Jealousy Will Make You Crazy. When You Are In Its Grip The Feeling Is
Almost Unbearable. It Can Make You Physically Sick And Unable To Focus
On Anything Else. Jealousy Will Compel You To Do Things You Will Later
Regret And You Can Never Take Back. Jealousy Can Single Handedly
Destroy A Good Relationship•
If You Have A Boyfriend Or Husband That Openly Flirts With Other Women
Or Whom You Know Is Cheating, You Would Have To Be Made Of Stone Not
To Feel Hurt And Betrayed. Here Jealousy Is A Natural Response. But
When Jealousy Is Self-Created, Unrelated To Reality, It Acts Like A
Poison That Takes Over Your Life AND Destroys Your Self-Esteem. The
Jealousy I'm Refering To Is Based On Fear, Not On Fact, A Green
Monster That You Create Out Of Your Own Imagination•
I Have Worked With Many Women Who Make Excuses For Their Jealous
Behaviour. They Try To Justify The Actions They Take When They Spy On
Their Men As If They Are Not Responsible For Their Jealousy. But The
Truth Is Jealousy Feels Bad. It Is Unattractive And Kills The LOVE In
A Relationship.
HAS YOUR JEALOUSY GONE TOO FAR?
It Has If:
1• You Find Yourself Constantly Checking Up On Your Man's Facebook Or
Twitter Page.
2• You Can't Stop Yourself From Checking His Call History And
Listening To His Phone Messages Behind His Back
3• You Constantly Call Or Text Him During The Day Just To Find Out Where He Is.
If You Said Yes To Even One Of These Questions, You Are In Trouble.
When You Start Messing Around In Your Man's Personal Business, You
Have Lost Control Of Your Dignity And Your Pride. Your Relationship
Now Lacks One Of The Most Important Qualities It Needs To Thrive
Trust. Even If He Gives You A Reason To Be Suspicious, You Are Still
Responsible For How You Behave In The Relationship.
So What Can You Do To Get Rid Of The Jealousy That Is Sucking The
Energy And Happiness Out Of Your Life? yOU Have To Attack Jealousy At
Its Root. Jealousy Is About How You Feel About You More Than How Your
Man Feels About You. If You Find Yourself Obsessing On His Life And
What He's Doing It's A Sure Sign You Are Not Paying Attention To Your
Own.
If You Think Your Man Is More Interested In Other Women Than He Is In
You, It Can Mean You Think They Are More Worthy Of His Interest Than
You Are. If You Are Attracted To Your Man, You Will Believe That Other
Women Are As Well And That Can Be Scary, Especially If You Doubt Your
Own Value. You Can Find Yourself In A Downward Spiral Where It Seems
Every Other Woman Is More Attractive And More Interesting Than You
Are. By This Time You Have Lost Yourself.
SO HOW DO YOU CHANGE YOUR IRRATIONAL FEELINGS OF JEALOUSY?
You Have To Take Your Eyes Off Him And Start To Work On You. It's
Important That You Face The Challenge Of Taking Control Of Yourself
Before It Destroys Your Chance For Love.
Take Positive Actions That Will Increase Your Feelings Of Self-Worth.
The Only Way To Feel Good About You Is By Doing Things That Make You
Feel Proud; That Bring You Self-Respect. That Is The Exact Opposite Of
What You Have Been Doing. It Feels Terrible To Snoop And Sneak Into
Someone Else's Life. Negative Actions Bring With Them Negative
Emotions, So You End Up Feeling Guilt, Remorse And Shame•
Your Feeling About Your Man Will Always Be A Reflection Of How You
Feel About You. IF You Don't Trust Yourself You Can't Trust The Man In
Your Life If You Cannot Love Yourself, You Will Not Believe That You
Are Loved.
Pay Attention To What You Need To Do To Make Your Life More Fulfilling
And Satisfying And Start Doing It. You Will Find Your Mind Now
Occupied With Good Thoughts About You And Your Value As A Woman. You
Will See Things More Dearly And Invite Into Your Life A New Sense Of
Well Being And Confidence. As You Begin To Trust Yourself You Will Be
Creating Your Own Sense Of Emotional Security That Nothing Can Shake.
Your Jealousy Will Dissipate And You Will Be Able To Love From A Much
Deeper And More Trusting Place•
JEALOUSY In Romance Is Like Salt In Food. A Little Can Enhance The
Savour, But Too Much Can Spoil The Pleasure And, Under Certain
Circumstances, Can Be Life-Threatening•
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