WHAT TO DO WHEN A GIRL SAYS SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND

Many Guys Are Afraid Of Finding Out If A Girl They've Been Crushing/Admiring Has A Boyfriend Or Not.

When I Meet A Girl, I Find Out If She Has A Boyfriend Or Not. If She Has A Boyfriend, I Ask About Him To Find Out If He's REAL Or Not. That's What You Should Be Doing Too.

Now This Article Isn't About Telling You Whether Or Not To Sleep With A Girl Who Has A Boyfriend.

This Article Is About Telling You What To Do When A Girl Says She Has A Boyfriend.

WHAT TO DO WHEN A GIRL SAYS SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND: Proper Screening: Find Out ASAP!

The Results Of An Interaction Can Take A Turn Depending On How You Find Out A Girl Has A Boyfriend. Many Times Girls Will Say They Have A Boyfriend To Just Filter You Out And Make You Go Away. This Can Sometimes Be Because Of A Bad Opener Or She Doesn't Find You That Attractive.

Sometimes A Girl Doesn't Want To Hurt Your Feelings So She Makes Up A Lie. Now I'm Not A Home Wrecker, So I Indirectly Ask If A Girl Has A Boyfriend Or Not.

EXAMPLE 1: Found Out She Had A Boyfriend

There Was This Cashier Once Who Would Always Smile And Give Me Seductive Looks. So After The Holidays I Asked What She Got For Easter From Her Friends And Family. It Was A Normal Conversation, I Was Going Direct, And I Was Just Seeking Information.

Exzel: Hey, How Was Your Holiday?

Girl: Great And Yours?

Exzel: Great Huh? What Stuff Did You Get?

Girl: *Lists Stuff* How Bout You?

Exzel: This And That, What'd Your Boyfriend Get You?

Girl: He Got Me This And That And Blah Blah Blah

Exzel: Sounds Like You're Spoiled *Exit Exzel From Interaction*

Now A Lot Of Guys Can Say I Already Knew She Had A Boyfriend But I Really Didn't. I Know That Some Women Enjoy Flirting When They Have A Boyfriend Cause They Like The Attention From Guys.

A Lot Of Times I Just Assume A Girl Has A Boyfriend When I Go Out. It's A Lot More Flattering In A Girls Mind To Think That Someone Out There Finds Her Attractive. If She Doesn't Have That Someone When You Could Possibly Be That Someone In Her Life.

EXAMPLE 2: Found Out She's Single

Exzel: You Know You Should Stop Looking At Me Like That?

Her: What? Why?

Exzel: Cause Your Boyfriend Might Get Jealous.

Her: I Actually Don't Have A Boyfriend.

Exzel: *Goes In For A Close*

Girls With Boyfriends: How Committed Are They? Girls To Stay Away From!

THE USERS

The Reason I Screen For Girls With Boyfriends Is To Keep Me From Wasting Time. First Off, If A Girl Has A Boyfriend You Should Never Take Her Out On A Date And Wine And Dine Her.

The Reason Being You Had A Great Time With Her, But She's Going To F**k Her Boyfriend. Women Love Getting Free Meals. If Anything You Became A Provider And A Great Friend To Her.

One Who She Won't Hesitate To Call Whenever She Has Any Boyfriend Problems. You're Way More Invested In Her Than She Is In You. The Girl Is Teasing You, She Gives You Flirty Smiles And Soft Hugs Because She Wants You To Stick Around. Girls Know How To Keep Men Around, But You Have To Keep Men Around, But You Have To Have The Balls To Simply Walk Away.

Sometimes She Just Wants To Make Her Boyfriend Jealous. She's Dancing On You At The Club To Get A Rise Out Of Him. If She's Trying To Make Him Jealous, She's More Invested In Her Boyfriend NOT You. You Are Simply A Tool At Her Disposal.

Regardless, Her Friends Will Stop Her Making A Big Mistake Anyway. Women Are Very Emotional And Do Things That Logically Don't Make Sense To Men.

You Have To Look At The BIG PICTURE, And Make Good Decisions. Don't Buy Meals For A Girl Who Has A Boyfriend, And Don't Get Led On With A Girl Who Has A Boyfriend. When You Get Led On It Shows How Inexperienced You. Real Men Walk Away And Find People Who Won't Waste Their Time.

Girls With Boyfriends: The Girl Who Needs To Be Rescued

For Whatever Reason This Girl Is Dating Some Crazy Guy Who's Abusive. The Guy Beats Her Up And Slaps Her Around. You Think To Yourself You Can Save Her, You Cannot. I Don't Care How "Lethal" Your Hands Are Or How "Tough" You Think You Are.

If Her Boyfriend Is Crazy And Known To Be Violent Then You Should Stay Away From That Girl. If The Man Is Unstable Just Walk Away From Her And, Avoid Her Like A Plague. Girls Like This Have Awful Taste In Men And More Than Like Have Some Psychological Issues Too.

Now Lets Cover How You Actually Met This Girl And How She's Different.

Girls With Boyfriends: She's In "Love"

When A Girl Is In Love With Her Boyfriend She Will Give You A TON Of Resistance. The Reason Being Is She Doesn't Want To Hurt Her Boyfriend. She Cares About Him And HE Cares About HER.

Now If You Happen To Sleep With This Girl She's Going To Be An Emotional Wreck. The Reason Being Is She Cheated On Someone She Loved And The Boyfriend Will Probably Dump Her If He Ever Finds Out.

This Leaves A Woman Torn Apart Because She Made A Mistake. Trust Me, I've Been There, And I Know How Devastated The Lady Was Afterwards.

At The End Of The Day It's On YOU To Decide If It's Worth It Or Not. I'm Not Here To Judge You, I'm Here To Advise You.

Girl Who Has A Boyfriend: Defining The Relationship And Circumstances Where You Met Her

Now Notice In My Examples Above No Matter What The Girl Said I Remained Unfazed.

Now For Those Of You That May Be Wondering I Typically Don't Go After Girls Who Have Boyfriends. It's Not Because Of Some Morals, Ethics, Or Etc... It's Because It Takes A Great Deal Of Time And More Effort To Get These Girls Laid.

Girls Love Going Out When They Have Boyfriends Because They Love The Attention. They Love Getting Free Stuffs And They Love Having Fun With Their Girlfriends. Now There May Be A Girl You End Sleeping With Though.

Girl Who Has A Boyfriend: The Girl On A Mission!

This Girl Has A Boyfriend And Wants To Sleep With Another Guy In Revenge.

Her Boyfriend Messed Up And Cheated On Her, And Now She Wants Revenge. She Wants To Hurt Him Just Like The Way He Hurt Her. This Girl Is Up For It And She's Being Very Blunt About It.

You Must Act Quick And Not Hesitate Because If You Don't Do It She'll Find Someone Who WILL. If You Want To Sleep With Her You Must Move Fast And Act Quickly. It Will Be A One Time Thing And She'll Leave The Situation Feeling Great And Satisfied. She'll Make Her Exit And Go Back TO Her Boyfriend.

Don't Get Attached. If You Guys Think Women Don't Do Things Like This, Then Watch For Another Article Titled "Women Are Just As Horny As Men" If Not Hornier.

What To Do When A Girl Says She Has A Boyfriend: Conclusion And Wrap Up

If You're The Type Of Guy Who Doesn't Want To Sleep With Someone's Girlfriend, Screen Her For A Boyfriend. If She Has A Boyfriend And You Don't Want To Sleep With Her, Just Exit From Her Life.

Now If You Want To Sleep With A Girl Who Has A Boyfriend Anyway Then Try To Avoid The Types I've Listed. Find The One On A Vendetta At Your Local Bar Or Club Or Anywhere Else.

I'm Not Encouraging You To Start Sleeping With Every Girl Who Falls Prey To You. Because Remember I Prefer Not To Waste My TIME.
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THE MISTAKES LADIES WHO APPROACH A GUY MAKE THAT RUIN THEIR RELATIONSHIP

Yes Great People... Welcome To Another Article From My Series "The MIND OF A PLAYA"

Like I Promised In My Last Article Titled "Is There Anything Wrong In A Lady Approaching A Guy Or Telling Him How She Feels? I'm Here With A Follow Up On That Article. Now For Those Of You Who Haven't Read That Article, You Can Do So By Visiting www.Deedollar.Blogspot.Com.

Its No Longer A New Thing Lately To See Ladies Approach A Guy They Like And Pour Their Hearts Out, While Some See It As Cool, Others See It As A Lady Presenting Herself Cheap. Well As For Those Who Have No Problem With It, And Specifically Those Who Have Done It And Failed... Am Here To Give You A Few Tips On Why The Relationship Probably Never Worked.

For Most Guys, Its Unusual And A First Experience To Have A Lady Approach Them. And Saying 'NO' Isn't Really An Option Especially If The Lady Is One That They Would Love To Have A Relationship With. Yes, I'll Address This Issue In Two Perspective

1) When You Are Not His Type

2) When You Are His Type.

WHEN YOU ARE NOT HIS TYPE

As A Lady, When You Approach A Guy Whom Isn't Attracted To You In Anyway, And Doesn't Want To Be Outrightly True To You By Turning You Down In The Most Appropriate Of Ways, So As Not To Hurt You... What First Comes To His Mind Is "Is She The Kinda Girl I Wanna Be With?" Now If You Are Unfortunate To Approach A Guy Who Isn't Man Enough, That Sees You As An Easy Prey. He Wouldn't Care About Your Character/Attitude Or Other Essential Qualities He Needs In A Woman. Because All His Mind And Focus Is Directed Towards Having SEX With You As Soon As Possible.

...And Because You Are Already So Into This Guy, You Wouldn't Mind Doing Anything Just To Get Him To Love You As Much As You Love Him, You Then Fall For Anything. Now This Is Where Some Ladies Who Have Approached Guys And Failed Get It Wrong. Because Soon The Guy Is Done And Gone... And You Feel Cheap, Cheated, And Used. Then You Start Thinking The Whole Idea Of Approaching A Guy Is Lame And Wasted.

WHEN YOU ARE HIS TYPE

The Mistake Ladies Who Approached A Guy Who Is Genuinely Interested In Return Mostly Lies In This Part.

Remember I Talked About How The Bible Admonished Men To Love Their Wives... And I Said Its Because Men Have A Hard Time Loving. Men Are Quite Slow To Love Than Women, But Women Are Naturally Wired To Love.

So One Of The Mistakes Most Ladies Who Approach A Guy Make Is Actually Wanting The Guy To Start Responding With All The Love And Care They Require From A Man. What They Forget Is That A Guy Who Shows A Genuine Interest, And Who Sees Her As His Type Also Needs Time To Be Sure About What He Is Getting Himself Into, If Truly It Would Work Out.

As A Lady Who Approached A Guy, Don't Forget That The Qualities The Guy Is Looking For In A Wife Wouldn't Change Because You Approached Him First. So If Your Qualities In The Course Of The Relationship Doesn't Tally With What He Wants In A Woman, Then That Relationship Is Sure To End Soon Leaving You The Lady Emotionally Shattered In Regret For Making The First Move.

NOTE: If You Are A Lady Who Nags, Cheats, Who Is Rude And Non Social, Don't You Think Approaching A Guy First For A Relationship Wouldn't Favour You? So Its Advisable To Be At Your Best Before Being The First To Make A Move.

Finally, Don't Expect The Man To Immediately Start Doing The Things He Would Have Done If He Was The One Who Approached You. Give Him Time To Grow Into Loving You By The Way You Handle Issues Maturedly. Be In Control Of Your Feelings, Don't Let It Escalate Into Making You Behave Needy And Possessive, Because It Would Scare Your Man Who Is Just Getting To Love You Away.

Just Imagine How It Took You Time As A Lady To Finally Get To Love That Guy Who Once Approached You. If It Is So For You As A Lady Who Has Twice The Ability To Love, How Much More A Man Who Is Slow To Love?

JUST THINK ABOUT THAT.

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IS THERE ANYTHING WRONG IN A LADY APPROACHING A GUY OR TELLING HIM HOW SHE FEELS?

Still On My Series "THE MIND OF A PLAYA." I Want To Address Another Sensitive Issue On This Article.
Is There Anything Wrong In A Lady Approaching A Guy And Telling Him How She Feels? My Answer To That Is A Capital 'NO.'

Now I Could Sense A Lot Of Ladies And Guys Alike Are Raising Eyebrow Already.
Well, As Much As Our Opinions May Differ, I Want To Open Our Eyes To Something Most Of Us Are Refusing To See Or Notice When It Comes To A Lady Approaching A Guy.

It Has Been Quoted By Many That Its The Man's Duty To Approach A Lady That He Likes, Because It's His Duty As Man. Some Go To The Extent Of Quoting Proverbs 18:22 To Drive Home Their Reasons. But Before I Go Further, Let Me Quote What Proverbs 18:22 Says From The Amplified Bible For Us To Get A Clearer Picture... And It Says " He Who Finds A [True] Wife Finds A Good Thing, And Obtains Favour From The LORD."
Ooops! Did Somebody Notice Something? If You Didn't, Let Me Point It Out... It Says "He Who Finds A 'TRUE' Wife..."
Doesn't That Indicates That You Can Also Find An UNTRUE WIFE? That Means That Union Would Be A Terrible One, Because There Would Be No Favour To Obtain From God On That. Not To Mention That The Writer Of That Passage Is A Man Who Had Many Wives And Concubines... (Solomon) In Which Amongst Them Are Those He Approached, Those That Approached Him, And Those That Were Given To Him As A Gift By Other Kings And Towns Men.

And Who Says Your TRUE WIFE Wouldn't Be The Lady Who Approached You? As There Is No Law Holding Back Women From Expressing Their Feelings To A Man, Be It In A Fit Of Anger, Advice, Warning, Or Just Simply Telling Him That She Likes Him, And Wouldn't Mind Having Him As A Partner. That Obviously Sounds And Look Absurd To Most People Who Walk Around With The Stone Age Mentality Right? Certainly! OR Those Who Walk Around With A Misconstrued Interpretation Of What The Scripture Says.

Away From Biblical Exposé... Now To The Psychological Perspective....
It Has Been Said That Ladies Who Approach Men Are CHEAP, And Selling Themselves Short.
ARE LADIES WHO APPROACH GUYS CHEAP?

My Answer To That Is Another Capital "NO."

Its Just That A Lot Of Ladies Who Have At One Point In Time Approach A Guy, Have Been Taken Advantage Of, Or Taken For Granted.

Anyone Who Says Or Think A Lady Who Approaches A Guy Is Cheap Is Just Being Myopic And Sentimental Due To Ill Experience Or Plain Ill Luck. It Takes Serious Guts And Maturity For A Lady To Walk Upto A Guy, And Tell Him She Likes Him And Would Love To Date Him.

Its Just That A Lot Of People Haven't Woke Up To The Reality That A Lady Should Be Free Or Is Free To Express Her Feelings Of Love To A Guy. And If You Are A Guy Who Sees Such Lady As CHEAP, Then You Really Have Some Growing Up To Do.

As A Lady, Do Not Feel Caged And Ashamed To Go For What You Want. Atleast Its Better To Try And Know It Didn't Work; Than Not To Try At All And Then Die In Silence Watching The Guy You Dream About Resting In The Arms Of Another Woman. And In The Worst Case Scenario, You Start Beefing Every Lady You See Around Him.

You Might Be Thinking, Ah! I Can't Do That O! Its Better To Give Him Signals For Him To Make A Move, Than To Open My Mouth To Tell Him How I Feel. Well, You May Be Right... But That Could Oftentimes Make You Look Silly And Unknowingly Being Too Pushy. And Oftentimes It Could Be Misinterpreted To Mean That You Just Need A Hit And Run Kinda Thingy Than The REAL Thing. So Its Better You COME CLEAN.

CATCH Me Next On "THE MISTAKES LADIES WHO APPROACH A GUY MAKE THAT RUINS THEIR RELATIONSHIP."

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WHY AND HOW SOME LADIES GET PLAYED IN A RELATIONSHIP

Here Comes An Article From My Series "THE MIND OF A PLAYER."

Ooops! As A Guy I Shouldn't Be Sharing This, As It Is Regarded As Giving Out Too Many Secrets On How The Typical Player Mind Works. But I'm Doing So Because I Oftentimes Feel Sorry For Most Single/Married Ladies Out There Who Walk Around Thinking They Know What It Is That Goes On In A Man's Mind When It Comes To Relationship And How Most Men Seek Desperate Ways To Knock Down A Lady.

Therefore, I'd Advice If You Are A Single Lady Who Wants A Serious Relationship, Or Into One Already. Then Take Your Time To Follow Up On This Series By Reading This Article. And As A Married Lady You Should Too, As You Might Pick Up One Or Two Things.

First, I Want To Kick Off On A Spiritual Note. And I'm Gonna Be Quoting In Part From The Amplified Version Of Ephesians 5:22 And 25 Respectively To Drive Home A Point, And I Quote In Part "Wives Be Subject (Be Submissive And Adapt Yourselves) Unto Your Own Husbands...." 25 "Husbands, Love Your Wives..."

Now Somebody Is Thinking... How Does This Relate To Singles? Yes It Does, Because It Carries A Lot Of Spiritual Weight And Order Concerning How Relationship/Marriage Should Be.

First, Note How It Said Women Should Subject Themselves. Doesn't That Say Something? That Shows Women Might Have A Hard Time Being In Subjection... And Men Might Have A Hard Time "LOVING." Else, Why Didn't Those Passage Say "Men Submit, And Wives LOVE." That Shows Both Often Fall Short In These Areas, And So That Was Written To Remind Both Parties On Where To Work On To Build A Successful Marriage.

Now That You Know Men Have A Hard Time "LOVING." We Can Now Go Into WHY AND HOW MOST LADIES GET PLAYED IN RELATIONSHIPS.

Men Know That Women Are Wired To LOVE Naturally With Ease, But What Makes A Guy Decides To PLAY On A Lady Is How She Carries Herself, The Way She Talks And The Attitudes She Displays.

I Want To State Here That Ladies Who Play Hard To Get, And Those Who Place A Guy On Conditions To Date Him, Are The Main Target And Victims Of A PLAYER.

A True PLAYER Doesn't Play On A Lady Who Is Free, Open And Genuine. Rather Than Play On Such A Lady, He Would Rather Quit Or Withdraw From The Relationship At An Early Stage To Avoid Wasting Her Time And Hurting Her So Badly.

PLAYERS Study And Know What Is Peculiar To Any Lady... Moreso, They Are The PERFECT Pretender. They Know Exactly What To Do At The Right Time To Make A Lady Feel Loved.

Moreso, As Much As We Have PLAYERS... So We Have Desperate MEN...This Men Could Go Any Length To Humiliate A Lady. At This Juncture, I'll Be Sharing With You On The Experience Of A Couple Of Ladies...

I'm Gonna Be Hitting On Some Grievous Mistakes Some Ladies Innocently Or Deliberately Make When Wanting To Date. And Oftentimes, The Devil Uses It As A Way To Frustrate Some Ladies.

Sometime Ago, I Met A Lady Who Insisted That Any Guy She Would Date Or Marry Must Be Wealthy... Hence, She Ended Up Dating Wealthy Guys Who Continuously Dated And Dumped Her Afterwards. As Much As There Is Nothing Wrong In Dating Wealthy Guys, Your Motives Could Actually Be Misunderstood And Used Against You... Hence She Fell Prey To Guys Who Knew Her Intentions Were Not Pure.

Secondly, There Was A Catholic Lady Who Insisted Any Man She Would Date Or Marry Would Be Catholic As Well, Hence, A Guy Who Wanted Her Badly Became A Catholic Just To Get Married To Her. Unfortunately, Immediately The Priest Declared Them Husband And Wife, The Guy Renounced His Membership As A Catholic From That Day. Now Tell Me What Would Be The Fate Of That Lady?

Another Incident, Is One Of That Should Be An Eye Opener To Our Ladies Who Are Virgins, And Those Who Stand For "No Sex Till After Marriage." And So There Was This Lady Who Said "The Man That Would Disvirgin Her Must Be Her Husband" And So The Guy Went To The Extent Of Doing Introduction And Traditional Marriage... Just After The Man Disvirgined Her, His Attitude Changed, Till He Finally Left Her. Not To Mention That There Are Strange Men Out There Who Seek Virgins, Not Because They Want Them As A Wife, But To Disvirgin Them... Which Is Sometime A Requirement For Some Guys/Men Who Belong To A Secret Society To Make Wealth. So Be Mindful Of Who You Brag About Your Virginity To.

I Remember Approaching A Lady With Clear Intentions Of Wanting To Date And Marry Her If Things Worked Out Well. Though I've Known Her For Some Time Before Making A Move. She Just Looked At Me, Smiled! And Asked, "Do You Have An Apartment Of Your Own? I Said NO! That I'm Squatting With A Friend.

... Then She Told Me That Before We Go Into Anything Serious That I Should Go First, Get An Apartment And Furnish It Before She Would Be Ready To Date Me.

I Went Home Knowing She Wasn't The Kinda Girl I Thought She Was, I Then Made Up My Mind To Punish Her For Giving Me Such A Condition. A Month Later, I Called Her And Told Her That Everything She Asked Me To Do Is Now Set. She Came Around, Confirmed It And Then She Agreed To Date Me. As Time Went On, 2months Into The Relationship, I Called Her One Day, And Told Her I Was No Longer Interested In The Relationship. What She Didn't Know Was That I Already Had My Own Apartment Before I Approached Her. But Because Of The Conditions She Placed On The Relationship Which Proved She Was Being Materialistic, I Decided To PLAY On Her, To Prove To Her That LOVE Is Beyond All That.

NOTE: Their Are Guys Who Are Out There To Experiment On Girls,... So As A Young Girl, You Are Into Teenage Relationship Thinking It Would Lead To Marriage, Nine Out Of Ten Times You Are Wrong.

Most Importantly To Every Single Lady Out There... That He Cares And Does Nice Things For You, Calls And Texts You Every Second Doesn't Always Mean He Loves You... It Could Be That There Is Something He Seeks, And Until He Gets It... He Wouldn't STOP. Even Though It Means MARRYING YOU To Get It. That's Why You See Some Marriages Starts Crashing Just After The WEDDING.

OPEN YOUR EYES, USE YOUR HEAD AND STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF. And If You Really Want To Be Safe, STAY TRUE To GOD. Don't Deceive Yourself By Trying To Show To Men That You Are Giving Certain Conditions Because You Want To PLEASE GOD. When In Other Areas Of Your Life GOD Isn't There.

So Much To REVEAL... But CATCH Me On The Next One.

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WHEN FIGHTING, ARGUING, YELLING, AND SCREAMING IS A GOOD THING IN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

I Know This Is True For Me... Check Out And See If It's True For You As Well.

I Bet It Is...

Here Is What Happens...

One Or Both Of You Get Triggered About Something That The Other Says Or Does... You Defend And Argue Your Point...

Then You Either Withdraw And Clam Up Or Keep Trying To Prove You're Right By Getting Louder And More Insistent.

...And The Really Crazy Thing That Happens When You're In The Middle Of A Fight Or Argument Is That Little Voice In Your Head That's Throwing Its Own King Sized Temper-Tantrum.

In The Middle Of These Kinds Of Fights And Arguments, Very Often You Find Yourself Thinking Things About Your Spouse Or Partner Like...

"You Don't Love Me..."

"I Hate You..."

"l'll Show You. I'm Going To Have An Affair..."

"I Should Have Never Dated/Married You In The First Place..."

"My Mother Was Right About You, And I Can Finally See It..."

You Might Even Say Out Loud Some Of These Things That You Don't Really Mean (Just To Get Your Point Across) And That You Later Regret.

Your "Fight" Doesn't Get Resolved But Eventually The Two Of You May Ease Your Anger Enough To "Get Along"-- Until The Next Time.

Sounds Frustrating And Pretty Dismal, Doesn't It?

I Found Out That It Doesn't Have To Be That Way.

You Can Use These Arguments And Fights To Find Out What You Really Want (It's Usually Not What You Think You're Fighting About)...

And Get A Resolution To The Real Issue That's Underneath The Obvious Cause Of The Disconnection.

The Next Time You're In The Middle Of An Argument Or Out-Right Fight With Your Spouse Or Partner, Take An Energetic Step Back And Notice How That Inner Voice Inside Your Head Says All Kinds Of Crazy Things To You In The Heat Of The Moment.

Then Look Underneath Of All Of That Monkey-Mind Talk And What You Think The Argument Is About And Ask Yourself...

"What Is It That I'm REALLY Wanting Here?"

That's A Place Where You Can Communicate From Because It's Softer, Perhaps More True And Authentic.

If You Have Trouble Coming Up With The "Right" Words To Use During Arguments To Invite Your Partner To Finding A Solution That Both Of You Want, Then You Might Need To Work On Yourself, By Contacting A Relationship/Marriage Counsellor, Or Magic Words Programmes That Would Give You The Tools.

Looking Underneath The Self-Talk And Surface Conflict Is Also A Place To Build TRUST.

When You're Honest About What You Want And You Can Listen To Your Partner's Honest Answers, You Can Begin Building Trust Again If It's Been Broken.

Some People Think It's Not Good To Argue-- But I Say That It's Always A Good Thing When You Can Turn Disagreements Into Helping You Get To The Bottom Of What You Want And Actually Set The Stage For Feeling Closer And More Loving In Your Relationship.

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