CAN A MAN LOVE TWO WOMEN AT THE SAME TIME?

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Many Have Argued That A Man Cannot Genuinely Love More Than One Woman.
They Argue That If It Is More Than One Then It Is Lust Or Infatuation.
They Also Posit That "REAL LOVE" Trancends Any Degree. That Is, If You
Really Love A Woman It Is 100 Per Cent, It Can't Be Shared With Any
Other One, Else Lust Comes In•
Is There Any Merit In This Popular And Strongly Articulated Position?
Perhaps We Should Agree First On What LOVE Means To Have A Common Ground.
The Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary Defines Love As...
1)• Strong Feeling Of Deep Affection For Somebody,
2)• Strong Feeling Of Affection For Somebody That You're Sexually
Attracted To...
3)• The Strong Feeling Of Enjoyment That Somebody Or Something Gives You,
4)• A Person, Thing Or An Activity That You Like Very Much•
It Is Only Commonsensical And Normal That A Man Can Have The Above
Defined Feelings For Two Different Women. I Guess The Question Most
Folks (Women And Girls Especially) Really Want To Ask Is: Should A Man
Act On These Feelings? Should He Act On These Natural Instinct Or
Attraction And Go After All These Women? Now That's A Different
Question! But It Will Amount To Self-Deception And Delusion To Opine
That A Man Cannot Have Strong Feelings Of Affection For More Than One
Woman At The Same Time. It Simply Happens! But A Disciplined Man In A
Committed Relationship Or Who Has Taken Marital Vows With A Particular
Woman, Won't Act On These Feeling Except In The Instance Where His
Religion Or Personal Beliefs Allows Marrying More Than One Wife.
We're Only Taught By Culture Or Societal Norms To LOVE One Person In A
Relationship At A Time. The Capacity To Love Others Is Infinite
Especially As No Two People Are The Same. Should One Chase Two
Relationships At The Same Time Is Another Matter. This Widely Held
Misconception May Have Been Started By Puritans And Those At The Helm
Of Religious Affairs To Control Those With Roving Eyes And Hearts. It
Also Gives A Measure Of Comfort To Women That Once They Are The Apple
Of A Man's Heart, He Will Look No Further. But This Is Scant
Consolation In The Face Of Harsh Reality. It Is Better To Face The
Bitter Truth Of The Matter Than To Be Ensconced In The Comfort Of
Self-Deceit•
It Seems We Confuse Fidelity, Commitment And Marriage With The Issue
Of LOVE. Marriage As An Institution Excludes All Others Not In The
Union. Fidelity Means Staying Faithful To Your Spouse Or "LOVED" One.
A Man Can Love Any Number Of Women He Opens His Heart To. LOVE Comes
In Degrees. We Can Speak Of The Degree Or Intensity Of Love For Each
Of These Different Women But Not That It Must Be Infatuation To Have
Strong Feelings For More Than One WoMAN.
Reading From Various Sources, Love Is A Feeling Of Deep Affection Or
Passion. It Is Tender, Passionate Affection. It Is A Strong Personal
Liking. No Definition Of LOVE Anywhere Says That It Is The Exclusion
Of All Others!
Should A Man Pursue All The Women He Has Feelings Of Deep Affection Or
Passion For? That's A Moral And Different Question Altogether!
Some Religions Allow Marrying Up To Four Wives. And To Varying Degrees
The Husband Loves All His Wives. He May Have A Personal Ranking Of His
Level Of Affection For These Women But That Does Not Mean He Doesn't
Love Each Of Them•

Each Individual Brings Different Flavours To The Table. How Can He Not
Love Each Of Them For Their Different Pleasing Attributes? It Is A
FALLACY To Keep Insisting That There Is No Way A Man Can Love Two
Girls At The Same Time. And That One Must Be Infatuation. INFATUATION
Means To Inspire With A Foolish Love Or Admiration. The Men Caught In
These Situations Are Neither Foolish Nor Merely Out To Satisfy The
Flesh. They Know What They Feel And It Is LOVE.

Should A Man Therefore LOVE Two WOmen Or Pursue Two Relationships At
The Same Time Because He Has Natural Feelings? This Is A Moral
Question And It Is Different From: CAN A Man LOVE Two Women At The
Same Time?

PARIS JACKSON-- I WANT MY BROTHER BACK

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Paris Jackson Was At War With Her Brother Prince Days Before She Tried
To Commit Suicide, And We've Learned She's Now Extremely Regretful And
Wants To Mend Fences. Jackson Family Sources Tell DNM... Paris Felt
Abandoned By Not Just Prince, But By Everyone In Her World. When
Micheal Was Alive The Family Bond Was Unbreakable. But After He Died,
She Not Only Lost Her Father, But The Family Unit Disintegrated. She
Couldn't Relate To Blanket Because He War Too Young, Ditto Katherine
Because She Was Too Old, So The Only Possible Soulmate Was Prince.
We're Told Prince Became Distant To Paris Because He Developed Other
Interests-- Girls, Martial Arts And Cars. Paris Became Enraged And The
Two Argued Fiercely, Which Escalated Up To The Time Paris Took A Meat
Clever To Her Arm. We're Told One Of The Reasons Paris Became Close To
Debie Rowe Is Because Her Mother Showed A Genuine Interest And Love
For Her Daughter-- Which Meant A Lot. But Rowe Couldn't Solve The Big
Problem In Paris' Life--- ThE Feeling Of Abandonment. Our Sources Say
Paris Has Recently Been Telling Friends And Family She Wants To Repair
Her Relationship With Prince, And Regrets The Conflicts That Divided
Them. Short Story... WE're Told The Fact That Paris Is Expressing
These Feelings Is Great Progress•

WENTWORTH MILLER-- I'M GAY STICKS IT TO VLADIMIR PUTIN

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"Prison Break" Star Wentworth Miller Has Just Revealed He's A Gay
Man... In A Statement That Reads As A Giant "F YOU" To Russia. The
41-year-Old Actor Fired Off A Letter To The Director Of The St.
Petersburg International Film Festival-- Rejecting Its Invitation For
Him To Travel To The Motherland For The Event... And In The Letter, WM
Went Public About His Sexuality For The First Time. "Thank You For
Your Kind Invitation As Someone Who Has Enjoyed Visiting Russia In The
Past And Can Also Claim A Degree Of Russian Ancestry, It Would Make Me
Happy To Say Yes. However, As A Gay Man, I Must Decline. "Miller
Continues... "I Am Deeply Troubled By The Current Attitude aND
Treatment Toward Gay Men And Women By The Russian Government." The
Situation Is In No Way Acceptable, And I Cannot In Good Conscience
Participate In A Celebratory Occasion Hosted By A Country Where People
Like Myself Are Being Systematically Denied Their Basic Right To Live
And Love Openly." He Added, "If Circumstances Improve, I'll Be Free To
Make A Different CHOICE•"

WHAT DO WEALTHY MEN WANT FROM WOMEN?

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If You Want To Date A Wealthy Man, You'd Better Read The Following
Tips Carefully. Hope It Can Help You Find Your Wealthy Match:
Am Often Stunned By Ladies Who Want To Date And Marry Wealthy Men, And
Yet Don't Know Their Left From Their Right. As A Result, The DNM CREW
Decided To Go Out Of The Way To Take A Survey Of What Wealthy Men Want
From Women•••
#1• PATIENCE AND TOLERANCE:
If You Are Not Patient, You Can Not Date With Wealthy Men. Wealthy Men
Always Put Themselves First, Their Business Second And Their Women
Third. :O ••• Now That Is A Hard Pill To Swallow For Ladies Who Seek
Wealthy Men.
You Might Come First For A Few Weeks, But After A While... If You
Don't Believe This, You're In For A Big Disappointment. If He's Late
For Your Dates, Forgets A Special Occasion, Doesn't Pick Up Your Call
Immediately, Or Breaks An Appointment With You To Do Something Else,
It's Normal. Try To Accept It.
You Will Also Need To Tolerate Phone Calls That Interrupt Your
Romantic Times, Your Vacations, Your Dinners And Your Sex Life.
Wealthy Men Always Have Several Things Going On In Their Lives At
Anytime, Any Place. If You Can Not Tolerate His Obnoxious Business
Associate Who Hustles You, His Neighbour Who Calls You A Gold Digger,
His Ex Wife Who Snubs You Or His Dog Who Slobbers All Over You, Or The
Type Of Woman Who Demands To Be Put First, Then You Are Not The Kind
Of Person Who Should Consider Dating Wealthy Men•
#2• ATTITUDE AND CONFIDENCE:
Try To Be More Optimistic And Remember To Smile As Often As Possible.
A Woman Who Can Do All The Above Steps And Still Not Be Successful At
Meeting A Wealthy Individual Is Not Looking In The Right Places. Rich
Men Tend To Frequent Places Such As Fine Restaurants, Museums, Art
Galleries, Country Or Golf Clubs And Exotic Locations To Name A Few.
If You Are Not Up On The Local Hotspots You May Know How To Date
Wealthy Men But Not Where To Meet Them. You'll Notice Some Of These
Places Are Not Easily Accessible To The Average Woman Which Would Make
Meeting Such A Wealthy Individual Highly Unlikely•
#3• SEX:
You Are Right In One Aspect If Your Answer Is "SEX". Almost All Men
Want SEX. But To A Wealthy Man, Sex Flows Freely. If Your Body Is Your
Only Card On The Table, You Haven't Got Much To Offer. When The Men
Feel Tired Of The Sex With You, He'll Leave You.
Don't Think That You're Very Good In Bed And You Can Hold Him On. No
Matter How Good You Are In Bed, Some Other Women Still Can BE Just As
Satisfying And Inventive. And Men Will Get Bored With The Same Woman
Over And Over Again. There's A Term That Men Use Called "STRANGE SEX".
It Doesn't Mean That The Sex Is Strange, But It's New And Fresh. :-D
#4• A SWEET PERSONALITY:
Having A Sweet Personality Does Not Mean That You Are A Pushover. It
Means That You Have A Smile That Surfaces Easily; You Don't Let A Lot
Of Things Bother You; You Genuinely Like People And Respond To Them
Kindly. Being Sweet Means Being Compassionate Towards Others, Staying
Open To Different Viewpoints Without Being Harshly Opinionated, And
Staying Pleasant When Everyone Else Is Losing His Temper. Sounds
Impossible, Doesn't It? But That's What Men Want.
But Doesn't It Seem Like It's The Bitches Who Are Getting The Men?
Getting Them Maybe. Keeping Them Is Another Story. A Woman Who Is
Strong In Her Sense Of Self, Not Critical Of Others, And Forgiving
When Things Go Wrong, Is An Asset. Look Around You. Watch And See Whom
Others Admired And Then Copy Those Traits•
#5• EMOTIONALLY MATURE:
A Woman Who Is Mature Enough To Disagree With A Man Without Resulting
To Blame And Criticism Is An Absolute Turn On. You Should Be Able To
Share Or Discuss Your Feelings In A Way That Helps A Man Better
Understand Her Rather Than Belittle Him. One Of The Main Things A Man
Pays Attention To When Trying To Decide Whether To Get Serious With A
Woman Is The Way A Woman Handles Her Emotions. Remember It's Only A
Matter Of Time Before The Two Of You Will Disagree About Something So
Think Carefully About The Way You'll Respond. And Remember There's No
Need To Agree On Everything•

#6• TRUE INDEPENDENCE:

A Real Man Isn't Intimidated By An Independent Woman. On The Contrary
He's Turned On By Her! Wealthy Men And Real Men In General Are Known
For Being Inspired By Independent Women. They Enjoy Women Who Have
Great Things Going On In Their Own Lives. A Woman Should Have Her Own
Purpose In Life And Be Grounded Enough To Partake In A Meaningful
Relationship As Well•

TIPS FOR OVERCOMING LOW SELF-ESTEEM

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

#1• WORK ON YOUR OWN OPINION OF YOURSELF:

Refuse To Think About Insults Or Critical Comments. Choose Not To
Internalize Abuse From Your Past. You Win If You Let Go Of The Hurt
And Pain And Focus On Creating A Great Life For Yourself•

#2• CONTINUALLY AFFIRM YOURSELF:

Make A List Of Your Successes, Good Points And Strengths. Write Down
Compliments-And Read Them Frequently. Also, Reject Any Negative Or
Critical Thoughts. Don't Be Your Own Enemy. You Need To Love Yourself•

#3• START BUILDING CONFIDENCE BY TAKING A FEW STEPS:

Begin To Make Decisions, Or Choose, For Yourself- But Just Start Small
So It Doesn't Feel Too Hard. The More You Speak Up, Or Make Your Own
Decisions, The Easier And More Automatic It Will Feel•

#4• DON'T WORRY ABOUT PLEASING OTHERS:

You Have A Right To Think And Choose For Yourself, And Your Views Are
As Valid As Anybody Else's. Also, If You Put Others People First And
Never Think About Yourself, And Your Views Are As Valid As Anybody
Else's. Also, If You Put Other People First And Never Think About
Yourself, You'll End Up Being Used- And Not Treated With Respect•

#5• BE YOUR OWN PERSON:

Don't Try To Copy Others- You Were Made To Be Unique. Embrace Every
Part Of Our Personality, And All The Little Things That Make You YOU!

#6• DON'T HANG OUT WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE:

People With A Negative Attitude Will Rarely Build You Up Or Affirm Who
You Are. They Are Likely To Be Critical And Hard To Please, And That
Will Only Reinforce Your Low Self Esteem•

#7• DON'T EXPECT TO BE PERFECT:

If You Demand Perfection Then You're Setting Yourself Up For Always
Failing- And Not Being Good Enough. The Truth Is We're All Learning;
Everybody Makes Mistakes. So Expect That To Happen-And BE NICE TO
YOURSELF!