SIGNS YOU ARE DATING A FEMALE PLAYER

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
You Know It's Hard Out Here For A Pimp. It's Even Harder For Those
Trying To Avoid Getting Pimped. As Much Attention As Men Get For The
Games Many Play We Forget Something That's Very True•
Many Women Are The Masters Of The "Game" And Have Been Running Circles
Around Men Since The Begining Of Time. Men Don't Tend To Be As
Intuitive As Women So They Can't Even See The Pimp Hand Coming Before
It's Too Late. So Here Are Some Signs To Consider When Trying To Avoid
Falling Victim To A Female Player:
#1• SHE HAS A LOT OF MALE FRIENDS THAT DO THINGS FOR HER:
Plenty Of Women Have A Lot Of Male Friends Simply Because They Feel
Men Are Easier To Deal With. So That In Itself Isn't Necessarily A
Sign. The Problem Is When You Notice These Various "Friends" Always
Doing Things For This Woman. It's Possible She Is In "PIMP MODE" And
Taking Advantage OF Their Interest In Her. You May Express Your
Concern But She Will Simply Shoot It Down And Make You Seem Like You
Are Being Unreasonable. She Isn't Interested In Addressing The Issue
Because To Her There Is No Issue•
#2• SHE IS VERY FLIRTATIOUS:
Female Players Know That One Key To Manipulating Men Is Flirtation.
The Ability To Stroke A Man's Ego Can Be An Art For Some Women And
They Enjoy Using This Powerful Tool. So Her Desire To Constantly Flirt
Is Something You May Want To Keep Your Eye On. Some Will Even Flirt
Right In Front Of Your Face And Then Make It Seem Like You're Just
Being Crazy When You Take Issue With It. A Woman Who Is Truly Into You
Isn't Likely Willing To Be Flirting With Every Other Guy. Yes Some
People Enjoy Flirting But Be Mindful When There May Be More To It Than
That•
#3• SHE GETS VERY UPSET WHEN YOU DON'T GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANTS:
A Female Player Has No Problem Asking For What She Wants. She May Take
A Smooth Indirect Approach Or A Very Direct One. Either Way She Will
Get The Point Across And You Will Have To Decide If You Are Willing To
Give Her What She Wants. If You Choose Not To She Is Likely To Get
Very Upset With You. This May Be Done In A Loud And Harsh Manner Or
She May Use The Silent But Still Strong Approach. She Will Have You
Feeling That Giving In To Her Demands Is The Only Way You Can Expect
To Keep Her Around. She May Not Even Be Your Girlfriend Yet But She
Knows How To Play On Your Desires To Get Her And She Will Use All Of
This To Her Advantage•
#4• EMOTIONALLY DETACHED:
When A Woman Genuinely Embraces Having A Relationship She Is Willing
For An Emotional Attachment To Occur. When She Decides She Is Going To
Be A Female Player She Already Perceives Emotional Attachment As Her
Enemy And Wants No Part Of It. That's Why An Emotionally Detached
Woman Who Is Dating May Be A Red Flag. She Dates To Get The Benefit
She Is Looking For But Isn't Interested In The Emotional Risks That
Come With Truly Trying To Be With Anybody Right Now. She Also
Understands It Is Easier To Maintain This Position Dealing With
Multiple Men Vs Dealing With Just One Man Consistently. She Is The
Woman Capable Of Having Sex With You And Not Requiring Any "Cuddle
Time" Afterward. Essentially Some May View Her As "Like A Guy" When It
Comes To Her Approach To Relationships And SEX•
#5• SHE HAS YOU GIVING A LOT MORE THAN YOU ARE RECEIVING:

When A Woman Is A Female Player She Is Not With You For Your Benefit.
She Entertains You FOr Her Benefit And At Her Convenience. If She Gave
You More Than She Received Then That Would Defeat The Whole Purpose Of
Keeping You Around. So Her Goal Is To Milk You For Whatever She Deems
Appropriate. Now A Really Smart Female Play May Still Do Things For
You Here And There But Don't Be Fooled. She Might Buy You Lunch But
You Will Be Buying Her Groceries. She Might Get You Something Nice For
Your Car But She May Have You Paying Her Car Note. One Way Or Another
She Is Going To Make Sure She Is Getting The Much Better End Of The
Deal•

I Hope This Helps Some Of The Men Wondering What To Look For When
Trying To Avoid The Female Player. Don't Be So Quick To Let Her Beauty
Blind You And Be Willing To Take A Deep Look At Who She Really Is As A
Woman. If Any Of These Signs Come Up Always Be Willing To Properly
Address Them And Talk To Her About It•
Sometimes It May Not Be That She Is Trying To Play You But You Will
Get A Clearer Picture After You Properly Express Your Concerns. If You
Do Happen To Fall Victim To One Don't Hold On To Bitterness And
Negativity. Just Because One Woman Hurt You Doesn't Mean YoU Have To
Turn Around And Take It Out On Every Other Woman After Her. Stuf
Happens And You Just Have To Learn From It, Grow, And Focus On Being
The Best Man You Can Be•

ANGER MAKES YOU SMALLER, LEARN TO FORGIVE

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

"SOMETIMES We Get Angry With People, When We Should Be Angry With
Ourselves, Because We Gave Them The Power To Change Our Mood And
Feelings•"

Those Who Are Angry And Remain Angry Do Nothing But Diminish Their
Lives With Every Piece Of Bitterness That They Hold On To. This Is
Because The Angry Bitterness That They Are Holding On To Overtime
Starts To Poison Their Bodies, From Their Mental Body To Their
Physical Body•

Life Is Very Difficult At Times As We All Know, And We Are All Going
To Go Through Things That Will Anger Us. It Is From This Initial Anger
That We Feel, We Must Be Willing To Analyze The Situation And Figure
Out How To Get Rid Of These Angry Feelings, And Also Figure Out How
Not To Put Ourselves In The Same Situation Only To Be Angered Again.

It Is With Forgiveness And With Looking Forward That A Person Is Able
To Grow And Reach New Heights, While It Is With An Angry Resentful
Heart That A Person Ends Up Slowly Dying And Withering Away•

THINGS A FIRST TIME GIRL NEEDS TO REMEMBER IN BED

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
Via Popular Demand I've Decided To Throw More Light On An Article I
Posted Here Few Days Ago On "Losing Your Virginity And Having Sex For
The First Time." If You Haven't Read That Article, Please Follow The
Link Below To Read...
http://www.deedollar.blogspot.com/2013/08/losing-your-virginity-and-having-sex.html
Wondering What The Experience Of Having Sex For The First Time Would
Feel Like For A Girl? Here Are Tips To Help You Understand It
Better•••
#1• YOU MAY NOT ALWAYS BLEED:
Even If You're Having Sex For The Very First Time, There's A Good
Chance That You May Not Bleed Noticeably. Sometimes, The Bleeding May
Be So Little That You May Not Even Notice It•
#2• BLEEDING AND SPOTTING:
How Much You Bleed Depends On The Size And Thickness Of Your Hymen.
But If You Do Bleed, You May Just Notice A Bit Of Spotting On Your Bed
Or At Times, Something That Resembles Your Period Stain On The Sheets•

#3• CRAMPS AND SORENESS:

A Few Girls Who Have Sex For The First Time Could Experience Some
Soreness For A Day Or Two. You've Worked Your Internal Muscles That
May Have Been Dormant, So It's Natural To Feel A Bit Sore Just Like
You Would After A Good Workout•

#4• CONSISTENT BLEEDING:

After Having Sex For The First Time, You May Continue To Bleed A
Little Over A Few Days. But If You See Anything More Than A Bit Of
Spotting In Your Underwear Or Scant Traces When You Pee, Speak To
Someone You Trust In The Family Or Get In Touch With Your Doctor•

#5• FIRST TIME ORGASM:

The Chances Of Experiencing An Orgasm The Very First You Have Sex May
Be Low, So Don't Keep Your Expectations High. Even If You Don't Feel
An Orgasm Take Over You, You've Still Had Sex For The Very First Time,
And That's Definitely A Highlight. Don't You Think?

#6• HOW DOES AN ORGASM FEEL?

It's Never Easy To Explain First Orgasm. It's A Sensation That Comes
In Waves Of Pleasure, Like A Pleasant Muscle Spasm. To Understand The
Experience, Try To Recollect How You Feel When You Use A Cotton Swab
To Clean Your Ear. Does It Make You Want To Close Your Eyes? Does It
Leave You Feeling Pleasantly Weak? Do You Lose Focus Of The World
Around You? Well, Now Imagine That Happening Down There, With A Much
Bigger Bang!

THE REAL REASONS SHE GETS MAD ABOUT SMALL THINGS

<@>Greatmindz<@>™
You've Been There; All Seems Well And Suddenly You're Getting The
Silent Treatment, And You Don't Know Why. One Of The Most Confusing
Things For Men In A Relationships Is That Men Are People Of Action.
They Typically Like To Think Their Actions Speak For Themselves. But
Women Highly Analytical, And Rarely Do They Take What Men Do At Face
Value. That's Why There Are Countless Seemingly Small Things-That Men
Think Have No Significance-That Can Set A Woman Off. Like These:
#1• A DIRTY DISH:
It's Just One Dish. It's A Blip In The Midst Of Your Otherwise Clean
Kitchen. But, She's Asked You Twice Now To Clean It, And It's Still
There. And Now Doors Are Slamming And You're Certainly Not Getting
Laid Tonight•
YOU DON'T TRY TO MAKE HER LIFE EASIER:
It's Not About That Dish, Or The Trash That Needs To Be Taken Out, Or
The Rug That Needs To Be Vacuumed. It's About The Fact That Women
Constantly Go Out Of Their Way To Think Of Little Things To Make Their
Man's Life Easier. It's Second Nature For Them To Keep An Eye Out For
Things That Would Take A Load Off Their Men And Make Them Happy. The
Fact That One Dish Has Been Sitting There For A Whole Week, Says To
Them That You Have To Be Reminded To Do Something That Would Make Life
Easier For Her, And That It's Not Just Second Nature For You As It Is
For Them•
#2• CRITICIZING WHERE YOU ARE:
You Call Her From A Restaurant And She Talks About How Gross That
Restaurant Is, You Call From A Sports Game And She Complains About All
The Noise In The Background. No Matter What You Are Doing, She Has A
Criticism About It. And She Seems To Be Judging You For Deciding To Be
At That Place•
IT'S JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT WITH HER:
Typically, When A Woman Begins Criticizing Any Place You Go Without
Her, It's Because She Feels You Don't Take Her Out Enough. If A Woman
Feels She Isn't Treated To A Good Date Often Enough, She Begins To
Resent Any Place You Go Without Her. Just A Few Thoughtful, Planned
Out Evenings A Month With Your Woman Could Make Her Perfectly
Complacent About Everywhere Else You GO•
#3• YOU GIVE HER ADVICE:
Your Girlfriend Comes Home Unhappy With The Way A Job Interview Went,
Or A Presentation At Work. You Give Her Solid, Thought-Out Advice That
You Know Would Help Her Next Time. She Proceeds To Either Argue With
You About Why Your Advice Wouldn't Work, Or Even Worse Point Out A Way
That You Failed In A Similar Manner•
SHE WANTS TO PROVE HERSELF:
No Woman Will Admit This (And I Might Get A Figurative Slap On The
Wrist For Saying It) But, When In A Relationship, Many Women Become
Insecure About Their Careers, Often Comparing Them To The Careers Of
Their Boyfriend. Perhaps Its Decades Of Fighting For Women's Rights In
The Workplace Deeply Ingrained In Them, But Many Women Feel The Need
To Prove To Their Partner That They Are Respectable Professionals Who
Know What They Are Doing, Just As Much As Any Mam Does. And When You
Advise A Woman On Something Regarding Her Career, That Little
Insecurity Kicks In And She Thinks You Don't Find Her Competent•
#4• YOU DRINK TOO MUCH:
You're Not Doing Anything Wrong, You Haven't Gotten Into A Bar Fight,
Or Been Kicked Out Of The Club For Being Rowdy, Or Been Arrested For
Indecent Exposure. You're Perfectly Harmless, But You're Drunk, And
She Doesn't Like It. She Nags At You, Disgusted By Every Move You Make
While Drunk. And You Haven't Done A Thing To Offend Or Upset Her•
SHE WANTS TO BE INCLUDED IN YOUR FUN:
The Issue Behind This Is Similar To The One Behind A Woman Criticizing
Every Place You Go Without Her; She Feels Left Out. One Of The Times A
Person Is Having The Most Fun And Completely Letting Loose Is While
Drinking. If You Often Leave Your Girlfriend At Home So You Can Have
Boys Nights, Or Go Away On Guy's Weekends Without Inviting Her, She'll
Start To Believe You Take Her For Granted And You Only Want Her There
To Comfort You Throughout The Challenging And Often Monotonous Flow Of
"Real Life." She'll Think You Don't Find Her Enough Fun To Have Along
For The Fun Times. And Seeing You Completely Relaxed And Having
Fun-While Drunk-Will Bring Up All Those Insecurities•
#5• YOU CAN'T READ HER MIND:
This Is A Constant Question On The Minds Of Men: "Why Does She Think I
Should Be Able To Read Her Mind?" Your Girlfriend Is Mad At You For
Something, And Then She Is Even More Upset Because You Can't Guess
What That Something Is. And You Think It's Unreasonable That She
Expects You To Be A Mind Reader•
SHE WANTS TO FEEL IN SYNC:
Remember When You First Started Dating? Each Time You Picked Up Your
Phone To Text Her "I Miss You," She'd Already Texted You That Same
Thing. When You Called Her To Invite Her To A Movie, She Answered The
Phone By Inviting You To That Same One. You Were Always On The Same
Page. And It Made You Feel So Right For Each Other. As Relationships
Go On And The Hyper-Excitement About A New Person Dies Down, You Start
Thinking More About The Other Parts Of Your Life And You're Not As In
Sync As You Used To Be. Deep Down, Women Miss That Time Period. And
When You Can't Read Their Minds, It Makes Them Feel That You're Not As
Close As You Used To BE•
#6• SHE CRITICIZES YOUR JOB:
So Your Girlfriend Criticizes Your Job. She Criticizes The Goal Of The
Company, Or The Inteligence Of The Staff, Or The Morals Of Your Boss.
She Is Openly Against Your Job, And You Can't Understand How She
Thinks That Is Appropriate•
SHE THINKS YOU ARE NOT FULFILLING YOUR POTENTIAL:
Every Woman Communicates Differently. While Some Will Be Open With You
And Tell You They Don't Think You Are Fulfilling Your Potential,
Others Will Hope You Come To That Realization On Your Own, And They
Use The Strange And Admittedly Rude Method Of Berating Your Current
JOB•
#7• SHE GETS UPSET OVER A FRIEND'S JOKE:
One Of Your Friends Teases Your Girlfriend In A Small Way And Suddenly
You're Being Pulled Aside To "Have A Talk." If Not That, Your
Girlfriend Is Full On Verbally Assaulting That Friend Now•
SHE THINKS YOU'VE FORGOTTEN WHY YOU LIKE HER:

All A Woman Cares About Is What You Think About Her, Not What Your
Friends Think. If A Woman Feels Confident That You Are Conscious Of
All The Things That Are Grateful For Her, A Little Comment From One Of
Your Friends Won't Set Her Off. But, If You've Failed To Compliment
Her In A While, Or Just Let Her Know How Much She Means To You, She'll
Feel That That Disrespect From Your Friend Is A Direct Result Of Your
Disrespect For Her. A Woman Knows That Usually A Boyfriend's Friends
Draw The Line Where He DOES. And If Those Friends Knew Their Buddy Had
A Lot Of Respect For His Woman, They Wouldn't Be Teasing Her•

KNOW YOURSELF, AND KNOW YOUR OPPONENT

<@>Greatmindz<@>™

"Know Yourself, And Know Your Opponent. They Are Never As Strong As
You Think, And Never As Weak Either"

There Is A Huge Difference Between Being Cocky And Being Confident.
When We Face Off With Competition In Life We Have To Be Aware Of The
Fact That Not Everybody That Looks Weak Actually Is, And Not Everyone
Who Looks Strong Is Actually Stronger Than Us.

To Know Yourself Is To Know What Your Strengths Are And What Your
Weaknesses Are In Order To Determine The Best Way To Combat Your
Opponent. Your Opponent May Very Well Be A Person In Front Of You
Causing A Confrontation, Or It May Very Well Be An Obstacle That Life
Throws Your Way.

Keep Replaying The Old Victories You Have Accomplished In Your Head
Over And Over So That You Know What You Can Do To Keep Your Humility
At All Times As Well, For Humility Is Strength•