Like I Promised In My Last Article Titled "Is There Anything Wrong In A Lady Approaching A Guy Or Telling Him How She Feels? I'm Here With A Follow Up On That Article. Now For Those Of You Who Haven't Read That Article, You Can Do So By Visiting www.Deedollar.Blogspot.Com.
Its No Longer A New Thing Lately To See Ladies Approach A Guy They Like And Pour Their Hearts Out, While Some See It As Cool, Others See It As A Lady Presenting Herself Cheap. Well As For Those Who Have No Problem With It, And Specifically Those Who Have Done It And Failed... Am Here To Give You A Few Tips On Why The Relationship Probably Never Worked.
For Most Guys, Its Unusual And A First Experience To Have A Lady Approach Them. And Saying 'NO' Isn't Really An Option Especially If The Lady Is One That They Would Love To Have A Relationship With. Yes, I'll Address This Issue In Two Perspective
1) When You Are Not His Type
2) When You Are His Type.
WHEN YOU ARE NOT HIS TYPE
As A Lady, When You Approach A Guy Whom Isn't Attracted To You In Anyway, And Doesn't Want To Be Outrightly True To You By Turning You Down In The Most Appropriate Of Ways, So As Not To Hurt You... What First Comes To His Mind Is "Is She The Kinda Girl I Wanna Be With?" Now If You Are Unfortunate To Approach A Guy Who Isn't Man Enough, That Sees You As An Easy Prey. He Wouldn't Care About Your Character/Attitude Or Other Essential Qualities He Needs In A Woman. Because All His Mind And Focus Is Directed Towards Having SEX With You As Soon As Possible.
...And Because You Are Already So Into This Guy, You Wouldn't Mind Doing Anything Just To Get Him To Love You As Much As You Love Him, You Then Fall For Anything. Now This Is Where Some Ladies Who Have Approached Guys And Failed Get It Wrong. Because Soon The Guy Is Done And Gone... And You Feel Cheap, Cheated, And Used. Then You Start Thinking The Whole Idea Of Approaching A Guy Is Lame And Wasted.
WHEN YOU ARE HIS TYPE
The Mistake Ladies Who Approached A Guy Who Is Genuinely Interested In Return Mostly Lies In This Part.
Remember I Talked About How The Bible Admonished Men To Love Their Wives... And I Said Its Because Men Have A Hard Time Loving. Men Are Quite Slow To Love Than Women, But Women Are Naturally Wired To Love.
So One Of The Mistakes Most Ladies Who Approach A Guy Make Is Actually Wanting The Guy To Start Responding With All The Love And Care They Require From A Man. What They Forget Is That A Guy Who Shows A Genuine Interest, And Who Sees Her As His Type Also Needs Time To Be Sure About What He Is Getting Himself Into, If Truly It Would Work Out.
As A Lady Who Approached A Guy, Don't Forget That The Qualities The Guy Is Looking For In A Wife Wouldn't Change Because You Approached Him First. So If Your Qualities In The Course Of The Relationship Doesn't Tally With What He Wants In A Woman, Then That Relationship Is Sure To End Soon Leaving You The Lady Emotionally Shattered In Regret For Making The First Move.
NOTE: If You Are A Lady Who Nags, Cheats, Who Is Rude And Non Social, Don't You Think Approaching A Guy First For A Relationship Wouldn't Favour You? So Its Advisable To Be At Your Best Before Being The First To Make A Move.
Finally, Don't Expect The Man To Immediately Start Doing The Things He Would Have Done If He Was The One Who Approached You. Give Him Time To Grow Into Loving You By The Way You Handle Issues Maturedly. Be In Control Of Your Feelings, Don't Let It Escalate Into Making You Behave Needy And Possessive, Because It Would Scare Your Man Who Is Just Getting To Love You Away.
Just Imagine How It Took You Time As A Lady To Finally Get To Love That Guy Who Once Approached You. If It Is So For You As A Lady Who Has Twice The Ability To Love, How Much More A Man Who Is Slow To Love?
JUST THINK ABOUT THAT.
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