HE MAY BE A GOOD MAN•••JUST NOT FOR YOU: OBVIOUS WAYS TO TELL!

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Have You Ever Wanted Something To Work Out So Badly That You Became
Somewhat Delusional, Avoiding The Signs That What You Wanted Wasn't
Really What You Needed? If You Have, Chances Are, You Aren't The Only
One. Many Women Can Agree That When It Comes To Relationships, We're
All Guilty At One Point Of Falling In Love With The Idea Of A Man
Instead Of The Actual Person.
Maya Angelou Said It Best, "When Someone Shows You Who They Are,
Believe Them," And This Is Certainly True In Relationships. If He Says
One Thing But His Actions Prove Another, Believe His Actions Instead•
Still, For A Closet Hopeless Romantic It's Easy To Ignore The Signs
That Show You And This Individual Won't Click Well In The Future.
These Signs Don't Necessarily Mean He's Not A Good Guy, Just Not The
Guy For You. In An Attempt To Find Love, Here Are Some Of The Most
Obvious, Yet Ignored Signs, That Say He's Not The Man For YOU•
1• YOUR RELATIONSHIP BYPASSED THE HONEYMOON PHASE:
Most Relationships Have A Honeymoon Phase Where The Couple Wants To
Spend An Excessive Amount Of Time Around Each Other. They're Intrigued
By The Newness Of The Relationship And Want To Experience More Of The
Other Person Every Chance They Get. If Your Relationship Somehow
Missed This Honeymoon Phase, There May Be A Lack Of Chemistry On His
Part, Yours, Or Both. Sometimes We Confuse Chemistry With Comfort. If
He Seems Like A Good Catch, But Doesn't Give You Those Butterflies In
The Beginning, They May Never Come•
2• YOUR CONVERSATIONS ARE BRIEF BY CHOICE:
If The Relationship Consists Of Brief 'Check-Ins,' Then You Can't Get
Mad At The Guy For Trying To At Least Please You; But Who Doesn't Want
To Engage In Frequent Conversation With Their Significant Other? Or If
You Are Together, But Seem To Never Delve Into Any Deep Conversation,
Then Maybe You The Two Of You Have Nothing In Common To Talk About. If
This Is The Case, This Might Be An Obvious Sign Of A Dead-End
Relationship•
3• You Have A 'TELEPHONE LOVE'
Unless One Of You Has A Schedule Comparable To President Obama Or Live
Thousands Of Miles Apart, You Should See Each Other Consistently
(Especially When You Live Close To One Another). Its True That People
Make Time For What Or Whom They Want To Make Time For. If He Seems To
Choose Every Activity Over You, Then This Is An Obvious Sign That He's
Not The Man For You•
4• HE FORGETS IMPORTANT DATES AND INFORMATION:
Your Birthday, He Forgot The Day. You're Scheduled For A Big Promotion
At Work; He Forgot You Ever Mentioned It. You're Going Out Of The
Country For An All-Girl's Vacation, But Somehow It Slipped His Mind.
While He Doesn't Have To Include Your Schedule In His iPhone Or
Calendar Of Events, He Should Atleast Know The Important Occasions
That You've Blatantly Mentioned A Thousand Times•

5• YOU HAVEN'T TALKED ABOUT THE FUTURE AS A COUPLE:

You've Been Together For Months. And While You Often Talk About Where
The Two Of You Want To Be In The Next Few Years, You Never Mention
Each Other In Your Future Plans. Okay, So Maybe The Two Of You Don't
Want To Jump The Gun Too Fast; But If There Haven't Been Any Casual
Mentions That You May Be Together Past 2013, You Have To Wonder If He
(Or You) Are Thinking Of Each Other As Long-Term•

6• HE'S MIA WHEN YOU REALLY NEED HIM:

You've Received Exciting News, But Can't Reach Him. You've Had A Rough
Day And He's Nowhere To Be Found. Unless You Want To Be In A
Relationship Simply To Say You Are In One, What's The Point Of Being
With SomeOne Who Isn't Around For The Happiest And Saddest Moments Of
Your Life? The Point Of A Relationship Is To Have Someone Available
When You Need Them The MOST•

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MOVING ON TO THE NEXT CHAPTER IN YOUR LIFE

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"There Comes A Day When You Realize Turning The Page Is The Best
Feeling In The World, Because You Realize There Is So Much More To The
Book Than The Page You Were Stuck On."

Everything Must Come To An End, But At The Same Time, Every Ending Is
Nothing More Than A New Beginning. We Must Remember This, Because
Sometimes It Is Easily Apparent That We Experience Abrupt, And Painful
Endings In Life As We Continue To Experience Abrupt, And Painful
Endings In Life As We Continue To Experience More And More. Not Every
Situation In Life Is Easy, Especially Those That Cause Unwarranted,
Unwanted, And Unexpected Change. No One Can Go Back In Time, And Do
Things Over The Ways In Which They Would Now Want To Make Things As
They Desire For Them To Be In The Present, But We Can Always Choose To
Give Ourselves A New Start Now, So That In Turn We Can Make Some New
Endings. It Is Time To Really Live Like You Are Alive, Challenge
Yourself To Make The Best Out Of The Hardest Parts Of Your Life. Start
Over Now If You Need To, Today Is A Fresh Page In A New Book, Just
Waiting For You To Fill It•

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HOW YOUR CHILDHOOD AFFECTS YOUR RELATIONSHIPS•••

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Most People Hate To Admit That Their Childhood Affected How They
Behave In Relationships Today. They Will Admit That The Time They Were
Cheated On Affected Them. Or That Their First Heart Break Affected
Them. They Can Probably Tell You Something They Learned From Every
Past Breakup, And How It Has Shaped The Way They Behave In
Relationships Today, And Even The Partners They Seek Out. Why Is That?
Because It's The Past. And, Whether You Like It Or Not, You Don't Go
Through Life Unscathed By Your Past Experiences. Your Childhood Is A
Part Of Your Past Too. And, Altough It May Not Be As Apparent How It
Affects Your Love Life As An Adult, It Has A Huge Impact•
1• IF YOU HAD DIVORCED PARENTS:
You Were Very Closely Linked To A Relationship That Was Meant To Last
Forever, But Ended. It Was Supposed To Be The Whole Book, And Turned
Out To Be Just A Chapter In Each Of Your Parent'S Lives. You Become
uLTRA Aware At A Young Age That Some People Just Don't Stick. Even
People Who Felt So Certain At One Point That They Would Stick Forever•
YOU MIGHT-
With Every Guy You Date, Already Be Able To See The End. You Think Of
Him As Just A Chapter In Your Life, And You Can Already See The Other
Men You'll Date After Him. You Don't Necessarily Fear Commitment, But
You Fear Meldling Your Life With Someone Else's. The Only Couple Who
You Were Supposed To See As A Unit, Rather Than Two Seperate Entities,
Split Up Into Separate Enities. And So, You Struggle To See Yourself
As Part Of A Unit. Especially Since You Saw How Much Your Parents
Struggled To Find Themselves As Individuals Again After Their Divorce,
You Do Fear Ever Giving Up That Sense Of Independence, Because You
Don't Feel Certain That Whoever You Give It Up For Will Be Around
Forever•
2• IF YOU HAD PARENTS WHO WERE UNHAPPILY MARRIED:
You Rarely Saw Them Look Each Other In The Eye And Say A Warm,
Complementing Word. They Bickered Constantly. They Were Passive
Aggressive And Sarcastic With Each Other. Their Relationship Was More
Of A Battle Of Who Could Make The Other One Look And Feel More Like A
DUMB ASS, Than A Loving, Supportive Partnership. But, They Stayed
Together•
YOU MIGHT-
Accept Arguing As A Natural Part Of A Relationship. Not Just The
Occasional Disagreement-But A Constant State Of Tension. Making
Yourself Vulnerable To Your Partner By Giving Them A Genuine,
Self-Less Compliment Might Seem Awkward To You. Some People Simply
Don't Tolerate Yelling Or Cursing In Their Relationship. The Second It
Happens, They End That Relationship. But You Might Believe That No
Relationship Exists Without It. If It Did, Then Your Parents Wouldn't
Have Stuck Together...Right?
3• IF YOUR PARENTS WERE SEEMINGLY HAPPY:
You Didn't Hear Them Argue. They Had Cheery Dispositions. They Both
Had Their Own Activities That Made Them Happy-But Separately. Your Mum
Was The Head Of Every Charity Organization In Town, Was Married To Her
Work, Or Had An Overly Active Social Life. Your Dad Did Any And All Of
The Above, As Well. And This Made Them Happy Enough To Not Totally
Realize That There Wasn't Much Closeness Between Them. That They
Didn't Communicate Very Deeply Or Connect Entirely•
YOU MIGHT-
Accept The Concept That Not Everything Is Appropriate To Talk About
With Your Partner. That Your Feelings And Fears Should Be Reserved For
Your Friends And Family, And That Your Partner's Should Be Reserved
For His Friends And Family, But When The Two Of You Meet In The Same
Room, You Are Meant To Bring Your Cheeriest Disposition. This Is A
Partnership In The Sense That You Help One Another Function. You Take
Comfort In A Stable Relationship. The Routine You Have With Your
Partner Makes You Feel Safe To Take On Other Things In Life, Like
Promotions At Work Or Long Backpacking Trips With Your Friends. But,
You Don't Feel That Invigorating Sense Of Being In Sync And In LOVE•
4• YOUR PARENTS WERE MADLY IN LOVE:
They Did Everything Together. They Were Extremely Communicative. They
Complimented Each Other All Of The Time. They Couldn't Keep Their
Hands Of Each Other. They Were Best Friends And Obviously Still Very
Interested Lovers Throughout Their Marriage. No Fight Lasted More Than
A Day, And Was Handled With An Open Conversation And Compromise On
Both Parts•

YOU MIGHT-

Think Marriage Is The Ultimate Goal. That Life Will Be Infinitely
Better With It-That You Will Be A Better Person If You Are Married And
Will Be Capable Of Bigger And Better Things. You Might Feel Incomplete
If You Don't Have A Partner And You Might Prioritize Finding A Partner
Over Everything Else, Like Social Life Or A Career. You Might Be The
Type Who Never Wants To Leave Your Boyfriend's Side, Even From A Young
Age, Because You Think That The Male And Female Partnership Is The
Most Important Relationship. You Might Make A Wonderful, Committed
Girlfriend And Wife. But You Might Sacrifice Having A Life And
Adventures Of Your Own•

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LOVE IS YOUR DESTINY

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"LOVE Is Your Destiny, Everything Else Is A Detour On The Road Of
Life, That Takes You Away From Your Goal Of Happiness."

If You Ever Want To Help Someone Live Their Life, Just Give Them Love.
We Tend To Overcomplicate Relationships By Giving A Person The Best
Advice We Can Think Of, Or By Offering Them Ultimatums And Attempting
To Make Them Choose StandardS For Theirselves That We We Want For
Ourselves.

People Don't Always Work Best Under Pressure, And Seeing As We All Are
Our Own Beings With Our Own Souls, Minds, And Free Will To Choose, We
Have To Respect That Many Times It Is Only In Our Friend's Best
InterestS To Just Be Shown Love. We All Show Love In Our Different
Ways, But We Can All Try To Make Our Best Attempt At Showing The Most
Genuine Intent Of LOVE. Loving People May Be Difficult At Times
Because Of The Ways That Situations Present Themselves; We Must Note
That To Continue To Love Through Another Person's Hardships Is To
Continue To Live Your Own Life. Forgive When You Aren't Even Asked To,
Be Kind When It Should Be Okay To Be Mean, Give Love When Someone Only
Desires To Hurt YOU•

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THE BIGGEST BEDROOM MISTAKES COUPLES MAKE

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It Takes Two To Tango In The Bedroom. We Often Read About The Mistakes
That Men Or Women Make When It Comes To SEX, But In The End, A Sexual
Relationship Involves Two People. When A Relationship Starts To Slip
Or When Things Just Don't Seem To Be As Exciting And Fun As They Once
Were, Often Times The Problems Lie Between The Sheets. Many
Relationships Start Off With An Amazing And Anxiety-Filled Bedroom
Life, And Overtime Things Become Dull As Almost Expected. Here Are
Most Common Bedroom Mistakes That Couples Make•
1• NOT TRYING NEW THINGS:
Many Couples Fall Victim Of Finding Things They Like In The Bedroom
And Doing Nothing More And Nothing Less. After Months Of Doing The
Same Things In The Bedroom, It's All But Certain That Your SEX Life
Will Go Downhill. In Order For Your Bedroom Life To Stay Fun And
Exciting, It's Important To Incorporate New Things Into The Mix. Doing
The Same Things Over And Over Is Bound To Create A Monotonous Sex
Life•
2• HAVING A ROUTINE:
Every Night At 7PM You And Your Man/Woman Are Going At It, And While
This Works For You Two, Having A Routine Takes A Lot Out Of Your SEX
LIFE. When It Comes To The Bedroom, It's Best To Keep Things A Bit Of
A Mystery. There Is Absolutely No Excitement In Knowing Exactly When
You'll Be Doing The Deed. Mix Things Up A Bit And Surprise Your
Partner When He/She Least Expects It•
3• DE-VALUING THE ACT:
Sex Is Only As Valuable And Meaningful As You Make It. Though Plenty
Of Other Things Matter A Lot More Than Sex In A Relationship, It
Should Still Have Priority And Meaning To You. If You're Having SEX
Just To Appeal To Your Partner Or Just Get It Out Of The Way, It's
Clear That It's Not Something You Value. Meaningful SEX. Filled With
Emotion And Raw Appeal Is Going To Be What MakeS Your Relationship
More Better•
4• NOT TALKING ABOUT IT:
You've Heard It Ever Since You Were Little, But Being Honest Goes A
Long Way, Especially When It Comes To ThE Bedroom. If You're Unhappy
With Something Your Partner Does Or If You Want To Try Something New,
Don't Hold It Back. There'S Nothing Worse Than Lying And Pretending
That Everything Is Okay When It Isn't Though Its A Sensitive Topic,
You'll Want To Make A Huge Impact On Your Relationship•
5• MAKING EXCUSES:
Sometimes You Just Don't Want To Have SEX, And That's Fine. But When
You're Making Daily Excuse After Daily Excuse, There's Going To Be
Days When You're Too Tired Or When He's Too Stressed To Really Put The
Necessary Effort And Energy Into Having Quality SEX. However, Don't
Let Excuses Become The Norm. Find Ways To Make Sure That You're Having
Bedroom Time As Often As Possible, Even If You Do Have A Headache•
6• FAKING IT:
Though Women Are More OfteN Accused Of Faking It, Men Can Fake It As
Well. Faking It On A Very Rare Occasion Is Okay, But Don't Let Faking
It Become A Common Act In The Bedroom. Otherwise, You're Sending Your
Partner Mixed Signals And Making Him/Her Think That You're Enjoying
SEX When You Really Aren't. If Faking It Becomes A Common Thing, Get
To The Bottom Of It ASAP•

7• NOT LISTENING:

Just Like In A Relationship, Communication And Good Listening Skills
Are Key For A Healthy And Happy SEX Life. If Your Partner Expresses
Things He/She Likes Or Doesn't Like, You'll Want To Make Note Of Them.
Doing Things Your Partner Doesn't Like It Sure To A Turn Off, And If
You Continue, You May Be Doing More Turning Off Than You Are Turning
On. Listen To Each Other When It Comes To Likes And Dislikes In The
Bedroom•

8• FEELING PRESSURED:

Usually In The Beginning Stages Of A Relationship, Sex Can Be Full Of
Worry And Pressure. You Of Course Want To Please Your Partner And You
Want Things To Be Perfect. All Of This Combined Creates A Lot Of
Stress And Pressure, But Over Time These Feelings Usually Wear OFF. If
You're Still Feeling A Lot OF Stress And Pressure When It Comes To
SEX, Be Sure To Talk About It With Your Significant Other•

9• BEING PASSIVE ALL THE TIME:

Sex Should Be Give And Take, Meaning That It Shouldn't Be A One Sided
Act. It's Important That Both Of You Take An Active Role In Your SEX
LIFE, This Means That You Both Should Initiate SEX And You Should Both
Be Open To New Things. Don't Become A Passive Partner That Makes
Absolutely No Contributions To Keeping Your SEX Life Alive And WELL•

10• NOT CARING ABOUT YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE:

SEX Isn't Very Good When Your Partner Isn't Sexually Attracted To You.
A Lot Of People Get Comfortable In A Relationship And Let Themselves
Slip. While Gaining A Few Pounds Isn't Going To Break The
Relationship, Letting Yourself Go Completely May Negatively Impact
Your SEX LIFE. If This Becomes An Issue, Try Exercising Or Eating
Healthier As A Couple•

11• NOT ENOUGH 4PLAY:

A Lot Of Couples Tend To Skimp Out On 4play, Even Though It's What
Really Sets The Stage For What's To Come. Instead Of Jumping Right
Into Things, Tease Each Other And Really Get Yourselves Into The Mood.
4Play Allows You Two To Be A Bit Playful And Flirty, Which Really Sets
The Stage For A Lot Of Fun Later On•

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