HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOUR JEALOUSY HAVE GONE TOO FAR?

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Jealousy Will Make You Crazy. When You Are In Its Grip The Feeling Is
Almost Unbearable. It Can Make You Physically Sick And Unable To Focus
On Anything Else. Jealousy Will Compel You To Do Things You Will Later
Regret And You Can Never Take Back. Jealousy Can Single Handedly
Destroy A Good Relationship•
If You Have A Boyfriend Or Husband That Openly Flirts With Other Women
Or Whom You Know Is Cheating, You Would Have To Be Made Of Stone Not
To Feel Hurt And Betrayed. Here Jealousy Is A Natural Response. But
When Jealousy Is Self-Created, Unrelated To Reality, It Acts Like A
Poison That Takes Over Your Life AND Destroys Your Self-Esteem. The
Jealousy I'm Refering To Is Based On Fear, Not On Fact, A Green
Monster That You Create Out Of Your Own Imagination•
I Have Worked With Many Women Who Make Excuses For Their Jealous
Behaviour. They Try To Justify The Actions They Take When They Spy On
Their Men As If They Are Not Responsible For Their Jealousy. But The
Truth Is Jealousy Feels Bad. It Is Unattractive And Kills The LOVE In
A Relationship.
HAS YOUR JEALOUSY GONE TOO FAR?
It Has If:
1• You Find Yourself Constantly Checking Up On Your Man's Facebook Or
Twitter Page.
2• You Can't Stop Yourself From Checking His Call History And
Listening To His Phone Messages Behind His Back
3• You Constantly Call Or Text Him During The Day Just To Find Out Where He Is.
If You Said Yes To Even One Of These Questions, You Are In Trouble.
When You Start Messing Around In Your Man's Personal Business, You
Have Lost Control Of Your Dignity And Your Pride. Your Relationship
Now Lacks One Of The Most Important Qualities It Needs To Thrive
Trust. Even If He Gives You A Reason To Be Suspicious, You Are Still
Responsible For How You Behave In The Relationship.
So What Can You Do To Get Rid Of The Jealousy That Is Sucking The
Energy And Happiness Out Of Your Life? yOU Have To Attack Jealousy At
Its Root. Jealousy Is About How You Feel About You More Than How Your
Man Feels About You. If You Find Yourself Obsessing On His Life And
What He's Doing It's A Sure Sign You Are Not Paying Attention To Your
Own.

If You Think Your Man Is More Interested In Other Women Than He Is In
You, It Can Mean You Think They Are More Worthy Of His Interest Than
You Are. If You Are Attracted To Your Man, You Will Believe That Other
Women Are As Well And That Can Be Scary, Especially If You Doubt Your
Own Value. You Can Find Yourself In A Downward Spiral Where It Seems
Every Other Woman Is More Attractive And More Interesting Than You
Are. By This Time You Have Lost Yourself.

SO HOW DO YOU CHANGE YOUR IRRATIONAL FEELINGS OF JEALOUSY?

You Have To Take Your Eyes Off Him And Start To Work On You. It's
Important That You Face The Challenge Of Taking Control Of Yourself
Before It Destroys Your Chance For Love.

Take Positive Actions That Will Increase Your Feelings Of Self-Worth.
The Only Way To Feel Good About You Is By Doing Things That Make You
Feel Proud; That Bring You Self-Respect. That Is The Exact Opposite Of
What You Have Been Doing. It Feels Terrible To Snoop And Sneak Into
Someone Else's Life. Negative Actions Bring With Them Negative
Emotions, So You End Up Feeling Guilt, Remorse And Shame•

Your Feeling About Your Man Will Always Be A Reflection Of How You
Feel About You. IF You Don't Trust Yourself You Can't Trust The Man In
Your Life If You Cannot Love Yourself, You Will Not Believe That You
Are Loved.

Pay Attention To What You Need To Do To Make Your Life More Fulfilling
And Satisfying And Start Doing It. You Will Find Your Mind Now
Occupied With Good Thoughts About You And Your Value As A Woman. You
Will See Things More Dearly And Invite Into Your Life A New Sense Of
Well Being And Confidence. As You Begin To Trust Yourself You Will Be
Creating Your Own Sense Of Emotional Security That Nothing Can Shake.
Your Jealousy Will Dissipate And You Will Be Able To Love From A Much
Deeper And More Trusting Place•

JEALOUSY In Romance Is Like Salt In Food. A Little Can Enhance The
Savour, But Too Much Can Spoil The Pleasure And, Under Certain
Circumstances, Can Be Life-Threatening•

LADIES: DO YOU INTIMIDATE MEN?

As A Dating Expert In The Community Full Of Sharp, Successful,
Powerful Women, I Often Hear The Line, "Men Are Intimidated By Me"
When I Hear This, I Listen Patiently And Empathetically And Then, When
The Time Is Right, I Explain That It's Just Not True. I Speak With Men
Every Single Day, And Have The Inside Scoop- The 411 On How Men Really
Feel.

Men Are Not Intimidated By Your Success Ladies. They Love That You Are
Successful. In Fact, They Admire Your Ambition AND Accomplishments.
What They Don't Like Is The Masculine Energy You Literally Bring To
The Dinner Table. What Men Want Most, What They Ask Me For When I Find
Them Matches, Is A Feminine, Nurturing, Kind, Caring, Easy-Going
Woman.

They Don't Care What College You Graduated From. They Don't Care How
Many Degrees You Have, How Much Money You Make Or If You Can Change
Your Own Tire.

I Often Stump On My Coaching Clients With The Following Question.
"What Is The Number One Thing That Will Make A Man Want To See You
Again?" The Answer: "It's The Way You Make Him Feel." Men Are Simple
And Straightforward. What They Want Most Of All Is To Feel Like MEN.

Inside Every Female Top-Notch Attorney, Investment Banker And CEO Is A
Soft Gooey Center- You're A Woman After All. So Get In Touch With Your
Softer Side, And Bring Your Feminine Energy To The Dinner Table.

HERE ARE 10 THINGS YOU CAN DO TO LET YOUR FEMININE ENERGY SHINE ON A DATE:

1• Go Home After Work And Change Into Something Feminine. Then Go On
Your Date. Don't Wear Your Work Clothes.

2• Dress Like A Girl- Wear Light Makeup, Soft Colours, A Skirt Or
Dress And Heels.

3• Let The Man Pick The Restaurant (Even If It's Not Your Favourite).

4• Don't Be Argumentative When You Disagree With Something He Says-
Agree To Disagree And Be A Good Listener.

5• Don't Talk About Work On Your Date.

6• Let Him Lead (Order For You, Open Doors, Hail The Cab, E.t.c)

7• Let Your Guard Down. Be Warm, Genuine- Be Yourself.

8• Smile

9• Be Appreciative. Thank Him For Choosing Such An Excellent
Restaurant And For Planning A Wonderful Evening. Let Him Know He Did A
Good Job And That You Had A Really Nice Time•

10• Don't Send A Thank You Email, Text Or Call Him After The Date. Let
Him Pursue You. If He's Interested, You'll Hear From Him- And Soon•

DOES PRESSING OR SUCKING MAKE BREAST LOOSE OR INCREASE SIZE?

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The Breasts Does Not Have Any Muscles Inside. Where It Is Attached To
Your Body There Are Muscles That Support It. It Consists Of Fatty
Tissue, Contained By Your Skin That Forms A Natural 'Bra'. Massaging
The Fatty Tissue Does Not Make It 'Loose' Or Bigger. The Things That
Does That Are:

අ AGING (Getting Older). The Skin Becomes Less Elastic And Will Stretch.

අ Not Watching Your Weight So That Your Breast Increase In Size, Then
Shrink When You Diet, Repeatedly.

අ Pregnancy

අ Exercising Without The Proper Support That Will Cause Your Skin To Stretch.

To Damage Your Breasts During Sexual Play, It Will Have To Be Squeezed
Hard Enough To Leave It Purple And Blue From The Bruises.

When You Get Sexually Aroused, Your Breasts Swell Up With Blood
Flowing In. Sometimes By More Than A Cup Size. That Is Why It Feels So
Good To Take Your Bra Off And Having Your Breasts Squeezed And
Caressed When You Are Aroused.

To Protect Your Breasts, Wear A Good Fitting Bra, Keep Your Weight In
Check, Wear A Sports Bra When Exercising, Moisturizer Your Skin And
Keep Fit. Do Not Worry About The But Of Squeezing, Caressing And
Sucking During Foreplay•

The Other Times Your Breasts Can Fill Out A Bit Is During Ovulation,
During Menstruation, During Pregnancy And Sometimes When You Take
Birth Control Hormones• However, 'SMOKING' Can Cause Sagging Breast,
Because The Tobacco Smoke Contains Free Radicals That Damage Skin
Cells, Causing Them To Lose Elasticity. This Can Lead To More Facial
Wrinkles And Sagging Breasts•

If You Do Have Any Questions Regarding This Article, Please Drop Them
In The Comment Section•

5 REASON SHE DOESN'T WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU

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You're Clicking, Compatible, And All Signs Are Pointing To The Fact
That Yes, This Girl Is Really Into You. There's Just One Thing. She
Hadn't Been Intimate With You. And You Don't Exactly Want To Broach
The Subject Of "If And When" For Fear Of Turning Her Off Completely.
So What Gives?

The Following Are Five Possible Reasons Your Love Interest Has Yet To
Give You The Green Light. Once You Understand What May Be Going On In
Her Head, You'll Also Understand Where The Relationship Stands And
Whether It's The Long-Term Match That You're Looking For•

1අ SHE'S STILL DECIDING HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT YOU:

Your Girlfriend's Decision To Hold Off On Getting Intimate With You
May Be As Simple As She's Still Figuring Out How She Feels About You.
Sure, She Knows She Likes You. But For Women, It's Not Enough To Just
Like A Guy. Because The Fairer Sex Equates Physical Intimacy With
Emotional Connection, She May Still Be Deciding How Much She Likes
You, And If You're Worthy Of Jumping Into Deeper Emotional Waters
With. Give Her The Benefit Of The Doubt By Allowing Her More Time To
Get To Know The Real You. Once She Does, She May Suprise You With An
Intimate Invitation In The Near Future•

2අ SHE'S NOT SURE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER:

Maybe Your Girl Has Already Decided That She Digs You, But Hasn't
Quite Figured Out Your Feelings For Her. And Before A Woman Decides To
Get That Close With Someone New, She Wants To Be Reasonably Certain
About His Intentions. If She's Unsure Of Your Interest Level,
Concerned About You Ability To Be Monogamous, Or In Any Way Has Doubts
Regarding Where Your Relationship Is Going, She's Going To Hold Off On
Becoming Intimate. It's Up To You To Be Honest About Your Interest And
Intentions. Giving Her The Opportunity To Decide Her Next Move. And If
You're Not On The Same Page? Better To Know It Now. That Way, You
Avoid Hurt Feelings And Possibly A Very Messy Breakup•

3අ SHE WANTS TO TAKE IT SLOW:

The Clue To Your Sexual Future May Lie In Your Girlfriend's Past
Relationships? If So, Has She Revealed A Former Flame That Fizzled
Bitterly? If Not, This May Just Be The Reason She's Pumping The Brakes
On Pursuing A Passionate Liaison With You. Oftentimes After A Bad
Breakup Or Bitter Betrayal, Your Girl Will Feel A Little Gun Shy. Not
Wanting To Get Burned Again, She May Need To Take Things Slow. And
That's Okay. In Fact, It's Pretty Smart. After All, Sex Is Not Just
Emotionally Risky. If You're Not Careful, You Can Expose Yourself To
All Kinds Of Physical Dangers As Well. And Until You Have Had A Very
Frank Chat About Monogamy, Safe Sex, Birth Control And Sexually
Transmitted Diseases, You Should Take Things Slow•

4අ SHE DOESN'T BELIEVE IN SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE:

Of Course, Her Decision Not To Sleep With You May Not Be Temporary.
Have You Ever Considered That The Woman You're Dating Doesn't Believe
In Sex Before Marriage? While The Idea May Seem Archaic To You,
Abstinence May Be A Choice She Made Long Before She Met You. And No
Matter How Much She Likes You, If She's Waiting Until Marriage To
Become Physically Intimidate, You're Not Going To Change Her Mind.
Don't Even Think About It. So How Do You Know If Your Girl Wants To
Wait Until Marriage? Look For And Listen To The Messages She Sends
When You're Spending Time Together. Does She Talk About The Future,
Her Religious Faith, And/Or Her Values And Morals? When You Kiss Her,
Does She Respond Passionately, Or Keep You At Arm's Length? These Are
Just A Few Potential Signs That'll Help You See Where She Stands On
The Issue Of Sex Before Marriage. To Know For Sure, You Should
Probably Just Ask•

5අ SHE'S SEEING OTHER PEOPLE:

There's Also A Possibility That The Girl You're Seeing Is Still Seeing
Other People, And Until She Decides To Get Exclusive With You, She's
Not Going To Sleep With You Maybe You're Still Seeing Other People,
Too. Have You Had A Conversation About Exclusivity? If Not, Are You
Ready To? By Getting Clear About Where You Stand With One Another,
You'll Have A Better Idea About If And When You'll Both Be Ready To
Consummate Your Relationship. This May Be A Difficult Subject To
Broach, But Again, It's An Essential One To Have Before Becoming
Intimate. Without Knowing Your Partner's Sexual Past Possible Present,
There's No Way To Ensure A Safe Emotional And Physical Future For
Either One Of You. And If You Both Decide To Take Your Relationship To
The Next Level, You Owe It To Each Other To Know Exactly Where You
Stand Before Doing So•

In Reviewing The Five Possible Reasons Your Love Interest Is Not
Sleeping With You, Did One Particular Point Stand Out? If So, You MAY
Have The Answer You've Been Searching For. Regardless SUCCESS Lies In
Open And Honest Communication. Do Both Of You A Favour By Talking
About Where You Stand, What Your Intentions Are, And Then Together,
Discuss If You Are Both Serious Enough And Ready To Take It To The
Next LEVEL•

FEAR OF INTIMACY: A RELATIONSHIP ROADBLOCK

Anyone Who Has Been Around The Block A Time Or Two Would Agree: Dating
Is Definitely Not For Cowards.
It Takes A Lot Of Courage To Turn The Spotlight On Yourself-In Public,
No Less- And Let Another Person Take A Good Long Look At You. Who
Wouldn't Squirm, At Least A Little, Under Such Scrutiny? But Some
People Feel More Than The Usual Amounts Of Stress When In The Romantic
Hot Seat. They Have A Genuine Fear Of Intimacy, A Powerful Dislike For
Letting Anyone Get Close Enough To See Them Clearly And Know Them
Well. A Fear Of Intimacy Places Strict Limits On A Relationship Right
From The Start•

There Are Lots Of Reasons For People To Keep Their Guard Up:

1අ FEAR OF INTIMACY MASKS A LACK OF CONFIDENCE:

People Like This Are Convinced That To Be Seen As They Really Are
Virtually Guarantees Swift Rejection. They Are Sure They Aren't
Attractive Or Interesting Or Worthy Of Attention. They Just Know A New
Romantic Partner Will Feel That Way Too. To Them, Intimacy Is
Synonymous With Pain•

2අ FEAR OF INTIMACY MASKS HIDDEN WOUNDS:

Past Romantic Disasters May Have Contributed To This Lack Of
Confidence. Some People Take Longer Than Others To Get Back In The
Saddle After Being Unceremoniously Dumped. But An Inability To Open Up
May Also Stem From Deeper, More Serious Wounds. For Instance, A Victim
Of Domestic Violence Or Childhood Abuse May Experience A Visceral
Aversion To Closeness With Others That Is Difficult To Overcome•

3අ FEAR OF INTIMACY MASKS HIDDEN SECRETS:

The Truth Is, People Who Are "Guarded" May, In Fact, Be Guarding
Something They Feel Is Shameful Or Dangerous. It Could Take A Long
Time To Earn Their Trust- And You Might Eventually Be Sorry You Did.

So How Can You Tell The Difference Between A Person With Ordinary
Dating Jitters And Someone Who May Never Give You A Look At His Or Her
Inner Thoughts And Feelings? Here Are Three Common Defense Mechanisms
To Watch For:

අ CONSTANT MOTION, CONSTANT CROWDS:

The Last Thing This Person Wants Is To Be Still And Alone With You- A
Breeding Ground For Uncomfortable Conversation And Probing Questions.
Instead, She Will Fill Your Time Together With Activity And "Busyness"
; He/She Will Consistently Invite Others To "Tag Along."

අ A SARCASTIC SENSE OF HUMOUR:

There Is A Reason We Sometimes Say A Person Has A "Rapier Wit." Biting
Humour Is As Defensive As A Drawn Sword. Comments That Slice Are A
Great Way To Keep People At Arm's Length, Especially Those Who
Genuinely Want To Come Closer•

අ PREEMPTIVE SEX:

At First Glance, This Point May Seem Counterintuitive. After All, How
Could A Person With A Fear Of Intimacy Have A Casual Attitude About
SEX, The Most Intimate Act Of All? Remember, We Are Talking About
People Who Are Afraid Of Emotional Closeness. What Better Way To Jump
Right OVER All That Terrifying Pillow Talk Than To Treat SEX As The
Only Point?

Recognizing The Telltale Signs That You Or Partner Suffers From A
Genuine Fear Of Intimacy Is The First Step Toward Patiently Overcoming
It•