SIGNS SHE'S USING YOU AS HER REBOUND GUY

A Rebound Is Only As Good As It Is In A Game Of Hoops. Outside Of That
And Specifically Inside A Budding Romantic Relationship, That's
Definitely Bad News. And This Is Especially Bad If You Are Rebound.

Rebound Relationships Are Almost Always Doomed To Fail. Not To
Mention, It Can Get Very Complex And Quite Painful Too. For One, The
Ex Is, More Than Ever, Not Just A Big Thing To 'Consider' But Is A
Looming, Haunting Presence.
There's Also The Fact That She Is Using You To
(a) Move From Her Breakup Or
(b) To Get Back At Her Ex Or
(c) BOTH.
Even If You Always Try The Effective Ways On How To Touch Her Heart- A
Simple Approach, She Still Considers You As A Rebound Is Bad, Bad,
Bad. And You Should Not Be In That Situation Because You Deserve
Better. Think You Might Be Her Rebound? Check Out The Signs Below And
Find Out For Yourself:

1¤ The Time Between Her Breakup And Between The Beginning Of Your
Relationship Is Quite Short:

Rebound Relationships Are The Easiest Ways To Escape A Bad Breakup. If
She Jumped Into A Relationship With You Soon After Her Breakup,
There's A Great Chance That She's Using You To Escape Her Heartbreak
(And Maybe Her Bad Ex).

2¤ If Everyone But You And Her Are Surprised About Your Relationship:

If Everyone Says It's "Too Soon", Or Everyone Acts Like It At Least,
Then It Must Actually Be A Little Too Soon. While I Could Tell You The
Importance Of Not Minding People's Opinions About Your Relationship
And To Simply Run It The Way You Want To, Sometimes, Their Opinions
Will Tell You What You Couldn't See In Your Girlfriend. So If They
Think It's Too Soon, Think It Through, You Might Have Been Used!

3¤ She Gets Too Defensive When The Topic Of Her Ex Comes Up:

You Know How People Deny Things A Little Too Exaggeratedly When They
Are Hiding Something About It? Thats Exactly The Same Reaction Your
Girl Will Give You If You Even So Mention The Ex. Its Like She's
Running Away From Him So Desperately And Is Using You To Accelerate
Her Moving On Process.

4¤ She Still Has His Stuff:

Part Of A Person's Moving On Process Includes The Power And The
Motivation To Let Go Of Every Remnant Of That Past Relationship
Without Bitterness. And If She's Truly And Fully Moved On From Him
Before Getting On A Relationship With You, She Should Have Rid Herself
Of Them Long, Long Time Ago. Otherwise, She's Still Almost Literally
Holding On To The Memories Of What They Used To Have.

5¤ She Keeps Comparing You To Her Ex:
It Does Not Even Matter Whether Or Not She's Talking About The Good
Things Or The Bad Things You Have In Common With Her Ex And Puts You
Side By Side Is Never Great News. It Only Means That She's Still
Thinking About Him!

If You See Any Of These Signs In Your Current Flame, Pack Your Bags,
Become A Happy Single Guy And GO! NOW!

PRAYING AMISS- THE REASON MOST RELIGIOUS FOLKS REMAIN THE SAME

Hmmm! I've Been To Different Prayer Houses, And I Could See How People
Are Aggressive In Their Prayers. They Shout, Cry, Kick, Punch And
Command The Enemies Against Their Life To Die. Yet, A Lot Of These
People's Lives Remain The Same. #Smh

Little Wonder The Bible Said "My People Perish For The Lack Of
Knowledge." I Am Not Saying There Is Anything Wrong About Praying
Against Your Enemy, But Has It Ever Crossed Your Mind That You Can Be
The Enemy Against Yourself??? :O

In Such A Case, When You Pray Such Prayers Against Your Enemy, God
Sees You. Now What Do You Expect Him To Do? Strike You Dead? Or
Cripple You? I Don't Think So. Now You See That Most Of Us Are Praying
Amiss... In Effect, God Wouldn't Answer Such A Prayer Because You Are
Praying The Wrong Prayer.

The Truth Remains That The Problem Majority Have Is Themselves, If
They Could Only Stop Worrying About The Enemy Outside, And Concentrate
On The Enemy Within Themselves, There Lives Would Be Better For It.

Stop Believing And Living With The Consciousness That Somebody Is
After Your Downfall.

The Devil Has No Power Of His Own, Its Only The Power You Give To Him
By Being Ignorant Of The Things Of The Kingdom That Leaves You
Confused.

A Lot Of People Screaming "AMEN" To Every Good Prayer, Forgetting That
Its Not In How Loud Your "AMEN" Is, But In How Much You Are Willing To
Put Into Achieveing Your Heart Desires. Like The Bible Says "FAITH
Without Work Is Dead." In Other Words "FAITH, Without Work, Is Dead."

Sometimes For Your Prayers To Be Answered, You Need To Do Something
You've Never Done Before... Would Save The Details Till Some Other
Time. But Remember, Rather Than Praying Against The Enemy, Or Praying
Amiss, Why Not Ask God For A Prayer Direction. Because Most Times, The
Prayer Points Coming From The Pulpit Or Altar Isn't Meant For You, But
For The Unbelievers, And Babies Just Coming To Know CHRIST In The
Church.

BE WISE!!!

HOW TO AVOID THE FRIEND ZONE WITH A GIRL YOU WISH TO DATE

Afraid You'll End Up Being Just A Friend With The Girl You Like? Use
These Tips On How To Avoid The Friend Zone If You Want To Get Into Her
Pants.
The Friend Zone Is A Tricky Place To Fall In.
You May Be Trying Hard To Get Close To A Girl, Close Enough To Tell
Her That You Like Her, But One Fine Day She Turns Around And Tells You
That You're Such A Great Friend, Or Worse, You're Just Like A Brother
To Her.
Ever Been There?
I Hope You Haven't.
Guys Find Themselves Falling Into The Friend Zone Almost All The Time.
It's Frustrating And Demeaning, And At Times, Inevitable.
You May Get Really Close To A Girl With All The Hopes Of Getting Into
Her Pants, But Somewhere Along The Way, You May Have Taken A Few
Detours That Led You Right Into The Friend Zone.
WHAT IS A FRIEND ZONE?
A Friend Zone Is A Happy Place For A Girl. It's A Place Where She And
A Guy Can Sit Together And Talk About Anything And Get Real Friendly
With Each Other.
For A Guy, A Friend Zone Is The Worst Place To Be In, Especially When
He Likes The Girl Who Behaves Like A Friend.
In A Friend Zone, The Two Involved Friends Of The Opposite Sex Are
Just Friends And Nothing More. They Project No Sexual Interest Towards
Each Other And Behave In A Completely Platonic Manner.
But Can Any Guy Ever Be Friends With A Girl He Finds Sexually
Attractive? Or Course Not. He Can Try To Be A Friend With The Hope Of
Getting An Occasional Cuddle Or A Warm Boob Pressing Hug Now And Then,
But He's Always Going To Be Just Be A Friend While She Dates Every
Other Guy In The Yearbook.
HOW DO GUYS END UP FALLING INTO THE FRIEND ZONE?
A Guy Falls Into A Friend Zone For Very Obvious Reasons. He Behaves
Like A Friend. And He Never Lets The Girl Know That He Has More Than
Friendly Intentions On His Mind.
And Soon Enough, The Girl Loses All Realization Of The Fact That This
Guy Has A Package Down There. And He Just Becomes Another Sexless
Thing She Hangs Out With All The Time As A Platonic Friend.
So Why Do Some Guys End Up As Friends Instead Of Boyfriends Or Sex
Buddies? Here's Why.
1¤ THEY GET TOO CLOSE:
Getting Too Close To A Girl On Platonic Grounds Will Never Help You.
You May Assume That It's The Easiest Way To Get A Girl To Know You
Better. She'll Definitely Get To Know You Better, But Only As A
Friend.
2¤ NO SEXUAL CHEMISTRY:
If A Guy Likes A Girl, He Has To Make It Subtly Obvious That He's
Sexually Interested In Her. If A Guy Behaves Like A Pushover And A
Doormat, No Girl Will Feel Even A Tingle Of Sexual Chemistry.
3¤ THE GIRL'S NOT ATTRACTED TO THE GUY:
This Sucks, But This Is The Most Common Scenario. The Guy's Probably
Creepy, Annoying Or Just Not Good Enough To Be Her Boyfriend.
4¤ THE GUY THINKS SHE'S TOO GOOD FOR HIM:
At Times, A Guy May Genuinely Believe That The Girl He Likes Is Way
Too Good For Him. And Instead Of Hitting On Her, He Secretly Lusts For
Her, But Gives Up On Pursuing Her. Could You Ever Live With Yourself
By Just Being The Friend Of A Sexy Girl Who Dates Every Other Guy But
You?
5¤ HE PLAYS THE TRUE FRIEND CARD:
It Works In The Movies All The Time. The Girl Has A Best Friend Who's
Always There For Her. She Goes Ahead And Dates Every Single Guy In The
World, And Finally, At The End Of The Movie She Sees Her True Love In
The Form Of Her Best Friend. How Touching! And That's Why They Call It
The Movies. In Real Life, You Can't Become A Girl's Boyfriend Just By
Behaving Like A Best Friend.
HOW TO AVOID GETTING INTO THE FRIEND ZONE
It's Easy To Avoid The Friend Zone. All You Need To Do Is Drop A Few
Hints Now And Then To Let Her Know That You're Really Into Her. Use
These Easy Tips To Get The Message Across And Get Her To Desire You
While You're At It.
1¤ ASK HER OUT AND CHANGE THE TOPIC:
When You're Talking To Her For A While, Ask Her Out For Lunch Or
Coffee. See How She Responds. But Within A Second, Change The Topic.
Don't Wait For Her To Answer. It'll Seem Like A Joke, But It'll Still
Make Her Wonder If You Really Do Want To Date Her. Don't Make Things
Awkward By Waiting A While Before Saying Something Else. Keep It
Simple, Keep It Funny And Yet Reveal All The Dirty Thoughts In Your
Mind, And Change The Topic Immediately.
2¤ MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL AND EXCLUSIVE.
Give Her Something Small And Personal, But Tell Her To Keep It A
Secret. When You Create Secrets, You Build Sexual Chemistry And
Suspense Which Leads To Romance.

3¤ TOUCH HER AND TREAT HER LIKE YOUR GIRLFRIEND.

But Do It Respectfully Though. Clasp Her Hand While Crossing The
Street And Open Doors For Her When It's Just The Both Of You. Make Her
Feel Like A Queen, And She'll Love The Attention. But When Her Friends
Are Around, Don't Give Her Any Preferential Treatment. Let Her Realize
That You're Special To Her Only When It's Just The Two Of You.

4¤ COMPLIMENT HER WHEN SHE DESERVES IT.

Flatter Her Pants Off. If She Looks Good, Tell Her She Looks Hot. If
You See A Hint Of Cleavage And She Catches You Staring, Just Laugh,
Apologize And Tell It You Couldn't Resist It. Add A Few Funny Sexual
Remarks And You'll Never Get Into The Friend Zone.

5¤ TRY TO TALK TO HER WHEN SHE'S ALONE:

If Her Other Friends Are Around, Talk To Her If You Must Or Just Avoid
Her. You Can't Really Hit On A Girl When She's Surrounded By A Bevy Of
Friends.

But When You Find Her Alone, Make Sure You Turn On Your Charm And
Impress Her. See Her Alone? Chat Her Up. And If One Of Her Friends
Come By, Grumble Audibly In A Funny Manner And Say Something Like
"Just When I Thought I Was Going To Get Some Alone Time With You, This
Guy Pops Up Out Of Nowhere!" And Just Laugh. She'll Be Confused And
Wonder If You're Being Serious Or Just Joking.

But She'll Get The Hint That You Like Spending Time With Her Alone.
Make It Obvious That You Like Spending Time With Her In Whatever Way
Possible, But Don't Ask Her Out Or Tell Her You Like Her Just Yet.

6¤ BE A FRIEND WITHOUT BEHAVING LIKE HER OTHER FRIENDS.

Don't Talk Nonsense For Hours Or Spend Time Talking About Her Problems
In Life. Talk About Places She Visits, Movies She's Watched, And Her
Plans For The Weekend. Talk Date Talk And She'll Sense The Chemistry
In The Air.

Wondering How To Avoid The Friend Zone? Just Understand These Pointers
And Use These Tips. You'll Never Fall Into The Friend Zone With Any
Girl Ever Again!

THE DANGERS BEHIND ONLINE SHOW OF LOVE

It Feels So Good When A Guy And A Lady Strike Up A Relationship
Online... No Sooner The Love And Urge To Go Public About It And Show
It To The Whole World Becomes So Intense. Now This Is Where The Story
Changes For Most People Who Go Public About Who And Who They Are In
Love With.

Here Are A Couple Of Dangers I Have Come To Notice About Going Public
Online About The Person You Are Dating...

1¤ UNECCESSARY DRAMA

Yes Its Good To Be Proud Of Whom You Are Dating, But Going All Out To
Mention Names, Tag Photos And Bringing Those Bedroom Talks Online For
The Public To See, Could Eventually Sabotage That Relationship. Keep
Your Intimate Conversations Off Public Eye.

2¤ RESENTMENT

Yes You Love Each And You Think Making An Online Show Of It Would
Make The Love And Bond Stronger. But Have You Ever Thought About The
Fact That Majority Of The People You Are Telling And Who Are Also
Claiming To Be Happy For You Both Are Indeed Not Happy Within! Coupled
With The Fact That There Would Be People Working To Make Sure The
Relationship Never Ends Well. Because They Wish They Had What You
Have. And Watching You Enjoy It Isn't Comfortable With Them

3¤ RUMOURS AND GOSSIPS:

This Is One Factor That Cripples Alot Of Online Relationships. Now
This When Those Who Are Basically Not Happy With Your Relationship
Start Raising Dust, And Saying Negative Things About Your Partner Just
To Severe Your Relationship. Majority Who Do This Are People Who
Desire You For Themselves, And Just Because They No Longer Stand A
Chance With You Because You Are Already Taken And Boldly Declaring It,
They Go About Seeking Cheap Ways To Destroy What You Have. They Often
Come To You As Friends Who Seek Your Good, And Acting Like They Know
The Entire History Of Your Partner, So They Put In Words To Offset
Your Feelings And Raise Suspicions And Doubts Inside You Against Your
Partner.

4¤ WITHDRAWALS:

In This Case, You'd Begin To Notice Some People Whom You Usually
Relate With On Daily Basis Online Start Withdrawing From Having
Conversations With You As Usual.

5¤ INSECURITY:

Insecurity Is One Major Reason Why People Who Go Public Online Do It,
Oftentimes, Its Usually The Idea Of One Party To Do It To Claim
Ownership And Prove A Point. Now The Partner On The Other End Feels
Vulnerable And Insecure, But Can't Help It Because They Don't Want
Their Partner To Feel Bad, Or Start Suspecting Them If They Refuse.

I Really Don't See Going Public Online About Whom You Are Dating As A
Good Idea. I Am Yet To See Majority Who Did Such, Who Then Made A
Success Of It. Its Easier If The Person Is Someone You Are Dealing
Physically With Everyday, Or Probably In The Same City. But If It Is A
LONG DISTANCE Relationship And LOVE Afair, I Don't Advice It. Because
You Could Easily Correct A Wrong Impression When You Can See That
Person Physically, Rather Than Talking And Trying To Correct It Via
Phone Calls, As The Case Of LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS.

THE 'PUPPY LOVE' SYNDROME

PUPPY LOVE. Chances Are, These Words Evoke The Image Of Starry-Eyed
Teenagers High On Romance For The First Time. It Is An Apt Comparison
Since Puppies And Young Lovers Are Notoriously Clingy, Affectionate,
And Slobbery. Both Radiate A Level Of Energy And Exuberance That Gets
Old Pretty Quick.
Thank God Dogs Grow Up And Get Lazier... And Lovers Grow Wiser And
More Self-Controlled.
Well, Some People Do Anyway. The Truth Is, "Puppy Love Syndrome" Is A
Condition That Can Persist Well Into Adulthood. Many People Suffer
Relapse Every Time A New Romance Comes Along. And It Is Frequently
Fatal To Fragile Budding Relationships, Which Suffocate Without A
Chance To Breathe.
How Can You Recognize Telltale Symptoms In Yourself? Here Are Three Common Ones:
TOO MUCH TIME TOGETHER:
You Know You Are At Risk If You Read Those Words And Thought, "Is That
Possible? Isn't Togetherness The Whole Point Of Dating?" Well, Yes-
But Like Most Things You Can Definitely Overdo It. The Trick Is
Knowing Where To Draw The Line. As Einstein Proved, Time Is Pretty
Hard To Fathom. Hours In The Company Of A Lover Seem Like Mere
Seconds. So How Can You Know How Much Time With A New Partner Is Too
Much? Fortunately, There Are Some Warning Signs That Things Are Out Of
Balance. Watch Out If:
¤ Your Other Friends And Family Think You've Been Abducted
¤ Your House Or Apartment Looks Like You've Been Abducted Because You
Haven't Cleaned It In Weeks.
¤ You Can't Remember The Last Time You Went Anywhere Alone.
¤ You Haven't Had A Decent Night's Sleep Recently.
At Any Stage Of A Relationship, So Much Togetherness Can Quickly Lose
Its Appeal And Start To Feel Like A Slipknot Tightening Around Both
Your Necks.

TOO MUCH INFORMATION:

Sharing Personal And Even Secret Details About Yourself With A New
Partner Can Seem Intimate- Or Intimidating. It Can Be A Bond Between
You Or A Premature Burden On The Relationship. The Difference Is In
The Timing (Go Slow) And The Volume Of Information You Share (Less Is
More)

Personal Space Is Defined By More Than Physical Proximity. Equally
Important Are Time, Privacy, And Appropriate Levels Of Intimacy. Avoid
Strangling A New RomanCE By Knowing When To Stay On Your Side Of The
Line.

¤ TOO MUCH TECHNOLOGY- TELEPHONE, TEXT, TWITTER, Etc.

In The "Old Days" There Was A Saying "Absence Makes The Heart Grow
Fonder." It Is Likely That Recent Generations Of Young Lovers Will Not
Have A Clue What That Means. Why? Because Now, Even When We Are
Seperated By Physical Distance, Social Networking Technology Has
Enabled Us To Remain "Together" In Virtual Space- All The Time. We
Never Gaze Longingly Out The Window Anymore Wondering Where Our Lover
Is At The Moment, Or What She Is Doing. Thanks To The 400th "Tweet" Of
The Day, We Know That She Is In Line At The Bank And That She Is In
Line At The Bank And That She Likes The Teller's Hair Color.

Obviously, Comunication Is A Good Thing. But Be Careful. Be Staring.
Don't Risk Turning Your Partner's Phone Into An Electronic CHOKE Chain
And Suffocating The Relationship In The Process