don't Need A MAN" Woman
He Fell For•
2• YOU WON'T BLOCK A PHONE NUMBER:
This May Just Be My Opinion, But I've Seen A Lot Of Women Get Into A
Lot Of Unnecessary Drama By Not Following It. If It's Over-It's Over.
And If It Ended With Some Bad Feelings, You Need To Block His Phone
Number, His Email, And Unfriend Him On Facebook.
Because All It Takes Is That One Little Text Message When You're A
Little Lonely ("I MISS YOU"), And Suddenly, You Forgot Why You Broke
Up. And You Text Back "I Miss You Too." And Within A Week, You're
Yelling At Each Other Again. If You Don't Have The Strength To Ignore
Those Texts And Emails, Then Take Control Of The One Thing You Can
Control-Block HIM•
3• YOUR FRIENDS ARE LOUDER THAN YOUR GUT:
When You Are Feeling Weak (As Often As After A Breakup), And All You
Can Remember Is That You Liked Cuddling And You Liked Having A Date On
Your Arm, Your Friend's Suggestion Of "Maybe You Guys Can Work It
Out..." Gets To You. But You Are The Only One Who Knows That Gut
Feeling You Had That Said This Isn't Right For Me. And If You Get Back
With The Guy, Your Gut Is Going To Speak Up Again. And You're Going To
Have To Break Up All Over Again•
4• YOU'RE STILL GROWING:
Maybe You Just Moved To A New Town, Or You Are In Between Jobs So You
Don't Have Much Of A Social Life Or A New Career Is Taking Up Your
Time. But If You Don't Have Your Own Thing Going On, You're Going To
Depend On Your Guy Too Much. You May Not Notice It Because, If You're
Out Of Work And Out Of Friends, Those 8 Hours When He Is At Work Feel
Like An Eternity To You. But They Fly By For Him, So When You Text
Saying "I Haven't Heard From You In Forever" That "Forever" Sounds A
Bit Drastic To Him. And Then He Feels That You're Too Clingy And He
Drops You, At A Point When You Are Feeling More Lonely And Lost Than
Ever. A Boyfriend Is Just A Quick And Unsustainable Fix For A Life
That Still Needs To Be Built Up. It's A Tempting Fix-But Resist It
Until You're Stronger•
5• YOU DAY DREAM TOO MUCH:
You Have A Date With A Guy And You Spend All Day Thinking About It.
When You're At The Gym, You're Imaging How He Is Going To Notice Your
Toned Arms That Night. When You're Making A Mental Note To Re-Tell Him
The Funny Story Your Friend Told You. The Date Has Happened In Your
Head Long Before It Happens, And Then The Actual Date Falls Far Short.
(Of Course It Does!) And You're Depressed, Thinking Every Man Will
Disappoint You•

6• YOU CHASE THE UNAVAILABLE:

He Tells You He Isn't Ready For A Relationship. Great- You Accept The
Challenge (It Wasn't A Challenge Though). He Tells You He Isn't Into
Monogamy. You Accept Again. He Tells You He Has Never Spoken About His
Feelings With A Partner. You Get To Work On Making His Tears Flow. You
Put In Much More Energy On Him Than You Would Have To With, Oh, A
Giving Man Who Is Ready For A Relationship, So When It Ends, You Feel
More Exhausted And Devastated Than Ever. Just Don't Do It! Walk Away
From A Man As Soon As He Shows Signs That He Can't Give You What You
Want. You Will Save Your Heart A Lot Of Pain In The END•

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SIGNS HE MAY BE HIDING SOMETHING FROM YOU•••

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Women Usually Have A Sixth Sense When It Comes To Men And
Relationships- An Uncanny Ability To Tell When Something Isn't Quite
Right, Even If She Can't Put Her Finger On It. While Some Women Need A
Full-Out Confession When It Comes To Indiscretions, Others Use Their
InNATE Ability To Discern If A Man May Be Hiding Something From Her.
The Trick Though, Is Being Able To Tell The Difference Between A Gut
Feeling , And Paranoia. When You Are Smitten- Or Insecure- Your Radar
Can Be A Bit Off. So If You're Not Sure If Your Man (Or Woman) Is
Guilty Of Or Hiding Something, Keep Your Eyes And Ears Open For These
Clues•••
1• HE ACTS GUILTY:
If A Person Acts Guilty, He Or She Usually Is. If You Ask Him A Simple
Question Like; "How Was Your Day?" And He Responds In A Defensive Or
Nervous Manner, Chances Are He Feels Guilty About Something And Is
Having A Hard Time Physically Masking It. He May Even Behave In A
Guilty Fashion If You Do Something Nice For Him That Is Unexpected,
Because He May Feel Like It's A Trick Or A Trap While A Person Can SAY
Anything, His Body Language May Give More Clues That He Might Be
Guilty Of Hiding Something. If He Starts Sweating, Fidgeting Or
Suddenly Just Seems Jumpy For No Reason, His Guilty Conscience Is
Projecting Itself, And You'll Be Able To See It•
2• HE GIVES TOO MANY DETAILS:
If You Ask Your Man Where He's Been And He Gives You A Detailed
Account Of His Evening, Down To The Style Of Shoes The Bartender Was
Wearing, It May Seem Like He's Telling The Truth Right? Wrong. Most
People Don't Pay That Close Attention To Minute Details, So If He's
Offering You Up Insignificant, But Elaborate Descriptions- Like The
Colour Of The Bathroom Walls At The Club- Then He May Be Trying Too
Hard To Cover His Behind. If You Ask A Simple Question, But Get A
Detailed Answer When A Simple Yes Or No Will Do, Take Heed. He's
Making Up Stuff As He Goes Along To Make His Story Seem More
Believable When The Truth Should Suffice•
3• HE LIMITS HIS RESPONSES:
Just Like A Person Can Give Too Much Information When Telling A Lie, A
Person Who Is Keeping Something From You Can Give Too LITTLE
Information As Well. If Your Partner Gives You One Word Answers, Or
Limits His Responses In Conversation, It's Usually Because He's Afraid
To Tell On Himself Or Get Caught In A Lie. He Figures The More He
Talks, The Deeper The Grave He'll Dig For Himself, So He Keeps His
Comments Or Answers To A Minimum. If Getting Him To Talk About A
Certain Subject Seems Like Pulling Teeth, It's Probably Because He
Wants To Keep Something Under Wraps, And You In The Dark•
4• HIS STORY KEEPS CHANGING:
If You Suspect That Your Man Has Lied To You- Even Though He Has Given
You A Detailed Story Or Answer To Your Question And He's Sticking To
It - Ask Him The Same Question A Week Or A Month Later And See If His
Account Is The Same. Most People Have To Work Hard At Remembering A
Lie, While The Truth Carries The Same Story Every Single Time. But
This Means That You ALSO Have To Have A Good Memory So That You Can
Pinpoint Inaccuracies Or Discrepancies When His Version Of The Truth
Changes•
5• HE MAKES YOU FEEL GUILTY FOR ASKING A QUESTION:
Asking Your Man Where He's Going Or Who He's Going Out With May Seem
Like Normal, Natural Questions To You. But If He Takes Offense And His
Indignant At What He Perceives To Be "Probing" Questions, It May Be
Because He's Guilty Of Being Somewhere Or With SOmeone He Shouldn't
Be. If He Attacks You For "Checking Up On Him" Or Makes You Feel Bad
About Asking Him About ANYTHING, Chances Are His Conscience Is
Catching Up With Him And Causing Him To Lash Out At You•
6• ANSWERS A QUESTION WITH A QUESTION- IF HE ANSWERS AT ALL:
Most People Who Answer A Question With A Question Are Usually
Stalling, Trying To Think Of A Lie While You're Busying Answering
Their Question. Or He May Be Trying To Deflect The Subject Back Onto
You, Or Shift The Conversation Away From A Touchy Subject. However, If
He Refuses To Answer A Direct Question At All, It's Probably Because
He Can't Think Of A Lie Fast Enough, So He Simply Won't Answer. When A
Person Is Being Forthcoming And Truthful, He Won't Feel The Need To
Refuse To Answer A Question, And The Answer Will Immediate. But If
Your Partner Feels That You Are Not Entitled To An Answer, There
Should Be No Doubt That Something Shady Is Going ON•
7• HE SEEMS MORE SECRETIVE:
He Used To Pee With The Bathroom Door Open, Now He Takes His Phone
With Him To Take A Shower And Closes (And Locks) The Door. The Ringer
On His Phone Is Always On Vibrate, He Turns His Phone Off At Certain
Hours, And When He's On The Phone, He Speaks In A Low Tone Or Hangs Up
When You Enter The Room. Most Couples Want To Share Everything When
They're Happy In Love- Nothing Is Off-Limits. But If One Of Them Is
Hiding Something, They Try To Create Distance. If He Is Suddenly
Overprotective Of His Privacy When He Used To Be An Open Book, That
Usually Means There Is Something He Wants To Keep Hidden From You.
When It Reaches This Point, It Doesn't Matter What That Something
Is-JUST RUN!

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WHAT MEN LOOK FOR WHEN CHOOSING A WIFE!!!

<@>Gr8tmindz Inc<@>™
Believe It Or Not, Women Aren't The Only One's With A Checklist Of
Traits They Look For In A Partner. Although It May Not Be Written
Down, Men Have A Mental List Of What They Will And Will Not Tolerate
In A Relationship As Well.
Take A Look At These Traits Men Look For In A Wife...
1• HONEST COMMUNICATION:
Honest Communication Is Top Priority For Men. They Want A Woman Who
Answers Questions Honestly, And Even Volunteers Information. They Want
A Woman Who Can See The Truth, Stand Up For Themselves And Tell It
Like It Is•
2• SECURE AND CONFIDENT:
Men Want A Woman To Choose Them Out Of Want Rather Than Out Of
Desperation. Women Tend To Jump In And Out Of Relationships More Often
Than The Opposite Sex, Because They Crave Attention And Adoration. In
The Same Way, Men Need To Be Wanted And Needed By Their Partners, But
They Want Their Partners TO Have A Seperate Identity. It's Important
That Women Have Their Own Friends And Interests•
3• MANIPULATION-FREE:
Men Want No Manipulation Of Any Kind And Typically Have A Little
Tolerance For Games. They Do Not Want To Read Their Partner's Mind Or
Try To Interpret Signals Women Often Hide Their True Feelings By
Delibrately Returning Phone Calls Hours After Checking Their Phone, Or
Pretending To Be Interested In Other Men To "Keep Their Crush Begging
For More." Newsflash, Men Don't Want To Fight For A Woman Who Appears
To Be Uninterested Or Worse, Interested In Another Guy. If You Like A
Man, Make It Known. This Does Not Mean You Should Drop The L-Word On
The First Date. Simply Return His Calls In A Timely Manner. Show Him
That He Is The Only One You Want To Be With And Avoid Checking Out
Other Guys•
4• EMOTIONALLY STABLE AND MATURE:
Men Want A Woman Who Can Stand On Her Own Two Feet And Develop Herself
Personally. They Want A Woman Who Is Emotionally Mature. But Does Not
Lack Emotions All Together. It's Important To Handle Emotions
Responsibly And Know When They Are Getting The Best Of The Situation.
Men Tend To Be Practical Beings, Compared To Women Who Tend To Base
Their Decisions On Emotions Instead Of Facts. Usually As Women Mature
And Age, They Stop Depending On Emotions And Start To Find A Way To Be
Practical, Without Losing Their Nurturing And Emotional Edge•

5• TRUE COMMITMENT:

Fidelity And Loyalty, Is An Absolute Must For Men. In Fact, Men Want A
Woman Who Does Not Have A Woman Who Does Not Have A "Roaming Eye" And
Who Can Wholeheartedly Commit To The Relationship. The Misconnection
Here Is That Women Think That All Men Want Is Sex, And That Men Will
Leave A Relationship For The Next Prettier Face. Women Think Men
Cannot Be Trusted To Be Faithful And That When The Going Gets Rough,
They Leave. Be Aware Of Subtle Cues At The Beginning Of A Relationship
That Might Prove That You Have A Wanderer On Your Hands. What Does He
Do With His Spare Time? What Kind Of Influence Does His Friends Have
On Him? Is He Easily Susceptible To Peer Pressure? These Questions
Challenge His Confidence And True Being And Allow You To Determine If
He Is A Great Catch, Or If You Should Throw Him Back With The Fishes•

6• NURTURER:

There Is A Reason Why So Many Men, When Little Boys, Ask Their Mothers
To Marry Them. Men Love To Be Nurtured. Many Women Treat Men In Ways
That Diminish Their Egos, Making Them Feel Inadequate. Men Would
Rather Have More Praise, More Acknowledgment That They Are Great Guys
Who Are Loved And Appreciated•
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YOU MUST MAKE THE DECISION THAT YOU ARE GOING TO MOVE ON!!!

YOU MUST MAKE THE DECISION THAT YOU ARE GOING TO MOVE ON!!!

Gr8tmindz Inc™

"You Must Make A Decision That You Are Going To Move On. It Won't
Happen Automatically. You Will Have To Rise Up And Say, I Don't Care
How Hard This Is, I Don't Care How Disappointed I Am, I'm Not Going To
Let This Get The Best Of Me. I'm Moving On With My Life•"

If You Are Like Most Of Us, You Have Been Disappointed By The Way That
Life Has Treated You In At Least A Few Moments. There Are So Many In
This World Who Have Done So Many Good Things, Yet Get Treated As
Though No One Loves Them, While Those Who Are Most Negative Seem To
Get Most Of The Positive Attention. There Are Also Many Instances Of
People Not Honoring Promises And Not Being Real With Each Other That
It Seems Disappointment In Each Other Is Growing Epidemically.

Instead Of Walking Through This Life Disappointed In Much Of It,
Remember To Keep Control Of Your Emotions. Instead Of Thinking About
What Is Before You In This Very Moment, Remember That Things Can
Easily Change. If You Are Willing To Look Past The Obstacles In Order
To Get To Your Goals, You Will Then Be Able To Navigate To Them,
Instead Of Standing Still In Worry Not Knowing Where To Go Next•

•••PRESIDENT•••™

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