Wednesday, 7 August 2013

USHER'S EX-WIFE OUR KIDS ARE IN DANGER I WANT CUSTODY

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Usher's Ex-Wife Has Just Filed Legal Docs Asking For An Emergency
Hearing Later This Week... To Wrestle Child Custody Away From Him, On
Grounds He's Creating A Dangerous Environment... TMZ Has Learned.
Tameka Raymond Filed The Docs In Fulton County, Georgia, Claiming
Usher Is Abdicating His Parental Responsibilities By Letting Other
People Care For Their 2 Kids--People Who She Claims Are Not On The
Ball. We Know Tameka Has Specific Beef With The Usher's Aunt-- Who Was
Watching 5Years Old Usher Raymond V When His Arm Got Stuck In The Pool
Drain On Monday. Tameka Has Complained About The Aunt In The Past
Alleging She Onece Let A Stalker In The House Where Usher And The Kids
Were Staying. Tameka Also Says The Aunt Is Too Physical In
Disciplining The Kids. Currently Usher Has Primary Custody Of Both
Kids And Tameka Has Limited Custodial Rights. She Now Seeks To Reverse
That•

Tuesday, 6 August 2013

REAL LOVE IS BASED ON RESPECT, COMPROMISE, CARE AND TRUST

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"Real Love Is Not Based On Romance, Candle Light Dinner And Walks
Along The Beach. In Fact, It Is Based On Respect, Compromise, Care And
Trust."

Real Love Is Knowing Who You Want To Be With Forever, And Loving Them
So Much That You Would Rather Be Gone From This Earth Than To Still
Live And See Them Go. Real Love Isn't The Easiest Thing To Find In
This Crazy World, But When You Find It, Be Sure To Hold On To It. Real
Love Is Rare, And It Should Be Encouraged, Nurtured, And Grown To Its
Fullest Potential, Of Course Willing That The Time Is Right For Both
Parties.

Love Is Much More Than A Beautiful Thing, Love Is What Changes Lives.
Love Is What Helps Keep People Alive Physically, Emotionally, And
Spiritually. Love Is Full Of Challenges, But It Is Most Definitely
Also Full Of Reward!

We Should All Make An Effort To Love Someone So Much That We Can't
Live Life Without Them, For Without Experiencing Love; Man Nor Woman
Will Ever Really Experience Life•

PETER OKOYE PROPOSES TO LOLA OMOTAYO

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After Several Years And Two Kids, Peter Okoye Finally Proposed To Long
Time Girlfriend, Lola Omotayo On Tuesday August 6, 2013.

The Rudeboy Popped The Magical Question In Their Residence In Front Of
Brothers Paul And Jude And A Few Family Friends, While Also Presenting
Lola With A 2013 Range Rover, A Diamond Ring, Flowers And A Note That
Said, 'PLEASE SAY YES'.

After Posting The Photos On His Instagram Page, Peter Went On To
Announce The Good News On His Twitter Page As He Twitter Page As He
Tweeted, 'Officially Mrs Lola Natasha OKOYE.'

Friends And Colleagues Of The Artiste Are Yet To Publicly Comment On
The Development, But Fans On Twitter Have Been Sending Series Of
Congratulatory Messages.

Between Them, Peter And Lola Have Two Kids CAMERON AND ALIONA•

SIGNS YOU ARE DATING A FEMALE PLAYER

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You Know It's Hard Out Here For A Pimp. It's Even Harder For Those
Trying To Avoid Getting Pimped. As Much Attention As Men Get For The
Games Many Play We Forget Something That's Very True•
Many Women Are The Masters Of The "Game" And Have Been Running Circles
Around Men Since The Begining Of Time. Men Don't Tend To Be As
Intuitive As Women So They Can't Even See The Pimp Hand Coming Before
It's Too Late. So Here Are Some Signs To Consider When Trying To Avoid
Falling Victim To A Female Player:
#1• SHE HAS A LOT OF MALE FRIENDS THAT DO THINGS FOR HER:
Plenty Of Women Have A Lot Of Male Friends Simply Because They Feel
Men Are Easier To Deal With. So That In Itself Isn't Necessarily A
Sign. The Problem Is When You Notice These Various "Friends" Always
Doing Things For This Woman. It's Possible She Is In "PIMP MODE" And
Taking Advantage OF Their Interest In Her. You May Express Your
Concern But She Will Simply Shoot It Down And Make You Seem Like You
Are Being Unreasonable. She Isn't Interested In Addressing The Issue
Because To Her There Is No Issue•
#2• SHE IS VERY FLIRTATIOUS:
Female Players Know That One Key To Manipulating Men Is Flirtation.
The Ability To Stroke A Man's Ego Can Be An Art For Some Women And
They Enjoy Using This Powerful Tool. So Her Desire To Constantly Flirt
Is Something You May Want To Keep Your Eye On. Some Will Even Flirt
Right In Front Of Your Face And Then Make It Seem Like You're Just
Being Crazy When You Take Issue With It. A Woman Who Is Truly Into You
Isn't Likely Willing To Be Flirting With Every Other Guy. Yes Some
People Enjoy Flirting But Be Mindful When There May Be More To It Than
That•
#3• SHE GETS VERY UPSET WHEN YOU DON'T GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANTS:
A Female Player Has No Problem Asking For What She Wants. She May Take
A Smooth Indirect Approach Or A Very Direct One. Either Way She Will
Get The Point Across And You Will Have To Decide If You Are Willing To
Give Her What She Wants. If You Choose Not To She Is Likely To Get
Very Upset With You. This May Be Done In A Loud And Harsh Manner Or
She May Use The Silent But Still Strong Approach. She Will Have You
Feeling That Giving In To Her Demands Is The Only Way You Can Expect
To Keep Her Around. She May Not Even Be Your Girlfriend Yet But She
Knows How To Play On Your Desires To Get Her And She Will Use All Of
This To Her Advantage•
#4• EMOTIONALLY DETACHED:
When A Woman Genuinely Embraces Having A Relationship She Is Willing
For An Emotional Attachment To Occur. When She Decides She Is Going To
Be A Female Player She Already Perceives Emotional Attachment As Her
Enemy And Wants No Part Of It. That's Why An Emotionally Detached
Woman Who Is Dating May Be A Red Flag. She Dates To Get The Benefit
She Is Looking For But Isn't Interested In The Emotional Risks That
Come With Truly Trying To Be With Anybody Right Now. She Also
Understands It Is Easier To Maintain This Position Dealing With
Multiple Men Vs Dealing With Just One Man Consistently. She Is The
Woman Capable Of Having Sex With You And Not Requiring Any "Cuddle
Time" Afterward. Essentially Some May View Her As "Like A Guy" When It
Comes To Her Approach To Relationships And SEX•
#5• SHE HAS YOU GIVING A LOT MORE THAN YOU ARE RECEIVING:

When A Woman Is A Female Player She Is Not With You For Your Benefit.
She Entertains You FOr Her Benefit And At Her Convenience. If She Gave
You More Than She Received Then That Would Defeat The Whole Purpose Of
Keeping You Around. So Her Goal Is To Milk You For Whatever She Deems
Appropriate. Now A Really Smart Female Play May Still Do Things For
You Here And There But Don't Be Fooled. She Might Buy You Lunch But
You Will Be Buying Her Groceries. She Might Get You Something Nice For
Your Car But She May Have You Paying Her Car Note. One Way Or Another
She Is Going To Make Sure She Is Getting The Much Better End Of The
Deal•

I Hope This Helps Some Of The Men Wondering What To Look For When
Trying To Avoid The Female Player. Don't Be So Quick To Let Her Beauty
Blind You And Be Willing To Take A Deep Look At Who She Really Is As A
Woman. If Any Of These Signs Come Up Always Be Willing To Properly
Address Them And Talk To Her About It•
Sometimes It May Not Be That She Is Trying To Play You But You Will
Get A Clearer Picture After You Properly Express Your Concerns. If You
Do Happen To Fall Victim To One Don't Hold On To Bitterness And
Negativity. Just Because One Woman Hurt You Doesn't Mean YoU Have To
Turn Around And Take It Out On Every Other Woman After Her. Stuf
Happens And You Just Have To Learn From It, Grow, And Focus On Being
The Best Man You Can Be•

ANGER MAKES YOU SMALLER, LEARN TO FORGIVE

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"SOMETIMES We Get Angry With People, When We Should Be Angry With
Ourselves, Because We Gave Them The Power To Change Our Mood And
Feelings•"

Those Who Are Angry And Remain Angry Do Nothing But Diminish Their
Lives With Every Piece Of Bitterness That They Hold On To. This Is
Because The Angry Bitterness That They Are Holding On To Overtime
Starts To Poison Their Bodies, From Their Mental Body To Their
Physical Body•

Life Is Very Difficult At Times As We All Know, And We Are All Going
To Go Through Things That Will Anger Us. It Is From This Initial Anger
That We Feel, We Must Be Willing To Analyze The Situation And Figure
Out How To Get Rid Of These Angry Feelings, And Also Figure Out How
Not To Put Ourselves In The Same Situation Only To Be Angered Again.

It Is With Forgiveness And With Looking Forward That A Person Is Able
To Grow And Reach New Heights, While It Is With An Angry Resentful
Heart That A Person Ends Up Slowly Dying And Withering Away•