THINGS THAT TURN GUYS OFF

It Doesn't Take Much To Please A Guy: Make Him A Sandwich, Scratch His
Back, Give Him A Little Love. Simple As That Right? But Little Did You
Know There Are Certain Turn Offs That Guy's Agree To And Are
Universally Known. Girls Pay Attention, For You May Be Turning Guys
Off Without Even Knowing...

1¤ TOO MUCH MAKE UP

Make Up Is A Girls Best Friend, And We Understand That. But There Is
Limit To Make Up Girls.

If Your Face Looks Painted On With Tons Of Cover Up, Bronzer, Eye
Shadow, And All That Other Girly Stuff, It's Just Too Much For Guys To
Accept. We Start To Classify You As High Maintenance And Just Get
Turned Off. Whether You Believe This Or Not, We Like The Natural Look
And Love You For Who You Are Without All The Make Up.

2¤ DISHEVELED GIRLS

She Doesn't Do Her Hair? Doesn't Get Her Nails Done? Take Care Of
Herself In General? Gross! We Want A Girl Thats Going To Take Care Of
Herself And Try To Be Pretty, Even If Its In The Slightest Way. It
Doesn't Take Much. I'm Even Talking About Healthy Fit Girls Too!

Nobody Likes A Couch Potato Girl That Sits At Home All Day, Blogging
On Facebook, Eating A Whole Bag Of Chocolates And Pop Corn.

3¤ SMOKING

Nobody Likes A Smoker Even If You Personally Are A Smoker. Smokers
Have Bad Breath, Reek Of A Nasty Odour, Have Yellow Teeth, And Is Just
Unhealthy In General.

A Guy Would Never Say, "Wow She's Hot And She Smokes Cigarettes! She's
Definitely A Keeper!" Never Would You Hear A Guy Say That, So Girls If
You Smoke, Realize That This Is A Huge Turn Off For Guys. And Sure
You'd Find A Guys Who Would Fancy You As A Girlfriend, Even Though
Some Of Them Smoke Too! But They Would Never Marry You As A Smoker.

4¤ SWEARING

Have The Vocabulary Of A Sailor? Huge Turn Off! Think Your Rick Ross
In The Hood? Guys Aren't Feeling Such Girls. We Like Girls Who Know
How To Talk With Class And Respect. Swearing Is Just Trashy And Nobody
Is Turned On By A Girl Who Curses 6 Times In One Sentence.

5¤ ACTING ALL MANLY

Stop Acting And Showing Off Like You Are A Man, It Isn't Sexy At All.
All Those "Tom Boy" Looks As Lady Doesn't Play Well To Us.

Yes, You Can Be Strong Willed, Independent And Physical. That Doesn't
Mean You Should Come Across Like A Man, Wanting To Be Involved In
Every Guy Stuff... Its A Total Turn Off.

6¤ SELF-CENTERED GIRLS

99% You 1% Him? How Is That Going To Work? No Guy Likes A Girl That
Doesn't Compromise. A Guy Wants To Feel Like He Has Some Say In The
Relationship. Not Letting Him Choose The Restaurant, The Bar, The
Club, The 'Anything' Is Just Unfair And Nobody Likes A Self-Centered
Girl. Huge Turn Off!

7¤ NAGGING AND BEING POSSESSIVE

Like Seriously, You Complain About Everything He Does, You Often Want
Things Done Your Way. You Don't Give Him A Breathing Space. That Is A
No, No, No, To Any Guy. He Would Only Resent And Dump You In No Time.
So Get Your Act Together, And Be More Matured In Your Approach.

THE OFFBIT OPPORTUNITIES

In A Bid To Open Our Eyes To Something Most Of Us Must Have Been Doing
Wrong That Has Kept Us From Moving To Where We Are Suppose To Be, I
Have Come Up With This Article To Expose An Area Where We Must Have
Failed In The Past. So We Could Start Making Corrections.

Firstly, What Is An OFFBIT OPPORTUNITY?

An Offbit Opportunity Is What I Define As The Opportunity That Is
Quite Different From Your Area Of Specialization, Profession, And
Expectation. That In The End Ports You To Where You Expect To Be.

Now Let Me Give An Example... I Had This Friend Of Mine Who Studied
Medicine... But After Graduating, He Couldn't Get Himself A Place To
Practice. So One Day While He Was In Town Trying To Find Something To
Do, He Noticed A Man Whose Car Had Disappointed Him. Upon Getting
Closer, He Enquired From The Man What The Problem Is, And From What
The Man Said, He Quickly Understood What The Problem Is, And Then
Asked If The Man Has The Neccessary Tools He Would Need To Help, Which
The Man Quickly Got Out. In A Few Minutes The Engine Roared Back To
Life.

In Appreciation The Man Asked, "How Much Is My Bill? And The Guy
Responded "Don't Worry Sir," Amazed! The Man Continued "Isn't This
What You Do For A Living?" And The Guy Said "NO" I Am A Graduate Of
Medicine, And I Was Just On My Seeking For Something To Get Busy
With."

The Man Still Standing And Looking Amazed... He Continued "So How Did
You Come To Know About Car Engines?" And The Young Man Replied "I Live
Close To A Mechanic Village, And I Spent Most Of My Leisure Hanging
Around There, And From There I Learnt Alot." Upon Hearing All That,
The Man Gave Him His Business Card, And Handed Him Some Money. And
Then Told Him To Report At His Office The Next Day. And That Was How
My Friend Got Recommended With An Instant Employment To Practice At
The General Hospital. And Today He Is A Certified Doctor Living Large.

Now Back To The Topic "THE OFFBIT OPPORTUNITY." Lets Say That Guy
Never Took His Time To Learn Something Else Besides Just Being A
Graduate Of Medicine. Do You Think He Would Be Of Useful Help To That
Man Who In Turn Rewarded His Kindness And Effort? I Leave That To You
To Answer.

The Truth Is Many Of Us Have Found Ourselves Having The Opportunity To
Learn A Thing Or Two That Would Have Landed Us An OFFBIT OPPORTUNITY,
But Out Of Pride, Ignorance And Negligence, We Push Such Opportunities
Away. Only For Some Similar OFFBIT OPPORTUNITY To Come Up, And We
Start Wishing We Had Learnt Something Different.

You May Be Thinking Of Becoming A Lawyer, Accountant, Banker E.t.c.
But That Shouldn't Stop You From Engaging In Other Artisan Jobs...
Because You Never Can Tell The Opportunity That Would Lead You To
GREATNESS.

AVOIDING THE FIRST DATE DISASTER

Picture This, You Have A Great Chemistry From The Stroke Of Your
Keyboard. You Have Fun Emailing And Sending Instant Messages To Each
Other. He Thinks You're A Knockout. You Think He's Charming. He Seems
Interested In Everything You Are Doing. You Spend An Hour Every Nigh
Chatting Online And Get Several Text Messages During The Day. Are You
In A Relationship? No, Not Really.

Let's Look At Some Ways To Prevent Your First Date From Ending Up A
Dating Disaster.

1¤ TRUST YOUR INTUITION:

Don't Accept A Date When The Phone Conversation Doesn't Feel Right. If
You Don't Have Any Phone Chemistry At All, Or Find Yourself In An
Argument With Your Date Before You Even Meet Them, Don't Schedule A
Date. You Don't Need A Free Meal Or Coffee. If You Put A Date On The
Calendar, Don't Feel Badly About Canceling. Why Waste Each Other's
Time?

Here's An Example Of A First Date Just Ended Up Badly. The Couple's
First Phone Conversation Didn't Go Well. They Had Spent Two Weeks
Building Up A Rapport Of Fantastic Chemistry Through Instant
Messaging. By The Time They Got To The Phone, They Thought They Were
Already A Couple. However, He Didn't Take Time To Listen On The Phone.
He Kept Interrupting Her And Even Started An Argument With Her About
How To Manage Her Career. She Should Have Ended The Conversation With,
"I Don't Think This Relationship Is Right For Me. Good Luck With Your
Search." She Couldn't Get Off The Phone Fast Enough, But Did Not
Cancel Their Upcoming First Date. She Wanted To Give Him The Benefit
Of The Doubt.

Your Intuition Is Very Powerful. You Should Trust. She Ended Up
Meeting Him For Sushi From The Beginning Of The Date Until It Was
Over, He Continued To Argue With Her. She Didn't Like To Eat eel. He
Said That Was Ridiculous. She Ordered Hot Sake. He Insisted That Cold
Sake Was Better. She Wondered Why She Subjected Herself To This Type
Of Communication. If She Trusted Her Intuition From The Initial Phone
Call, She Would Have Realized The Conversation Would Continue In The
Same Light.

2¤ TAKE YOUR DATE FROM ONLINE TO OFFLINE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE:

In This Case, The Couple Had Great "Instant Message" Chemistry And
Emailed And Text Messaged Each Other Frequently. Since They Had
Communicated Mostly Online, They Ended Up With A False Illusion That
They Were In A Relationship. They Got Attached. They Were Not In A
Relationship. They Were Talking To A Computer With A Photo, That's
All. After Several Emails Back-And-Forth, It Was Time For Them To Talk
On The Phone And Move The Relationship Along. The Couple Waited Almost
Three Weeks Before Ever Hearing Each Other's Voices. This Dating
Disaster Could Have Been Prevented Before They Became Too Emotionally
Attached Online.

3¤ NEVER TEXT MESSAGE OTHERS WHILE ON A DATE:

Unless You Want Your Date To End Badly, Keep Your BlackBerry Or iPhone
Off The Table. It's Not An Accessory. It's Rude And Sends A Message
That You Are More Interested In Something Other Than Your Date. Leave
Your Smart Phone In Your Purse Or Wallet. Your Date Deserves Your
Undivided Attention. In This Case, Both Of Them Started To Text
Friends During The Date. It Was An Immediate Turn-Off.

4¤ ALWAYS MEET YOUR DATE IN A PUBLIC PLACE AND DON'T DRIVE TOGETHER:

Remember, Safety First. The Gentleman Suggested Picking Up His Date At
Her Home To Drive 45minutes To One Of His Favourite Restaurants. He
Said He Wanted To Go On A "Real Date." She Knew Better Enough To Say
No To This Request. Always Meet Your Date In A Public Place And Don't
End Up In A Car With Someone You Don't Know On A First Date. In This
Case, She Might Have Ended Up On A Street Corner Alone, Looking For A
Cab Back Home. Better Safe, Than Sorry.

5¤ DO YOUR HOMEWORK AND STUDY FOR THE QUIZ:

Online Dating Is A Numbers Game. However, The More Organized You Are,
The More Successful Your Date Will Be. In This Case, Her Date Thought
She Had Never Been Married And Didn't Remember What She Did For A
Living. If You Are On A Date, Make It Personal And Keep It Light. Take
The Time To Remember Something Your Date Wrote In Their Profile Or
Said On The Phone. Think Of Preparing For Your Date Like You Would For
A Job Interview For Your Dream Job. Would Know The Name Of The Parent
Company You Are Interviewing With? Would You Know The Name Of The CEO
Or City Of Their Headquarters? Would You Recognize Their Company Logo?

Add It All Up, And It Was A Recipe For Disaster Before They Even
Arrived At The Sushi Bar. It Was Destined To Be A Bad Date.

Before You Go On Your Next "First" Date, Make Sure You Are Looking
Forward To It, Do Your Homework, Ask Questions About The Other Person,
Take Time To Listen, And Perhaps You'll Make A New Friend, Even If You
Don't End Up Meeting "The One."

BLOCK OFF EVERY POVERTY MINDSET

To Really Create A Wealth Mentality And A Successful Life, You Must
Block Off Every Poverty Thinking; You Can't Go Far With It. Poverty Is
A Disease Of The Mind That Can Only Be Cured By Knowledge. You Must
Begin To Think Wealth 24/7; You Must See Yourself Successful.

People With A Poverty Mindset Don't See The Possibility Of Becoming
Wealthy. As They Cannot See The Possibility Their Minds Simply Tell
Them Not To Try; They Kind Of Stagnate Mentally. Their Behaviour Will
Definitely Be Affected, As They Will Definitely Develop Self-Defeating
Characters That Will Always Limit Them. They Will Begin To Indulge
Themselves In Wasteful Ventures That Characterize Poor People Losers.

The Root Cause Of Poverty Is Sin, And The Fuel For Poverty Is
Ignorance. If You Can Keep A Man From Acquiring Relevant Knowledge To
Wealth, You Can Keep Him Forever.

Blocking Off Poverty Mentality Is To Make Sure You Are Always Keeping
Yourself Abreast Whth Positive Information On Wealth. Never Allow A
Day Go By Without Opening A Book To Develop Your Mind. I'vE Noticed
That Most People That Are Wealthy But Illiterate Are Always Going With
Their Ears Open To New Ideas And Information, Since They Cannot Read
And Write They Make Sure They Are Informed. Poverty Is Not A Sickness
Of The Black Man But A Sickness Of The Ignorant Man.

As We Rightly Said Your Mind Would Definitely Act On What You Allow
Into It; If You Feed Your Mind Regularly With Thoughts That You Won't
Succeed, Don't Be Surprised If You Don't.

To Effectively Block Poverty Out Of Our Minds, We Must Begin To Study
The Wealthy And Their Behaviour. What They Like And The Quality Of
Their Decisions, We Must Strictly Look Into Their Personal Data And
Know What Keeps Them Going. To Make This Principle Work Very Well We
Must Go The Extra Mile Of Befriending Some Of Them, That Way We Will
Get First Hand The "How To" Of Success. The Moment You Begin To Rub
Minds With Quality People Through Books And Personal Acquaintance It
Will Definitely Wipe Poverty From Your Mind. It's Not Going To Be A
Once In A While Thing, This Must Be LifeLong Thing If You Are Going To
Really Enjoy Wealth.

INTERESTING THINGS YOU MAY NOT KNOW ABOUT THE CLITORIS

WHERE IS THE CLITORIS AND WHAT IS IT???
The Clitoris Is A Small Pea-Sized Ump Towards The Top Of Vaginal Area
Above The Entrance To The Vagina. It Is Very Sensitive And When
Stimulated Can Lead To Orgasm. You Can Find It On AVERT's Diagram Of
The Female Sex Organs.
With That Being Said, Let Us Introduce You All To Some Interesting
Things You May Not Know About The Clitoris... You'd Be Surprised!
Yup!
¤ IT'S EXQUISITELY SENSITIVE:
The Clitoris Contains At Least 8,000 Sensory Nerve Endings. To Put
That Into Perspective, The Penis Has About 4,000. That Makes This Tiny
Area The Most Sensitive Part Of A Woman's Erogenous Zone. And While
The Clitoris Is Quite Small, Its Powerful Sensation Can Spread Across
A Woman's Pelvic Area By Affecting 15,000 Other Nerve Endings!
¤ ITS A LOT LIKE A PENIS:
Yeah, There's The Whole "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus"
Camp, But In Reality, Men And Women Are A Lot More Alike Than Most Of
Us Realize. Or, At Least We Start Out That Way. In Fact. All Babies,
Upon Conception, Have The Exact Same Genital Tissue. At About 12
Weeks, Each Baby's Genitalia Begin To Differentiate Into A Penis Or
Labia.
So, In A Sense, The Clitoris And Penis Are The Same Materials Put
Together In A Different Way. The Clitoris Has A Glans, A Foreskin
(Also Known As The Hood), Erectile Tissue And A Teeny-Tiny Shaft. It
Even Swells When It's Aroused! Good Thing It's Mostly Hidden- It
Saves The Ladies From Having To Measure And Compare With Their
Friends... Lol

¤ IT GROWS:

The Clitoris Actually Grows During A Woman's Lifetime. No, It Isn't
Getting Stretched Out From Too Much Sexy Fun. The Growth Occurs As A
Result Of Hormonal Changes In The Body. When A Girl's Puberty Begins,
The Clitoris Will Start Increasing In Size. By The Time Puberty Ends,
The Clitoris Will Be About 1.8 Times Larger. By The Time A Woman Is 32
Years Old, The Clitoris Will Be Almost Four Times As Big As It Was At
The Onset Of Puberty. It Doesn't End There. After Menopause, The
Clitoris Will Be About Seven Times Larger Than It Was At Birth! Don't
Freak Out- This Is Still A Very Small Area, So The Change In Size
Won't Be Very Noticeable. And Hey, It Might Help Explain Why Older
Women Often Report Such Hot Sex!

¤ IT'S ONLY THERE FOR THE SEX:

A Woman's Body Includes A Number Of Super- Hot Erogenous Zones, But
You Might Say Many Of Those Are Sort Of, Well, Incidental. Not The
Clit. It's There For Fun. Yup, That's Right. The Clitoris Is The Only
Part Of The Body Designed Solely For Pleasure. So, While Other Body
Parts Used For Sexual Pleasure Have At Least One Other Purpose To
Them, Your Clit Is Just There To Get You Off.

¤ IT CAN BE AN ORGASM DEAL BREAKER:

Vaginal Orgasms Do Exist, But They're Tricky For A Lot Of Women To
Achieve, And Only 30% Of Women Are Able To Reach Orgasm Through
Penetration Alone. The Rest Require Direct Clitoral Stimulation.
Rubbing, Licking, Sucking Or Sex Toys Will All Do The Trick, Although
Each Clitoris Has Its Own Preferences.

¤ THEY'RE ALL DIFFERENT:

Some Are Small, Some Are Big, Some Are Hidden And Some Protrude Rather
A Lot. Some Increase In Size When Aroused, And Others Hide Under The
Hood. Some Require A Lot Of Pressure, Others Prefer A Very Gentle
Touch. Each Little Love Bud Is As Unique As The Woman Attached To It.
That's Important, Too, Because Getting To Know How It Works And How To
Use It To Produce Pleasure Is Just A Part Of Getting To Know Yourself,
Or Your Lover.

In "Woman: An Intimate Geography," Author Natalie Angier Says That
"The Clitoris Not Only Applauds When A Woman Flaunts Her Mastery; It
Will Give A Standing Ovation." If You Have Yet To Hear Any Clapping,
It's Time To Learn This Little Organ's Quirky Dance. So Here's One
More Helpful Thing You May Not Know That Might Help: The Clitoris
Never Ages. Once It Matures, It Maintains Its Sexual Peak For The Rest
Of A Woman's Life. So, If You Aren't On Good Terms With The Clit In
Your Life, It Isn't Too Late To Start Getting Acquainted.