THE MAGA SYNDROME (SUGAR DADDY BABES)

Ahhhhh! Now Where Do I Start From? Okay! I Was Sitting In The Midst
Of A Couple Of Girls And They Were All Laughing And Chatting On How
They Make Money Out Of The Men They Roll With. They Call Them "MAGA."
Now For Those Of Us Who Don't Understand What MAGA Means In This
Context, It Means "Someone Who Is Foolish And Extravagant In Spending,
One Who Is Carefree With Money" Often The Victim.

As They Were All Yelling In Excitement, I Lifted Up My Head And Called
Out To Them. Knowing Who I Was, They Wanted To Hear What I Had To Say.

I Said, "Do You Really Think Those Men Are Foolish??? A Couple Of Them
Replied "YES." And I Asked Another Question "Do You Sleep With Them?"
And Most Of Them Said "YES" Why Not? I Laughed.....

I Said, Don't You Think You Girls Are The Real 'MAGA?' :O, Now The
Smile On Their Faces Suddenly Faded. YES, Before Ya'll Ladies Crucify
Me... This Is Why I Said That...

The Sugar Daddy (MAGA) Spends And Lavishes Money And Material Things
On You, And In Turn Has Sex With You... Don't You Think You Are Losing
More? Because Money He Can Always Replace And Get More, But What He
Takes From You Everytime You Have Sex With Him Makes You Depreciate.
Now Somebody Doesn't Get It. Yes, You May Not Notice It Now Because
You Are Young, But As A Lady You'd Look Older Than Your Age Mate As
You Age, And A Lot Of Biological Factors Comes To Play.

In A Worst Case Scenario, There Are Men Who Just Spend Without Sexing
You, And You Start Thinking You Are Smart. When He Has Used You As An
ATM Machine In The Spiritual Realm. Whatever He Gives You, He Gets It
Back In Ten Folds. Yet You Can't Think Of Anything You Achieved With
The Ones He Gives To You.

Research And Experience Has Shown That Most Of The Ladies Who Pulled
Sugar Daddies, Often End Up Having A Bad Marriage. A Case Of "What
Goes Around, Comes Back Around."

The Moment You Use SEX As An Exchange To Get Money, You Are Already
Playing The 'MAGA,' And Not The Man You Are Dealing With. Because He
Would Eventually Dump You After He Has Milked Your Youthfulness Dry
With His Money Intact. SUGAR DADDIES Don't Lose, Their Clients Are The
Ones Who Do.

BE WISE!!!

HOW YOUR ONLINE SOCIAL PROFILES COULD BE WRECKING YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

You Know You're Not The Only Person Who Obsessively Searches For Their
Dates On Social Media Sites And Search Engines In An Attempt To Dig Up
Dirt, Right? Do You Know What Your Internet Footprint Is Saying About
You To Your Potential Relationships?

1¤ THE FRIEND RATIO:

Just How Many Red Flags Could You Possibly Be Raising With Your
Friends And Followers Lists? Maybe More Than You Think. One Of The
Most Accessible Pieces Of Information About You, At Least When It
Comes To The Internet, Is Who Your Friends Are.

Potential Dates Could Be Looking At Your Lists And Forming Some Pretty
Strong Opinions.

If You Look Through A List Of Friends Quickly, One Piece Of
Information Will Be Absorbed Right Away: The Ratio Of Men To Women On
The List. Women Who Have Lots Of Male Friends Can Be Intimidating To
Potential Dates.

They're Going To Wonder Who All These Guys Are, What The Relationship
Is, And Possibly Feel Threatened. The Same Goes For Women Who Are
Checking Out Men On Social Media. When They See A Lot Of Women On The
List, They're Going To Be Curious And More Cautious.

2¤ THE INFO YOU REVEAL:

Social Media Is A Good Way To Keep In Touch And Potentially Connect
With The Personalities You Enjoy, But It's Also Filled With Hot-Buton
Topics. Many People Use Social Sites To Follow The Political And
Social Causes That Matter To Them.

Some Even Use It As A Soapbox To Tout Their Pet Interests. Strong
Opinions Can Be Very Off-Putting To Potential Dates, Who May Not
Wholeheartedly Agree With Every Issue.

It Isn't Ideal To Find A Mate Who Agrees With You On Every Single
Issue, And It's Always Better To Keep An Open Mind. When You Bombard A
Potential Mate With Your Political Interests, You Could Be Turning
Them Off And Pushing Them Away Before You Even Have A Chance To Find
Common Ground.

3¤ THE REQUESTS YOU MAKE:

The Two Of You Have Been Dating For A Week, And It's Going Well. But
Before You Comb Through Their Friends List And Bombard All Of Their
Family Members And Accquaintance With Requests, Stop AnD Think. Its
Not Appropriate To Friend Their Siblings, Parents And High School
Buddies Unless You Expressly Ask Permission To Do So.

Do It Behind Your Mate's Back Or Without Their Agreement, And You
Could Wind Up Looking Like A Stalker. Even When Your Intentions Are
Totally Innocent, It's Going To Look Suspicious If Suddenly You're
Friending All Of Their Friends. The Person You're Dating Will Feel
That You're Trying To Keep Tabs On Them, And This Could Raise All
Sorts Of Trust Issues.

4¤ THE PHOTOS YOU SHARE:

Yes You Are Well Endowed With Great Hips, Thighs And Boobs, But That
Doesn't Mean You Should Share It With The World By Exposing Them In
Halves Or Full. The Stuff You Reveal In Your Photos May Be Giving Off
The Wrong Impression About What Type Of Person You Are. Show Off A Lot
Of Skin, And Your Potential Mate Could Become Jealous. They Could Lose
Respect For You. They Could Even Show Your Photos To Other People, Or
Re-Publish Them And Share Them With The World, When You Were Only
Willing To Share The Pics With A Select Few.

Once You Put Something On The Internet, Anyone Can Get To It And
Everyone Will Form Opinions About It.
Remember That Before You Show Off That Shape.

5¤ THE NEUTRALITY GAME:

Take Care In How You Present Yourself On Social Media Sites. You Don't
Want To Reveal Too Much. That Goofy Picture Of You That You Love Where
You're Passed Out On The Couch May Spark Great Memories For You, But
For A Potential Date It Can Be A Big Red Flag. You May Never Get The
Chance To Explain That Such Behaviour Is Well In The Past.

Show Your Personality Online, But Show The Filtered Version. You Want
To Find A Mate Who Loves You For Who You Really Are, And You Will Have
Many Opportunities To Reveal Your Many Layers. You Don't Have To Rush
To Show All Your Facets Off On The Internet.

RELATIONSHIP BLUNDERS GUYS MAKE

Ahhh! So The Ladies Got Theirs And You Think The Guys Are Gonna Be
Left Out? Sorry!

Now Lets Get Down To Business!

¤ PUTTING PRESSURE ON A LADY:

You Approached Her And She Told You She Already Has A Man, And Instead
Of Excusing Her You Still Go Ahead Pressuring Her To Date You. Common,
Why Want To Snatch A Girl That Is Already Taken? Imagine Yourself
Being Her Man, Would You Be Happy Your Girl Ran Off With Another Guy?
No! And Yes I Know Some Ladies Might Be Using That Line To Escape
Being Disturbed. But Either Way, Just Let Her Be.

¤ TRYING TO BUY HER AFFECTION:

How Many Times Have You Taken A Woman Out To A Nice Dinner, Bought Her
Gifts And Flowers, And Had Her Reject You For Someone Who Didn't Treat
Her Even Half As Well As You Did?

Well Guess What? It's Only Natural When This Happens.

That's Right, I Said Natural.

When You Do These Things, You're Sending A Clear Message: "I Don't
Think You'll Like Me For Who I Am, So I'm Going To Try To Buy Your
Attention And Affection."

Your Good Intentions Usually Come Across To Women As Overcompensation
For Insecurity, And Weak Attempts At Manipulation. Just Quit Such
Move.
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¤ BLAMING OTHERS AND REFUSING TO CHANGE:

Ah, She's Just A B**ch!

Yes, She Might Be A B**ch, But You May Be The Problem If You Find
Yourself Calling Every Woman You Date One. If You See A Recurring
Pattern Regarding The Way Women Dump Or Avoid You, Then Chances Are
You're Doing Something Wrong. (Same Applies To A Lady Who Is Finds
Herself Being Dumped Often).

¤ SUBMISSIVENESS:

Being Too Agreable Demonstrates To Her That You Have No Opinions Of
Your Own Or That You Believe In. A Woman Wants A MAN That Will Be A
Bit Of CHALLENGE For Her, Not A Man That Will Bend Over Backwards To
Please Her.

¤ GOING THROUGH A WOMAN'S PERSONAL STUFFS:

As A MAN, You Don't Need All These, Like Going Through Her Phones And
Searching Her Bags... Dude! That SUCKS! It Makes You Look CHEAP And
INSECURED.

¤ NEEDINESS:

Neediness Is Any Behaviour That Can Be Classified As Clingy,
Possessive, Demanding, Or Controlling. Having Any Form Of Neediness Is
A Blatant Giveaway That You Are Not Used To Being Around Women.

¤ NOT SCREENING WOMEN:

Some Men Fail From The Very Start Of Their Relationships. These Guys
Lack The Ability To Filter Out The Women They Are Incompatible With.
They Try To "Make It Work" With The Particular Women They Are After
Even Though The Women May Be Completely Wrong For Them. Most Of The
Time, These Men Suffer Because They Find The Women Physically
Attractive And Fear They Will Not Find Any Other Women That Are As
Beautiful As The Women They Are Seeing.

RELATIONSHIP BLUNDERS MOST LADIES MAKE (PART 2)

*Exhales* WOW! Now Where Do I Start From... #Thinking... Okay!
Yes Ladies And Gentle, Its The Part 2 Of Relationship Blunders Most
Ladies Make. And Just Incase You Missed The Part One, Do Not Sweat It.
Or You Can Use The Search Box To Locate It.
Alright! Here We Go...
¤ I WON'T DATE ANY MAN TILL I AM READY CAUSE I DON'T WANT HEART BREAKS:
Are You Kiding Me? So Just Because One Guy Broke Your Heart, You Then
Decide To Put Off Trying Again Till When You Are Ready! Please When
Would The Time Be? When You Are 25, 28 Or 30? Now That Is Gross. As
Much As I Don't Fancy Teenage Dating, But It Is Quite Good To Start
Early To Understand And Gain Personal Experience. Yes, If One Ends,
Take A Little Break And Try Again.
Putting Of Dating Because You Are Afraid Of Disappointment Is Like
Running Away From Old Age. It Would Surely Catch Up With You Cause Its
Almost Inevitable These Days In Relationships. So Why Wait To Learn
The Things You Should Have Learnt When You Are 20, Till When You Are
27? Thats A Dangerous Zone For A Lady To Be In.
¤ CALLING ALL MEN CHEATS, DOGS, LIARS AND YET PRAYING FOR A MAN WHO
DOESN'T DO THESE THINGS:
Please, Why Would You As A Lady Open Your Mouth And Call All Men
CHEATS Or POLYGAMOUS By Nature, And Yet Praying To God To Give You A
Man Who Is None Of These? Ain't That Lame And Hypocritical? Now If You
Have Labelled All Men As Bad, Where Would God Bring The Good Man You
Seek From? I Guess From Planet Jupiter. #Smh
¤ HANGING IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR TOO LONG WITHOUT ANY SIGNS OF YOUR MAN
PROPOSING:
Now, Why Would You Spend 7 To 9yrz In A Relationship, And Yet You
Don't Know Where The Relationship Is Heading, When The Relationship
Didn't Start From The Early Teens? This Is How Some Men Marry A Lady
Out Of Pity, Because They Have So Wasted Your Time Till They Feel
Dumping You Now Could Make You Commit Suicide, So They Go Ahead And
Marry You To Compensate, Only To Start Treating You Badly Afterwards.
Please Ladies Know Where Your Relationship Is Heading Before Its Too Late.
¤ EXPECTING EXPRESSION OF FEELINGS ALL THE TIME:
Men Are Not Used To Constant Expression. For Instance, You Should
Expect A Compliment From Him Once In A While But If You Start
Expecting It Everyday Then You Are Calling For Trouble. You Have To
Understand That Just Because Men Don't Express The Way In Which Women
Freely Do; It Doesn't Mean They Don't Love With Passion.
¤ TALKING NEGATIVELY:
If You Bitch About Others In Front Of Your Man All The Time (Once In A
While Is Acceptable Of Course), It Will Make Him Feel That Someday
When You Are Not Together You Will Talk About Him In The Same Way With
Other People. Don't Make An Impression On Him That You Are A Negative
Person.
¤ DON'T ATTEMPT TO MEND HIM:
Accept Him With All His Flaws And Abilities, Don't Try And Mother Him
To Change His Habits According To Your Needs. Give Your Man His Space
And Watch How That Automatically Brings Him To You.
Yes! You Got It Ladies... Now Before Some Of Slay Me With Words, I'll
Be Coming Up With "Relationship Blunders Guys Make," Next! Until Then,
See Yah!

DOES LIVING TOGETHER BEFORE MARRIAGE STRENGTHENS BOND?

Popular Culture Implies That After A Couple Has Dated For A Certain
Amount Of Time, The Next Logical Step In A Committed Relationship Is
Moving In Together. The Reason For This? People Apparently Think
Compatibility Cannot Be Tested Without The Actual Experience Of
Cohabitation. The Truth Is That A Trial Run Before Marriage Is Not The
Answer For Couples Who Are Considering Exclusivity.
Those Who Chose To Live Together Experienced A Decline In Emotional
Intimacy Instead Of A Strengthened Bond. A New Study By World Magazine
Measured Feelings Of Commitment And Intimacy For Unmarried Couples Who
Live Together, And Found They Never Achieved The Level Of Closeness
Married Couples Enjoy.
Essentially, Living Together Sets Most Couples Up For Probable
Failure, Because At That Point, Atleast One Person In The Relationship
Is Unsure If It Should Lead To Marriage, Instead Of Addressing That
Reservation With Openness And Honesty, The Uncertain Person Agrees To
A Trial Arrangement. As Seen In The Study, 52 Percent Of Men Are Not
"Almost Certain" Their Relationship Will Last. More Than Half Had
Reservations About The Longevity Of The Relationship.
Marriage Confirms The Bonding Of A Man And Woman By Specifying And
Guarding Certain Expectations And Responsibilities.
In Cohabitation, There Is Mutual Exploitation Within The Possibility
Of Potential Flight; This Does Not Promote A Strong Or Lasting
Relationship. In Marriage, Spouses Have A Higher Incentive To Learn
What Pleases Each Other And They Become Good At It; They Expect To
Stay Together.
Merely Living Together Is An Open Question Mark Because The Future Is
Undecided. Cohabitation By Its Very Nature Does Not Promote The Same
Deep Connection Of Mutual Trust And Emotional Vulnerability. Intimacy
That Is Reserved For Marriage Is Cheapened By This Experience And
Cannot Be Replicated. This Brings Up The Real Issue: Why Does Lasting
Love, Commitment And Emotional Vulnerability Scare Many People Into
Thinking They Need An Escape Route? In All Via Experience And
Research, The Following Mindsets Drive This Particular Rational:

¤ FEAR OF NOT PICKING THE "RIGHT ONE."

Marriage Is Sacred And Perhaps The Most Important Decision Any Person
Will Make. The Best Assurance Of Selecting The Right Person To Marry
Is Preparation Before You Even Begin Dating. If You Know What You
Should Be Looking For In Terms Of Love And Commitment, The More
Confidence You Will Have In Your Dating Choices- And Those You
Attract. If You Do Not Work Through Past Relationship Challenges, You
Will Not Be Able To See The Right Partner Because Your Norm Is Rooted
In Wrong Mindsets. You End Up Attracting The Same Negative Experience,
Even Though Each New Person May Have A Different Background,
Educational Or Occupational Experience. Your Emotional Connection
Leads Back To Repetition Of The Established Pattern.

¤ FEAR OF FUTURE DIVORCE:

Living Together Is Not Divorce Prevention, Nor It Is Not Marriage
Preparation. It Is Divorce Training. It Does Increase The Likelihood
Of Divorce If The Couple Decides To Marry. The National Survey Of
Families And Households Found That Couples Who Cohabit Before Marriage
Are 50 Percent More Likely TO Divorce. People Who Have Multiple
Cohabiting Relationships Before Marriage Are More Likely To Experience
Marital Conflict, Unhappiness And Divorce Than People Who Do Not Live
Together Before Marriage. It Is The Attitude That Living Together Can
Be A Temporary And Easily Ended Step In Love That May Make Cohabition
More Conducive To Future Divorce.

¤ FEAR OF LOSING FREEDOM:

People Who Live Together Show Greater Tendencies Toward Individualism,
Leading To A Strong Desire For Self-Autonomy Within The Relationship.
One Of The Appeals Of Living Together Is The Increased Freedom And
Decreased Responsibility Toward Each Other. Living Together Is Not
Empowering For Women. It Places Them In A Vulnerable Position,
Emotionally And Materiall. Cohabiting Couples Many Times See The
Relationship Very Differently. Women Generally See Moving In Together
As A Step Toward Marriage, While Most Men Tend To Regard The
Relationship As More Of A Sexual Opportunity Without The Ties And
Responsibilities Of Commitment.

Marriage Is The Opposite Experience: The Couple Is Stronger And More
Effective Together Than Apart, As Spouses Tends To Think Of "Us"
Rather Than "I." It Is The Sense Of Being Bound To Each Other That
Provides Stabilization In Marriage To The Right Person. The Couple Who
Is Firmly Committed To Marriage Has A Much Greater Chance Of A
Genuine, Lasting Relationship Than The Couple Who Regards Their Living
Arrangement As A Trial Period Subject To Termination. Marriage Makes
You Try Harder And Expose Your Vulnerabilities To Each Other. Your
Spouse Holds You Accountable For Your Words And Actions. You Have
Someone Who Will Be Truthful With You. Together, You Can Experience
Real Freedom. You Can Face Challenges And Accomplish Life's Tasks
According To Each Person's Strengths.

Marriage Is Not Simply A Piece Of Paper; It Is A Public Declaration
That Changes The Way You Think About Yourself. While The Stigma Of
Living Together Has Been Reduced, That Does Not Mean It Is The Correct
Choice Morally, Emotionally Or Spiritually. Every Person Who Desires A
Loving, Connected, Lasting Marriage Can Achieve That Goal By Preparing
For And Raising Their Expectations For Lasting Love And Commitment.