IS YOUR GUT LEADING- OR MISLEADING YOU?

One's Emotions Can Be Helpful In Pointing The Way Toward Love- Or As
Unreliable As A Broken Compass Whose Needle Points In Only One
Direction. That's Because Lots Of Things Influence Ouq Feelings.
Sometimes They Are Based On Logic. Sometimes They Are Influenced By
Fear. Sometimes We Can't Pinpoint The Reason, But We Just Have A
Nagging Sense About Something Or Someone•
In Your Dating Decisions, How Much Credence Should You Give To These
Gut Feelings? There's No Ironclad Answer For Every Person And Every
Circumstance. But As You're Trying To Figure Out How To Decipher That
Small Inner Nudge, Here Are Some Important Questions To Ask Yourself:
1• ARE MY GUT INSTINCTS IN LINE WITH MY LOGIC?
If Your Intuition And YOUR Rational Thinking Are Telling You The Same
Thing, You Probably Have Nothing To Worry About. That's Because When
All The Arrows Are Pointing The Same Direction, It's Pretty Clear
Which Way To Head. But When It Comes To Love And Romance, Things Are
Usually More Complicated Than That. It Might Be That You Are Wrestling
With The Idea Of Following A Third Arrow- Which Is What You Want To
Do, Even If Your Gut And Your Brain Are Assuring You It's A Horrible
Idea. If This Is The Case, Resist The Urge To Ignore What Your
Intuition And Your Brain Are Telling You•
2• ARE MY GUT FEELINGS FEAR-BASED?
If This Turns Out To Be The Case, That Doesn't Mean They're Wrong And
You Shouldn't Follow Them. But It Might Mean You Should Take Them With
A Grain Of Salt. Dig A Little Deeper. Is Your Fear Based On Actual
Danger, Or Is It Fueled By Old Baggage You've Yet To Unpack And
Unload? Sometimes What Seems Like Your Gut Talking Can Actually Be Old
Hurts And Wounds Getting Vocal. If So, Some Healing, Therapy, Prayer,
Or Straight Talk With Yourself Might Be In Order•
3• ARE MY GUT FEELINGS CONSISTENT OVERTIME?
Sometimes We Put Emotions On The Back Burner. Our Intuition Is Talking
To Us, But There's No Immediate Danger Or Need For A Quick Decision,
So We Give Things Time To See If Future Events Confirm Or Recalibrate
Our Instincts. But If That Nagging Small Voice Has Been Consistently
Giving The Same Warning For A While Now, It's Wise You Take Heed•

4• ARE MY GUT FEELINGS SAYING THE SAME THING AS CLOSE FRIENDS AND
FAMILY WHO KNOW ME WELL, AND WHOSE OPINION I RESPECT?

If So, It Adds Credence To The Intuition You May Be Trying To Dismiss.
Pay Close Attention When Your Intuition And People You Trust Are
Speaking In Unison•

5• AM I IN DENIAL?

It's Easy To Develop Blind Spots When Our Emotions Are Focused On The
Possibility Of Lasting Love. Still, Most Of Us Know The Stubborn Truth
Down Deep, Though We May Be Unwilling To Admit It To Ourselves Or
Anyone Else. Ask Yourself Honestly If You're Fighting Your Intuition,
Even If Somewhere Inside You Know It's Spot On•

6• WHAT KIND OF TRACK RECORD DO MY GUT FEELINGS HAVE?

Flip Through The Pages Of Your Memory And Consider The Times Your
Intuition Has Kicked In. Did You Follow Your Feelings Too Quickly And
Later Regret Your Haste? Or Did You Ignore Your Intuition And Wish You
Had Listened Instead? The Past Won't Necessarily Tell You Exactly What
You Should Do This Time Around, But It Will Indictate If Your
Intuition Is Typically Reliable.

Sometimes Circumstances Disprove Our Initial Gut Feelings. Sometimes
We Need Time To Admit To Ourselves That Our Intuition Was Right All
Along. But By Asking Ourselves Questions Like These, We Can Often
Hasten The Process Of Figuring Out Whether Our Gut Is Just Chattering
Or Providing Wise Counsel•