Online... No Sooner The Love And Urge To Go Public About It And Show
It To The Whole World Becomes So Intense. Now This Is Where The Story
Changes For Most People Who Go Public About Who And Who They Are In
Love With.
Here Are A Couple Of Dangers I Have Come To Notice About Going Public
Online About The Person You Are Dating...
1¤ UNECCESSARY DRAMA
Yes Its Good To Be Proud Of Whom You Are Dating, But Going All Out To
Mention Names, Tag Photos And Bringing Those Bedroom Talks Online For
The Public To See, Could Eventually Sabotage That Relationship. Keep
Your Intimate Conversations Off Public Eye.
2¤ RESENTMENT
Yes You Love Each And You Think Making An Online Show Of It Would
Make The Love And Bond Stronger. But Have You Ever Thought About The
Fact That Majority Of The People You Are Telling And Who Are Also
Claiming To Be Happy For You Both Are Indeed Not Happy Within! Coupled
With The Fact That There Would Be People Working To Make Sure The
Relationship Never Ends Well. Because They Wish They Had What You
Have. And Watching You Enjoy It Isn't Comfortable With Them
3¤ RUMOURS AND GOSSIPS:
This Is One Factor That Cripples Alot Of Online Relationships. Now
This When Those Who Are Basically Not Happy With Your Relationship
Start Raising Dust, And Saying Negative Things About Your Partner Just
To Severe Your Relationship. Majority Who Do This Are People Who
Desire You For Themselves, And Just Because They No Longer Stand A
Chance With You Because You Are Already Taken And Boldly Declaring It,
They Go About Seeking Cheap Ways To Destroy What You Have. They Often
Come To You As Friends Who Seek Your Good, And Acting Like They Know
The Entire History Of Your Partner, So They Put In Words To Offset
Your Feelings And Raise Suspicions And Doubts Inside You Against Your
Partner.
4¤ WITHDRAWALS:
In This Case, You'd Begin To Notice Some People Whom You Usually
Relate With On Daily Basis Online Start Withdrawing From Having
Conversations With You As Usual.
5¤ INSECURITY:
Insecurity Is One Major Reason Why People Who Go Public Online Do It,
Oftentimes, Its Usually The Idea Of One Party To Do It To Claim
Ownership And Prove A Point. Now The Partner On The Other End Feels
Vulnerable And Insecure, But Can't Help It Because They Don't Want
Their Partner To Feel Bad, Or Start Suspecting Them If They Refuse.
I Really Don't See Going Public Online About Whom You Are Dating As A
Good Idea. I Am Yet To See Majority Who Did Such, Who Then Made A
Success Of It. Its Easier If The Person Is Someone You Are Dealing
Physically With Everyday, Or Probably In The Same City. But If It Is A
LONG DISTANCE Relationship And LOVE Afair, I Don't Advice It. Because
You Could Easily Correct A Wrong Impression When You Can See That
Person Physically, Rather Than Talking And Trying To Correct It Via
Phone Calls, As The Case Of LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS.
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